Cancer man and Taurus Lady.....HELP

Please help me by telling me how to understand this guy.... We fight alot....... Im very stubborn and sensitive.... obviously and I tend to say things to him and then just dont get any reaction and later on I have to hear that I really hurt him.. what the hell?? I just want him to be honest and say what he feels...... but it seems that he like to play the guessing game with me......

Why are you fighting?
Accept him as he is and he will accept you as you are.
He needs to think on it first, release the emotions then tell you how he feels.

This whole relationship is very complicated..... just want to know can I explain everything here without anyone seeing my personal detail—? (shy)

You can explain everything here but don't give out your real names, personal details like home address and telephone number.

Be careful with the things you say - if you're hurting him he most likely won't want to admit it. Be less stubborn and more open to him. What do you two fight over? Pick your battles carefully, most of them aren't worth it.

Bullgem, you want to take this one or should I?
We've become quite the experience experts with mixing Taurus & a water sign.

Start from the top Butwhy and tell us exactly what's going on.
You're on a public forum, nobody knows who you are.
Or you can always private message me if you want some privacy.

Happy to help but we need a bit more than 'we fight and I hurt him'.
He's a cancer, that pretty much means your basic Taurus way of fighting will hurt him.

Posted by BullGem
It sounds a bit like obstinacy...
You admit to being stubborn but don't actually try to compromise with him a bit. It seems you expect him to adjust to your communication style when his is very different from yours.
Try adjusting to him a little. You'll keep on fighting if you don't make some changes within yourself.

And as for dealing with cancers, they are sensitive, I think sometimes a lot more than bulls. And you don't always know just what to say to avoid hurting their feelings. But I've noticed that it isn't what you say (because your feelings are also valid) but HOW you say them!!!

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