okay I have this taurus friend who i have never seen because he insists on being anonymous... He says and i quote "i stay in ghost mode but i'll come out the shadows for u soon" i dont understand him...we seem to be very close we talk about every and anything. He gets jealous when i use to talk about my bf (now ex bf) but he is still there for me like not all the time but when i need advice he would help me out and we would talk for hours then he would suddenly disappear for a day sometimes two days but he would come back and talk to me again.... sometimes i initiate the conversation once every blue moon he would initiate it.. I dont understand friends or what? I really appreciate his friendship because he is very good company and he keeps my mind off my problems. It seems as if he is undecided about whether he wants me as his friend or not.
Anonymous Taurus? Im confused

Be careful is my only advice.

Can't say until you people meet. However, from what you've posted regarding the last guy you were dating, it makes perfect sense for him to be angry.
I have had his name run through my government system here are no surprises. I have a few mutual friends with him they only seem to have good things to say about him. I dont want any type of relationship with this man...I just wondered if that's natural behavior... I dont think i ever want to be in another relationship with any taurus. This is just about friendship.
Posted by BikerCh1ckPosted by pixie242
okay I have this taurus friend who i have never seen because he insists on being anonymous... He says and i quote "i stay in ghost mode but i'll come out the shadows for u soon" i dont understand him...we seem to be very close we talk about every and anything. He gets jealous when i use to talk about my bf (now ex bf) but he is still there for me like not all the time but when i need advice he would help me out and we would talk for hours then he would suddenly disappear for a day sometimes two days but he would come back and talk to me again.... sometimes i initiate the conversation once every blue moon he would initiate it.. I dont understand friends or what? I really appreciate his friendship because he is very good company and he keeps my mind off my problems. It seems as if he is undecided about whether he wants me as his friend or not.
Is it an online friend?
Are you sure it is not your ex pretending to be someone else?
How do you know he is a taurus? What is your proof?
Are you sure he is not a stalker in disguise?click to expand
Yes he is an online friend but we have over 13 mutual friends, and i became friends with him through them....They trust him alot and he seems to be a respectable, intelligent man. We talk about everything. Our significant others..each other.. politics etc. we talked about sex a few times but thats it...we are just friends. He does not have any photos of himself up just photos of various sea creatures..Birthday May 3...I guess that makes him a taurus.. very mature taurus 1977. I dont keep many friends. So i value his friendship...I highly doubt he is my ex as i knew him before my ex... and I dont think he is a stalker.. He dont have much time for anything. He works alot and he has alot of women in his zone.
Posted by BikerCh1ckPosted by pixie242Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
pixie242...are you ok sweetie?
Yes i am okay. Thanks for the concern.
You make me feel worried too.click to expand
No need to worry about me..Im finding new ways to occupy my time.

I don't get the anonymous, you know his name and you have mutual friends together. How is he anonymous?
Posted by BeachBum
I don't get the anonymous, you know his name and you have mutual friends together. How is he anonymous?
although we have mutual friends none of them has seen him.. all of us connected through Facebook but we all know each other we just don't really know him. Like so he says his Facebook name is his real name but his email is under a different name. I have yet to find some who has seen him.....I don't want to over step my boundaries an ask his ex girlfriend for a photo n real name. There is a lot of mystery surrounding him. I hate suspense thats why this is difficult.

It's called catfishing....no mystery there. If this something to do just to keep yourself occupied so your not focusing on the ex, go for it, but if your really serious about wondering about this anonymous person, then you will be back on these boards pouring your heart out. I find it really hard to take this serious. I am really curious, how old are you?
Posted by BeachBum
It's called catfishing....no mystery there. If this something to do just to keep yourself occupied so your not focusing on the ex, go for it, but if your really serious about wondering about this anonymous person, then you will be back on these boards pouring your heart out. I find it really hard to take this serious. I am really curious, how old are you?
It is not that serious....This is only a friendship and i have known him before i knew my ex existed...I am surrounding myself with friends but not because of personal interest. This one guy sparked my curiousity because of how long he has kept up this act without slipping up once. I am having a Nancy Drew moment.... He is a mystery that i want to solve. I want to know and see who he is. I want to know why he act the way he does. I am not looking for a relationship. My heart is closed temporarily. I am 20.

Posted by pixie242Posted by BeachBum
I don't get the anonymous, you know his name and you have mutual friends together. How is he anonymous?
although we have mutual friends none of them has seen him.. all of us connected through Facebook but we all know each other we just don't really know him. Like so he says his Facebook name is his real name but his email is under a different name. I have yet to find some who has seen him.....I don't want to over step my boundaries an ask his ex girlfriend for a photo n real name. There is a lot of mystery surrounding him. I hate suspense thats why this is difficult.click to expand
BEHOLD THE 6-8 RELATIONSHIP IN ACTION!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by pixie242Posted by BeachBum
I don't get the anonymous, you know his name and you have mutual friends together. How is he anonymous?
although we have mutual friends none of them has seen him.. all of us connected through Facebook but we all know each other we just don't really know him. .click to expand
Wooooop woooop woooop WARNING! ! WARNING! !! Red Flag! Red flag! EVACUATE the premesis immediately! !! WOOOOP WOOOOOPWWOOOOOP WARNING!! WARNING! !

Posted by BeachBum
It's called catfishing....no mystery there. If this something to do just to keep yourself occupied so your not focusing on the ex, go for it, but if your really serious about wondering about this anonymous person, then you will be back on these boards pouring your heart out. I find it really hard to take this serious. I am really curious, how old are you?
Someone call Nieve please. .have him on standby

He is in a relationship
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