Would you guys ignore your significant others?

I am guilty for ignoring my Scorpio man part of this week and it made him feel like, he was bothering me and all these hurt feelings and now he's ignoring me. His best friend was the one who told me how he was feeling about me taking too long to reply to him and basically ignoring him parts of the day this week. I feel guilty I really do, but all of the emotions of the past two weeks were so much for me. I got into a fight with a girl a week ago, and it was so horrible. He hates it when I dont take his advice and how i pull him away, but I told him it isn't easy for me to take help from him that it's hard. He's going through a lot, but he wants to help me out with my problems and I don't want him to. I hate seeing how much my pain is affecting him, and in turn it's slowing down his progress with his own problems.
I don't think he realizes, that I feel like I'm a burden to him. I end up pushing him away because I feel like Im a cause of his problems and Im an insecure idiot.
I sent him an apology letter, but he hasnt replied to me, and I fear that he'll be ignoring me for the longest.
What does it take for you guys to ignore someone?

Posted by ellessque
....oh, and this may sound cold-hearted but....

if i'm hardcore ignoring you, it's because i want you to go away and i don't want to be bothered with you. if i choose to come back around, you have the choice to accept my correspondence or not and the responsibility to call me out on my actions.

I like that ... that's me .Everybody that knows me including fam is well aware of that rule. When you hurt me , I am like a turtle , I go inside myself silent treatment all the way.In the mean time I do know want to deal with you whatsover. I also like how I could mentally block people, like they dont exist that's only if I dont care for you then you became like a wall , a tree , like a non exist factor 🙂

if there's a reason to ignore or be ignored, all parties should know about it or it should be obvious. what i hate more than anything is when someone puts you on 'tactical' ignore which is designed to elicit some kind of reaction but you never know what the fucking reaction/response is sposed to be cos they are IGNORING YOU!!!

in that instance, i do what elle said and mirror that ignoring but sometimes all that leads to is internal turmoil cos you don't know if the other person is even AWARE you're ignoring them cos they're ignoring you HARDER. i thought i had been ignoring someone magnificently earlier this year only to find out they had blocked me on facebook months ago and so my ignoring had long been touch?d 😢

so personally, i don't ignore someone unless there's a very clear reason that i've stated cos it's only fair to do so. or in the case of the recent psychosag, i get the cops to tell him i'm ignoring him and he should do likewise, lol.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Surely a person knowing theyre being ignored is a contradiction or at least counter productive?

it's kinda like having the last word but telepathically obviously cos you're ignoring eachother and really, at the end of the day, it's often no more than a gesture cos the ignorER is probably thinking about the ignorEE all the time anyway.

the main thing about being ignored is that it's like someone has become indifferent to you...or that's how it comes across anyway. what can be worse than that? specially if it's your significant other or even a slightly less significant other who you've not beein dating long.

it's gutless and pathetic and I HATE IT, WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!

i tend to ignore emails about difficult issues like one i've had from my mother recently. it's not anything intentional but i just don't want the issues she's raised in my head and so i have pushed it to the back of my mind. but even in that situation where it's taking me forever to respond, i have still sent one liner emails to say i'm on it and that she's not to feel like i'm ignoring her. cos the thing is that i think it's very hurtful when someone pours out their heart to you and you never respond. i can't imagine doing that to someone. happens alot to me though and so i know what it takes to reach out to someone when you're not sure of the response and to not acknowledge that is unforgiveable.