Aries Female Taurus Male help ugh lol
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by brklyn16 on Sunday, April 20, 2014 and has 10 replies.
Okay i have been through every page on the taurus forum. needless to say im obsessed with astrology! Im an aries female (19) and hes a taurus male (21). We started off as friends with benefits, we are both busy with work and school and other interests so we both said we couldnt be in a relationship. He is definitely slow we have been talking for over 3 months and have only had sex twice. For me thats not enough and it definitely doesnt help that he nuts so quickly. I let him hit me up to hang because the first couple times i would ask him he would be busy. 2 weeks and his actions started to make me think he wanted more than fwb....ex--asking me to a work event exclusively meeting his friends, invites me to the bar, and then ignores me the entire time. for me i dont have time to worry about what hes doing so i do my thing. He starts showing me more effort so i reciprocate, but then he starts ignoring me. When i confronted him about his actions he argued that i was trying to get into a relationship with him and that this is more than a hook up to me....like seriously?? i dont invite him to the bar i dont invite him to my work events....i didnt even understand why he did. I told him straight up that i dont even know if i want to keep seeing him anymore. we talk through crap and he then expected that id come to his party....i said i dont think its a good idea. he came over to pick up some money from my roommate and he asks me how my birthday party was and i told him and then said have a good birthday. He says he cares about me and he has showed me signs that he likes me but on the flip side he has so many admirers and yes i am a little jealous and it ts just draining to not get a lil pissed when he tells me how he ignores all these girls (i guess nice to "reassure" me but is till get a tinge feeling of anger)like i could care less about all the other girls. we started this thing off based on sex and now its like hes turning it into something else....he says sometimes he doesnt just want sex and im just like then what the f*** is this lol. Thennnn we talk about satisfaction and i say im not that satisfied (sexually) and it causes me to worry/fein for it he says hes not either but he doesnt worry about it so i said then what are we doing here? and his response is "haha nervermind" i dont push him but im just like wateverr!!!!!! other info----so far from what i know he has potential to be "worth" it to me but i NEVER date people so actions that show "advanceme
"advancement" tend to make me back off. and sorry if this post was annoying i just felt like some geniuses would know whats up!
You gave a good bit iof details, but please provide clarity on what it is you are asking or need insight on.
Sounds to me like you sort of like the guy, otherwise you'd know exactly what you need to say to him if you only wanted it to be FWB (and probably wouldn't have read the entire Taurus forum). Just be honest with your self and with him. Aries/Taurus isn't a great combo IMO but good luck.
i guess how should i proceed? Just let him go and when he decides to hit me up hang? its just hard for me not to have a definite answer on where we stand because i hold certain actions back if i just have hook up buddy versus a romance lover type deal. And i told him that i feel rejected when i put some effort in and he sometimes doesnt reciprocate and he says hes just busy. every time he says hes busy i dont talk to him. It all feels like a game and i HATE games. The other thing i dont realize is that i dont like to hold back if i feel like doing something i want to do it right then and there and i think that makes him nervous
he already knows i like him and i think he likes me but just his "games" always makes me question why im even here....we really dont need each other
how you should proceed depends on what you want. If you want to pursue a real relationship with him because you actually like him, then just verbalize your feelings, and ask him to let you know where he stands on it. You are both playing a game - you're in this FWB thing, both probably wanting more than that - and you are trying to feel one another out, while protecting yourselves. Of course you don't know where you stand. You're also both really young and may not even have the current circumstances, real desire, or character to deal with a real committed relationship right now.
i could see myself (aries ideals again) in a relationship with him but of course im not ina right point in my life for that neither is he. i just have to learn to be patient but should i just sit back and let him do everything?
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Sounds to me like you sort of like the guy, otherwise you'd know exactly what you need to say to him if you only wanted it to be FWB (and probably wouldn't have read the entire Taurus forum). Just be honest with your self and with him. Aries/Taurus isn't a great combo IMO but good luck.
lol.... I was married to one for 17 years.... in this relationship The Aries is always the Dom! They like are straight to the point, but have a hard time dealing with our brass tax way of speaking. I would say he wants more and doesnt know how to tell you/handle his emtions toward you! If you wanna be the KING, the taurus is a great one to rule!
sorry Taurines..........
Posted by EmotionalAriesPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Sounds to me like you sort of like the guy, otherwise you'd know exactly what you need to say to him if you only wanted it to be FWB (and probably wouldn't have read the entire Taurus forum). Just be honest with your self and with him. Aries/Taurus isn't a great combo IMO but good luck.
So if the Bull can??t talk and handle his emotions what can one do? It??s a total impasse
You can??t push he??ll dig in his heels and if you give up you didn??t care enough. Damned if you do damned if you don??t??_why does it have to be all his way or nothing? It??s too muchclick to expand
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