Would you move on if you were me?

Posted by marie85
but between the both of us and our problems, it just amplified 10 fold.

Posted by marie85
Hello all.... I need some much needed advice from a strangers perspective; I got involved with a Scorpio man last year, things were fantastic the first 3 months of our relationship. We both opened up to each other quickly, the chemistry was out of this world. The 4th month came rolling around and insecurities from my past were getting in the way of me being able to communicate appropriately, and vice verse. Both of us had some serious unresolved issues, so we broke up for a little while, continued everything that we had done prior, hanging out, having sex, just without the label. We got back together in June, he was the one who initiated the union, things were good, until our issues crept back up, especially mine. He tried to save me, but I was having a complete break down.

He was having a break down himself, but focused only on me. The night we mutually made an agreement to break up again, which was in August, we ended up having sex a couple of hours later and from there it went down hill. He totally iced me out, barely talk to me, I did not understand it. I did something that caused him to unfriend me on FB. He went from barely talking to me, to complete silence. I went into therapy, and got the help that I needed. Once I started to feel a little better, I tried reaching out, no contact. Now we come to our latest, I had for the most part stop contacting him as much as I did before. I would send an e-mail every week, now it is just once a month. I even put myself back out on the dating scene. Things were fine until I was a high possible match with him on this dating sight, I became so pissed, that he had moved on without so much as giving me and explanation. I wanted answers, so I had one of my friends create a fake profile, in the midst of that conversation he spewed nothing but lies. I e-mailed him confronting him, and he gave me this explanation as to how he was not ready, how his ex's in the past would be capable of something like that, but he expected more from me. How he never hits anything, when he is mad, but how he became so angry, he cried, cursed and punched a wall.


Then at the end of the e-mail he states give me one good reason I should give you another chance, and if you don't then I will be the one to say goodbye because you pushed me that far. I wasn't ready before but now I am. I asked him to end it all, he still follows me on twitter and knows it. So I point blank told him, un-follow me to make this official. If you want nothing to do with me, then do it. I wrote him back,telling him how sorry I was that I have just been really hurt over the entire thing, I just wanted answers. He has still not responded and is still following me. I thought Scorpios were suppose to be cut throat. Crazy as it is, I'm still in love with him, before everything went bad it was really good.

Posted by marie85
Hello all.... I need some much needed advice from a strangers perspective; I got involved with a Scorpio man last year, things were fantastic the first 3 months of our relationship. We both opened up to each other quickly, the chemistry was out of this world. The 4th month came rolling around and insecurities from my past were getting in the way of me being able to communicate appropriately, and vice verse. Both of us had some serious unresolved issues, so we broke up for a little while, continued everything that we had done prior, hanging out, having sex, just without the label. We got back together in June, he was the one who initiated the union, things were good, until our issues crept back up, especially mine. He tried to save me, but I was having a complete break down.

He was having a break down himself, but focused only on me. The night we mutually made an agreement to break up again, which was in August, we ended up having sex a couple of hours later and from there it went down hill. He totally iced me out, barely talk to me, I did not understand it. I did something that caused him to unfriend me on FB. He went from barely talking to me, to complete silence. I went into therapy, and got the help that I needed. Once I started to feel a little better, I tried reaching out, no contact. Now we come to our latest, I had for the most part stop contacting him as much as I did before. I would send an e-mail every week, now it is just once a month. I even put myself back out on the dating scene. Things were fine until I was a high possible match with him on this dating sight, I became so pissed, that he had moved on without so much as giving me and explanation. I wanted answers, so I had one of my friends create a fake profile, in the midst of that conversation he spewed nothing but lies. I e-mailed him confronting him, and he gave me this explanation as to how he was not ready, how his ex's in the past would be capable of something like that, but he expected more from me. How he never hits anything, when he is mad, but how he became so angry, he cried, cursed and punched a wall.


Then at the end of the e-mail he states give me one good reason I should give you another chance, and if you don't then I will be the one to say goodbye because you pushed me that far. I wasn't ready before but now I am. I asked him to end it all, he still follows me on twitter and knows it. So I point blank told him, un-follow me to make this official. If you want nothing to do with me, then do it. I wrote him back,telling him how sorry I was that I have just been really hurt over the entire thing, I just wanted answers. He has still not responded and is still following me. I thought Scorpios were suppose to be cut throat. Crazy as it is, I'm still in love with him, before everything went bad it was really good.