I have liked a Taurus guy for at least nine months now we had been talking and he knew I liked him but four weeks ago he stoped talking to me the first week we were playing a game and he asked me if I still liked him I said no in fear of my own feelings, after that we talked one more time and he stoped talking to me. We didn’t talk the first week we just looked at each other, the second week he send me a text and I responded him and he texted back hours later, I asked him why he kept doing that and he told he would usually do that and sorry so I left it like that and didn’t confront him about it anymore, he left me on open and another week past and him and I didn’t talk till this week he texted me on a Wednesday and we talked for a little and then stoped texting completely, it’s Sunday now and he opened it today and left me on open again without a explanation, please someone help me I don’t know what to do and I’ve asked around and they told me to just go with the flow I don’t know if that’s the right thing to do because I think I should text him him please someone help me!!
Okay so I texted him today and I asked him how he was doing he said he was good but stressed I texted back a hour later (cause I lost my phone ) and said I could help him if he needed any, it’s been 5 hours and I have not heard back from him and I know that he’s been using his phone because he had been on Instagram two hours after I texted him is he ghosting me? Why ?
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Jan 27, 2019Comments: 2 · Posts: 1548 · Topics: 27
"I don't know WHAT to do?" OP, haven't you DONE enough? 🤔 Where is your dignity? Where are your standards? Why are you chasing someone who isn't making time to even TALK with you? Which talking is quite normal btw. STOP. Just stop 🤦 Move forward. All of this confusion....and for what? Unbelievable. There are so many posts on this very topic , e.v.e.r.y. week. Here's a hint: Action will always trump words. When someone shows you who they are, believe 'em. You're not worth the time, in his eyes. Move on to someone who will have an actual conversation w you.
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Jan 27, 2019Comments: 2 · Posts: 1548 · Topics: 27
Hmm. Just REREAD your statement about telling him that you didn't like him, AFTER HE ASKED, which was a LIE. Now....that was stupid honestly. So, here's the thing: You may have sabotaged a potential relationship because now only he knows whether or not he's keeping at arm's length to protect his own feelings. SMH. Your fear doesn't justify the lie. But either way, at this point, maybe leave it alone.
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Feb 07, 2018Comments: 2429 · Posts: 2637 · Topics: 65
Guys perspective: sees a text from you. "Wtf. Why does she keep texting me?
She said she doesn't like me"
Ignores text/or gives one word response
Yeah but he has texted me first back before i did so does it matter I texted him this time ?
oh crap, saying you didn't like him will not want him to spend any more time then he has to on you. Ask him out