WTF at this Scorpion Guy

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Angeleyes17 on Friday, January 10, 2014 and has 34 replies.
I??ve been getting to know this guy for the past few months. We haven??t met, its been like a on and off conversation over the phone, messaging each other. It got to the stage where we were flirting to the point we started talking a lil dirty too and he even asked me to meet up with him. I've been a bit hesitant to meet him coz I feel he lives far and I guess I??ve got the Aqua guy still in the back of my mind. Any ways.. randomly today he messaged me with screenshots of my sister on instagram using heart icons etc.. I was like wtf!! I messaged him saying chill that??s my sister. He wanted to know how old she is.. I told him and he responds back saying ???same age as me?? with shy icons. I just got stunned by what he??s doing..
So he??s been flirting with me, wanting to link me and now he wants to move to my sister.. I really didn??t expect a Scorpion guy to be that way..
I don??t know how to react to this now.. I cant explain how I feel.
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I imagine this guy as having some weird fetish.. Maybe like feet. Yeah, we'll go with feet.
I imagine him, sitting in a basement somewhere on an inflatable love seat like the ones they used to sell at Spencer's Gifts. I imagine him perusing Zappos online, everyday, BUT only allowing himself to do so from the hours of 2 am to 4 am. And then chuckling in a self-congratulatory way about his never ending reserves of "self control".
I imagine him buying a mannequin, or digging through shoe store trash bins in order to steal the foot molds so he can suck on the toes. I imagine him sitting in that same basement, surrounded by piles and piles of mannequin feet with soggy phalanges...
Because honestly...






WHY THE FUCK ELSE WOULD HE THINK IT'S OKAY TO ACT LIKE SUCH A CREEPER???!!!
Gah, I hope your sister isn't underage, cause that would be a whole other can of inappropriate.
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Seriously? Hmph.
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^^^That was directed to the OP.
*note to self, remember to quote to avoid issue*
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Posted by Angeleyes17
I??ve been getting to know this guy for the past few months. We haven??t met, its been like a on and off conversation over the phone, messaging each other. It got to the stage where we were flirting to the point we started talking a lil dirty too and he even asked me to meet up with him. I've been a bit hesitant to meet him coz I feel he lives far and I guess I??ve got the Aqua guy still in the back of my mind. Any ways.. randomly today he messaged me with screenshots of my sister on instagram using heart icons etc.. I was like wtf!! I messaged him saying chill that??s my sister. He wanted to know how old she is.. I told him and he responds back saying ???same age as me?? with shy icons. I just got stunned by what he??s doing..
So he??s been flirting with me, wanting to link me and now he wants to move to my sister.. I really didn??t expect a Scorpion guy to be that way..
I don??t know how to react to this now.. I cant explain how I feel.



You don't know how to react to this?? You gave him personal information over the net WITHOUT meeting him face to face first OR checking him out..what did you expect in a world full of nut jobs? Seriously?
Women just don't get it until one day a guy shows up at the door with a knife to their throats.
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You also put your sister in danger..great job.
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...and yea LEAVE THE "SCORPIO" part out. Has nothing to do with astrology.
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Posted by LetltB
Posted by Angeleyes17
I??ve been getting to know this guy for the past few months. We haven??t met, its been like a on and off conversation over the phone, messaging each other. It got to the stage where we were flirting to the point we started talking a lil dirty too and he even asked me to meet up with him. I've been a bit hesitant to meet him coz I feel he lives far and I guess I??ve got the Aqua guy still in the back of my mind. Any ways.. randomly today he messaged me with screenshots of my sister on instagram using heart icons etc.. I was like wtf!! I messaged him saying chill that??s my sister. He wanted to know how old she is.. I told him and he responds back saying ???same age as me?? with shy icons. I just got stunned by what he??s doing..
So he??s been flirting with me, wanting to link me and now he wants to move to my sister.. I really didn??t expect a Scorpion guy to be that way..
I don??t know how to react to this now.. I cant explain how I feel.



You don't know how to react to this?? You gave him personal information over the net WITHOUT meeting him face to face first OR checking him out..what did you expect in a world full of nut jobs? Seriously?
Women just don't get it until one day a guy shows up at the door with a knife to their throats.
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LOL easy!! I didn??t give him any personal information about me. He??s following me on Instagram and we chat over the phone..like everyone else does when they are getting to know someone. I'm a private person and don??t open up easy and share my personal details or feelings. The reason why I said I don??t know how to react to this is because I didn??t expect this from his as he made it out me that he likes me etc but out of no where sees my sisters profiles and snapchats me about her.
I don??t know whether to be hurt/upset/angry/disappointed
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Posted by exoskeleton
lol, seriously though, that's creepy and i'd stop talking to him.


yeah im going to.. hes not worth it.. I know my sister is beautiful but for him to message me like that,flirting with me and then doing this..is a big no no!!
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Posted by IrresistableScorp
Scorpio men will do and say crazy shit to get a reaction. I've got one on my ass right now and some of the stuff he says makes me laugh and go wtf? At the same time. Obviously I put up with it a little like an aunt puts up with a favorite nephew as he is like 20 yes younger than me. Plus being a scorp I see right through him and tell him it's not working!!! Lol
These guys. I swear.



Is this to see if i get jealous? lol Its actually put me off him..
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Posted by Angeleyes17
LOL easy!! I didn??t give him any personal information about me. He??s following me on Instagram and we chat over the phone..like everyone else does when they are getting to know someone. I'm a private person and don??t open up easy and share my personal details or feelings. The reason why I said I don??t know how to react to this is because I didn??t expect this from his as he made it out me that he likes me etc but out of no where sees my sisters profiles and snapchats me about her.
I don??t know whether to be hurt/upset/angry/disappointed



Really? Send me your cell phone number and I'll tell you where you live, where you network, and all of your family members pics that you network online with and then I'll give you your home address.
You don't get to be hurt, upset, angry or disappointed. Not when you converse with someone you haven't checked out. THINK!
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Posted by LetltB
Posted by Angeleyes17
LOL easy!! I didn??t give him any personal information about me. He??s following me on Instagram and we chat over the phone..like everyone else does when they are getting to know someone. I'm a private person and don??t open up easy and share my personal details or feelings. The reason why I said I don??t know how to react to this is because I didn??t expect this from his as he made it out me that he likes me etc but out of no where sees my sisters profiles and snapchats me about her.
I don??t know whether to be hurt/upset/angry/disappointed



Really? Send me your cell phone number and I'll tell you where you live, where you network, and all of your family members pics that you network online with and then I'll give you your home address.
You don't get to be hurt, upset, angry or disappointed. Not when you converse with someone you haven't checked out. THINK!
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You need to relax! LOL .. When you get you know someone, you talk to them over the phone. He doesnt know where I live etc so I'm safe! I'm just glad I didnt get to close, If things got serious and he was my GF and made a move like that! THEN ID BE PISSED OFF!! HAHA
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Hey..I'm relaxed. I don't have some nut job who I haven't met posting pics of my sister.
What's really fucked up is you are only upset he's into your sister...
smfh
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Some guys are creepy and gross. Had a friend back in high school who wanted to date me and I put the breaks on him. Found out him and his sister had some incestuous stuff going on and then he asked if he could take my sister out for a date. WTF?! HELL NO! Touch my sister and I'll make you hurt.
Other guys just like to joke around and see what they can get away with and how you'll react: will you get jealous, will you make a joke about it, will you make mean comments about your sister to chase him away from her... It's all about reading them to know what the intention is.
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Posted by LetltB
Hey..I'm relaxed. I don't have some nut job who I haven't met posting pics of my sister.
What's really fucked up is you are only upset he's into your sister...
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OMG!! Do you know what snap chat or instagram is?? lol your really reacting negatively towards me. and Yeah I am upset..
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Posted by MoonArtist
Some guys are creepy and gross. Had a friend back in high school who wanted to date me and I put the breaks on him. Found out him and his sister had some incestuous stuff going on and then he asked if he could take my sister out for a date. WTF?! HELL NO! Touch my sister and I'll make you hurt.
Other guys just like to joke around and see what they can get away with and how you'll react: will you get jealous, will you make a joke about it, will you make mean comments about your sister to chase him away from her... It's all about reading them to know what the intention is.


wow yeh that??s how I feel..I??m protective of my sister and love her.. she??s always been there for me. and for this guy to act this way just put me off him. So your saying this is just some jokey manipulating thing to get a reaction?
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Posted by Angeleyes17
Posted by MoonArtist
Some guys are creepy and gross. Had a friend back in high school who wanted to date me and I put the breaks on him. Found out him and his sister had some incestuous stuff going on and then he asked if he could take my sister out for a date. WTF?! HELL NO! Touch my sister and I'll make you hurt.
Other guys just like to joke around and see what they can get away with and how you'll react: will you get jealous, will you make a joke about it, will you make mean comments about your sister to chase him away from her... It's all about reading them to know what the intention is.


wow yeh that??s how I feel..I??m protective of my sister and love her.. she??s always been there for me. and for this guy to act this way just put me off him. So your saying this is just some jokey manipulating thing to get a reaction?
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I'm not sure because I don't know him. I've seen both sides: the creeper who decides to go after the sister AND the flirty guy trying to test the waters and see if he can get a reaction and what that reaction will be, almost like a test. You'll have to decide how well you can read him and what his intention is. I tend to be hyper sensitive when it comes to reading people.
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Yes I know what they are. Big question here is what personal info you've given this guy for him to come up with your sister's picture?? If my concern for safety comes across as negative to you because you STILL have no clue as to what I'm getting across.. that's your problem.
Have you told your sister this whack job has her photos yet?
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Posted by MoonArtistYou'll have to decide how well you can read him and what his intention is.



Confused
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I will say this: if you have ANY gut feeling that his intention is less than honest or good and that he's after your sister then I'd ditch him faster than a rattle snake.
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LIB kind of has a point..
You say it's just snapchat or instagram, or this or that and therefore not that personal, or "nothing to be worried about"..
So you've never posted pictures of nearby restaurants, parks, streets, houses or landscapes on either account? None of your friends have their locations listed on their accounts? Nor have they ever made comments about where they are or what they're doing? No pics with accompanying comments like "Just another typical Friday night at _________!!!!!"
The devil is in the details, and sometimes the details lead the devil straight to you. Not saying this guy is one, but then again you never know. A person that thinks it's acceptable to not only research your friends and family list, but then throw that same research in your face! may or may not be dealing with a full deck.
And Mannequin feet, or others like him, may or may not have already micro-scoped every pixel of Instagrams photos looking for context and/or background clues.
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Posted by LetltB
Yes I know what they are. Big question here is what personal info you've given this guy for him to come up with your sister's picture?? If my concern for safety comes across as negative to you because you STILL have no clue as to what I'm getting across.. that's your problem.
Have you told your sister this whack job has her photos yet?



You have COMPLETELY misunderstood me and my situation. I HAVE NOT given this guy my PERSONAL DETAILS. He must have seen my tagged pics of me and my sister and clicked on my sisters name. He was snap chatting me my sisters profile pic which is why I reacted. This isn??t personal information like my email add/home address/work address and number/bank details etc. Its just pictures on instagram. I??m NOT DUMB OR STUPID to go that far with someone. I'm the kind of woman that If i went on a date, I wouldn??t let the guy drop me home in front of my house. I make my own ways to my date and come home. I know how to be safe and I know how to protect myself and my family.
Thank you for your concern x
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Posted by MoonArtist
I will say this: if you have ANY gut feeling that his intention is less than honest or good and that he's after your sister then I'd ditch him faster than a rattle snake.


I'm going to cut him off.. I dont need drama like this.. thank you for your advice x
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Posted by Angeleyes17
He must have seen my tagged pics of me and my sister and clicked on my sisters name.



OK...so does your sister know this whack job has her pictures AND HER NAME?

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Posted by Angeleyes17
Posted by MoonArtist
I will say this: if you have ANY gut feeling that his intention is less than honest or good and that he's after your sister then I'd ditch him faster than a rattle snake.


I'm going to cut him off.. I dont need drama like this.. thank you for your advice x
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Good choice. Better safe than sorry!
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I already figured out the answer to that. No response necessary Sad
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Posted by Andalusia
LIB kind of has a point..
You say it's just snapchat or instagram, or this or that and therefore not that personal, or "nothing to be worried about"..
So you've never posted pictures of nearby restaurants, parks, streets, houses or landscapes on either account? None of your friends have their locations listed on their accounts? Nor have they ever made comments about where they are or what they're doing? No pics with accompanying comments like "Just another typical Friday night at _________!!!!!"
The devil is in the details, and sometimes the details lead the devil straight to you. Not saying this guy is one, but then again you never know. A person that thinks it's acceptable to not only research your friends and family list, but then throw that same research in your face! may or may not be dealing with a full deck.
And Mannequin feet, or others like him, may or may not have already micro-scoped every pixel of Instagrams photos looking for context and/or background clues.


No I'm carful like that. I dont add location settings etc or type where i am.. and neither do my sisters x
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Ugh just don't meet men online. Get out into the real world and meet someone in the world, much more gratifying.
This guy is a stranger. Don't you realize the high percentage of degenerate creeps, weirdos and personality disordered men that troll looking for an easy target.
Block his creepy ass and warn your sister and hopefully she'll block him too.
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Posted by LetltB
Posted by Angeleyes17
He must have seen my tagged pics of me and my sister and clicked on my sisters name.



OK...so does your sister know this whack job has her pictures AND HER NAME?


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I think he will only have her pic if he took a screenshot. He cant do anything to them anyways because they are decent pics of her. Me and my sisters didn??t use our full names. Just nick name user names
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Posted by tiki33
Ugh just don't meet men online. Get out into the real world and meet someone in the world, much more gratifying.
This guy is a stranger. Don't you realize the high percentage of degenerate creeps, weirdos and personality disordered men that troll looking for an easy target.
Block his creepy ass and warn your sister and hopefully she'll block him too.


Its sad but even the real world sucks with creepy men. Its one after the other lol.. Its just disappointing when your getting to know a guy and just about when I go for the next step to trust a little..they get all creepy and pervy..
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Anyone can right click on a pic and save it to their computer.
As a side note: as an artist/jewelry designer whose sister is also an artist, having to be a bit public and have info that people can access is just part of the risk one takes.
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you ask Me, forget about the stupid astrology. all Human are not supposed to be Human or act like one, we have talking Animals, too smile
I heard in uk, kiss is first and rape is second
The girls who think they are alone and should get a boyfriend or rush to find one all are wrong, because it's the guy who should search for you. Girls should follow their ordinary life like work study or whatever that lead forward, no matter the time the one will find you and will put a ring on your finger. friendship is ok but 99% of men are just abusers and want to consume your body and soul all from WITHIN
FORGET THE MEDIA! Sex before Marriage is the biggest Mistake a girl can suffer during her grow-up but the worse is the regret feeling that comes after and force you to continue the mistake and share your body and soul with a bunch of low degree creatures
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Posted by Angeleyes17
LOL easy!! I didn??t give him any personal information about me. He??s following me on Instagram and we chat over the phone..like everyone else does when they are getting to know someone. I'm a private person and don??t open up easy and share my personal details or feelings. The reason why I said I don??t know how to react to this is because I didn??t expect this from his as he made it out me that he likes me etc but out of no where sees my sisters profiles and snapchats me about her.
I don??t know whether to be hurt/upset/angry/disappointed



Really? Send me your cell phone number and I'll tell you where you live, where you network, and all of your family members pics that you network online with and then I'll give you your home address.
You don't get to be hurt, upset, angry or disappointed. Not when you converse with someone you haven't checked out. THINK!
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Are people really THAT creepy????
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