Bye Bye Cappy and Hello Virgo
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by SensualTaurus on Sunday, August 6, 2006 and has 29 replies.
Just updating my brat taurus pack...I moved on. I'm back to my roots of being "chased". I met a Virgo man last night...and I had a blast...and now I'm curious if anyone has input on Virgo men? I guess I can go post over there too, but I'm more comfortable on the Taurus board.
My run ins with Virgo Men have been like two ends of the totem pole; and depends on their age. The older Virgo was very communicative and the younger was out for a piece of a $ $ .
The Virgo is sweet, and isn't scared to be himself around me. The cappy would let go for a second then realize "oh shit, I just let her see that" and run off into the closet. Way too frustrating to me. So I'm excited about the Virgo
I am in a similar situation where I was chasing a Cappy male. The problem here was that I was chasing him. I dont like chasing anyone. I need to be chased. I just need to feel and see that there is some sort of interest. Mind you, I DO respond. For me its like a game of tennis. You make a move, I make a move back, you make a move and so on. With the cap, i would make a move, and I could see he was interested, but he never did enough to make me really feel secure in 'chasing' him. It was tedious. He seemed so scared and worried all of the time. It was a turn off. Im a very patient person, but seriously, he just needed to be the man...
Soon after I started seeing a Virgo. Conversation was great and he is a very earthy and intellectual individual. But, in essence he doesnt really act like a virgo. He acts like a Gemini. He has to have a Sag or Gemini in one of his sub-ruling planets that is throwing everything off. He is just so up and going. Always travelling, not scared to take risks. VERY spontaneous, and flighty. The good thing in this is that it did give me an opposite, though extreme, other end compared to the cappy situation. I was being chased. And, he wasnt scared to express himself. It was a real exchange of info. Nevertheless, Im not too crazy about this particular virgo.
Deep down, I prefer the Capricorn... I secretly do love his calm exterior, and career-driven self. His voice was like butter.... *sighs* I dont know, I guess Im just hooked that he never really revealed much to me, the desire to know more that still has me attracted. Plus, he was just so mature for his age... of course.
The only thing that turned me off is that I have to pry at him like he's a coconut. It was frustrating.
Soon after I started seeing a Virgo. Conversation was great and he is a very earthy and intellectual individual. But, in essence he doesnt really act like a virgo. He acts like a Gemini. He has to have a Sag or Gemini in one of his sub-ruling planets that is throwing everything off. He is just so up and going. Always travelling, not scared to take risks. VERY spontaneous, and flighty. The good thing in this is that it did give me an opposite, though extreme, other end compared to the cappy situation. I was being chased. And, he wasnt scared to express himself. It was a real exchange of info. Nevertheless, Im not too crazy about this particular virgo.
Deep down, I prefer the Capricorn... I secretly do love his calm exterior, and career-driven self. His voice was like butter.... *sighs* I dont know, I guess Im just hooked that he never really revealed much to me, the desire to know more that still has me attracted. Plus, he was just so mature for his age... of course.
The only thing that turned me off is that I have to pry at him like he's a coconut. It was frustrating.
wow ladies, three taurus all with cap men somewhere on the radar. Doesn't it kind of feel good to know we are not totally alone? When my cappy started pulling away and acting all weird I was totally freaked out. As you ladies know the Taurus woman always gets her man, and when the man has a taste of a taurus he wants to stick around....BUT not the cappy, he turns all rigid and frightened and holes himself away from hurt and pain by either working, drinking or watching ridiculous amounts of TV.
Admit it ladies, cappies are alluring, mysterious men, with deep eyes, a gentle nature, and a lust that just doesn't quit. Can they give us everything we want? NO, but who can?
Admit it ladies, cappies are alluring, mysterious men, with deep eyes, a gentle nature, and a lust that just doesn't quit. Can they give us everything we want? NO, but who can?
OH you hit the nail VT! If only the cappy would hit the ball back!!! I wish I could see him again, but I don't want to feel like I'm throwing myself at him. And I won't. I have self respect, and it takes two in a relationship! The score was always 40-love in our tennis match. I scored and he didn't. It seemed like he wanted to...but he walked out in the midddle of the game. So what am I to do except move on. The virgo isn't anything like the Cappy. He's easier to read, and he's funny. He makes me feel special. He has a cute accent cause he's from NY, and at least I know he'll hit the ball back.
But just like you, I secretly prefer the hard working cappy that gives his all to his business. I'm not mad at him, I just wanted so bad to look into his eyes and tell him that he is safe with me. I like him for him, for the silly dance moves, for the way he fidgets his pen when he wants to kiss me, for the way treats others, for the way he grins when he's tipsy, for his dumb text messages during the day. But he was too scared of letting me look too far. I often wondered if there was another woman, maybe there was...
ps..I also thought his voice was sexy...made me melt
But just like you, I secretly prefer the hard working cappy that gives his all to his business. I'm not mad at him, I just wanted so bad to look into his eyes and tell him that he is safe with me. I like him for him, for the silly dance moves, for the way he fidgets his pen when he wants to kiss me, for the way treats others, for the way he grins when he's tipsy, for his dumb text messages during the day. But he was too scared of letting me look too far. I often wondered if there was another woman, maybe there was...
ps..I also thought his voice was sexy...made me melt
SensualTaurus, me and you are so eye-to-eye on this.
I'd think about the Cap at times, and do get tempted to just call him up. I, too, hate the idea of 'throwing myself' to him and risk being turned down. I tell my friends all the time, "I refuse to give a man time in my thoughts. I cant chase a guy." But this Cap has left a mark somewhere within me. Its so frustrating now that Im thinking about it again. Its like, "Does he even think about ME the way I am thinking about HIM?" You see, Im already mentally stressed, and he isnt even around me.
Bittertaurus: "Its the Same here. I just feel as if the cappy has so many layers to him. There is definetly something about these cap men that makes u go thru sh% $ t for them. They make u do all the Analysing, worrying and wondering-enuf to drive u mad.And u still wonder."
YOU SAID IT! Two hours after we'd conversate, I'd sit back and analyse every single thing that happened. I'd think "should I have said that? No, I shouldnt have... wait, yes, that was a good thing! But why was he staring at me like that? Ooooohh... I was about to meeellllt in his glare!!! Wait, was it a sexual glare?!!! I think it was! *dances* Yay! He likes meee! Wait, so then, why didnt he say much? He is scared, I know it. But how can he be, he seems so confident? Its like after everything was said and done, I would need to decode the whole entire conversation to make sure we were both on the same page. I tend to drive myself crazy going over the past over and over and over again. Its sad, but, its how I cope, I guess. I just cant forget anything...
But I'll admit, I did mess up. Nobody told me this, me being naive, I would talk of him and my feelings to people, and he didnt like that AT ALL! But what annoyed me, was that HE NEVER TOLD ME HE DIDNT LIKE THAT! I was ecstatic expressing myself, and my feelings. Come to find out as I read later on, Caps are VERY private people. Especially when it comes to romance. Boy, was he pissed off. I couldnt figure out why! I would have stopped but, like I said, he never told me to, nor did he express his feelings! I messed up with him. So Im kinda angry with myself. And Im the type of person to look back at a moment in my past and want to run and hide in shame and regret. I regret that.
Eh... whatever, crap happens...
I'd think about the Cap at times, and do get tempted to just call him up. I, too, hate the idea of 'throwing myself' to him and risk being turned down. I tell my friends all the time, "I refuse to give a man time in my thoughts. I cant chase a guy." But this Cap has left a mark somewhere within me. Its so frustrating now that Im thinking about it again. Its like, "Does he even think about ME the way I am thinking about HIM?" You see, Im already mentally stressed, and he isnt even around me.
Bittertaurus: "Its the Same here. I just feel as if the cappy has so many layers to him. There is definetly something about these cap men that makes u go thru sh% $ t for them. They make u do all the Analysing, worrying and wondering-enuf to drive u mad.And u still wonder."
YOU SAID IT! Two hours after we'd conversate, I'd sit back and analyse every single thing that happened. I'd think "should I have said that? No, I shouldnt have... wait, yes, that was a good thing! But why was he staring at me like that? Ooooohh... I was about to meeellllt in his glare!!! Wait, was it a sexual glare?!!! I think it was! *dances* Yay! He likes meee! Wait, so then, why didnt he say much? He is scared, I know it. But how can he be, he seems so confident? Its like after everything was said and done, I would need to decode the whole entire conversation to make sure we were both on the same page. I tend to drive myself crazy going over the past over and over and over again. Its sad, but, its how I cope, I guess. I just cant forget anything...
But I'll admit, I did mess up. Nobody told me this, me being naive, I would talk of him and my feelings to people, and he didnt like that AT ALL! But what annoyed me, was that HE NEVER TOLD ME HE DIDNT LIKE THAT! I was ecstatic expressing myself, and my feelings. Come to find out as I read later on, Caps are VERY private people. Especially when it comes to romance. Boy, was he pissed off. I couldnt figure out why! I would have stopped but, like I said, he never told me to, nor did he express his feelings! I messed up with him. So Im kinda angry with myself. And Im the type of person to look back at a moment in my past and want to run and hide in shame and regret. I regret that.
Eh... whatever, crap happens...
rotflmao
Amen sister. I disected our last meeting together and said the same exact thing you did..."wait...is he scared? How could he be scared if he is so confident in every other aspect of his life????" I ended up on this board cause of him...I was just trying to understand his non-actions.
SO what has Dr. SensualTaurus (or psycho Sensual Taurus) concluded: I've got big issues. First, I'm not really genuinely interested in Mr. Virgo. Nope, I am not going to lead the poor guy on just because he's giving me attention. Thats not fair to the guy. Its not right.
Second, I'm gonna stop overanalyzing the Cap Dude because he's caused too much havic in my mind. The funny thing about that guy is that I almost lost my self-respect for moments, trinkets of time with a man that possibly never existed. By that I mean, I saw potential but he never really went to that level. SO how can I be sad over something that never really happened? (thats when I start getting mad at myself and questioning my mentality).
Lastly, I declare solitude.
Amen sister. I disected our last meeting together and said the same exact thing you did..."wait...is he scared? How could he be scared if he is so confident in every other aspect of his life????" I ended up on this board cause of him...I was just trying to understand his non-actions.
SO what has Dr. SensualTaurus (or psycho Sensual Taurus) concluded: I've got big issues. First, I'm not really genuinely interested in Mr. Virgo. Nope, I am not going to lead the poor guy on just because he's giving me attention. Thats not fair to the guy. Its not right.
Second, I'm gonna stop overanalyzing the Cap Dude because he's caused too much havic in my mind. The funny thing about that guy is that I almost lost my self-respect for moments, trinkets of time with a man that possibly never existed. By that I mean, I saw potential but he never really went to that level. SO how can I be sad over something that never really happened? (thats when I start getting mad at myself and questioning my mentality).
Lastly, I declare solitude.
Yes... solitude beats out pain and stress anyday. It takes a real strong person to do it too...
You know whats funny? Im here because of the Cap too... *guilts* I was looking for cap male qualities. Sadly, Ive resorted to such tactics in order to read him.
Bottom line, do whatever you feel right. If the virgo man is good, then, maybe you should pursue it. I dont want us to keep you in the past.
You know whats funny? Im here because of the Cap too... *guilts* I was looking for cap male qualities. Sadly, Ive resorted to such tactics in order to read him.
Bottom line, do whatever you feel right. If the virgo man is good, then, maybe you should pursue it. I dont want us to keep you in the past.
ST, Vt and Me Bt
Gawd, are we ladies related or are the cap men we know related to each other. If u ladies might have noticed all their qualities are so similar. The cap guy is such a suave lady killer and the best part is that he pretends to be completely unaware of his cool qualities.
But here is something that Sensualtaurus should do-Follow ur heart and if u see any possibilty of getting serious with ur new virgo guy-then go for it. I say this coz we taureans can get stuck in the happy times of the past and then the cap guy will be the person haunting our thots the most. And its quite horrible being in that condition ask me I am still suffering doing the decoding of this elusive cappy. Its as if he showed me this amazing trailor and now I am waiting for the actual movie(read our life story together) to start and the cappy's vanished, leaving me with the popcorn.
Gawd, are we ladies related or are the cap men we know related to each other. If u ladies might have noticed all their qualities are so similar. The cap guy is such a suave lady killer and the best part is that he pretends to be completely unaware of his cool qualities.
But here is something that Sensualtaurus should do-Follow ur heart and if u see any possibilty of getting serious with ur new virgo guy-then go for it. I say this coz we taureans can get stuck in the happy times of the past and then the cap guy will be the person haunting our thots the most. And its quite horrible being in that condition ask me I am still suffering doing the decoding of this elusive cappy. Its as if he showed me this amazing trailor and now I am waiting for the actual movie(read our life story together) to start and the cappy's vanished, leaving me with the popcorn.
*claps*
BT, "Its as if he showed me this amazing trailor and now I am waiting for the actual movie(read our life story together) to start and the cappy's vanished, leaving me with the popcorn.".
you said it! Ohhh you said it!
BT, "Its as if he showed me this amazing trailor and now I am waiting for the actual movie(read our life story together) to start and the cappy's vanished, leaving me with the popcorn.".
you said it! Ohhh you said it!
I think from now on I will avoid the Subtle simply signs and just bluntly communicate .
Here here!
OH dear...I'm full of stories.
Okay, so after posting on here I realized that the only reason I was into the Virgo was because he gave the attention that Cappy wasn't. I'm not a woman that mis leads- so once I figured that out I canceled my date with him. I didn't want to give him the story "um, I'm still thinking of this other dummy man that doesn't pay attention to me, I think its unfair to you, so I'm canceling my plans". Nope not me, instead I text message him...sorry to cancel on you , but something came up, I'll call you sometime..."
He replies:
"well played"
I feel guilty now. But I'm on a roll burning bridges this week. Please someone lock me in a dungen before I cause more harm.
Okay, so after posting on here I realized that the only reason I was into the Virgo was because he gave the attention that Cappy wasn't. I'm not a woman that mis leads- so once I figured that out I canceled my date with him. I didn't want to give him the story "um, I'm still thinking of this other dummy man that doesn't pay attention to me, I think its unfair to you, so I'm canceling my plans". Nope not me, instead I text message him...sorry to cancel on you , but something came up, I'll call you sometime..."
He replies:
"well played"
I feel guilty now.
But I'm on a roll burning bridges this week. Please someone lock me in a dungen before I cause more harm.Okay...so the "well played" could mean:
a. He's being a jerk (I did mis lead him)
b. He really does think I play well.
c. Game over
....and the lonely druther dwells
a. He's being a jerk (I did mis lead him)
b. He really does think I play well.
c. Game over
....and the lonely druther dwells
I think it means 'game over'... It sounded like sarcasm to me.
It sounded like sarcasm to me.I agree with venusian taurean. The guy is pretty darn sarcastic.
Well deserved sarcasm from the virgo. I guess I'll always wonder though...
I feel like I'm going through a mid life crisis in my mid 20's. I know I'm exaggerating. However, one of the most important things to me is staying true to myself above all things. Its my foundation. But life changes you, experiences mold you, and I'm currently trying to adjust. Therefore dating has become such a challenge. I thought I was ready...but I am not. Its hard because I'm on here asking questions like :what does he want...what does he need?
Well, what about what I want, what I need? I want to be chased for the right reasons. I want the guy to chase me because I am worthwhile, I am interesting, I am different.
So as I was thinking about all these circular questions, I decided to pick up dancing. I'm gonna go back and do those things that I enjoy. I signed up for dance class..woo hoo.
I feel like I'm going through a mid life crisis in my mid 20's. I know I'm exaggerating. However, one of the most important things to me is staying true to myself above all things. Its my foundation. But life changes you, experiences mold you, and I'm currently trying to adjust. Therefore dating has become such a challenge. I thought I was ready...but I am not. Its hard because I'm on here asking questions like :what does he want...what does he need?
Well, what about what I want, what I need? I want to be chased for the right reasons. I want the guy to chase me because I am worthwhile, I am interesting, I am different.
So as I was thinking about all these circular questions, I decided to pick up dancing. I'm gonna go back and do those things that I enjoy. I signed up for dance class..woo hoo.
I agree with taurus girl virgos can be the greatest thing since sliced bread until you try to live with them and deal with them intimately on a daily basis....nobody kills a mood like a virgo with a list of complaints to greet you with when you get home (instead of lingerie). As much as I love th em as friends...when you are in love with them what is frustrating is that they tend not to get the concept of catching more flies with "honey than vinegar". They could actually get everything out of you that they wanted it to if they did it with a little more tact...
Nooooooooooooooooooooooo virgos are coool!
some... 
Well, I'm done with dating right now. I can't believe how much that Capricorn drained me. I still think of him every now and then. & WE didn't even have sex! I don't know why I hold on to the stupidest litte cute moments between us. I am glad that I didn't start anything with that Virgo either. He's kinda whinny.
Let me tell ya though...I started dancing. It's been a week, and I've had two private lessons and one group meet. I am having the time of my life. I have learned the basics of the Fox Trot, The Cha cha, The Rumba, West Coast Swing, oh and Salsa!!
But anyhowdy, sometimes I wonder if I'll ever find that person. i hate to worry about something I don't have control over. It just would be nice to have that companionship.
Let me tell ya though...I started dancing. It's been a week, and I've had two private lessons and one group meet. I am having the time of my life. I have learned the basics of the Fox Trot, The Cha cha, The Rumba, West Coast Swing, oh and Salsa!!
But anyhowdy, sometimes I wonder if I'll ever find that person. i hate to worry about something I don't have control over. It just would be nice to have that companionship.
"But anyhowdy, sometimes I wonder if I'll ever find that person. i hate to worry about something I don't have control over. It just would be nice to have that companionship."
I wonder about that too all the time. I think we taureans are happiest in a warm, stable relationship. I hate the feeling of not beingin control of where my future is leading to. I have stopped worrying about it;guess things work out the way they have to.
Oh heck sometimes I do wish that the Capricorn guy would just get back to me without the mind games. But if wishes were horses...
I wonder about that too all the time. I think we taureans are happiest in a warm, stable relationship. I hate the feeling of not beingin control of where my future is leading to. I have stopped worrying about it;guess things work out the way they have to.
Oh heck sometimes I do wish that the Capricorn guy would just get back to me without the mind games. But if wishes were horses...
bittertaurus-what are you up to now? Are you dating? Or did you commit to solitude?
BT-We are so much alike. I'm enjoying this time too. I love that I'm not thinking about the Cappy so much anymore. I start my masters program in 2 weeks. I'm excited. I feel so sexy right now too. I'm just confident, and to me that's sexy.
I gotta tell ya- I watched an old eposide of sex in the city, and Carrie was really upset because Mr. Big proposed to Natasha after 5 months, being that he was with her for 2 years. She kept thinkin it wasn't fair because she broke him in, and some 20 year old gets to ride him. Well, at the end of the eposide she realized that it was the other way around. Mr. Big could never break her in. So she knew that there was someone out there as wild as her and would run after her. I feel like that. I feel that I have so much going on right now, and I'm not stopping anytime soon. So I find comfort in knowing that some man one day will be as wild hearted as me and take the journey with me. I'd love that. I don't see myself ever slowing down, I want to embrace life...and leave my mark on this earth.
:sigh:
I gotta tell ya- I watched an old eposide of sex in the city, and Carrie was really upset because Mr. Big proposed to Natasha after 5 months, being that he was with her for 2 years. She kept thinkin it wasn't fair because she broke him in, and some 20 year old gets to ride him. Well, at the end of the eposide she realized that it was the other way around. Mr. Big could never break her in. So she knew that there was someone out there as wild as her and would run after her. I feel like that. I feel that I have so much going on right now, and I'm not stopping anytime soon. So I find comfort in knowing that some man one day will be as wild hearted as me and take the journey with me. I'd love that. I don't see myself ever slowing down, I want to embrace life...and leave my mark on this earth.
:sigh:
Yikes..Dec!
I actually admire the Virgo man. He was very understanding of the situation. I overreacted with his "well Played" comment. He got in in contact with me and we are friends. Whereas the Cappy, he also got in contact with me this weekend. Pretty much didn't explain his disappearing act, but I suppose it doesn't matter. Ahhh...and now theres a Sagi on the prowl. Unfortunately, I'm off the market until I can get over the Cappy.
I actually admire the Virgo man. He was very understanding of the situation. I overreacted with his "well Played" comment. He got in in contact with me and we are friends. Whereas the Cappy, he also got in contact with me this weekend. Pretty much didn't explain his disappearing act, but I suppose it doesn't matter. Ahhh...and now theres a Sagi on the prowl. Unfortunately, I'm off the market until I can get over the Cappy.
PS...Cancer women get to me too.
Update!!! It's bye bye cappy and hello virgo again 
Okay....it must be a taurus thing. I have declined this virgo 2 times already and here he comes again. Asking me out for lunch tomorrow. I accepted because he keeps chasing me...I got intrigued with the fact that he is still persistant in his chase. I feel crazy for saying yes now. Ahh...so I'm thinking of something fun to do since he is driving to my area. Something not romantic but fun....Any suggestions?
Okay....it must be a taurus thing. I have declined this virgo 2 times already and here he comes again. Asking me out for lunch tomorrow. I accepted because he keeps chasing me...I got intrigued with the fact that he is still persistant in his chase. I feel crazy for saying yes now. Ahh...so I'm thinking of something fun to do since he is driving to my area. Something not romantic but fun....Any suggestions?thanks
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