I've read a lot of posts from Taureans (esp the females) about how great Cancers can be. I've never dated a Cancer and just wondered if I've missed out! What is so good about dating a Cancer?
Never dated a Scorp either, isn't this supposed to be a good, if intense match?
I've also read some Taureans saying a relationship with Pisceans can be hard, wondering if anyone has had experience of this as I feel that my relationship with my Pisces is slowly crumbling away to nothing.
cancers - are moody, emotionally needy, jealous, and possessive - they are also, sweet, romantic, stable, devoted, loyal, loving, have wonderful senses of humor, like food as much as a taurus, like to baby and be babied, love cuddling and are VERY affectionate...as you can see the good far out ways the "negative" which for many taurus wouldn't even be negative.
Scorpio - they are paranoid, possessive [in a creepy way] have bad tempers and can be extremely cruel, but yes the magnetism tends to be strong
pisces - nice guys.......do not like monogomy, for brief periods yes - but then they "swim away" for a while at least, then they come back, then they swim away, then they come back....and so on and so on.... don't seem to understand what the big deal is about being faithful to one person. Pisces motto: "if it feels good do it" plus they tend to have substance abuse issues
I totally agree that no one is exactly like their zodiac description, but I was just wanting to know what exactly cancers are like for a taurus as I've read about so many being involved with one.
angel, cancers sound lovely actually! One thing I have learnt about Pisces (and this was mentioned on the Pisces board as well) is that they expect you to change for them (and if you don't then you don't care about their feelings) but if you ask them to curtail their behaviour in anyway, they get ultra defensive and refuse, saying how much you've upset them. I've dated 2 Piseceans seriously and I never noted any unfaithfulness. One definitley had to use alcohol as a crutch and the other smokes like a chimney and has so many emotional issues I feel like a counsellor first, and gf second. That is taking it's toll along with him wanting me to change parts of my behaviour that I don't see a problem with. I feel we're just very different people and neither of us should change but move on to people who understand and appreciate our personalities, not attack them.
not saying yours is - but just noting that my ex pisces didn't show signs of being a cheater either - I had no idea he had another woman living with him ! we were together for over a year and for the last two months of our relationship he had the woman he was cheating on me with living with him. Then he tried to cheat on her with me....they broke up, and he cheated on his new girlfriend with the same one he cheated on me with....just goes around in circles.... and he wouldn't have gotten caught except for a series of unexpected incidents that backed him into a corner. All the pisces males I've known have been cheaters. So I'm just saying - they're pretty good at hiding it...until they WANT you to find out. But about the changing for them thing...yeah.... they want you to be perfect and love them just the way they are....
Personally if u want an intense relationship go for a scorp. they will swing ur world upside down (taurus girl dating scorp... hes drove me nuts... but we're normal now).
my first love was a cancer.... i still swoon when i see him these days, he still loves me and vice versa.. most amazing man in the world. bitter, but loving as all hell.
now for the fish boi... eh u can fall for them, but they're tooo far up in there heads for me. dreamers that never get anything done. great friends tho.
I totally understand how annoying the dreamy part of Pisces is - mine never, ever gets anything done, gets depressed about not doing it, and then gets angry and upset when I offer him practical advice because I'm not focussing on his emotional needs. It's tiring and an almost daily battle. We live together so it's gonna be even harder to make the break but I think it'll be for the best for us both.
I know my Pisces is a good liar, cos I am and we both share the same moon (gem), but he is not flirty at all. Not even when I first met him, he just doesn't understand how to do it, so if I flirt with him it feels like I'm a predator or something! It actually wouldn't surprise me if he did cheat, although he hardly ever goes out with his friends, he prefers to stay in. He once told me that if he met Angelina Jolie, if she didn't have a nice personality he wouldn't be interested!! Either he's got super-human abilities to resist or he's lying lol
The only cancer male I know is at work, and he's so shy, whenever he says hello he puts his head down! Quite sweet in a way, but other than that I never talk to him.
As a taurus I never had a bad thing to say about cancers. great friends and great partners. angelfish said it best so I wont bother repeating her. they are somewhat clingy but I gotta admit I liked the attention when she wasn't all paranoia.
Im gonna agree with phoenix and copper on the Pisces... they always get everything accept what they should be doing done. I never trust them as partners, they are not very much into monogamy but hey, if thats your thing then enjoy!
haven't had a scorpio yet but I hear they are nuts... in a good AND bad way!!!
I think if someone has got it in them to lie then they will do no matter what..Scorps are the most upfront and loyal faithful people you will meet..but yes they are also incredibly good liars..if we want you to see a certain side of us, then everything else will be fabricated..so it really does depend on the individual..
The pisces I am with openly admitted he has cheated once in the past..but he isn't the same person and that was a long time ago when he was young and impressionable..I have had it out with him and he does get upset saying I have to learn to trust him..he gives off an aura of a mature person although he's always laughing and joking around..If something/someone is immature he will say so..He is never out but prefers his home comfort (venus in taurus), spends a lot of time doing things for his family..if not for his mum and dad then his grandparents..he's a lazy ass...Every indiividual differs...he has a gemini rising which at times gives off the aloof and superficial aura..no offence to geminis..and thats where my problem starts..not being able to discuss anything meaningful without turning it into a joke and a playful argument..maybe thats not an issue at all..but every now and then its nice to have that deep and meaningful conversation..
I guess to sum it up its not what you're missing, it's what you are more interested in. either way all the signs you mentioned are water signs, known for there emotions. So either A)you've dated a lot of unemotional ppl, B)your looking for someone to be as loving and devoted as u are, C)looking for change.
Cancer's are typically the most linked sign to taurus. We're both loving, family oriented, and just friendly. I'd say best odds are with them, just because even tho they can get frustrating, they are wonderful ppl when as Zoo said 'aren't paranoid'. They tend to be very guarded and block things out a lot. My cancer ex once told me months ago 'i cant be with u out of fear'... me confused.. 'i dont know if youll reject me'. me outraged. I didn't see the point of being scared if you've yet to ask a question. they tend to try at all possablities to keep from getting hurt, even if they have to stay by themselves.
Scorps....thats an extremest relationship, if u wanna battle like an amazon i'd say go for it! it's a battle of the minds and opinions considering ur taking on ur polar opposite. i'm currently dating one, i'd say they're confusing at first, but if u ask them something and be straight forward you'll get an answer even if its not the one you're looking for. from my experience they tend to be quiet and reserved, very watchful and not exactly unpredictable but more suttle in approach. if ur not stuck in lalala land u can see through to there habits.
pisces... well every time i find a pisces they tend to be to emotional for my taste, and a little to on edge. i dont know about being liars, but what i do know is that they are far to passive. They let things happen to them and complain about it later, 'oh wooo was me'. they talk a lot but never seem to do anything, as well as waste a lot of time. like i said great for friends, but personally i never found them useful. no offense to any pisces, but my ex had a pisces mom... she was far too into our 'personal relationship' as far as knowing into your sexual history. I found that fairly disgusting for a mother and son to talk about who's they're gettest hits are...along with the fact tat she called me a whore when i went to hangout with some males friends.... as to say i am not allowed to have male friends.... actually don't take my pisces advice, now i remember why i dont go for them.
i assume you ment both aries and libra as your #2 and not an aries/libra cusp...
Aries are exciting and I would definitely go for another Aries, but i would probably be a bit more cautious second time around. they'll throw you in a loop and definitely know how to have a good time. I tend to clash with a few, friend, girlfriend and even family. Always in good fun however
As for libra, they are too damn clingy for my taste!!! she was awesome when we were flirting but as soon as we started dating she was ALWAYS AROUND!!! I know i said cancer are clingy too sometimes, but it was always in a good way. Libra have a tendency to pick the ideal time to get on my last nerve. Great friends tho, they are cute and sweet I must say... in portions... haha
But hey, at least we can agree on Leo right? hell I've had such great experiences with Leo that its actually a turn on to hear someone is a Leo.
No questions on the Leo's.... even tho they need a lot of attention, they will willingly worship you if you're worth it!
Aries will through you through a loop, they're somewhat on the insane part of life. definately a blast to hangout with and always something new to talk about, they make sliced bread seem interesting!
libra's... its up for debate, i love them and hate them. sometimes i get the clingy ones, something the absent ones. either way they're great at parties and i adore they're sense of style . i'd have to say if i wanted to be seen on the red carpet a libra would be a nice tag along. otherwise they can get on ur butt about dumb things and snap at you for even dumber things. i just hooked my best buddy (taurus) with a libra girl (my best female), best advice i gave him.... don't put up with any of her bs and always make things positive and make her laugh all the time. otherwise when shes mad... shes completely stubborn and untouchable. hate that.
cancers yea if u want someone to love and adore you the way a woman should be treated.... you'll be in heaven. but remember they are very fragile, sometimes to much.
I was with the Pisces the longest: yall already touched all those bases. Some of them are close to being bipolar and manic and they need ALOT of cheerleading and support before they get anything done.
Scorp...wow...it was intense. It was like finding the perfect balance of sparks and gasoline. With the perfect combo it was a warming flame, with the wrong it was an explosion..our balance was found in what is commonly known as "friendship".
Cancer...its been challenging but very rewarding.Its the most...hmmm trying relationship, but its also brought along the most growth in the shortest amount of time. Its like an introduction to adult relationships where we have to consider obligations and priorities and sensibility. Its not all romance and pleasantries.I like that tho, I really do.
But hey...whatever works for you. Because you're a taurus I think you'd find something rewarding with any of these 3 signs, but it takes the right person and not just the right sign to have a successful relationship
agreed! i once met a cancer who i thought was the dumbest most disturbing person on the planet, and yet i met one that stole my heart. met a pisces that was the sweetest and most charming gentlemen on the planet, met another that was a complete psycho! met a scorp and stayed great friends after having a fling, met another scorp and claimed him as mine!
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Never dated a Scorp either, isn't this supposed to be a good, if intense match?
I've also read some Taureans saying a relationship with Pisceans can be hard, wondering if anyone has had experience of this as I feel that my relationship with my Pisces is slowly crumbling away to nothing.