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Mar 08, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 171 · Topics: 11
So for the first time in my life I have fallen for someone. This guy and I have gotten to know each other for about a month and a half. He's been great so far. We started out a little quickly, saying very sweet things to each other for the first two weeks until I smothered him too much and he backed off just a bit. I backed off a bit as well, but is still sometimes dropping a sweet thing here and there. Man this cancer is the answer to everything I've wanted in someone and more!
But I wanted to see if any of you have been or are with cancers on your opinions about them. I'm more particularly interested in what to do when they stop taking initiative, yet are responsive when you reach out to them. Partly to blame is me since from the getgo I've been the leader in conversations (damn taurus in my wanting to dominate everything). Wish me luck with this one because I plan to make us a couple!! Man he's using every inch of my patience and persistence, but it's been a fun ride so far!
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Oh and if you're interested in our charts we are:
5/10/1991
Sun Taurus
Moon Aries
Mercury Aries
Venus Cancer
Mars Cancer
7/13/1986
Sun Cancer
Moon Libra
Mercury Leo
Venus Virgo
Mars Capricorn
If you plug both of these birthdays into cafeastrology's love compatibility calculator, we get 100% ! Holy moly :p
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I have dated a Cancer.
It's not a bad pairing as long as both signs are evolved.
My advice...
KEEP COMMUNICATION LINES OPEN!
Both signs fear rejection, are very protective of themselves, 'iced' individuals out when they have felt slighted, can be quite passive-aggressive when it comes to expressing themselves emotionally.
I have a preference for Earth Signs, they just 'get' me. No real communication and understanding needed.
With a Cancer, a great deal of communication and understanding will be required.
They can be rather sweet, thoughtful and attentive though...
Enjoy the ride!
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@hotbeefy Sagittarius are right under Capricorns on my shit list lol They are fun to hang out with and talk to but the moment you both disagree on something, shit hits the fan because they overreact. If you don't agree with them they regard you as stupid! This is my personal experiences though so I'm not referring to all sags lol
Leos are like cancers at first, where you have to show lots of interest at first to gain them, except with leos you have to keep it going and they really don't reciprocate. Eventually I get tired of the imbalance. Cancer has been the closest to a soul mate.
Don't even get me started on Aries oooooh fuck!!
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Well I am a Taurus with Cancer rising female and I meet Cancers females alot. But the males are more different cause I have only met one in my entire life. I can't find them really. Lol just like they are closed off in their own space; just like Taurus in their own space. And once in awhile the peek out. That's when you find a cancer or Taurus once in blue moon..
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So if cancer females and Taurus female make good friends, then the males should be good too. Were similar but I am an earth sign and I need water to help grow. I don't need to much air or fire but will tolerate it..
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@hotbeefy i would say the order of what I consider good for me from my dating experiences follows:
Cancer
Aquarius
Libra
Virgo
Taurus
Pisces
Scorpio
Leo
Gemini
Sagittarius
Capricorn
Aries
@firstdecantauretc... Yeah I decided to put my cancer on the back burner for now. Hasn't initiated anything in a while and it's made me lose feeling special like he first did. I'm just going to focus on my life for now. Keep positive thoughts for me!
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I will keep positive thoughts for you...I guess love will find you not the other way around..
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@firstdecan thank you so much sweetie!! Light and love to you!
@infinite8
Thank you so much for the insight!! Yeah I can't undo all the things that I said. He was the one that actually asked the relationship questions from the getgo as far as wanting children, if down the line if I wouldn't mind if we were to be serious, if him being older wasn't an issue etc. so I'm trying to backtrack if I did or said anything wrong. I'm pretty sure he backed off once I really opened up to him and texted him on our 2nd week that I'd want for him to eventually be mine.
All I can do is just back off in hopes that he reaches out to me otherwise I'll continue feeling that I'm bothering him now. He already knows how I feel. I've reinforced it over and over again... Which probably played against me. I've thought of dating other people haha but I'd definitely only want a Cancer again. Such a magical connection!!
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I'm so happy for you! I never dated a Cancer before, but my mother is a cancer, and we get along so smoothly, we're like best friends. I've had cancers who have had crushes on me, but I never pursued them, but the connection was intense, they just always understood me and i always felt so comfortable around. One thing i know about cancers is that they are very sensitive, and sometimes shy, they are reserved because they are so afraid of getting hurt. When they feel like theyre risking their feelings too much, they hide back in their shell, but remember Taurus, patience is EVERYTHING, give them time and they will come out. But dont back off too much, for they will feel unloved. Cancers are complicated, but a very good fit for taurus.
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Taurus/Cancer. Blargen de bleh! ~throws cow poop~