Can Taurus identify a jealous woman?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by SophiaEva on Sunday, July 26, 2015 and has 95 replies.
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Had some time to analyze his behavior,... recently, I'm the only one he hugs. Not with him all the time, but have noticed this over the previous 4 weeks. One of his crushes is fuming, she looks at me with "stares of death." Sometimes I feel as if she would attack me. Anyway, can Taurus identify jealousy with one of the people he's flirting with? Do they do anything about it? Or let it go?
i dont think he would care if she is jealous of you, he probably doesnt even know. most girls will give you the death stare when he isnt around, so he doesnt get involved, and the quarrel remains only with the enemy (he is not the enemy, you are). but from your last post, it sounds like he is into you. im sure this jealous girl is just irrelevant, kill her with kindness Winking
btw, have you two made any progress yet?
Only posted a few days ago. We originally met in mid-February. For me, I think we have made progress since then. I'm fairly cautious. I have limits and if nothing comes to frustration will move on. Will keep posting.
oh i didnt realize it has only been a few days, and okay let us know, we are here for advice as always.
Thank you
OMG...I hope not...she's fugly... he can do much better if he wants to add someone new
Posted by Binota
Yes they can.

So he definitely knows already that she's jealous of you, so he got her.


what do you mean "he got her" ? does that mean he already slept with her?

and sophia, do you know her sun sign or no ?
Posted by busyeyes88
Posted by Binota
Yes they can.

So he definitely knows already that she's jealous of you, so he got her.

Great for soothing his ego!! Taurus male love his ego being stroked. Was upset that I was not stroking it.

SE. Either get him to make him your bf completely or do not hang out with him often. You are only topping up his ego which is already being topped up by a whole harem. And the girl staring at you is probably on his harem list!!!
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It's all in the eyes, if shes got that "I'm gonna kill you bitch" look, then he's already snuck a pelt from her.
Pardon the Beaver analogy.
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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Posted by Binota
Yes they can.

So he definitely knows already that she's jealous of you, so he got her.


what do you mean "he got her" ? does that mean he already slept with her?

and sophia, do you know her sun sign or no ?

He got her as she likes him too. It's the action languages that we can read.

So if his crush got jealous towards that OP, that means something.


Wouldn't you think so?

No smoke without fire.

Boom shakalaka boom pow wow.
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Hahaha ^^
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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Posted by Binota
Yes they can.

So he definitely knows already that she's jealous of you, so he got her.


what do you mean "he got her" ? does that mean he already slept with her?

and sophia, do you know her sun sign or no ?

He got her as she likes him too. It's the action languages that we can read.

So if his crush got jealous towards that OP, that means something.


Wouldn't you think so?
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Oh yeah I understand now if she is jealous of her, she def likes him too
@mysteriousTaurus, no I do not know this womans sun sign. I don't feel threatened by her, maybe she can slash my tires, he doesn't flirt back with her, he actually ignores her which is strange because he does flirt with people.
Yes, I would call it a friendship. I do like him and want more, I'm being patient. I know he's interested and concerned about our age difference. Being Libra, unattractive people turn me off. I should have mentioned in the beginning she caught us hugging and kissing . This was about 2-3 weeks ago.
Through kissing? There was no tongue involved
Posted by SophiaEva
Through kissing? There was no tongue involved

That's not a kiss then!
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Posted by SophiaEva
Through kissing? There was no tongue involved

That's not a kiss then!
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I'm not trying to be slutty in public... not that type of girl. Yes, I am dating other people too.
Keeping options opened ...am I suppose to wait around like a lost puppy for my Taurus who clearly cannot make up his mind? I'm human too
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Posted by SophiaEva
Keeping options opened ...am I suppose to wait around like a lost puppy for my Taurus who clearly cannot make up his mind? I'm human too

Cool
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My Taurus is first choice for me. I cannot force him to do something he does not want to do. Also trying to protect myself, as Libra I can fall in love quickly.
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Posted by SophiaEva
Through kissing? There was no tongue involved

No by waiting around and hoping he comes to his senses and chooses you. You're allowing yourself to be treated as an option. There is no haste for him to commit to you. Things are comfortable for him. Never wait around for a man to choose YOU. He has ither options, I hope you do too.

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They just want to take their time and let things happened naturally, especially being a Taurus and libra this is very common to go super slow. It's okay to wait for people who have a lot of potential but aren't ready for commitment this second. Quality > quantity
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Keeping options opened ...am I suppose to wait around like a lost puppy for my Taurus who clearly cannot make up his mind? I'm human too

I do not approve this message.
Posted by busyeyes88
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Posted by SophiaEva
Yes, I would call it a friendship. I do like him and want more, I'm being patient.

You've just made yourself a permanent member of his harem. Congratulations. Time to find someone you can actually date, it won't be him.

Agreed.
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Had separate topic on "the Harem." Everyone said sex, so what's the clarification on kissing Taurus?
Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Posted by PV&Jellay
Posted by SophiaEva
Through kissing? There was no tongue involved

No by waiting around and hoping he comes to his senses and chooses you. You're allowing yourself to be treated as an option. There is no haste for him to commit to you. Things are comfortable for him. Never wait around for a man to choose YOU. He has ither options, I hope you do too.




They just want to take their time and let things happened naturally, especially being a Taurus and libra this is very common to go super slow. It's okay to wait for people who have a lot of potential but aren't ready for commitment this second. Quality > quantity
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Yes, I definitely want to give this time, I'm in no rush.
Will keep everyone updated. Never said he has no issues.
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Posted by SophiaEva
Through kissing? There was no tongue involved

No by waiting around and hoping he comes to his senses and chooses you. You're allowing yourself to be treated as an option. There is no haste for him to commit to you. Things are comfortable for him. Never wait around for a man to choose YOU. He has ither options, I hope you do too.




They just want to take their time and let things happened naturally, especially being a Taurus and libra this is very common to go super slow. It's okay to wait for people who have a lot of potential but aren't ready for commitment this second. Quality > quantity

How slow is super slow with libra and taurus pairing?
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omg busy, I have known my libra since January 2014. We have been talking on and off since then. he is not ready for commitment and neither am i. but that doesnt mean he doesnt like me, and that doesnt mean that i dont like him. ive known him for almost a year and a half now (actually losing my precious taurus patience with this one because a year and a half is a long time, like really dude) at this point, i definitely have love for him, i care about his well being very much and i know he feels the same way because he told me so. but we are young and in college soooooo, we are going super slow.

what actually happened was that when we first met, we were so incredibly attracted to each other, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, the chemistry between us is just down right incomparable, so we never really had a chance to be friends first, we just couldnt help our selves (well i could, i didnt even hook up with him until knowing him for 6 months) but we would flirt and talk constantly, still being unofficial, we just knew without any verbalization that being "friends" is impossible. we cant be in a room together without feeling a crazy pull towards each other, trust me, i tried to control it, but he'll just look for reasons to be alone with me, like when everyone is about to go in the house to hang out instead o
of outside he'll say to me in front of everyone "wanna walk me out?" he knows we both want each other alone so bad...
but yeah busy, its mainly because we are young still and dont want to get distracted from school work. turtle slow!!!!
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Posted by SophiaEva
Yes, I would call it a friendship. I do like him and want more, I'm being patient.

You've just made yourself a permanent member of his harem. Congratulations. Time to find someone you can actually date, it won't be him.

Agreed.

Had separate topic on "the Harem." Everyone said sex, so what's the clarification on kissing Taurus?
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SEX is the harem, why cant they kiss? are you guys just messing with her lol? im pretty sure sohpia mentioned that this man in his 50's... they are both adults, kissing is fine, its normal.. theyre supposed to kiss for goodness sake
its okay, they are adults, this is common behavior ^
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of outside he'll say to me in front of everyone "wanna walk me out?" he knows we both want each other alone so bad...
but yeah busy, its mainly because we are young still and dont want to get distracted from school work. turtle slow!!!!

This is how I felt with the libra. I very rarely feel this way! But it's only been a month. I have not communicated with the libra for 4 days. I'm just wondering are they as slow as the Taurus?! He has two jobs, works over 60 hours and is only 33 and has two kids who live abroad so life for him Is hectic. Just looking at time scales! Lol
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wow good for you busy, i didnt know that you were seeing anyone *not like i would but i wouldve thought that u would mention it* but to answer your questions, yes, libras are just as slow as yes. could be a good thing. my libra told me that he wants to build a solid foundation first before any commitment, i guess that means he wants to feel that he knows me well enough to focus only on me. i guess its like proving your worth, but i mean, im not offended, heck i agree with him lmao!
slow as taurus *
forget to mention, i also, have never felt this way about anyone before. i have had two libras before, sexual attraction is always intense with them, but my libra now is the best and like i said, our connection is incomparable. i cant describe it.. i feel like the song 'latch' by disclosure and sam smith perfectly describes how i feel towards libra men, well my libra man (maybe even the taurus and libra connection in general, IMO obvi)
Posted by SophiaEva
Will keep everyone updated. Never said he has no issues.


great! good luck
wait what was the last thing you said to him?

what were his actions? let me guess, he was all over you Winking
I have known my libra since January 2014. We have been talking on and off since then. he is not ready for commitment and neither am i. but that doesnt mean he doesnt like me, and that doesnt mean that i dont like him. ive known him for almost a year and a half now (actually losing my precious taurus patience with this one because a year and a half is a long time, like really dude) at this point, i definitely have love for him, i care about his well being very much and i know he feels the same way because he told me so. but we are young and in college soooooo, we are going super slow.

what actually happened was that when we first met, we were so incredibly attracted to each other, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, the chemistry between us is just down right incomparable, so we never really had a chance to be friends first, we just couldnt help our selves (well i could, i didnt even hook up with him until knowing him for 6 months) but we would flirt and talk constantly, still being unofficial, we just knew without any verbalization that being "friends" is impossible. we cant be in a room together without feeling a crazy pull towards each other, trust me, i tried to control it, but he'll just look for reasons to be alone with me, like when everyone is about to go in the house to hang out instead o

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This is what it's like for us. The attraction is painful and Intense at times. We are not young as you, but both of us have been deeply hurt in the past, hence the caution and slowness. I wouldn't think kisses meant being placed in the Harem.
@mysteriousTaurus .. last message was meant for you
Posted by busyeyes88
I then later laid my cards on the table of what I wanted (ie what I am like in a relationship just to see if we were going to meet again. Typical leo moon style!! Although we discussed what we wanted and were lookin for before we met). I just wanted him to say what his thoughts were re our meeting. His actions towards me at the time was proof enough!!!! But I go no response and my leo moon went crazy. I have not heard from him in 4 days Sad I think maybe I blew it. I just wanted to know what he thought.

busy, i wouldn't recommend this strategy. in all likelihood, he doesn't now how feels yet! putting him on the spot might have made him feel very uncomfortable and this could lead him to pull back. if i don't know how i feel and someone wants an answer from me, i will a) tell them what they want to hear even if i don't mean it or b) get the hell out of there as fast as possible especially if the person has said that they would like more from me.

give him some time and then if you don't hear from him, drop him a very light hearted text and say that you hope you haven't offended him or done anything to upset him. and no more pressure! we'll make up our minds when we are ready! haha.
@Busyeyes88, Libras can get annoyed at Leo's style. If you annoy us we can quickly become disinterested, but will not immediately say anything to you because we don't want to hurt your feelings. Of Libra likes someone they cannot go 4 hours without calling or txting. Something had to happen for him to blatantly ignore you. Did he leave the country? You said his kids are abroad?
Posted by SophiaEva
I have known my libra since January 2014. We have been talking on and off since then. he is not ready for commitment and neither am i. but that doesnt mean he doesnt like me, and that doesnt mean that i dont like him. ive known him for almost a year and a half now (actually losing my precious taurus patience with this one because a year and a half is a long time, like really dude) at this point, i definitely have love for him, i care about his well being very much and i know he feels the same way because he told me so. but we are young and in college soooooo, we are going super slow.

what actually happened was that when we first met, we were so incredibly attracted to each other, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, the chemistry between us is just down right incomparable, so we never really had a chance to be friends first, we just couldnt help our selves (well i could, i didnt even hook up with him until knowing him for 6 months) but we would flirt and talk constantly, still being unofficial, we just knew without any verbalization that being "friends" is impossible. we cant be in a room together without feeling a crazy pull towards each other, trust me, i tried to control it, but he'll just look for reasons to be alone with me, like when everyone is about to go in the house to hang out instead o

This is what it's like for us. The attraction is painful and Intense at times. We are not young as you, but both of us have been deeply hurt in the past, hence the caution and slowness. I wouldn't think kisses meant being placed in the Harem.

i'm confused. you love a libra but you're chasing a taurus?
Did you really "want" his view or did you "demand" it? If you demanded it, then you probably fucked yourself on this one. He'll most likely dissappear for a while and come back when he thinks it's safe. That can be days, weeks, or months. When a guy/girl needs, wants, demands and answer we feel threatened and dissappear. It's to let people know "CALM THE FUCK DOWN!" in a not so subtle way.needless to say, we are difficult but extremely loyal once you have us.
@Jeane, that message posted wrong ... I'm a Libra girl 35 and likes Taurus guy 51. Was trying to quote another user.
@Busyeyes88, ... people/friends believe they are part of our inner circle. That's not true. It may take years to be in Libra's inner cirlce.
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Posted by SophiaEva
Did you really "want" his view or did you "demand" it? If you demanded it, then you probably fucked yourself on this one. He'll most likely dissappear for a while and come back when he thinks it's safe. That can be days, weeks, or months. When a guy/girl needs, wants, demands and answer we feel threatened and dissappear. It's to let people know "CALM THE FUCK DOWN!" in a not so subtle way.needless to say, we are difficult but extremely loyal once you have us.

Politely asked for his view in a Leo moon kind of dramatic way!! I don't know why I needed to. His affirmation when we were together and he told me to my face that he enjoyed the time we spent for me to stay in touch etc. Shot self in foot! It's hard being a Leo rising with a Leo moon, an Aries in merc and a venus pisces!! One hot mess!!! Lol
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At least you're aware of your communication style, I reccomend trying some self control.
@Busyeyes88, that's what we do. We are crazy extreme people when we like someone, we will do strange things, behave strange. Yes, you are building trust and that's good. It will get you what you want faster. It's ok for you to be open about yourself, in the beginning of course. Libra needs to see you completely vulnerable first, before they can/will completely open up.
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Did you really "want" his view or did you "demand" it? If you demanded it, then you probably fucked yourself on this one. He'll most likely dissappear for a while and come back when he thinks it's safe. That can be days, weeks, or months. When a guy/girl needs, wants, demands and answer we feel threatened and dissappear. It's to let people know "CALM THE FUCK DOWN!" in a not so subtle way.needless to say, we are difficult but extremely loyal once you have us.

Politely asked for his view in a Leo moon kind of dramatic way!! I don't know why I needed to. His affirmation when we were together and he told me to my face that he enjoyed the time we spent for me to stay in touch etc. Shot self in foot! It's hard being a Leo rising with a Leo moon, an Aries in merc and a venus pisces!! One hot mess!!! Lol

At least you're aware of your communication style, I reccomend trying some self control.
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it's not fake, it's just not dependable. not yet. we are a temperamental lot.
Would Taurus purposely divulge intimate details about his/her life to someone new, or to anyone?
for myself it is a small trick i use. i give the impression of being very open so people feel comfortable. when you really take a hard look at it, i haven't been open at all. like sophia says, that takes years.
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for myself it is a small trick i use. i give the impression of being very open so people feel comfortable. when you really take a hard look at it, i haven't been open at all. like sophia says, that takes years.

But why the pretence. Surely it gives a false sense of security to the other person. The other person then let's their guard down.. As I did then they start spilling the beans.... That's fake then!! So basically what you are saying is that all the interaction we shared was just fake, pretensive!
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it's not fake. the sentiment is real. yes, to make you feel comfortable. is it manipulative? sure. what's the alternative? being mute? small talk? he wanted to get to know you.

it's only fake if he doesn't care. i'm sure he does.
I love telling people about my life, all the time. Like Jeane said, Makes people feel closer. Intimate parts of my life are hidden, or shared to inner circle.

For example, I find Taurus telling me, after 4 weeks, his parents divorce, how it affected his childhood, his mother being sick in her older years, how he has to take of her financially... etc ... I believe that to be intimate details of one's life you don't share normally share with people you just meet.
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for myself it is a small trick i use. i give the impression of being very open so people feel comfortable. when you really take a hard look at it, i haven't been open at all. like sophia says, that takes years.

But why the tricks?
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because it makes people feel better and allows me to get to know them. we become friends that way.
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for myself it is a small trick i use. i give the impression of being very open so people feel comfortable. when you really take a hard look at it, i haven't been open at all. like sophia says, that takes years.

But why the pretence. Surely it gives a false sense of security to the other person. The other person then let's their guard down.. As I did then they start spilling the beans.... That's fake then!! So basically what you are saying is that all the interaction we shared was just fake, pretensive!

it's not fake. the sentiment is real. yes, to make you feel comfortable. is it manipulative? sure. what's the alternative? being mute? small talk? he wanted to get to know you.

it's only fake if he doesn't care. i'm sure he does.
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Agree with Jeane, if he was not interested he wouldn't put an effort in making you feel comfortable. He would have blown you off, possibly in a harsh way.
Pictures of family can be seen on one's Facebook account. It's not manipulating you, we need to see trust. Besides, we're very social and love to chat.
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