Asked Taurus guy to pick best friend (who hates me for no reason) or me. He picked her.

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Posted by TaurusGal92
typical dumb skank...... telling guys to pick between her and his friend cuz shes so desperate to have him to herself :/

yes its over. nd he picked her. so now ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back.

I think I'm seeing a double-moral here. You said "ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back". However, you are crawling back to your bf after getting frisky with gem 😱

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Posted by TaurusGal92
typical dumb skank...... telling guys to pick between her and his friend cuz shes so desperate to have him to herself :/

yes its over. nd he picked her. so now ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back.

Lol, those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. You couldn't pick between friends so you took cream pies from both and don't know who the father is. You are a fool.

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typical dumb skank...... telling guys to pick between her and his friend cuz shes so desperate to have him to herself :/

yes its over. nd he picked her. so now ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back.

Lol, those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. You couldn't pick between friends so you took cream pies from both and don't know who the father is. You are a fool.

did i say this topic was about me???? stop trying to make it about me and bring up my past when me and every1 in my life is moving on from it...... :/ move on. this is about the girl who made the topic, NOT ME!

Quit being foolish. You are not in the position to be calling anyone a skank.

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typical dumb skank...... telling guys to pick between her and his friend cuz shes so desperate to have him to herself :/

yes its over. nd he picked her. so now ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back.

Lol, those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. You couldn't pick between friends so you took cream pies from both and don't know who the father is. You are a fool.

did i say this topic was about me???? stop trying to make it about me and bring up my past when me and every1 in my life is moving on from it...... :/ move on. this is about the girl who made the topic, NOT ME!

Quit being foolish. You are not in the position to be calling anyone a skank.

oh so ur judging someone on a mistake when the girl who made this topic knew exactly what she was doing?? oh ok.... thats fare :/

You are so fucking dense. How can you even compare what you did to what she has done? If she's a skank, then you are a mega skank. That's only a FAIR judgement.
Reflect on your life choices, before you dare come on here and tell this girl that she is a skank.

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@TaurusGal92 cookiemonster you knew exactly what you were doing, not like you fell over and landed on his best friends dick. A mistake is an action in which you regret, so yeaaaah I think she made a mistake. How can you even compare a girlfriends concerns about her boyfriend and a Female friend with you sleeping with your boyfriends best friend? f**k outta here!

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typical dumb skank...... telling guys to pick between her and his friend cuz shes so desperate to have him to herself :/

yes its over. nd he picked her. so now ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back.

Lol, those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. You couldn't pick between friends so you took cream pies from both and don't know who the father is. You are a fool.

did i say this topic was about me???? stop trying to make it about me and bring up my past when me and every1 in my life is moving on from it...... :/ move on. this is about the girl who made the topic, NOT ME!

Quit being foolish. You are not in the position to be calling anyone a skank.

oh so ur judging someone on a mistake when the girl who made this topic knew exactly what she was doing?? oh ok.... thats fare :/

You are so fucking dense. How can you even compare what you did to what she has done? If she's a skank, then you are a mega skank. That's only a FAIR judgement.
Reflect on your life choices, before you dare come on here and tell this girl that she is a skank.

oh well i just noticed ur a libra..... well that explains everything...

Any excuse not to be accountable . I'm a libra and you are a jackass.

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typical dumb skank...... telling guys to pick between her and his friend cuz shes so desperate to have him to herself :/

yes its over. nd he picked her. so now ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back.

Lol, those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. You couldn't pick between friends so you took cream pies from both and don't know who the father is. You are a fool.

did i say this topic was about me???? stop trying to make it about me and bring up my past when me and every1 in my life is moving on from it...... :/ move on. this is about the girl who made the topic, NOT ME!

Quit being foolish. You are not in the position to be calling anyone a skank.

oh so ur judging someone on a mistake when the girl who made this topic knew exactly what she was doing?? oh ok.... thats fare :/

You are so fucking dense. How can you even compare what you did to what she has done? If she's a skank, then you are a mega skank. That's only a FAIR judgement.
Reflect on your life choices, before you dare come on here and tell this girl that she is a skank.

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Posted by LollyWater
@TaurusGal92 cookiemonster you knew exactly what you were doing, not like you fell over and landed on his best friends dick. A mistake is an action in which you regret, so yeaaaah I think she made a mistake. How can you even compare a girlfriends concerns about her boyfriend and a Female friend with you sleeping with your boyfriends best friend? f**k outta here!

judging me.... accusing me of lying... slandering me without knowing the situation....

BLOCKED!!!

Just delete your own account, who would've wanted to read your pathetic post anyway.

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typical dumb skank...... telling guys to pick between her and his friend cuz shes so desperate to have him to herself :/

yes its over. nd he picked her. so now ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back.

Lol, those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. You couldn't pick between friends so you took cream pies from both and don't know who the father is. You are a fool.

did i say this topic was about me???? stop trying to make it about me and bring up my past when me and every1 in my life is moving on from it...... :/ move on. this is about the girl who made the topic, NOT ME!

Quit being foolish. You are not in the position to be calling anyone a skank.

oh so ur judging someone on a mistake when the girl who made this topic knew exactly what she was doing?? oh ok.... thats fare :/

You are so fucking dense. How can you even compare what you did to what she has done? If she's a skank, then you are a mega skank. That's only a FAIR judgement.
Reflect on your life choices, before you dare come on here and tell this girl that she is a skank.

"I'm a libra and you are a jackass"

/dead

They say we can't make decisions but when the gavel comes down, it goes all the way down

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Posted by TaurusGal92
typical dumb skank...... telling guys to pick between her and his friend cuz shes so desperate to have him to herself :/

yes its over. nd he picked her. so now ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back.

Posted by TaurusGal92
typical dumb skank...... telling guys to pick between her and his friend cuz shes so desperate to have him to herself :/

yes its over. nd he picked her. so now ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back.

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Posted by LollyWater
@TaurusGal92 cookiemonster you knew exactly what you were doing, not like you fell over and landed on his best friends dick. A mistake is an action in which you regret, so yeaaaah I think she made a mistake. How can you even compare a girlfriends concerns about her boyfriend and a Female friend with you sleeping with your boyfriends best friend? f**k outta here!

but guys, don't you remember how it happened?

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I'm pretty sure the OP is wondering wtf people are coming in here making swift judgments about her actions when she actually did indeed avoid making a major mistake.

Posted by K_1018
I don't think anyone really responds well to ultimatums. But if that's his decision, and now you know where you stand. You dodged a bullet. Hopefully you can move on soon enough.

Posted by TaurusGal92
typical dumb skank...... telling guys to pick between her and his friend cuz shes so desperate to have him to herself :/

yes its over. nd he picked her. so now ur gnna look dumb when u go crawling back.

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Posted by Arielle83
Maybe it's busyeyes.

It is!!! Any Gemini candle. All the same people. Has busy been posting since this chick arrived?!

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Maybe it's busyeyes.

It is!!! Any Gemini candle. All the same people. Has busy been posting since this chick arrived?!

I think i have seen her post. Is it the woman who keeps posting heavily filtered selfies, claims to be 50 and refers to her men as "crushes"?

I don't follow her posts but yes! The pics are heavily filtered so we can't find th source. And she posts just like Gemini candle did... and just like this "Taurus woman"... The frequency in which she replies to comments I mean. She likes trolling as a Taurus for some reason.

And Gemini candle always says "BLOCKED" in all caps but never really blocks you.

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Posted by Arielle83
Maybe it's busyeyes.

It is!!! Any Gemini candle. All the same people. Has busy been posting since this chick arrived?!

I think i have seen her post. Is it the woman who keeps posting heavily filtered selfies, claims to be 50 and refers to her men as "crushes"?

I don't follow her posts but yes! The pics are heavily filtered so we can't find th source. And she posts just like Gemini candle did... and just like this "Taurus woman"... The frequency in which she replies to comments I mean. She likes trolling as a Taurus for some reason.

And Gemini candle always says "BLOCKED" in all caps but never really blocks you.

Who is gemini candle? Anyway, i remember this busyeyes and i dont think i would want her opinion here.

She's a Gemini that ran amok here on Dxp before I even came to Dxp. She has a very gnarly rep here. I forget the details but she was the most hated here at one point. And Gemini candle is busyeyes and Taurus gal... This Taurus woman and busy fit her MO. Everyone needs a hobby I guess.

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Posted by Arielle83
Maybe it's busyeyes.

It is!!! Any Gemini candle. All the same people. Has busy been posting since this chick arrived?!

I think i have seen her post. Is it the woman who keeps posting heavily filtered selfies, claims to be 50 and refers to her men as "crushes"?

I don't follow her posts but yes! The pics are heavily filtered so we can't find th source. And she posts just like Gemini candle did... and just like this "Taurus woman"... The frequency in which she replies to comments I mean. She likes trolling as a Taurus for some reason.

And Gemini candle always says "BLOCKED" in all caps but never really blocks you.

Who is gemini candle? Anyway, i remember this busyeyes and i dont think i would want her opinion here.

Well You've got it babe , whether you like it or not:

GLAD TO SEE I AM STILL FAMOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by LentoBull91
The thing is were become indebted to the souls of those who help us grow and who are their for us in our time of need if he knew her before you and they have some deep history for what ever reasons then it's hard to let that person go especially if someone is trying to force us to with some kind of ultimatum we bond and attached apart of ourselves with that person so leaving that said person is not really in our deck of cards unless we decided that we want to leave that person not what some one else decision is. I've been given that ultimatum with this girl who was like my sister from an X gf and I told her I would not stop talking to her because I had become attached to her because she had always been there for me and that she would have to understand and except that if she expected our relationship to last in the end she got over it and our relationship continued.

Posted by scorpx3
He had a relationship with you because he cared about you. That's why you had the "label" or "public stamp of approval" and his other female friend didn't. Why would you make an unnecessary competition between you and his friend?

Anyway, it sounds like it is over. Let it be. If he wants you back, he'll come.

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The thing is were become indebted to the souls of those who help us grow and who are their for us in our time of need if he knew her before you and they have some deep history for what ever reasons then it's hard to let that person go especially if someone is trying to force us to with some kind of ultimatum we bond and attached apart of ourselves with that person so leaving that said person is not really in our deck of cards unless we decided that we want to leave that person not what some one else decision is. I've been given that ultimatum with this girl who was like my sister from an X gf and I told her I would not stop talking to her because I had become attached to her because she had always been there for me and that she would have to understand and except that if she expected our relationship to last in the end she got over it and our relationship continued.

Agreed.

Not to be disrespectful to Bloop. But I think the Taurus is the one who dodged a bullet.

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He had a relationship with you because he cared about you. That's why you had the "label" or "public stamp of approval" and his other female friend didn't. Why would you make an unnecessary competition between you and his friend?

Anyway, it sounds like it is over. Let it be. If he wants you back, he'll come.

Yeah. He made a choice. We all do at some point in oue lives.

You never answered my question.

The problem isn't with him. Please don't take this offensively but it's with you.

Why did you have to ask him to choose between you and another person? Has he cheated? Has he given you reason to make you think he's cheating? Are they doing things you're uncomfortable with, and if you are uncomfortable with them did you begin by addressing the issue and waiting to see him resolve them?

...I think the absolute last thing you want to do is ask someone to pick between you and someone else. If there is solid evidence and a claim from him that he has cheated (claim from him, meaning he has apologized for it), and he continues to pursue this other person despite your address of the issue, then I understand why you may ask. But even then the answer seems clear, and asking is once again unnecessary.

Since none of that is the case, there is some deep-rooted insecurity within you that needs to be resolved. And again I mean no offense, just want to help.

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The thing is were become indebted to the souls of those who help us grow and who are their for us in our time of need if he knew her before you and they have some deep history for what ever reasons then it's hard to let that person go especially if someone is trying to force us to with some kind of ultimatum we bond and attached apart of ourselves with that person so leaving that said person is not really in our deck of cards unless we decided that we want to leave that person not what some one else decision is. I've been given that ultimatum with this girl who was like my sister from an X gf and I told her I would not stop talking to her because I had become attached to her because she had always been there for me and that she would have to understand and except that if she expected our relationship to last in the end she got over it and our relationship continued.

Agreed.

Not to be disrespectful to Bloop. But I think the Taurus is the one who dodged a bullet.

From.a wife to be's perspective:

He was best friends with this girl. He listens to her all the time. What i did was to ask him make a sacrifice for me and us. That sacrifice would give me an assurity that my future was secure and i was married to a guy who would pick me and my future child everytime , no matter what scarifice he has to make. Isnt that what a husband must do?
But he proved that he wouldnt pick me in face of conflict (whatever that may be). I did dodge a bullet.

Imagine me at the altar or married and him having to face a conflict and him leaving me?

This perspective is selfish.

Think about him.

And think about his friend.

There aren't many people in the world who are as fortunate to have such a good friend that their friend would rush to them in the case of an emergency and whatnot, even while during a big event like a wedding and such.
I would be proud to call a man like him, my man. I would be so, so proud to have a lover in my life who is so in-tune and sensitive and protective of his other friends.

I understand your perspective entirely. But you've left out many other perspectives, which lead my feelings to disharmonize with how you feel.

Most of your claims are fabrications of your imagination. He did nothing wrong.

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Posted by UmiSays
i think u did the right thing if his best friend was intruding in the relationship i dont see why you brining it up was a bad idea. do you think you had to turn to an ultimatum? us bulls we easily walk away from that. you cannot force us to do anything. literally. we move at our own pace.
whats ur sun sign OP?

Posted by BG2
You asked him to pick between someone who he sees as family. I'm the same way. My male friends (actually the gender doesn't matter) are more than just friends, they are family.
Family comes first (established vs one that isn't yet).
You ask me to choose between my family and you...it isn't even a matter of choosing someone else over you anymore. It's a matter of not choosing you at all.

He left you in the face of conflict...you forced his hand. Or tried to. Has his friend done that to him?
You showed lack of faith and trust in him. Has she done that to him? You showed an unwillingness to deal with the situation - reach some sort of common ground between you and his friend, even if the relationship is an uneasy one, as long as there is some kind of respect - and asked him to just drop her.

And bringing a future marriage or future family into this, like this, wouldn't have created a solid and trusting relationship. What it shows, is that you would ask him to cut everything for you that doesn't sit well with you, instead of working with him. it's actually downright manipulative.

We all make sacrifices....but there are some that shouldn't be made and shouldn't even be brought on the table.

Sorry, but that's the way I see it.

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What did his best friend say about you? Specifically.

Posted by scorpx3
...you claim you felt as if he was just not that into you and yet you were on the verge of getting married? Hm...

Well, from woman to woman: as a woman, you should be incredibly strong and extremely independent. You shouldn't need a man to incessantly demonstrate his desire for you; it's already there if he's with you. Just give your relationship more passion, more understanding, more of a connection and the rest falls into place. But, if every time you're together you have to question if you're together, there's no point in being together - very simply put. See it from his side, too. Maybe he thought all you were worried about was the label and your status on his "pedestal", when you were missing out on what matters most: the bond between you two.

To each her own, but this is my take. It's very personal, so I hope you understand.

Posted by scorpx3
Lastly, YOU need to make YOURSELF feel secured. NO ONE on this earth will EVER be able to do that FOR YOU.
Once you feel secure with yourself, trusting others will follow more easily and naturally. You do not feel secure with yourself, and you're projecting your weaknesses onto him.

Sorry, but I thought the emphasis was very necessary.

Anyway, to make a long story short and to answer your question, I do think it's over and since you were adamant about breaking it off, just stick with it, let go and let God.

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You asked him to pick between someone who he sees as family. I'm the same way. My male friends (actually the gender doesn't matter) are more than just friends, they are family.
Family comes first (established vs one that isn't yet).
You ask me to choose between my family and you...it isn't even a matter of choosing someone else over you anymore. It's a matter of not choosing you at all.

He left you in the face of conflict...you forced his hand. Or tried to. Has his friend done that to him?
You showed lack of faith and trust in him. Has she done that to him? You showed an unwillingness to deal with the situation - reach some sort of common ground between you and his friend, even if the relationship is an uneasy one, as long as there is some kind of respect - and asked him to just drop her.

And bringing a future marriage or future family into this, like this, wouldn't have created a solid and trusting relationship. What it shows, is that you would ask him to cut everything for you that doesn't sit well with you, instead of working with him. it's actually downright manipulative.

We all make sacrifices....but there are some that shouldn't be made and shouldn't even be brought on the table.

Sorry, but that's the way I see it.

I have made similar sacrifices for him.

Like?

I'm not doubting you. I'm just trying to understand Your actions more.

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Maybe it's busyeyes.

It is!!! Any Gemini candle. All the same people. Has busy been posting since this chick arrived?!

If so, then that sounds like a very aggressive one. Plus, she always rewinding about herself.

And if you remember her so clearly, then was she also the one who dislikes Libra that much of calling them fake to please with others?
Do you even remember her real chart?

Naw I don't know much just that busyeyes is a hypocrite and casts shade on females all the time.

Yeah hates libras.

Merghh bitch wrote a thread that get hefty ass left, but then keeps lurking and random comments like a loser.

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Posted by Arielle83
Maybe it's busyeyes.

It is!!! Any Gemini candle. All the same people. Has busy been posting since this chick arrived?!

If so, then that sounds like a very aggressive one. Plus, she always rewinding about herself.

And if you remember her so clearly, then was she also the one who dislikes Libra that much of calling them fake to please with others?
Do you even remember her real chart?

Naw I don't know much just that busyeyes is a hypocrite and casts shade on females all the time.

Yeah hates libras.

Merghh bitch wrote a thread that get hefty ass left, but then keeps lurking and random comments like a loser.

Well she sue seems happy for being "famous" here. Just went through her comment on this thread.

Yeah Leo moon troll.

Also her reaction to u giving a Taurus an ultimatum was way too personal.

She's just a dickhead that checks the toilet before she takes a seat at a restaurant and demands respect from men who avoid her cockbreath.

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Posted by Arielle83
Also she loves calling young women skanks.

Posted by Bloop
I broke up.

Is it over?