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Jun 12, 2008Comments: 2 · Posts: 4648 · Topics: 31
Well, lately over the past month or so, I've been feeling really crappy, and it's totally against my overall nature; however, I have noticed that at times in the past, I had anti-social moments that made me just go into my cave. I did it once during high school, once in college, and a maybe another time in my adult life. I still can cope -- go to work, take care of obligations that I've already accepted, etc, but I DO NOT want to add anything additional, and it takes all the charm I can muster up not to show how I'm feeling to my friends and family. I've been thinking about this from reading various comments on this board for the past year, as well as from people that know me personally, and the comments they make about me, and I know it's got to be because I am an Earth sign. Everyone depends on me to make everything alright, and to make them feel better. Now, I'm taking a step back and saying, ENOUGH! I'm tired of taking care of everybody, I have enough of my own stuff, and I don't bother them with it (well, maybe I bother my mom). Anyway, this long posts was just a rant of me kevetching! Anyway, just wanted to know if there were any other fellow Taureans who are relatively social creatures who crawl back into their dens and marinate for awhile?
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Nov 11, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 384 · Topics: 58
I do this at times too! There are certain times in my life when I don't feel like socialising or even really talking to people. I'm ok at work, but like you say USC, I just can't be bothered to make any extra plans to see friends and stuff.
I like the freedom of having no obligations to fulfill, I like being able to take the time to focus on myself for a while. And it's nice once I'm out of this frame of mind to start seeing everyone again, it's like a taking a rest, so I'm more enthusiastic once I'm back on form!
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Jun 12, 2008Comments: 2 · Posts: 4648 · Topics: 31
"For once it would be nice for someone to care about *my* needs and desires just as much as I care for theirs. But apparentely that's too much to ask!"
Can I get an AMEN!!!!! I am tired right now, but I definitely have some more I could add to this, but I am SO feeling that statement above!