Why would a male Scorpio keep going and coming back?
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by TiltheEndoftheLine on Tuesday, August 1, 2017 and has 1 replies.
So first thing first, I am a female Virgo.
We met when we were 19 whilst I was in a relationship with someone else. The first time I laid eyes on him I remember instantly finding something about him so unbelievably attractive, but I remained loyal to my partner and me and this Scorpio formed a good friendship.
Some months later things turned fairly flirty and several people made comments about how the chemistry between us was so obvious it was almost tangible, and we lit up the room for one another. All his friends said that he was obsessed with me.
I couldn't resist him anymore so broke it off with my partner at the time and me and the Scorpio eventually got into a relationship.
The relationship was great; we had the BEST sex, we laughed all the time, I felt completely myself around him which I have never felt before and he said he felt the same. He also opened up to me a lot emotionally and I saw him cry a few times, which he said he has never done to anyone before.
We had a couple of disagreements but nothing major, then out of the blue he cheated on me one night at a New Years party by kissing someone else. He told me immediately the next day and cried, said he didn't think loved me anymore and we broke up. This was despite the night before where he'd been telling me I as the best thing that ever happened to him and he was so excited to spend the next year with me.
Its been a year and three quarters since that happened but I've lost count of the amount of times he has called me or turned up at my house saying he still loves me and wants to try again because he's never had feelings for anyone the way he has with me. He'll be great for a coupe of weeks and then change his mind and say he doesn't know what he wants. I block him, but then he gets to me again somehow and the cycle goes on.
Are any Scoprios here able to maybe shed some light on why he would claim to be so in love with me then do a complete 180 on his feelings? And why he would keep coming back and then being so undecided again?
We met when we were 19 whilst I was in a relationship with someone else. The first time I laid eyes on him I remember instantly finding something about him so unbelievably attractive, but I remained loyal to my partner and me and this Scorpio formed a good friendship.
Some months later things turned fairly flirty and several people made comments about how the chemistry between us was so obvious it was almost tangible, and we lit up the room for one another. All his friends said that he was obsessed with me.
I couldn't resist him anymore so broke it off with my partner at the time and me and the Scorpio eventually got into a relationship.
The relationship was great; we had the BEST sex, we laughed all the time, I felt completely myself around him which I have never felt before and he said he felt the same. He also opened up to me a lot emotionally and I saw him cry a few times, which he said he has never done to anyone before.
We had a couple of disagreements but nothing major, then out of the blue he cheated on me one night at a New Years party by kissing someone else. He told me immediately the next day and cried, said he didn't think loved me anymore and we broke up. This was despite the night before where he'd been telling me I as the best thing that ever happened to him and he was so excited to spend the next year with me.
Its been a year and three quarters since that happened but I've lost count of the amount of times he has called me or turned up at my house saying he still loves me and wants to try again because he's never had feelings for anyone the way he has with me. He'll be great for a coupe of weeks and then change his mind and say he doesn't know what he wants. I block him, but then he gets to me again somehow and the cycle goes on.
Are any Scoprios here able to maybe shed some light on why he would claim to be so in love with me then do a complete 180 on his feelings? And why he would keep coming back and then being so undecided again?
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