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Sep 19, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 492 · Topics: 123
Hi All,
Well I was wondering if it's just me or if other "scorpio's" find themselves displaying the same traits...
I seem to be a naive creature who still believes in magic, fairies, angels and true love...
I also am accused of "wearing my heart on my sleeve"...I am not one to shy away from what I am feeling and give friendships, romantic partnerships and business partnerships my all. Basically I believe don't give anything if u can't give ure best and ALL.
I don't mind being "out there" about my feelings and I openly admit I've been ouched a few times...but my heart always regains it shape and carrys on as normal even after the most painful loss...So why not give ure ALL?
I was wondering if anyone else can relate to this as I totally don't understand how other ppl hide their feelings...or are afraid of loving and being loved...? Maybe I am just not a solitary creature...I love being around ppl and especially someone who "SPECIAL" to me...
I believe friends are the family we choose and I choose to be surrounded by ppl I love and care for dearly...
Lemme kno ure views
*mwah*
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Apr 12, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4267 · Topics: 82
I would be a heart on the sleever too for the most part but I have my solitary traits too.It's more of a if they ask I will usually tell them whatever they want to know about depending on if they ask the right questions.Meaning the people who ask "trick" or "test" questions if they aren't exactly direct about the question and play those suspecious games with me they aren't likely to find what they are looking for cause I answer the question for the question that it is and only that 90% of the time.Im solitary because of that too if they don't want to know it's unlikely i'll just ramble to make noise when it comes to day to day interaction.Love,friends and family relationships they know exactly how I feel and think plus vice versa all the time unless it's one of those needing time to think about it first to get out in the form of words.So I can't answer the fears of trust and such questions cause thats a bit of a dumb way to approach things in that way,if you don't want love because you've been hurt but not giving it it's unrealistic that you will find it,when thats what your wanting.
But there are also people who don't look for love too,I was like that in where I wasn't a lovey type person so ended up falling in love through not looking for it lol,I had my subconscious standards apparently but wasn't even aware that there was this thing called love until it happened.So im a big time,firm believer in when your not looking for love is when it happens because your not looking for anything in particular and not playing any types of games with that person.I didn't do much idealising about it previously.
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Apr 12, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4267 · Topics: 82
The not answering game questions to what you know they want to hear is a good way to avoid dishonest and unopen relationships is what i've found plus I am honest so it's an already good weeder for the same reasons the "game" players are supposedly using them for.