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Oct 27, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 207 · Topics: 29
I have been told by friends and family that i can be intimidating! When i have asked them why, they say its because i am so independent and know what i want and go and get it...(?)...If i have something to say, i say it and if i have something to do i do it! I have never been one to sit around waiting for others to do things for me and seem to get everything out of life not through luck but by sheer determination. I set myself goals and reach for them...so my question is, why is this so intimidating, especially to men? would it better for me to play the damsel-in-distress and act as though i was helpless?
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
VL, I haven't been told I'm intimidating but I have been told that I am very indepedent. I'm like you in the sense that if I set my mind to something, I get it done. If something is taking too long by someone else, I step in and get it done! I'm patient but I get to the point that if nothing is getting done, then I make sure it gets done.
Don't play the damsel in distress role...men will take advantage of that in a heartbeat. And who would you rather have, someone who wants a wimpering damsel or someone who can take care of herself in the absence of a man?
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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
Yes they are. Their bluntness make them intimidating to others. But it's also fun to beat them in their own department. Yes they can be beaten.
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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
Why you look intimidating to men? I guess it's not about intimidation in the first place. I guess it's about losing grace under the pressure.
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
" I like taurus females good cooks"
wonders what happened? perhaps she should have been born a gemini lol
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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
"no not really most of them are laidback aries woman are intmidating if anything."
I disagree. Aries women are not intimidating at all. They hardly can keep their tempers going on. Kinda their tempers continue for 1.23213 seconds. But Taurus women and Scorpio women are persistent.
A strong independent woman is intimidating. But at the same time different people find different situations as a whole intimidating. You probably conduct your life very differently than the people/friends who say you are intimidating. Sometimes people will say things out of jealousy or they just want to be like you. If intimidation mean paying bills, getting an education, raising children & not borrowing money then by all means be proud.
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
"Maybe its our ability to see right through your BS "
Amen, sister!
"If intimidation mean paying bills, getting an education, raising children & not borrowing money then by all means be proud."
I second that!
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May 03, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4058 · Topics: 601
Our independence is HUGE too, you're right!
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Sep 12, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 633 · Topics: 59
they're pretty fun and lively to me... in my experience, and easygoing
We are fun to be around, I don't know about other Taureans, but I am loyal and demand respect and give it. Venus rules us so even the Taureans that think they aren't sexy are found sexy by others. We aren't needy either. Sometimes, men feel that if you don't need them they have nothing else to offer. As a Taurus, we are NOT looking for someone to take care of us. So, if a man has no self confidence then he need not bother. I'm loaded with it and need someone that can stand up and handle his business. My friends say I'm to choosy so I have to be nice. But, the decisions I've made in my life is why I am where I am now at 27.
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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
Atlantic Myst
It seems like you have totally lost your head.
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Apr 04, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 474 · Topics: 53
UMmmm eerrrrrr,ummmmm errrrr, what can i say ummm. Nope never intimidated by taurus never will. WHy? That part of them never got to me only one taurus did SEEm intimidating but all BARK but no bite. I can relate a story but it will be tooooo longggg.