bad communicator?

Posted by 2N3R
I "talk" way more on the internet than I do in real life. unless I'm discussing something tht matters to me........ in my case, it's usually quite difficult to talk to the woman I like until I feel comfortable, which can only be achieved by talking to her. Ironic, no?

Posted by robyn808
I don't understand why this confuses you. You're second guessing his interest because he communicates differently when he's not with you? Sounds like your insecurities.
I honestly don't put the same amount of value on communication that takes place without physical presences. Its just not the same kind of experience, but rather a cheep substitute. If I try to make the most of it, if I really care and that's the only option I have. But I still don't pretend that I'm feeling the same connection with that person.
I life 1,300 miles a way from my family. And I can talk to them, but I don't bond with them, sure I can I can figure out a bunch of reason why... Taurus interact with all their senses blah blah blah... but the bottom line is that it doesn't feel the same, I cant feel that person, I can't fully relate to what they are expressing. I'm limited and can't give it my full attention.
Sounds like there is nothing wrong with his priorities, the way you presented this and yours are a bit off. Does he like you? does he not like you? fuck if I know... by why does it even matter, you like him, you like the time you spend with him... why worry yourself with a bunch of question the probably don't even matter right now?

Posted by robyn808
I have been on the receiving end of this behavior with another bull. But I can't deny that I don't do the same things to give could give other people the same type of impression.
But if your really questioning if he likes you or not I'd say that you don't even really know him that well. And your not even sure if you really like him. Yeah you like him well enough to want to get to know him more. But this sounds more like a fear of rejection. You think he does, but your not trusting your instincts, and you fear that your wrong. But so what if your wrong? its not like its the day before your wedding. there have been no promises made, your not counting on each other or owe the other anything.
You can take that fear way by just realizing, "it really doesn't matter if he doesn't like me." nothing bad will happen if he doesn't like you.
I was in this situation with another bull in the beginning. We talked and texted but really made few plans to meet up, and there was always a reason. I'm pretty blunt. I told him, "Hey I like you, you say that you like me.. but for whatever reason idk, this just isn't happening, so I don't want to continue believing that its gonna happen." And yeah at that point he did something about it, and corrected it. But it really didn't matter if I was saying or doing the right thing for him or not, it was about saying and doing the right thing for me. I expected that to be our last conversation I excepted it, and was ready to move on.
Stop making yourself crazy, do whats best for you. If you really feel like its a problem, and your not getting what you want out of it, be upfront, give him the opportunity to know that.
And what is the problem with you telling him I like you, I think your hot? What is the worst that's going to happen? he doesn't reciprocate? Ok, so what? You know how many times that hasn't worked for me? 0 unless you count that one guy in high school, but I don't count that one because I had my friend do it. But I was sure she fucked it up, so I decided I needed to start doing it for myself from then on.
And guys want to know you think they're hot just as much as girls do. So ijs.

Posted by bkbella86
I noticed this as well with taurus men but doesnt bother me because I am quite short winded myself when it comes to text..I hate the phone period unless im using apps or playing games on it. I dont think it means much because when in person the convo is endless.

Posted by filipinoprince
I am tickled to death by sexting virgos. idk y. no sign is more willing to tell me what they are wearing.

Posted by bkbella86
one thing I noticed too tho is they will text right back or pick up right away if you do decide to contact them. Also Taurus men do liked to be pursued and chased.