Posted by jeane2 different people. That was a Taurus girl. I have a few people in my life
I had a feeling there was a recent topic about this.
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/do-taurus-men-6634638/
Is this the Taurus guy who was trying to make you jealous on Facebook by posting pics of him and his girlfriend?
Posted by jeaneSorry I mean, I don't post about 1 person on this forum. I have family, friends etc
I had a feeling there was a recent topic about this.
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/do-taurus-men-6634638/
Is this the Taurus guy who was trying to make you jealous on Facebook by posting pics of him and his girlfriend?
Posted by LibraLovesHimOk. It was a genuine question.Posted by jeane2 different people. That was a Taurus girl. I have a few people in my life
I had a feeling there was a recent topic about this.
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/do-taurus-men-6634638/
Is this the Taurus guy who was trying to make you jealous on Facebook by posting pics of him and his girlfriend?
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Posted by M143I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.
If your instinct says so then it is.
Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.
Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.
Posted by LibraLovesHimOk then tell it to him all your doubts. I do that with my bull. We dont allow these men treating us poorly or we will be the one to suffer.Posted by M143I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.
If your instinct says so then it is.
Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.
Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.click to expand
Posted by M143By these men do you mean Taurus in particular?? What do you mean by suffer?Posted by LibraLovesHimOk then tell it to him all your doubts. I do that with my bull. We dont allow these men treating us poorly or we will be the one to suffer.Posted by M143I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.
If your instinct says so then it is.
Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.
Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimYes I am referring taurus men. Taurus men are players you know. If you dont ask a lot of question and you are suspecting something is wrong then he will keep on doing it because you are just finePosted by M143By these men do you mean Taurus in particular?? What do you mean by suffer?Posted by LibraLovesHimOk then tell it to him all your doubts. I do that with my bull. We dont allow these men treating us poorly or we will be the one to suffer.Posted by M143I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.
If your instinct says so then it is.
Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.
Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.click to expand
Posted by M143Posted by LibraLovesHimYes I am referring taurus men. Taurus men are players you know. If you dont ask a lot of question and you are suspecting something is wrong then he will keep on doing it because you are just finePosted by M143By these men do you mean Taurus in particular?? What do you mean by suffer?Posted by LibraLovesHimOk then tell it to him all your doubts. I do that with my bull. We dont allow these men treating us poorly or we will be the one to suffer.Posted by M143I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.
If your instinct says so then it is.
Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.
Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.
And not doing something on it. Aggressive taurus isn't born yet they are slow in motion per se dxp members. You have to investigate.
So they're upfront players? How long have u been with Taurus?
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Posted by M143So they are upfront players? How long have u been with ur Taurus?Posted by LibraLovesHimOk then tell it to him all your doubts. I do that with my bull. We dont allow these men treating us poorly or we will be the one to suffer.Posted by M143I have said theres something about him doesn't sit right with me. He responded "tell me what it is because that's not fair on me" I guess I should have done this face to face to judge his reaction better.
If your instinct says so then it is.
Tell him directly in his face. He is hiding something. If he react then you are right. If he respond then you are wrong.
Reaction is a sign of guilt. Responding is a sign of genuinely cooperative manner.click to expand
Posted by earlorg16This is true..this a.s.s.h.o.l.e. bull I have. It was like marathon yet he had tons of bs outside.
we can be aggressive when we know who/what we want.
Posted by LibraLovesHimThats just your scorp ascendant talking.
It feels almost like he's been told/taught to behave like this. Player tactics of a different kind?
Posted by LadyNeptuneDoes this mean its bs or possibly correct?Posted by LibraLovesHimThats just your scorp ascendant talking.
It feels almost like he's been told/taught to behave like this. Player tactics of a different kind?click to expand
Posted by tizianiI'll feel this one out. Seeing him Sat I think.
It means you're not feeling him.
Posted by M143Eh, depends on the maturity level of the bull. There's being transparent and communicative, and then there's assumptions. I'll admit we're slow as hell, but if you talk to us openly, the mature ones won't hesitate to reveal their whereabouts. I for one, am no fan of games.Posted by earlorg16This is true..this a.s.s.h.o.l.e. bull I have. It was like marathon yet he had tons of bs outside.
we can be aggressive when we know who/what we want.
But still I go back. Bulls are slow when it comes in commitment.
They are fast and furious to the games.click to expand
Posted by earlorg16I think agressive is the wrong word. Determined!
we can be aggressive when we know who/what we want.
Posted by earlorg16Sounds intriguing! What's on offer from a committed Taurus guy?Posted by M143Eh, depends on the maturity level of the bull. There's being transparent and communicative, and then there's assumptions. I'll admit we're slow as hell, but if you talk to us openly, the mature ones won't hesitate to reveal their whereabouts. I for one, am no fan of games.Posted by earlorg16This is true..this a.s.s.h.o.l.e. bull I have. It was like marathon yet he had tons of bs outside.
we can be aggressive when we know who/what we want.
But still I go back. Bulls are slow when it comes in commitment.
They are fast and furious to the games.
Though you gotta admit, when they do commit though, be prepared for it.click to expand
Posted by jeaneYes yes, this is the better term!Posted by earlorg16I think agressive is the wrong word. Determined!
we can be aggressive when we know who/what we want.click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimAn offer to commit? What do you mean exactly?
Sounds intriguing! What's on offer from a committed Taurus guy?
Posted by jeanePosted by earlorg16I think agressive is the wrong word. Determined!
we can be aggressive when we know who/what we want.click to expand
Posted by earlorg16Yep. Like I have to sacrifice my ego. And him wanting me like a typical wife - just home.Posted by M143Eh, depends on the maturity level of the bull. There's being transparent and communicative, and then there's assumptions. I'll admit we're slow as hell, but if you talk to us openly, the mature ones won't hesitate to reveal their whereabouts. I for one, am no fan of games.Posted by earlorg16This is true..this a.s.s.h.o.l.e. bull I have. It was like marathon yet he had tons of bs outside.
we can be aggressive when we know who/what we want.
But still I go back. Bulls are slow when it comes in commitment.
They are fast and furious to the games.
Though you gotta admit, when they do commit though, be prepared for it.click to expand
Posted by bumboklattWhoa. No one has to carry my relationship. If anything us libras will do anything to compromise to keep it together as long as it is worth it.
you OP being a Libra probably look for a man to initiate and carry a relationship
Posted by bumboklattPosted by jeanekeeping it together is carrying it? isnt it?Posted by bumboklattWhoa. No one has to carry my relationship. If anything us libras will do anything to compromise to keep it together as long as it is worth it.
you OP being a Libra probably look for a man to initiate and carry a relationship
my point was just that- that masculine signs (Libra) like to meet you halfway so that the other person initiates their part and keeps up with a fair and balanced relationship (working together)
whereas a feminine sign(Taurus) expects more of a full commitment (payment up front)
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Posted by earlorg16What to expect from a committed Taurus. It seems like at some point there will become a drastic change.Posted by LibraLovesHimAn offer to commit? What do you mean exactly?
Sounds intriguing! What's on offer from a committed Taurus guy?click to expand
Posted by BG2They are a bit of an enigma for me (the males) so just trying to get some insight.
OP, you feel iffy towards tauruses in general, from what I've observed.
Posted by bumboklattI agree with this..."gift and curse"Posted by jeanepfft are you kidding? I know some Libras well (my GF is a Libra) you guys go all out to keep relationships goingPosted by bumboklattPosted by jeanekeeping it together is carrying it? isnt it?Posted by bumboklattWhoa. No one has to carry my relationship. If anything us libras will do anything to compromise to keep it together as long as it is worth it.
you OP being a Libra probably look for a man to initiate and carry a relationship
my point was just that- that masculine signs (Libra) like to meet you halfway so that the other person initiates their part and keeps up with a fair and balanced relationship (working together)
whereas a feminine sign(Taurus) expects more of a full commitment (payment up front)
different style s
I see. I understood carrying it to be a Libra will be a burden on the relationship expecting the other to do all the work.
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Posted by TishToshDidn't mean to like your comment. Meant to quote it. I'm sorry you went through that. Just reminds me of my ex.. He seemed to play this part for everyone else. But he pursued me aggressively.. I should have known. He ended up being a nightmare of a person who was one person behind closed doors and another in public.
I've only known one Taurus man that I'm aware of...my step dad and he was aggressive and verbally and physically abusive both towards myself, my siblings and my mother. He had this great mask He wore for the rest of the world. I don't think I've ever dated one. But if you feel like something is off...investigate.
Posted by LibraLovesHimYou'll know when a Taurus wants to commit to you. They'll flat out ask you, but you have to see how we act around you over time. Are we physically there with you? Are we expressing ourselves to you? Are we making an effort to learn about you? Are we taking care of you? It's pretty easy to spot the BS from a Taurus I think, but again, open dialogue is really important. If you're unsure about what's going on with your Taurus, you can ask him what's up.Posted by earlorg16What to expect from a committed Taurus. It seems like at some point there will become a drastic change.Posted by LibraLovesHimAn offer to commit? What do you mean exactly?
Sounds intriguing! What's on offer from a committed Taurus guy?click to expand
Posted by earlorg16Posted by LibraLovesHimYou'll know when a Taurus wants to commit to you. They'll flat out ask you, but you have to see how we act around you over time. Are we physically there with you? Are we expressing ourselves to you? Are we making an effort to learn about you? Are we taking care of you? It's pretty easy to spot the BS from a Taurus I think, but again, open dialogue is really important. If you're unsure about what's going on with your Taurus, you can ask him what's up.Posted by earlorg16What to expect from a committed Taurus. It seems like at some point there will become a drastic change.Posted by LibraLovesHimAn offer to commit? What do you mean exactly?
Sounds intriguing! What's on offer from a committed Taurus guy?
When I want to commit to someone, it usually takes some time. But watch my actions to you. Am I texting/calling/reaching out to you? When you reach out to me am I responding to you? As the stereotype goes, we like to surround ourselves with beauty, whether it be people or within our homes or our possessions. We come off indirectly like hoarders in a way. I tend to load up on my options, in all forms in life, and sort through it all over time (trimming the fat, moving on from people), because over time I learn how people perceive or treat me. I learn what things I like and dislike about people or my possessions. Once that's established, I'm determined to hang on to those things that matter to me for as long as possible. This applies to love, what I bring to my next home, what I allow into my family and personal life, etc. When a Taurus wants to commit to you, it really is the ultimate sign of respect, loyalty, and love.
We're just alert, and try to be as sure as we can be about something before committing. We have the most patience out of all the signs, so why not use that to prevent further harm?click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimI don't know why you want us to make the decision for you. You're not feeling it. You're not convinced. You're not impressed. Ok. Well cut him loose then and let's stop talking about this OK?
So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"
I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?
Posted by jeaneI'm chatting-as if you are my friends, but maybe there are some things id rather not discuss with my "real life" friends. If you dont like my posts or wish not to respond-DON'T. Thank you for your input thus far.Posted by LibraLovesHimI don't know why you want us to make the decision for you. You're not feeling it. You're not convinced. You're not impressed. Ok. Well cut him loose then and let's stop talking about this OK?
So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"
I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimIt's not a matter of liking your posts, as your "friends" I'm telling you that you know what you want to do and constantly repeating it is not going to get you any further. It's like a person who complains they are overweight but won't go on a diet. After a while it's put the donut down or let's stop talking about it.Posted by jeaneI'm chatting-as if you are my friends, but maybe there are some things id rather not discuss with my "real life" friends. If you dont like my posts or wish not to respond-DON'T. Thank you for your input thus far.Posted by LibraLovesHimI don't know why you want us to make the decision for you. You're not feeling it. You're not convinced. You're not impressed. Ok. Well cut him loose then and let's stop talking about this OK?
So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"
I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?click to expand
Posted by jeaneGod you are a little know it all aren't you madam. This is being conversational. I want to talk about it, people like the last poster also had input, and wanted to chat. Not EVERYTHING has to be about the eventual outcome-that will come inevitably dear. What are you looking for???Posted by LibraLovesHimIt's not a matter of liking your posts, as your "friends" I'm telling you that you know what you want to do and constantly repeating it is not going to get you any further. It's like a person who complains they are overweight but won't go on a diet. After a while it's put the donut down or let's stop talking about it.Posted by jeaneI'm chatting-as if you are my friends, but maybe there are some things id rather not discuss with my "real life" friends. If you dont like my posts or wish not to respond-DON'T. Thank you for your input thus far.Posted by LibraLovesHimI don't know why you want us to make the decision for you. You're not feeling it. You're not convinced. You're not impressed. Ok. Well cut him loose then and let's stop talking about this OK?
So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"
I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?
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Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by jeaneGod you are a little know it all aren't you madam. This is being conversational. I want to talk about it, people like the last poster also had input, and wanted to chat. Not EVERYTHING has to be about the eventual outcome-that will come inevitably dear. What are you looking for???Posted by LibraLovesHimIt's not a matter of liking your posts, as your "friends" I'm telling you that you know what you want to do and constantly repeating it is not going to get you any further. It's like a person who complains they are overweight but won't go on a diet. After a while it's put the donut down or let's stop talking about it.Posted by jeaneI'm chatting-as if you are my friends, but maybe there are some things id rather not discuss with my "real life" friends. If you dont like my posts or wish not to respond-DON'T. Thank you for your input thus far.Posted by LibraLovesHimI don't know why you want us to make the decision for you. You're not feeling it. You're not convinced. You're not impressed. Ok. Well cut him loose then and let's stop talking about this OK?
So he was going to see me today (i'm a 4hr drive from him) I messaged him yesterday afternoon 4pm to confirm and he responded at 12:45am "will you definitely see me if I do, spend the night with me?" He's constantly wanting me to spend the night with him?! What's he not getting. Today he tells me that his friends-a married couple invited him over for dinner and he "doesn't want to let him down again" If I want to "spend the night with him and no it doesn't mean sex then he can come after and see me"
I'm just not impressed. Am I wrong?
You're no further on from the first post of this thread.click to expand