Just curious I have a rather large thread under cancer (I am a cancer) about being inlove with a Taurus gf who was a best friend first who left me...( I believe I turned our relationship into something horrible for her as I was hurting and attacking her and generally not believing she really loved me etc and I think totally smashed up the trust) but anyway......this question is not about me....but rather if any of you Taurus ladies out there left a man and then wether or not you ever decided to go back? if so what were the details.....what was the deciding factor that made you go back?
Pretty much what Bluelilac said. I've only gotten back with one person after we broke up that I was serious with. If it's just someone casual that I'm seeing, it could ebb and flow for awhile, but when I'm in a serious, monogamous relationship, I stick it out, but once I'm gone that's it. It's the same way with jobs. I've not ever gone back to a company I've left and everywhere I've worked they've always wanted me to come back at some point. What's done is done. I think it's because when we are in a relationship we can endure a lot and we do. So once we're done, we KNOW we've done all we can and that it's just not meant to be.
AMEN..ONCE WE ARE GONE WE ARE GONE...BEFORE WE LEAVE WE DO SOME HARD THINKING,CONTEMPLATING,AGONIZIZING ABOUT THE SITUATION,,AND ONCE WE GIVE OUR ALL AND KNOW WE HAVE DONE EVERYTHING WE CAN DO THAT IS IT.....SO I AGREE WITH ALL THAT HAS BEEN SAID...ONLY ADVICE I CAN GIVE IS TO APPEAL TO HER SENSES,WE LIKE MEN WHO KNOW WHAT THEY WANT,AND HAVE THE AMBITION TO KNOW HOW TO GET IT..I CAN SAY IF YOU ARE A SINGLE FATHER TAKING CARE OF BUSINESS THAT IS A GOOD QUALITY IN ITSELF..SO TAKE YOUR TIME AND BE PATIENT IF SHE HASNT SAID SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU THEN THERE IS HOPE..BECAUSE NORMALLY IF WE ARE NOT INTERESTED WE WILL TELL YOU...HAVE YOU TOLD HER DIRECTLY HOW U FEEL? IF NOT U SHOULD..WE DONT LIKE TO GUESS ABOUT HOW U FEEL..THAT WILL DELAY THINGS,WE WANT U TO BE DIRECT AND WE WANT U TO BE SURE..THAT WHY WE TAKE OUR TIME TO EXPRESS OURSELVES...GOOD LUCK I HOPE THIS HELPS....
she went to uni this morning....last night was the fair well she was happy and touchy feely and once or twice said things that she would have only said to me when going out.....like some friends made a reference togirl at the next table and I said she is far to tall for me thanks....Aimee turned to me and said not me I'm not to tall for you...then sort of realised how she said it.......spent teh evening putting her hand on my leg and even under the table kept pushing her leg into mine things like that....she wrote a fair well card that pretty much included all the fun times we had upto offically going out and then the couple of fun things after...nothing inbetween.....saying how we had been through so much and how glad she was after all this we were still talking as shoe wouldnt have been suprised if we werent anymore...I didnt want to destroy the happy evening so I wrote her a letter about how I felt adn I told her I will always love her in one way or another and how heart broken I was we didnt manage to work as a couple...she said atleast we tried.....so hopefully she reads my letter....I hope I can win her back...felt so much like the feelings are there but she is holding back...perhaps still afraid of the way I pushed her away....maybe it just wasnt time for us...or maybe she is being stubborn and doesnt think things can be different 2nd time around
once a taurus is done with you she could care less the only thing i do to my ex's is make sure i look better then there current they always beg to come back but once im through im through. now once i found a guy was cheatin on me and lying to me and making it seem like i was nothing to the other chick i will put him on blast only because he tried to make me look like a fool but he was the one texting and calling me
Just curious I have a rather large thread under cancer (I am a cancer) about being inlove with a Taurus gf who was a best friend first who left me...( I believe I turned our relationship into something horrible for her as I was hurting and attacking her and generally not believing she really loved me etc and I think totally smashed up the trust) but anyway......this question is not about me....but rather if any of you Taurus ladies out there left a man and then wether or not you ever decided to go back? if so what were the details.....what was the deciding factor that made you go back?