About Taurus

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Diamondnurse on Saturday, June 24, 2017 and has 27 replies.
Why would a Taurus show their possessive side ? Like what are signs show they are interested in you? Why would be reasons they want to test and how far do they take it? Just really asking general questions to spark convo.
To me, it's less about "possessiveness" and more about territory. Don't leave the territory of our relationship, don't allow someone else to encroach on mine. I usually move on when this happens because I can't live with it, I view it as a betrayal.

Well im taking it i failed. So i guess i got to accept it obviously we aren't compatible. He shows possessive. I told him bout my feelings i haven't really heard from him since. He told me he loved me but idk if its sincere. Every time around his friends he makes sure to put me on the spotlight of the convo. I hate when he does that cause his attitude changes. He seems to be more possessive. I asked him he seeing anyone else he got an attitude. We both single. He has possess in sex too. I think ill fallback.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuy
Possessive is what we do (some more than others)! :p

Taureans typically show their possessive side if they are attracted to someone and they want that person to themselves.

I would say signs of interest are asking questions about the person, doing things to help them, maybe little gifts.

I don't like to test and don't try to play games but sometimes Taurus will pull back / not communicate as much to see if the other person keeps trying to talk to them / be with them.

Not saying these are positive qualities but it is the way we sometimes are!
What you mean by the communication part? I asked him if he wanted to stop seeing each other he told me no but I haven't heard from him much lately. Is that a test or he disinterested now?
Posted by Diamondnurse
Why would a Taurus show their possessive side ? Like what are signs show they are interested in you? Why would be reasons they want to test and how far do they take it? Just really asking general questions to spark convo.
We show the posessive side once we have decided in our brains (after analyzing) that we want you for ourselves now or for a "relationship" we start to get protective, don't want anyone touching you... you're like fragile to us and we want to preserve you, but mainly we don't like people touching "our stuff" lol

Taurus is more action driven, so we will do things for you, give you our attention more than the next person, get you things that don't show hey I like you but you'll notice the types of gifts or the things we do for you won't be what we normally do for the rest... oh and we will initiate more than usual.

We test only when we feel we are unsure of how the other person feels. I don't test though (maybe other aspects of my chart stops this but I feel testing is a waste of my time, just be real)... I watch and see and if it doesn't seem my feelings are being reciprocated then I just move on. The men though... the Taurus men tests a lot. The women and men are night and day in this sign.

Still food and sex is the primary hook line and sinker ???
The Taurus you have described in the past is not possessive. He is controlling. Big difference.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuy
Possessive is what we do (some more than others)! :p

Taureans typically show their possessive side if they are attracted to someone and they want that person to themselves.

I would say signs of interest are asking questions about the person, doing things to help them, maybe little gifts.

I don't like to test and don't try to play games but sometimes Taurus will pull back / not communicate as much to see if the other person keeps trying to talk to them / be with them.

Not saying these are positive qualities but it is the way we sometimes are!
My Taurus is very possessive, but I'm Scorpio so I love this. He literally calls me "his" "You're my woman". Very knuckle dragger behavior if you didn't know him to be so refined and sweet natured. It's pretty dynamic how he's both. His possessive nature came out to some extent almost right away, more after the first few dates, and definitely after we were physically intimate. Shortly after that he proposed and it's been at that level since. I know bulls have a rep for moving slowly, but it's been less than a year and here we are. Anyone that wants to be with a Taurus should prepare themselves for a lot of togetherness and couplehood or move on and find another love interest.

Told me to take things slow. But we were around each other every day. Til 2 weeks now. My car broke down and he got family issues. He contact me the other day. But i hardly been hearing from him. I told him i was fall backing to focus on me. So maybe he moved on which is fine but communication is the problem. I think i need him for sex too. Lustful i think.
His possessive comes out when we around his friends. Or my phone goes off. But i told him i don't like when he does that. I guess you right because he made a remark saying we like ike and tina turner what's love got to do with it. I started showing my passive aggressive side due to his behavior. One night he said i love you baby he been doing lil intimate things.
I'm a sag with a taurus moon.
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Not all. Same as every sign. Sags like loyalty too. And not being disrespected. He says we are having fun coo fun is fine but no sense in the possessive bs. He usually starts the arguments and im coo relaxed. I got a co worker a Taurus she's always insecure bout her bf. She gets upset and wants to know his every move. They broke up due to her possessive behavior. I fallback everytime i see that. Also got upset he quit having sex with her. I see Taurus lust alot.
He older than me. He lives with his mom still and loves to drink all the time. He stopped that controlling bs. He can have other women which i guess the relationship doesn't matter. I like freedom i don't like to be controlled. I guess i only stuck around due to him being a challenge now the challenge is over. He told me my loyalty doesn't mean shit. But his don't either.
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Posted by Diamondnurse
Why would a Taurus show their possessive side ? Like what are signs show they are interested in you? Why would be reasons they want to test and how far do they take it? Just really asking general questions to spark convo.
Are people with tauruses allowed to answer or do you want just the taurus perspective?
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Doesn't matter
Posted by Diamondnurse
He older than me. He lives with his mom still and loves to drink all the time. He stopped that controlling bs. He can have other women which i guess the relationship doesn't matter. I like freedom i don't like to be controlled. I guess i only stuck around due to him being a challenge now the challenge is over. He told me my loyalty doesn't mean shit. But his don't either.
Im really struggling to see what is so good about this guy.
Well im moving forward. It's coo tho. I guess I'm just concerned why he does the shit he does. I think if i don't ask bout another female towards he shouldn't do it to me. I had a guy that fb message me he got mad and i didn't know him well. But that's when it turned left. I got a cousin that's a abusive spoiled brat that's controlling. Most Taurus i counter with isn't jus possessive he controlling.
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He older than me. He lives with his mom still and loves to drink all the time. He stopped that controlling bs. He can have other women which i guess the relationship doesn't matter. I like freedom i don't like to be controlled. I guess i only stuck around due to him being a challenge now the challenge is over. He told me my loyalty doesn't mean shit. But his don't either.
Im really struggling to see what is so good about this guy.
Dickmatized!

But what a lot of women don't seem to realise, is if you play your cards right and have your contract drawn up , you could be dickmatized for eternity... not just a short spell of being dickmatized yet wanting the dick permanently which seems to be the OP's spellbound problem..
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Ur funny. U going by what i put im telling u whatever u need to know. If im dickmatized coo so be it. I just wanted to know a Taurus. I'm coo really. It ain't the first time i talked to him. Im coo i get bored too. We all human don't we all get bored. I want someone that knows how to take boredom and don't jus leave. I need intellectual level and someone that can handle lost. We take loses everyday some people can't take it.
Well im not asking or whining on the decision but it open my mind who I'm dealing with. So no problem. Thanks
Taurus are possessive as fuck. If they're courting you and over 25 best believe that. They will show you through consistent actions. If they aren't consistent you should be worried. Otherwise, enjoy it. Taurus want to please you so communicate effectively. Don't doubt them unless they give you reason to.
I know what it is. I just asked about their behavior i didn't want a Novel full of advice.

I play my cards right. He was the only guy i been seeing. I was having fun i guess. But I'm just really looking forward to see what i got planned in the future. I think he got his feelings involved. I will get hot and cold due to me needing space. If he mushy ill get a lil mushy. I told him how i felt. I heard from him the other day but i think he made his decision to cut me out.
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He older than me. He lives with his mom still and loves to drink all the time. He stopped that controlling bs. He can have other women which i guess the relationship doesn't matter. I like freedom i don't like to be controlled. I guess i only stuck around due to him being a challenge now the challenge is over. He told me my loyalty doesn't mean shit. But his don't either.
Im really struggling to see what is so good about this guy.
Dickmatized!

But what a lot of women don't seem to realise, is if you play your cards right and have your contract drawn up , you could be dickmatized for eternity... not just a short spell of being dickmatized yet wanting the dick permanently which seems to be the OP's spellbound problem..
Ur funny. U going by what i put im telling u whatever u need to know. If im dickmatized coo so be it. I just wanted to know a Taurus. I'm coo really. It ain't the first time i talked to him. Im coo i get bored too. We all human don't we all get bored. I want someone that knows how to take boredom and don't jus leave. I need intellectual level and someone that can handle lost. We take loses everyday some people can't take it.
So you want a relationship then?

If cool, why so many posts?
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Na i just want honest. And dam 2 posts make a lot ? Wow. Taurus huh you are simple minded frfr. Taurus think they are right but only in their brain. No one never understands them lack of communication.
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He older than me. He lives with his mom still and loves to drink all the time. He stopped that controlling bs. He can have other women which i guess the relationship doesn't matter. I like freedom i don't like to be controlled. I guess i only stuck around due to him being a challenge now the challenge is over. He told me my loyalty doesn't mean shit. But his don't either.
Im really struggling to see what is so good about this guy.
Dickmatized!

But what a lot of women don't seem to realise, is if you play your cards right and have your contract drawn up , you could be dickmatized for eternity... not just a short spell of being dickmatized yet wanting the dick permanently which seems to be the OP's spellbound problem..
Ur funny. U going by what i put im telling u whatever u need to know. If im dickmatized coo so be it. I just wanted to know a Taurus. I'm coo really. It ain't the first time i talked to him. Im coo i get bored too. We all human don't we all get bored. I want someone that knows how to take boredom and don't jus leave. I need intellectual level and someone that can handle lost. We take loses everyday some people can't take it.
So you want a relationship then?

If cool, why so many posts?
Na i just want honesty. And dam 2 posts make a lot ? Wow. Taurus huh you are simple minded frfr. Taurus think they are right but only in their brain. No one never understands them lack of communication.
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Well astrology doesn't mean much. It's the person themselves. Not everyone a like. I just know they are known to be possessive lust and a controlling mf. He told me no he wasn't lusting. He said he wanted to be around me all the time. I said i was falling back so no contact.
Posted by Diamondnurse
Well astrology doesn't mean much. It's the person themselves. Not everyone a like. I just know they are known to be possessive lust and a controlling mf. He told me no he wasn't lusting. He said he wanted to be around me all the time. I said i was falling back so no contact.
you say they are not all alike but then say they are known to be possessive and controlling.

they are not known to be controlling. mine has never been controlling. at all. ever. about anything.
He told me im not going no where. He said im his and he mine. He said i love you baby i do its okay if you don't love me. I gave him a back massage he said we made love which we did for 2 hours one night. He left bite marks on me. He called me two weeks ago we were cracking up having a good old time. He gave me money always buying food. He the reason my car got fixed. But o think we were moving to fast. I Didn't Want To ruin anything. But i can't really get mad if he didn't feel the same. I got to respect that.
Posted by Diamondnurse
He told me im not going no where. He said im his and he mine. He said i love you baby i do its okay if you don't love me. I gave him a back massage he said we made love which we did for 2 hours one night. He left bite marks on me. He called me two weeks ago we were cracking up having a good old time. He gave me money always buying food. He the reason my car got fixed. But o think we were moving to fast. I Didn't Want To ruin anything. But i can't really get mad if he didn't feel the same. I got to respect that.
is that before or after he disrespects you, tell you to get off your phone, wants you to stop talking to people, telling you your loyalty is worthless and that you argue constantly?

Well you can go on with your 2 cents please. You're annoying i didn't ask for your advice tho but thanks. I can say whatever i want your on my post remember? So if you don't like what i got to say then bye. Cause im over looking your comments.

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