Bored?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Lakeslady330 on Sunday, February 24, 2019 and has 23 replies.
My Taurus man calls me literally every day. In a year, there's been maybe 7 days he was unable and he'd let me know what was up. Sometimes I worry that he'll get bored with me by calling me so much. Sometimes we're on the phone for a short bit, sometimes hours. Just depends on our day. Should I worry or not? Should I not answer the phone once in a while to pace him? We're currently long distance but hopefully that will improve in the next 6-8 months. I just don't want him to get bored.
so your solution is to start playing games and lying to him?
Posted by Lakeslady330We love bored, we love consistency cause it gives us security. If you mess with that we
My Taurus man calls me literally every day. In a year, there's been maybe 7 days he was unable and he'd let me know what was up. Sometimes I worry that he'll get bored with me by calling me so much. Sometimes we're on the phone for a short bit, sometimes hours. Just depends on our day. Should I worry or not? Should I not answer the phone once in a while to pace him? We're currently long distance but hopefully that will improve in the next 6-8 months. I just don't want him to get bored.
can freak out. Find something ese to spice it up. Maybe a letter, another text etc. Just dont mess with the calls
Posted by jeane"Everything is good. Let's add some chaos to the pot as a preventive measure against chaos. "
so your solution is to start playing games and lying to him?
Just fucking shoot me somebody, put me out of my misery !
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by jeane"Everything is good. Let's add some chaos to the pot as a preventive measure against chaos. "
so your solution is to start playing games and lying to him?
Just fucking shoot me somebody, put me out of my misery !click to expand
it's crazy.
i'm hoping that when the op hears what she is thinking said out loud she'll realise the ridiculousness of it.
op, i would also encourage you to read a little into what john gottman calls emotional bids.
Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth.
Do you not see all the women whining on here because their men don’t respond? Appreciate what you have and enjoy it.
Do you not see all the women whining on here because their men don’t respond? Appreciate what you have and enjoy it.
Posted by ParkourlerThank you for the reasonable answer 😊 gotchaPosted by Lakeslady330We love bored, we love consistency cause it gives us security. If you mess with that we
My Taurus man calls me literally every day. In a year, there's been maybe 7 days he was unable and he'd let me know what was up. Sometimes I worry that he'll get bored with me by calling me so much. Sometimes we're on the phone for a short bit, sometimes hours. Just depends on our day. Should I worry or not? Should I not answer the phone once in a while to pace him? We're currently long distance but hopefully that will improve in the next 6-8 months. I just don't want him to get bored.
can freak out. Find something ese to spice it up. Maybe a letter, another text etc. Just dont mess with the callsclick to expand
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsNoted. Thank you.
He wouldn’t be calling so often if he didn’t want to. He’s not gonna get bored.
Posted by truecapNoted. I do appreciate it, I'm blown away by his consistency. Thank you.
Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth.
Do you not see all the women whining on here because their men don’t respond? Appreciate what you have and enjoy it.
Posted by jeaneRight 🤦🤦🤦
so your solution is to start playing games and lying to him?
Don't start to sabotage something that seems to be going well. Keep those insecurities at bay. Relax, breathe and enjoy your relationship.
Posted by enfant_terrible😂😂😂😂Posted by jeane"Everything is good. Let's add some chaos to the pot as a preventive measure against chaos. "
so your solution is to start playing games and lying to him?
Just fucking shoot me somebody, put me out of my misery !click to expand
Flipping the swtich...are you projecting your feelings...are you afriad youuuu might get bored?🙃
Posted by Boots1313No, I'm not bored by him at all whatsoever. I always look forward to hearing from him and most of the time we have enjoyable conversations. Our conversations wax & wane, sometimes it's lively and sometimes it's quiet. I worry when it wanes that he'll get bored and look for other more inspiring conversationalist but he seems to always come back to me because we do vibe well together. It's just my virgo brain over analyzing and worrying about something that apparently isn't an issue.
Flipping the swtich...are you projecting your feelings...are you afriad youuuu might get bored?🙃
Posted by Lakeslady330Yup non issue.Posted by Boots1313No, I'm not bored by him at all whatsoever. I always look forward to hearing from him and most of the time we have enjoyable conversations. Our conversations wax & wane, sometimes it's lively and sometimes it's quiet. I worry when it wanes that he'll get bored and look for other more inspiring conversationalist but he seems to always come back to me because we do vibe well together. It's just my virgo brain over analyzing and worrying about something that apparently isn't an issue.
Flipping the swtich...are you projecting your feelings...are you afriad youuuu might get bored?🙃click to expand
But i feel you, i have virgo moon, i over-think and analyze also. I wish i could make a job oit of made up scenarios...wait, i couls write plays/movies. Eureka!
When my bull and i are being "boring" (sitting on the couch doing nothing) is when we are closest. We laugh and talk, banter and giggle.
It's when we can really connect. He calls it having an appreciation and understanding of the simple things. Creature comforts.
It's when we can really connect. He calls it having an appreciation and understanding of the simple things. Creature comforts.
yes ffs, stop making something out of nothing and be grateful for what you have
Posted by Boots1313Omg yes... When we're together we just relax & enjoy each other's company. So much giggling, talking & silliness. It's my most favorite thing with him.
When my bull and i are being "boring" (sitting on the couch doing nothing) is when we are closest. We laugh and talk, banter and giggle.
It's when we can really connect. He calls it having an appreciation and understanding of the simple things. Creature comforts.
Count yourself lucky. I am dating a Taurus man and he calls me everyday and even mentioned that he wished I would call more. This is how he shows he cares for you. He needs that closeness. Just enjoy eachother....dont over think things and let it flow. My taurus rising loves a consistant man.
Posted by EveryOunceThank you. I let go of my over thinking in this area because of the great feedback I received here. He's so consistent and I love it. I adore my Taurus ❤️
Count yourself lucky. I am dating a Taurus man and he calls me everyday and even mentioned that he wished I would call more. This is how he shows he cares for you. He needs that closeness. Just enjoy eachother....dont over think things and let it flow. My taurus rising loves a consistant man.
Posted by Boots1313I second this. It's the same for my Taurus fella. He loves having his boring times. Especially if I'm being boring with him! He needs a lot of down time and sitting doing nothing is perfect for him. He's helped me appreciate those simple things and creature comforts more 😁
When my bull and i are being "boring" (sitting on the couch doing nothing) is when we are closest. We laugh and talk, banter and giggle.
It's when we can really connect. He calls it having an appreciation and understanding of the simple things. Creature comforts.
I'm currently working from home so I factor in time to make my Taurus his lunches to take to work so he doesn't have to do it at the weekends. Honestly, that guy would eat the same thing day in and day out, and he would NEVER get bored of it!
It's usually made in batches of 30 meals a time, sometimes 60 meals. It would be 30 Thai green curry or if I'm mixing it up a bit I'll do half green and half red. With pasta. As it's cheaper. Although sometimes with that microwave rice stuff he likes. He's not keen on reheating cooked rice.
His variations to this are mince bolognese with pasta, more recently it's been Tom Yum curry... With pasta... But only because he'd put a blob of Tom yum paste (he loves that stuff) with his curry so I just ended up making it into a curry.
These are the things he likes to eat for his lunches especially during the winter. It's his choice. I have varied it, with success, to include sausage in bolognese sauce, sausage sandwiches, chicken with salad (during summer) and also other meats with salad such as cooked burgers and sausages or minted kebabs for the summer.
Ultimately, if I did two types of curry for winter, and salad with two types of meat for summer... He'd be as happy as a boring bull in an equally boring field...
Fortunately, he loves his food (so do I) and he eats all types of food from anywhere in the world (except for olives).
This is just how he is. He really looks forward to his lunches everyday and loves that I make them for him.
Don't knock your fella for wanting to call you every day. If you were game playing, you'd soon be back here and wondering why he wasn't calling you. Then there would be threads asking 'why did my Taurus dissappear???'
It's usually made in batches of 30 meals a time, sometimes 60 meals. It would be 30 Thai green curry or if I'm mixing it up a bit I'll do half green and half red. With pasta. As it's cheaper. Although sometimes with that microwave rice stuff he likes. He's not keen on reheating cooked rice.
His variations to this are mince bolognese with pasta, more recently it's been Tom Yum curry... With pasta... But only because he'd put a blob of Tom yum paste (he loves that stuff) with his curry so I just ended up making it into a curry.
These are the things he likes to eat for his lunches especially during the winter. It's his choice. I have varied it, with success, to include sausage in bolognese sauce, sausage sandwiches, chicken with salad (during summer) and also other meats with salad such as cooked burgers and sausages or minted kebabs for the summer.
Ultimately, if I did two types of curry for winter, and salad with two types of meat for summer... He'd be as happy as a boring bull in an equally boring field...
Fortunately, he loves his food (so do I) and he eats all types of food from anywhere in the world (except for olives).
This is just how he is. He really looks forward to his lunches everyday and loves that I make them for him.
Don't knock your fella for wanting to call you every day. If you were game playing, you'd soon be back here and wondering why he wasn't calling you. Then there would be threads asking 'why did my Taurus dissappear???'
If you are enjoying his attention do not mess with it! Just enjoy the ride and security. Stay communicative and let him know what you do and do not like, don't play games, do not change behaviours and habits assuming they will go along with it without talking about it first because Taurus's hate change, especially when we don't know what the heck is going on, and we will freak out internally and leave you in the dust.
lool just why?? keep that rhymes all go well no need to drama
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