Deciding between 2 guys (Could someone help me interpret this? Thanks a lot!)

Posted by sagsagsag
option 1

Posted by Bratiki
I would say 2 option the new guy and it's not tarrot related

You didn't explain why he is your ex, he could have cheated and all that, but depends on what you want

Posted by Accountz
The new guy the past is the past and look how ur ex is M.I.A now...my ex's usually only comes around when I've moved on

Posted by sagsagsag

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Card 1: Current Situation: Tarot Cards - The Knight of Swords

You're feeling impatient and wants clarity as of now.

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Card 2: Prospects: Tarot Cards - The Five of Wands

(This tarot card sheds light on your prospects.)

It's a disruption on something stable

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Card 3: Feelings: Tarot Card - The Lovers

(This is the tarot card illuminates your feelings related to your options.)

the title of the card says it.


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Card 4: Actions: Tarot Card - Transformation

(This tarot card discusses your actions and how you are affecting your options.)

Death card? Shedding of the old skin, paradigm, ways of thinking, old habits, for new things to birth.

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Card 5: Possibility 1: Tarot Card - The Sun

(This tarot card represents the first possibility.)

lovely, happiness, no uncertainty.. everything is positive. Your opt 1 has love for you as much as you. I can't tell if he's going to make a move. Needs another card

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Card 6: Expectations: Tarot Card - Judgement

(This tarot card represents what you can expect in choosing your first option.)

Compromise and negotiation time

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Card 7: Alternate Expectations: Tarot Cards - The Two of Wands

(This tarot card discusses what you might expect by choosing an alternative option.)

Seeing things from the higher ground, strategizing how to move forward.

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Card 8: Possibility 2: Tarot Cards - The Three of Wands

(This tarot card represents the second possibility.)

Moving on, leaving the old behind that is no longer serving you.. This could also talks about waiting. Waiting for your ship to come and pick you up

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Card 9: Expectations: Tarot Cards - The Three of Swords

(This tarot card represents what you can expect in choosing your second option.)

Heartbreak

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Card 10: Alternate Expectations: Tarot Card - The World

(This tarot card discusses what you might expect by choosing an alternative option.)

Completion of a cycle. You are finally ready to meet new people and get into a relationship because you no longer hold emotional baggage of the past.


Card 11: Advice: Tarot Cards - The Knight of Swords

(This tarot card suggests advice on the next step to take from here, which path to take.)


Charge! lol

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Your ex is an ex for a reason. Perhaps your answer lies right there

Posted by Seraphlight

Posted by whatisthisallabout
Hello there, I am deciding between 2 guys. Option 1 is my ex, who contacted me a few weeks ago but is MIA right now. Option 2 is a new guy whom I have been chatting with for the past couple of weeks. I want to know if I should wait for my ex or if I should move things foward with the new guy. Thank you in advance. xxoo.

Card 1: Current Situation: Tarot Cards - The Knight of Swords

(This tarot card represents the current situation as related to your question.)

Card 2: Prospects: Tarot Cards - The Five of Wands

(This tarot card sheds light on your prospects.)

Card 3: Feelings: Tarot Card - The Lovers

(This is the tarot card illuminates your feelings related to your options.)

Card 4: Actions: Tarot Card - Transformation

(This tarot card discusses your actions and how you are affecting your options.)

Card 5: Possibility 1: Tarot Card - The Sun

(This tarot card represents the first possibility.)

Card 6: Expectations: Tarot Card - Judgement

(This tarot card represents what you can expect in choosing your first option.)

Card 7: Alternate Expectations: Tarot Cards - The Two of Wands

(This tarot card discusses what you might expect by choosing an alternative option.)

Card 8: Possibility 2: Tarot Cards - The Three of Wands

(This tarot card represents the second possibility.)

Card 9: Expectations: Tarot Cards - The Three of Swords

(This tarot card represents what you can expect in choosing your second option.)

Card 10: Alternate Expectations: Tarot Card - The World

(This tarot card discusses what you might expect by choosing an alternative option.)

Card 11: Advice: Tarot Cards - The Knight of Swords

(This tarot card suggests advice on the next step to take from here, which path to take.)

new guy

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Posted by sagsagsag

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Card 1: Current Situation: Tarot Cards - The Knight of Swords

You're feeling impatient and wants clarity as of now.

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Card 2: Prospects: Tarot Cards - The Five of Wands

(This tarot card sheds light on your prospects.)

It's a disruption on something stable

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Card 3: Feelings: Tarot Card - The Lovers

(This is the tarot card illuminates your feelings related to your options.)

the title of the card says it.


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Card 4: Actions: Tarot Card - Transformation

(This tarot card discusses your actions and how you are affecting your options.)

Death card? Shedding of the old skin, paradigm, ways of thinking, old habits, for new things to birth.

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Card 5: Possibility 1: Tarot Card - The Sun

(This tarot card represents the first possibility.)

lovely, happiness, no uncertainty.. everything is positive. Your opt 1 has love for you as much as you. I can't tell if he's going to make a move. Needs another card

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Card 6: Expectations: Tarot Card - Judgement

(This tarot card represents what you can expect in choosing your first option.)

Compromise and negotiation time

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Card 7: Alternate Expectations: Tarot Cards - The Two of Wands

(This tarot card discusses what you might expect by choosing an alternative option.)

Seeing things from the higher ground, strategizing how to move forward.

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Card 8: Possibility 2: Tarot Cards - The Three of Wands

(This tarot card represents the second possibility.)

Moving on, leaving the old behind that is no longer serving you.. This could also talks about waiting. Waiting for your ship to come and pick you up

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Card 9: Expectations: Tarot Cards - The Three of Swords

(This tarot card represents what you can expect in choosing your second option.)

Heartbreak

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Card 10: Alternate Expectations: Tarot Card - The World

(This tarot card discusses what you might expect by choosing an alternative option.)

Completion of a cycle. You are finally ready to meet new people and get into a relationship because you no longer hold emotional baggage of the past.


Card 11: Advice: Tarot Cards - The Knight of Swords

(This tarot card suggests advice on the next step to take from here, which path to take.)


Charge! lol

Posted by Shadowcat
Pick who you like more

Posted by aquarius09
When the past calls, don't answer. It has nothing new to say.

Posted by sagsagsag
lol.. pick 3 more cards about him (your ex)

Posted by sagsagsag

Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by sagsagsag
lol.. pick 3 more cards about him (your ex)

What question should I ask when I pick the 3 cards? Thanks

Any.. ?

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Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by Shadowcat
Pick who you like more

good point. I guess I need a little more time to process my feelings.

I am infatuated with the new guy, but I am not completely over my ex.

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Posted by Noni05
Out with the old

In with the new

Posted by piscesmoon2
If you are going to read the cards it would would be good to have sun signs or general energy type or the cards need mean nothing... just like the knight of swords could actually be one of them... if that would he would be a dominate air Gemini... Aqua... or libra... morally more social but often times can eject out of uncomfratable situations. In really I think either is a bad choice right this second as you seem to still be interested in the x and is it really fair to date another guy when you obviously still have feelings for him. Finish figuring that out I also would say relationships normally don't work out for a reason so why go back... it really just sounds like you want someone to be around and if it is not even these two you will find someone new because that is what you want... and may not be what you really need with the over all flow of life.

PM

Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by Shadowcat
Pick who you like more

good point. I guess I need a little more time to process my feelings.

I am infatuated with the new guy, but I am not completely over my ex.

Yea good logic it does not mean you can't be some what fiends and in fact that is they way people should get to know someone one t a point with out a set intention of being in a relationship. I say watch him

Over 30

Days... how he acts during the full moon which is tomorrow... I would also say the x may come

Back or already did with the retro though...

I would also check in during the next Mercury retro although it may be in a different area of his life it will show how stable his emotions are and where he chooses to put his energy.

PM

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Posted by sagsagsag
Any fire sign or earth sign in the relationship?

Posted by SofiaV87
Why did u & the ex break up ?

Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by SofiaV87
Why did u & the ex break up ?

He had not cheated when we were together, but he did show some usual interests towards my roommate at a time, so that was a red flag right there. He had a temper and I felt mistreated when he was impatient with me or got mad over minor things (e.g. me telling him I wanted to sleep for 10 more minutes when he got to my place to pick me up to go to his place while we did not really need to get to his place within a certain time.)

The last straw was that he was not very respectful around my family (e.g. he would leave his trash everywhere in the living room of my parents' house instead of throwing it away himself. I did not feel it's ok for him to not respect my parents' living space.).

I still love him and I think he still has feelings for me still. When he's not impatient with me, he's caring and sweet. However, I am not sure if these things I mentioned above could be resolved or if it's worth it for us to even try again.

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Posted by LunarMaiden
Don't choose, date them both.

One is MIA

The other you have only been chatting with for a few weeks.

It's too soon to go soft on anyone.

Enjoy the attention and decided when it gets serious.

Posted by SofiaV87

Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by SofiaV87
Why did u & the ex break up ?

He had not cheated when we were together, but he did show some usual interests towards my roommate at a time, so that was a red flag right there. He had a temper and I felt mistreated when he was impatient with me or got mad over minor things (e.g. me telling him I wanted to sleep for 10 more minutes when he got to my place to pick me up to go to his place while we did not really need to get to his place within a certain time.)

The last straw was that he was not very respectful around my family (e.g. he would leave his trash everywhere in the living room of my parents' house instead of throwing it away himself. I did not feel it's ok for him to not respect my parents' living space.).

I still love him and I think he still has feelings for me still. When he's not impatient with me, he's caring and sweet. However, I am not sure if these things I mentioned above could be resolved or if it's worth it for us to even try again.

How old is he & how long were u guys together ?

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Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by SofiaV87

Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by SofiaV87
Why did u & the ex break up ?

He had not cheated when we were together, but he did show some usual interests towards my roommate at a time, so that was a red flag right there. He had a temper and I felt mistreated when he was impatient with me or got mad over minor things (e.g. me telling him I wanted to sleep for 10 more minutes when he got to my place to pick me up to go to his place while we did not really need to get to his place within a certain time.)

The last straw was that he was not very respectful around my family (e.g. he would leave his trash everywhere in the living room of my parents' house instead of throwing it away himself. I did not feel it's ok for him to not respect my parents' living space.).

I still love him and I think he still has feelings for me still. When he's not impatient with me, he's caring and sweet. However, I am not sure if these things I mentioned above could be resolved or if it's worth it for us to even try again.

How old is he & how long were u guys together ?

He is 27. We dated for 7 months. We broke up in late July/early August 2016.

We didn't end things well...

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Posted by SofiaV87

Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by SofiaV87

Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by SofiaV87
Why did u & the ex break up ?

He had not cheated when we were together, but he did show some usual interests towards my roommate at a time, so that was a red flag right there. He had a temper and I felt mistreated when he was impatient with me or got mad over minor things (e.g. me telling him I wanted to sleep for 10 more minutes when he got to my place to pick me up to go to his place while we did not really need to get to his place within a certain time.)

The last straw was that he was not very respectful around my family (e.g. he would leave his trash everywhere in the living room of my parents' house instead of throwing it away himself. I did not feel it's ok for him to not respect my parents' living space.).

I still love him and I think he still has feelings for me still. When he's not impatient with me, he's caring and sweet. However, I am not sure if these things I mentioned above could be resolved or if it's worth it for us to even try again.

How old is he & how long were u guys together ?

He is 27. We dated for 7 months. We broke up in late July/early August 2016.

We didn't end things well...

New guy

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Posted by LunarMaiden
Don't choose, date them both.

One is MIA

The other you have only been chatting with for a few weeks.

It's too soon to go soft on anyone.

Enjoy the attention and decided when it gets serious.

I like the way you think lol

I guess it's too early to make a decision.

I feel if I choose the new person, I shoud try to start from a clean slate and block my ex on everything.

But maybe that's not necessary at this point yet since things are not getting serious yet.

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Posted by sagsagsag

Posted by whatisthisallabout
@sagsagsag

I am not sure if the cards below will help clarify the situation or if you have a website that I can go to to just draw 3 cards. Thank you!

card 1: situation: Tarot Cards - The Nine of Pentacles

card 2: you in the partnership: Tarot Cards - The Ten of Swords

card 3: your partner: Tarot Cards - The Page of Wands

card 4: history: Tarot Cards - The Knight of Pentacles

card 5: future: Tarot Cards - The Page of Pentacles

card 6: your expectations: Tarot Cards - The Nine of Pentacles

card 7: your fears: Tarot Card - The Magician

card 8: your contributions: Tarot Cards - The Six of Swords

card 9: where you could improve: Tarot Card - The Fool

card 10: your partner's expectations: Tarot Cards - The Seven of Wands

card 11: your partner's fears: Tarot Cards - The King of Pentacles

card 12: your partner's contributions: Tarot Card - The Emperor

card 13: where your partner can improve: Tarot Cards - The Three of Swords

So, you feel good and happy about life but the only thing you're missing right now is love.

You need closure dont you?

You are not even sure you want this person back and solve the issue and charm his way out so that you two could experience what you had in the past.


Yes, the unwavering devotion is there for you both in the past and in the future if it's still going like this both of you will enter a period where you will examine the situation intently.

The advise is to open up your heart, trying new things, to be able to trust love again even if it's not with your ex. You're moving on right now but with baby steps and everytime you get one foot out of the door and look back and feel sad and victimised.

I'm not saying your ex is the right one i mean he's a page, still immature and is afraid of being tied down/controlled. He wants to do things his own way. And, no he wont reach out for now, there's something that he's defending. Something that he feels he's in the right. He wants you to persist.

Look up the meaning of the fool card. That's always the best advise ?


advise is the game of tarot, it never commands ?

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Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by whatisthisallabout

Posted by LunarMaiden
Don't choose, date them both.

One is MIA

The other you have only been chatting with for a few weeks.

It's too soon to go soft on anyone.

Enjoy the attention and decided when it gets serious.

I like the way you think lol

I guess it's too early to make a decision.

I feel if I choose the new person, I shoud try to start from a clean slate and block my ex on everything.

But maybe that's not necessary at this point yet since things are not getting serious yet.

Unless you and the new guy have discussed being exclusive and it's what you both want then yes block the ex.

But if you are just dating there is no slate to clean.

You are not obligated to end all of your other dates.

Ex is not your boyfriend, he is just a guy who is flirting, coming and going.

Unless you really don't want to be bothered with him then I would say block the ex.

I would just phase him toward the background. Not make him a priority.

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Posted by bostongigi
Neither, the ex is over and the new is not a good choice either. How did you pull the knight of swords twice? Do you read a double deck? If you did a reading and the knight of swords is already laid down how did you lay it again twice In the same spread? Could it have been knight of swords and king of swords?