Why people suggest to "Move on"?? Isn't that negative?

I have seen many people take the negative path when suggesting others.

They simply say "Move on" or other similar suggestions to leave past behind.

Even when the past has come back to contact them and realise their mistake.

Isn't life about learning lessons ?? Should we never forgive ??

What is the logic behind this "Move on" pattern? If both parties are free and intuitively wish to get back?

Right? Who the fuck are they to say you should move on?!

Posted by LeoSunPiscesMoon
I have seen many people take the negative path when suggesting others.

They simply say "Move on" or other similar suggestions to leave past behind.

Even when the past has come back to contact them and realise their mistake.

Isn't life about learning lessons ?? Should we never forgive ??

What is the logic behind this "Move on" pattern? If both parties are free and intuitively wish to get back?

It's all a matter of perspective and projections.

Moving on doesn't have to be negative, neither does it have to be positive. It's all relative to the individual who is being given that advice. Some people need to move on, some want to move on.

As long as you are responsible enough to know the difference and how moving on will affect you, I don't think you can say that when others say to move on, it's automatically negative.

They are only working on material that you, as the communicator, are presenting them with. And really that's not very much to work with, if you expect a fully balanced discussion on the concept of moving on.

I try to stay away from giving that type of advice because people usually stay in the relationship anyways.

I know I've ignored similar advice and had to figure out for myself when enough was enough.

Sometimes the answer is simple...

"Help, I met a guy online and went on a date and it went perfect and we even had amazing sex but after I went home I tried texting him to see if he wanted to go out for lunch the next day but he never replied. Two months later still no repsonse. He was just online on the site that we met on. I only logged in to see if he was there and he is! Why isn't he answering me? Did he only want sex? Should I call him and see what is going on? Is this typical Scorpio man behavior? What do I do?"

Move on.

Posted by LeoSunPiscesMoon
I have seen many people take the negative path when suggesting others.

They simply say "Move on" or other similar suggestions to leave past behind.

Even when the past has come back to contact them and realise their mistake.

Isn't life about learning lessons ?? Should we never forgive ??

What is the logic behind this "Move on" pattern? If both parties are free and intuitively wish to get back?

That isn't a scenario in which anyone would say that.

Posted by LeoSunPiscesMoon
I have seen many people take the negative path when suggesting others.

They simply say "Move on" or other similar suggestions to leave past behind.

Even when the past has come back to contact them and realise their mistake.

Isn't life about learning lessons ?? Should we never forgive ??

What is the logic behind this "Move on" pattern? If both parties are free and intuitively wish to get back?

Do whatever you want to do.

If you to forgive someone and start over again, do it.