Between love and friendship

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by hera on Wednesday, April 2, 2014 and has 4 replies.
hi, i just broke up with a taurus man, after a two year relationship...the situation is this...the attraction between us lasted for the first couple of month, ant than he became cold...I simply tought its his nature and kept going on, being understandable, trying to talk to him...but he didn't want to explain anything...after a year I moved in with him, not something we both wanted but i had no choice...it was only going to be for a few weeks...but it prolonged ... i felt there was something wrong with him, he showed no affection...but i stayed...than a few days ago he told me it is over couse he feel nothing for me ... at first i was shocked, but than i realised i have loved him as a friend and not a lover...i moved out
my question is: can we be friends after this..there was no fight between us...just a reasonable conversation...he has always been a great friend and support for me..and i for him...i simply don't want to loose him as a friend...and i miss him so, so much...
Text him and say ???Hi there stranger. How??s life been treating you? Just because we don??t share pillows don??t mean you gotta get ghost on sistah. Lol??
Make him laugh. They like to smile. If you didn??t cheat, or harm his heart in anyway he should welcome the friendship. I would still be weary of mentioning other guys around them because once theirs always theirs even if they don??t want you in that way, so just don??t even go there to be on the safe side. But I don??t see why not
thanx for a quick answer smile we have common friends, so we will see each other often, but i still want him as my friend, i miss him, his two dogs, and all the laughter we had... its still too fresh, but i will text him smile thanx
Absolutely reconnect as friends. Taurus guys make really good friends. Not always the best dating/loving situation, but it sounds like you were both better friends than lovers. I agree, be witty and funny he will respond to that. And yeah, keep the "other guy" stuff to yourself. Just because you aren't together that way, doesn't mean he won't get jealous

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