Libra woman and Taurus man- what's the experience like?

This topic was created in the Taurus and Libra Compatibility forum by libsthedibs on Saturday, December 22, 2018 and has 14 replies.
Thought I would start this topic (not sure if there is another one on this). Have any of you Libra woman been with a Taurus man and vice versa? What has it been like for you libra gals/taurus guys? Would be great to know!


I had a short fling with a libra. At first we had instant chemistry we would lie in bed and kiss until morning and listen to old rockmusic. I liked her she is always upbeat and friendly. Over time our incompatiblity became more obvious. She doesnt ruminate about her past, she doesnt seem deep people came to her place all the time, there is always chatter in her place.

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I had a short fling with a libra. At first we had instant chemistry we would lie in bed and kiss until morning and listen to old rockmusic. I liked her she is always upbeat and friendly. Over time our incompatiblity became more obvious. She doesnt ruminate about her past, she doesnt seem deep people came to her place all the time, there is always chatter in her place.



oh dear! so her sociableness that attracted you in the first place turned out to be the incompatible aspect huh
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I had a short fling with a libra. At first we had instant chemistry we would lie in bed and kiss until morning and listen to old rockmusic. I liked her she is always upbeat and friendly. Over time our incompatiblity became more obvious. She doesnt ruminate about her past, she doesnt seem deep people came to her place all the time, there is always chatter in her place.



oh dear! so her sociableness that attracted you in the first place turned out to be the incompatible aspect huh
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Yeah. But we didnt live together so i just didnt show up.

I dont know if libras ate shallow or resilient and optimistic . She didnt seem to think deeply about stuff. She was always upbeat didnt figure that out. Maybe she had just more social intelligence than me and didnt talk abput heavy stuff. I dont know

I hope i didnt discourage you or maybe you could try to find if he is social like you, in order to avoid waste of time.
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I had a short fling with a libra. At first we had instant chemistry we would lie in bed and kiss until morning and listen to old rockmusic. I liked her she is always upbeat and friendly. Over time our incompatiblity became more obvious. She doesnt ruminate about her past, she doesnt seem deep people came to her place all the time, there is always chatter in her place.



oh dear! so her sociableness that attracted you in the first place turned out to be the incompatible aspect huh
Yeah. But we didnt live together so i just didnt show up.

I dont know if libras ate shallow or resilient and optimistic . She didnt seem to think deeply about stuff. She was always upbeat didnt figure that out. Maybe she had just more social intelligence than me and didnt talk abput heavy stuff. I dont know

I hope i didnt discourage you or maybe you could try to find if he is social like you, in order to avoid waste of time.
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What you are saying is super interesting. Unlike your ex, I love talking and thinking about the deep stuff. I am upbeat too, but when needed can provide that emotional support to him. In fact, that is all I seem to be doing, asking him how he is and if his day went ok (we work together but in different teams). And I love to talk endlessly about life and its aspects, how things are, and listen. But then there are various different types of Libras in this world. I am sorry to hear that things did not work out. Lord knows if things'll even take off between me and him but I do fancy him like crazy smile
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I had a short fling with a libra. At first we had instant chemistry we would lie in bed and kiss until morning and listen to old rockmusic. I liked her she is always upbeat and friendly. Over time our incompatiblity became more obvious. She doesnt ruminate about her past, she doesnt seem deep people came to her place all the time, there is always chatter in her place.



oh dear! so her sociableness that attracted you in the first place turned out to be the incompatible aspect huh
Yeah. But we didnt live together so i just didnt show up.

I dont know if libras ate shallow or resilient and optimistic . She didnt seem to think deeply about stuff. She was always upbeat didnt figure that out. Maybe she had just more social intelligence than me and didnt talk abput heavy stuff. I dont know

I hope i didnt discourage you or maybe you could try to find if he is social like you, in order to avoid waste of time.
What you are saying is super interesting. Unlike your ex, I love talking and thinking about the deep stuff. I am upbeat too, but when needed can provide that emotional support to him. In fact, that is all I seem to be doing, asking him how he is and if his day went ok (we work together but in different teams). And I love to talk endlessly about life and its aspects, how things are, and listen. But then there are various different types of Libras in this world. I am sorry to hear that things did not work out. Lord knows if things'll even take off between me and him but I do fancy him like crazy smile
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If you are doing the talking that means he needs to feel safe and warm up. Plus as guys we suck at communicating. So give him plenty of warmth. We like that we are teddybears
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I had a short fling with a libra. At first we had instant chemistry we would lie in bed and kiss until morning and listen to old rockmusic. I liked her she is always upbeat and friendly. Over time our incompatiblity became more obvious. She doesnt ruminate about her past, she doesnt seem deep people came to her place all the time, there is always chatter in her place.



oh dear! so her sociableness that attracted you in the first place turned out to be the incompatible aspect huh
Yeah. But we didnt live together so i just didnt show up.

I dont know if libras ate shallow or resilient and optimistic . She didnt seem to think deeply about stuff. She was always upbeat didnt figure that out. Maybe she had just more social intelligence than me and didnt talk abput heavy stuff. I dont know

I hope i didnt discourage you or maybe you could try to find if he is social like you, in order to avoid waste of time.
What you are saying is super interesting. Unlike your ex, I love talking and thinking about the deep stuff. I am upbeat too, but when needed can provide that emotional support to him. In fact, that is all I seem to be doing, asking him how he is and if his day went ok (we work together but in different teams). And I love to talk endlessly about life and its aspects, how things are, and listen. But then there are various different types of Libras in this world. I am sorry to hear that things did not work out. Lord knows if things'll even take off between me and him but I do fancy him like crazy smile
If you are doing the talking that means he needs to feel safe and warm up. Plus as guys we suck at communicating. So give him plenty of warmth. We like that we are teddybears
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lol k will try to make him feel safe and warm. I left an expensive chocolate bar on his desk on Friday and he gave me the cutest and most knowing smile. Gosh he is adorable. I have to physically stop myself from hugging him (it is a workplace after all and he still hasn't "asked me out" as such. But I think he knows I like him by now smile
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I had a short fling with a libra. At first we had instant chemistry we would lie in bed and kiss until morning and listen to old rockmusic. I liked her she is always upbeat and friendly. Over time our incompatiblity became more obvious. She doesnt ruminate about her past, she doesnt seem deep people came to her place all the time, there is always chatter in her place.



oh dear! so her sociableness that attracted you in the first place turned out to be the incompatible aspect huh
Yeah. But we didnt live together so i just didnt show up.

I dont know if libras ate shallow or resilient and optimistic . She didnt seem to think deeply about stuff. She was always upbeat didnt figure that out. Maybe she had just more social intelligence than me and didnt talk abput heavy stuff. I dont know

I hope i didnt discourage you or maybe you could try to find if he is social like you, in order to avoid waste of time.
What you are saying is super interesting. Unlike your ex, I love talking and thinking about the deep stuff. I am upbeat too, but when needed can provide that emotional support to him. In fact, that is all I seem to be doing, asking him how he is and if his day went ok (we work together but in different teams). And I love to talk endlessly about life and its aspects, how things are, and listen. But then there are various different types of Libras in this world. I am sorry to hear that things did not work out. Lord knows if things'll even take off between me and him but I do fancy him like crazy smile
If you are doing the talking that means he needs to feel safe and warm up. Plus as guys we suck at communicating. So give him plenty of warmth. We like that we are teddybears
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Also why does it take so long for you Taurus men to make a move? It drives us Libras crazy (it's driving me crazy)
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I had a short fling with a libra. At first we had instant chemistry we would lie in bed and kiss until morning and listen to old rockmusic. I liked her she is always upbeat and friendly. Over time our incompatiblity became more obvious. She doesnt ruminate about her past, she doesnt seem deep people came to her place all the time, there is always chatter in her place.



oh dear! so her sociableness that attracted you in the first place turned out to be the incompatible aspect huh
Yeah. But we didnt live together so i just didnt show up.

I dont know if libras ate shallow or resilient and optimistic . She didnt seem to think deeply about stuff. She was always upbeat didnt figure that out. Maybe she had just more social intelligence than me and didnt talk abput heavy stuff. I dont know

I hope i didnt discourage you or maybe you could try to find if he is social like you, in order to avoid waste of time.
What you are saying is super interesting. Unlike your ex, I love talking and thinking about the deep stuff. I am upbeat too, but when needed can provide that emotional support to him. In fact, that is all I seem to be doing, asking him how he is and if his day went ok (we work together but in different teams). And I love to talk endlessly about life and its aspects, how things are, and listen. But then there are various different types of Libras in this world. I am sorry to hear that things did not work out. Lord knows if things'll even take off between me and him but I do fancy him like crazy smile
If you are doing the talking that means he needs to feel safe and warm up. Plus as guys we suck at communicating. So give him plenty of warmth. We like that we are teddybears
Also why does it take so long for you Taurus men to make a move? It drives us Libras crazy (it's driving me crazy)
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Because we are sizing you up we are security minded. Dont want to be rude that question has already been covered. Do google that
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I had a short fling with a libra. At first we had instant chemistry we would lie in bed and kiss until morning and listen to old rockmusic. I liked her she is always upbeat and friendly. Over time our incompatiblity became more obvious. She doesnt ruminate about her past, she doesnt seem deep people came to her place all the time, there is always chatter in her place.



oh dear! so her sociableness that attracted you in the first place turned out to be the incompatible aspect huh
Yeah. But we didnt live together so i just didnt show up.

I dont know if libras ate shallow or resilient and optimistic . She didnt seem to think deeply about stuff. She was always upbeat didnt figure that out. Maybe she had just more social intelligence than me and didnt talk abput heavy stuff. I dont know

I hope i didnt discourage you or maybe you could try to find if he is social like you, in order to avoid waste of time.
What you are saying is super interesting. Unlike your ex, I love talking and thinking about the deep stuff. I am upbeat too, but when needed can provide that emotional support to him. In fact, that is all I seem to be doing, asking him how he is and if his day went ok (we work together but in different teams). And I love to talk endlessly about life and its aspects, how things are, and listen. But then there are various different types of Libras in this world. I am sorry to hear that things did not work out. Lord knows if things'll even take off between me and him but I do fancy him like crazy smile
If you are doing the talking that means he needs to feel safe and warm up. Plus as guys we suck at communicating. So give him plenty of warmth. We like that we are teddybears
Also why does it take so long for you Taurus men to make a move? It drives us Libras crazy (it's driving me crazy)


Because we are sizing you up we are security minded. Dont want to be rude that question has already been covered. Do google that
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thanks!
I know when it works the love is deep and real!
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I feel like both have to be very mature and in a stable situation in their lives for it to work.

I honestly feel like these two signs are so different, but that’s just my experience.
I had a short fling with a Libra man.

Instant chemistry and attraction. Lots of similarities yet striking differences especially in relationship paces. He had a propensity to rush things, all romantic so soon, gushing his love and what not for me whereas me not opening up or deciding to take things slow or not sharing my feelings for him 24/7 really made him doubt my interest/love for him.

These differences, I felt, could have easily be remedied through conversation, but here's the catch...

We are both non-confrontational, Libra moreso than Taurus. We Tauruses are not moved by words, but by action and consistency. We like to observe and take things SLOW. Libra can rush and seem as though they are in it, may even say they are in it, but really they are ruminating, weighing, changing their minds and actions, which on my part screams UNTRUSTWORTHY, whether that is the case or not is different....

Lot's of miscommunications due to the different ways we approach things... but again can be easily addressed if both signs SPEAK... which they may not.

I think this love match has A LOT of potential, I mean a lot!! I know with the Libra guy I was seeing mentally, sexually and emotionally we were on par. I threw him off a lot by being a closed a $ $ book, and he threw me off by always getting into my business, being inconsistent and using A LOT of words, words, words, backed up with SOME action. He often felt like the initiator of everything (which was true, I like to take a back seat and OBSERVE which may not be fair, but hey!). He needed constant attention and reassurance, which for a Taurus is exhausting... we are independent like Libra's, but we don't always want to be wrapped up in your arms 24/7.

I think the keywords for this partnership to work are PATIENCE god dammit and COMMUNICATION on both sides. Libras voice your concerns and worries, it helps. Taurus stop taking everything so damn slow and serious. My Libra would always try and play games to get me to say what was on my mind which made me retreat (I swear he had some Scorpio/Virgo thing going on in his chart), insecure asking how I felt before he would say how he felt. Asking questions such as if I asked you to be my girlfriend tomorrow, would you say yes? Like dude... ask and you'll see! I could sense some clingy vibes from him, he needed me to be the rock and I guess he sensed that I was way too strong and not needy.

I really didn't like the fact that he doesn't think DEEP. I mean really... he doesn't question his actions or why he does things or his past or try to resolve ANYTHING. He doesn't strive towards self-improvement. He is AVOIDANT by nature. We were talking once and he opened up about how he dislikes himself, how he struggles and I empathised, complimented him and then asked him what he was going to do to change these things so he could feel better about himself. I also asked why he thought that way about himself, what he felt the ROOT CAUSE was and if he felt he could resolve it. I guess my questions threw him off... He hadn't even thought about looking that deeply into himself to figure out the whys and hows to his feelings.

Libras like to keep it light too much. I really respect Libras, it's a sign I really get along with genuinely, I have many Libra friends and attractions. But honestly this keeping it light and lack of deep deep self-awareness is baffling. I don't want to paint all Libra's with the same brush, from my experience this has been the case.

One thing I would say is Libras are very sensitive and they are so good at gauging their environment including others. They're good at knowing how you feel, why you feel it, your thoughts. Sometimes I felt the Libra guy was in my body, which I absolutely hated. Sometimes they act as though they know you too well, and when you relay some facts about them that you've observed, they'll deny or be really silent/evasive. They are uncomfortable being outed. I mean who would be... They're more externally focused than internally focused.