I've been knowing this guy since we were in high school. long version short, we got back in contact earlier this year with each other. he flirts and has told me how much he really wants me, then says he has to prove it to me, but he shows up 1 night and we spend a few hours together (NO SEX) but a lot of kissing. so from then on he started acting detached but says he does want me but he backs off then i back off and it's something that draws me back to him the intrigue of the mystery about why he does the shit he does. .when ya'll do this what tf be going on ??? all the reasons of why , could he just be playing trying to get his ego boost or is he scared to get close wtf is this guys deal