That helped me a lot Binota....
It's possible....but each time he appears I just don't have a will...everything just comes back. But maybe you are right....time heals....so they say.
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Aug 22, 2013Comments: 35 · Posts: 2533 · Topics: 19
I only see 2 options. Well, the 3rd one would be fighting for what you want, but I don't see that playing out successfully. Dignity intact and all. It's not impossible, but considering the circumstances, one of them being the (I assume big) age difference, it wouldn't even be a practical way to go. For either of you.
So here's #1. You can cross your romance off and stay "friends", or even better (because you said feelings from your side are involved), cross him entierly. And #2, if he happens to be a cheating son of a gun and you're sexually attracted to him, keep the affair going and just call him up when you want, nonchalantly. If you'll do #2, reclaim the possession of that head of yours first. Loose the feels. Actually, you'll have to do that either way. You said yourself you were aware that you two ending up together was impossible, so why the disappointment? You obviously had some expectations despite the reality you said you were aware of from the get go.
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Jan 02, 2014Comments: 24 · Posts: 1381 · Topics: 110
What is your husband's sign? Inquiring minds want to know.
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Jun 20, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 3847 · Topics: 1
I was going to stop reading at 'virtual love affair' but decided to stop at 'I'm married'.
Easha, my husband is Cancer. We have been married for 15 years. Would appreciate your comments.
AgentP...we all have our situations in life. I am aware of the situation. I could even say ridiculous as this is the way I feel... but the pain is there and I really believe that falling in love can happen at any time in any situation, if the right situation and persom meet.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
You're so young. Lol I wish I could go back and change a few things.
Keep you shit together and if you're having problems now this would be a learning experience..and just communication and honesty go along way. And actions speak louder than words.
You have so much ahead of you.. School, job, a place of your own, you're own car, and money of course. Before a guy comes waltzing and messing things up
Hi FirstDecan! Didn't quite get ir :-)
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Sep 17, 2014Comments: 22 · Posts: 8048 · Topics: 36
i'm confused. you're in love but it is a virtual relationship where he lives far away, is in a relationship with someone else and is 15 years your junior.
you said you're lovers, have you met? how often do you meet?
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
I can be a scatterbrain when I read something like this. I was just saying have your shit together and be independent. D
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Aug 12, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 4771 · Topics: 30
Call it a strong intuition, but something tells me your visit to the Taurus Board wasn't inquisition, or closure, but perhaps, a prelude to a potential possibility with this Taurus man. The subtle references about the Bull not being in love with his girlfriend, the introvert and confused comment.
Not passing judgement.
May be it's the risk taking Sag in you that's telling you to take a leap of faith.
But this action would be selfish, to a man who desires to marry and have children.
Think long and hard about this!
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Jun 24, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 259 · Topics: 37
All that time and energy you are putting into daydreaming about what could be, you should be putting into your marriage. If it still doesn't work then get a divorce and move on. Let that Taurus go, he's only a distraction from your unhappy marriage. Life is too short to live miserable but put yourself in your husband's shoes and at least try to make it work. What if he had an emotional affair with a much younger woman? How would that make you feel?
Thank you again Theatrum. You see things clearly. It will prob be #3.