A Taurus guy and 2 Scorpio women problem.

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by seniormontana on Wednesday, August 21, 2013 and has 26 replies.
Hi everyone.
I am a Taurus, and I am in a deep S. guys, I have been with some one for 8 years "including 5 years marriage no kids", then we got divorced when I met my Scorpio Love and we got married.
Everything that have been mentioned about the Scorpio woman and Taurus man is totally true,every word of it, it is the perfect relation especially when you have been through a lot together.
I have a huge problem now. We are married now for 6 years and we have 2 amazing kids, and we do still in love and she is also my best friend, and nothing wrong at all about our sexual life, it is so perfect.
Few days back I met another girl, we liked each other a lot. she knows that I am married, she is younger than me. although all that, we just get going. We kissed for hours, and we made an amazing love.
this is exactly step by step the same that happen between me and my Scorpio beloved wife 6 years back, the exact same story when it comes to feelings and passion. The only difference is that I pulled out my wife through a huge battle, and she stood behind my back and supported me to face all these problems. But for the new story, we still have nothing to fight for, or even a common battle.
I found out that the new girl is also a Scorpio and there I get to know the reason of that huge attraction and passion.
As I told you my wife is my best friend, and also she knows that I am a womanizer, and I always tell her what I am doing. I told her about that girl, and she simply ask me "Have you fallen in love with her darling", and I replied "Love is not an easy thing to fall in that easy, Do you think I can?"
she replied me "Love is love honey, no one can do anything about it".
Honestly, with her words she made me stronger, and for some extent she brought me back to neutrality.
But, I am still thinking of that girl day and night, and also she do. Yes, she is more cautious and hesitating than me, but I don't know, we can't run away. Every time I try to Ignore that feeling, I found her calling. And Every time she tries to avoid me, I find myself calling her.
I really don't know is that love or not. I do love my wife, but I am still attracted to that girl so much.
When we are together we feel like knowing each other for a very long time, we are relax most of the time, we just get nervous when we think about tomorrow.
Please guys, Judge me, curse me, say whatever you want, but please tell me what to do.
Please, I can't sleep, and I feel like crying all
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Stick by your wife and family. Add some stability into your life for christs sake.
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thanks tornadoday16
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Firstly, you look just like one of my uncles. I don't have time to write much but I'd be glad to judge your life as time permits. Its great to hear from someone who sounds like they are fucked worse than I am. I will tell you that you are failing really hard at being a Taurus and making the rest of us look bad. Sounds like you're falling for a very Scorpionic ideal of love, being intoxicated and confused by that early intense passion. I can actually understand it the first time when u divorced your first wife for the Scorp. I've felt the chemistry and I am sure if I was a little more courageous I could've been swept away by it. But now that you are married to your Scorp, and you are getting it again with your new Scorp, you should get the picture. Be a bull and love the one you are with, or the guilt is really going to destroy you. Taurus/Scorp is karmic pairing and this time around could be your cosmic spanking for being a womanizer. I would get out now, despite the pain, before the bond gets any stronger. This could ruin your entire life. And if she is a bad snake/lizard/spider/etc. Scorp, even worse. Chances are good on that as she's already willing to step in on a seemingly loving marriage.
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I truly thank you so much TaurusLovesScorpio. I do needed that spank. and you are right about that. and I am so sorry man for failing you and making you look bad guys.
And now, YES, I know what I must do now.
Thanks again and sorry man
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I truly thank you so much TaurusLovesScorpio. I do needed that spank. and you are right about that. and I am so sorry man for failing you and making you look bad guys.
And now, YES, I know what I must do now.
Thanks again and sorry man
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Keep loving the one you want, the new one that does so much for you.
Severely damage your wife and kids because that is what you are doing, you might as well drive a stake through her.
You deserve everything you have got and everything you will get in the future. Your wife may seem understanding but I don't think this is really the case, she's biding her time and plotting what she will do when she leaves.
People like you should just stay single, you know settling down is not for you so why indulge???
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@ seniormontana
True enough...
Your wife might appear cool but damn she is raging fire inside... see it soon and she will leave
you for worst and good. Worst at your situation and Good for her decision. Your scorpio wife won't
tolerate infidelity. That's a scorpio thing. You forgot to do your research Taurus man. Taurus loves
good books just like my bf at this time and I am scorpio woman. He kept chasing me. I just play my
cards safely.. You have to do something now for your wife... maybe it will be heal soon and forget
what you did. Scorpio don't forgive and forget. That is our weakness. We will go extreme as far as
the vengeance is concern. She will never comesback once she leaves.
What a man without honor! you are now in a big trouble...
Good Luck Man!
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I truly thank you Sweethearts and M143, I already have decided what to do, And I will never give up my wife and family. Maybe I deserve to be single and alone, but it is not an option here. she is my family, and I did a mistake, but I will never go away or let her to go away.
Thanks again fellows
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this guy makes me despair at men.
TLS, he makes all men look bad whether his bs is real or not.
...ugh, gawd
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IKR??
I couldn't help myself, she tripped and I Tripped and my dick went in her...
I told my wife and she understands because she knows I'm a flirt and I can't help myself
I have such a beautiful wife, we love each other and the sex is great
We have 2 wonderful children
But...... I am but a man and I can't help feeling I WANT MORE, it's not my fault I'm greedy

Would love to hear the comeback when he gets his just deserve!!!
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Posted by robyn808
TaurusLovesScorpio said ideal of love, but that there are factors that effect this relationship between two signs. Both are mysterious, powerful and hide plenty underneath, in their own way. The other seems to have what the other lacks so a great bit of admiration can come.
Elle said something a while back about this combo, something about an intriguing intimidation. Its a person who can challenge you, and someone who isn't easy to figure out at first, but that fades as you get to know each other... and it will eventually feel like anything else would.
Your probably just chasing the feeling that she gives you right now. But just like with your wife, that wont last forever. Its just an incredibly powerful illusion that we can create, but that's not her. Most likely just your perception of her, and your projection of what you want her to be. So there is a lot of emotions we can feel because of that, excitement and hope, this erg to explore, ect. But those are your emotions about the situation not necessarily your emotions for her.


Thank you so much Robyn808 for your opinion, and I totally agree with that. especially its been 2 days now I haven't talked to that girl, and everyday I call my wife and we chat and joke for hours.
Thanks again Robyn
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Sorry girls, but some of you here has serious issues. I am just one man, no need to judge all men based on that. Yes I had a problem, but at least I ask for advice from people who I know and others I don't know. But for you girls, I think you need to get some help as well.
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@seniormontana,

You are welcome. We don't judged you. The truth is Scorpio are quite brutal honest.
I love my Taurus man and I keep him as much as he is so possessive in dealing with me.
I always tell him that I won't buy his BS and I don't deal with it.
I am just a walkaway type of woman and not needy for other man's security.. and it works.
And I don't have problem with my relationship with this man. He pampered me. Just lucky.
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Posted by M143

@seniormontana,

You are welcome. We don't judged you. The truth is Scorpio are quite brutal honest.
I love my Taurus man and I keep him as much as he is so possessive in dealing with me.
I always tell him that I won't buy his BS and I don't deal with it.
I am just a walkaway type of woman and not needy for other man's security.. and it works.
And I don't have problem with my relationship with this man. He pampered me. Just lucky.



Thank you so much M143. I do appreciate what you said. and I wish you all the best wishes for you and your Taurus.
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...coming from someone who's now posting to himself lol
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Posted by seniormontana
Sorry girls, but some of you here has serious issues. I am just one man, no need to judge all men based on that. Yes I had a problem, but at least I ask for advice from people who I know and others I don't know. But for you girls, I think you need to get some help as well.


you're right, that came out wrong... you make me despair for humanity.
the thing is... i dont actually believe your story at all. you're making it all up. lol and i'm really undecided if you are very good at getting attention or just terrible at it. that's the only thing i find interesting about all of this. Tongue
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Yes I can see where "we" have issues and need to resolve them...
You deserve everything you get and I hear that Scorp's are unrelenting with their sting! Either way, you've played one off against the other...
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Posted by seniormontana
Sorry girls, but some of you here has serious issues. I am just one man, no need to judge all men based on that. Yes I had a problem, but at least I ask for advice from people who I know and others I don't know. But for you girls, I think you need to get some help as well.



and you should be calling out others issues, why? you have issues as well and you help to perpetuate what alot of women believe and feel. we all effect each other one way or another....You are part of these issues too dude. get it together.
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Posted by cowpuncher
Posted by Tornadoday16
Stick by your wife and family. Add some stability into your life for christs sake.


+1 Solid gold advice.
You have two choices here: Be a dirtbag, or DO NOT be a dirtbag.
If things aren't working in your marriage, work on it... OR get a divorce before going further afield for feminine company.
A wife and two kids, and you're selfish enough to pull this? You deserve whatever negative fallout you get if you don't shape up and fly straight pal.
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Thanks Buddy,
The right decision have been made, and i choose my wife and kids, and the issue is resolved. and I am ready for any consequences. I got what i deserve because of my selfishness.
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Posted by CreepyPants
Posted by seniormontana
Sorry girls, but some of you here has serious issues. I am just one man, no need to judge all men based on that. Yes I had a problem, but at least I ask for advice from people who I know and others I don't know. But for you girls, I think you need to get some help as well.


you're right, that came out wrong... you make me despair for humanity.
the thing is... i dont actually believe your story at all. you're making it all up. lol and i'm really undecided if you are very good at getting attention or just terrible at it. that's the only thing i find interesting about all of this. Tongue
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Nothing is made up, and I am usually terrible in getting attention. But any ways, I already got the advice I needed.
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Dear all fellows in here,
Thanks a lot for all what you said, ALL OF IT. Either you advice or curse or judge or didn't believe, this all came out with one result. that is all this is wrong.
I am going to get back to my life, spending the time keeping my self busy with work until my beloved wife and kids come back home (they are visiting family only for a month now).
Sure I gonna need your advice later guys, but sure not in something emotional or related to love, but mostly about some other decisions, mostly business decisions.
However, Thanks again. And this is my last post here for this topic, since I already blocked that door.
Cheers guys and gals
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Hi Dear Fellows,
I am not re-opening the topic, I am just want to tell all those who truly care and help me about the new beginning.
After my beloved wife and you guys helped me to make up my mind, I decided to openly speak to the other scorpion about our lust and that we can't do it anymore. The surprise was that she totally agreed with me and that was such a huge relief for both of us, as if an unbelievable burden have been left. We agreed to be friends when we need to talk, and since that meeting we are having so nice phone conversations joking and laughing, we spend one night together with our friends in a bar and it was such an amazing nigh, we blended in get to know each other friends and it was real fun without any emotional conflicts or anything, and its so cool now.
With regard to my beloved wife, few days back our son got really sick and I had to travel back home to be with them, he got better the same day I arrived, and give me the chance for me and my wife to spend some time together.
One of my wife dreams was that we drink together (because she stopped drinking when she was pregnant with our elder daughter 6 years back). So, we left the kids with my wife parents, and go out with her younger sister and brother. We drink together, we laugh together we dance together and it was amazingly awesome, and you know for sure how that night ends Winking it was also amazing Winking
I told her about the confront with the other girl she feel blended happiness and sorrow at the same time, and she told me that it's her fault that she stayed away from me for such long time, and I replied her that she should never ever try to justify a selfish stupid mistake of mine by holding herself part of the responsibility, when I told her that she was so happy and no more pain was there.
the next couple of days was also amazing, we had so much fun together and with the kids as well.
I came back to work, and they will follow me in 3 weeks, and everyday we keep texting and chatting like a boyfriend and girlfriend and it's so sweet to have this refreshment of our relation again.
with respect to the other scorp girl, as I told you we are definitely not in lust anymore neither close friends as well but we like to text every couple of days or something.
Thanks again fellows, I am so happy and stable now, and I really wish that all of you to have such amazing relation with your partners like me and my wife -The love of my life and my shield-
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I don't understand why you would still communicate with the woman you were cheating with. You should exercise more respect for your wife and kids.
Its almost like you still want her in your life in any compacity to fulfill your need to possess...weird
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I think that non of you would understand any of this.
We are all human, we all make mistakes, but the most important is to forgive.
Don't make the characteristics of a sign blinds you of the most important part of us as human which is the true love. And by true love I am not talking about myself, I am talking about my wife love to me.
Forgiveness always come along with true love.
With regard to my communication with the other woman, sure it will end soon, but gradually.
I don't expect anyone to understand, and I am ok with that.
Over and out Winking
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Posted by seniormontana

With regard to my communication with the other woman, sure it will end soon, but gradually.



Interesting statement.
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