Capricorn in love with a taurus

Capricorn13

Capricorn13

Lost and in love —

I meet a taurus man and we hooked up and got together in 2015 and December of 2015 I decided to leave to Connecticut. I left to Connecticut and then in June of 2016 decided to come back when I came back I hooked up with this Taurus man again he was single at the moment but two weeks later he got back with his ex. we still been seeing each other here and there and then lately it's been every week it's already been a year since he been creeping around the only reason he stays is because of his kids and I know its because of his children. we do have quemistry and a really good relationship and it's truthful. we always talked about everything he listens to everything i talk about and always remembers our conversations when he comes over its more talk than sex. I confessed to him that I love him and he told me he knows cause he feels it and sees it in my eyes and when he is with me. however I am not expecting him to leave his family. When i am on the phone or go out some where he always askes who am i speaking with and who went ..

however every time we have sex he wants me to tell him that I miss him and that I love him is this normal with a Taurus man does he feel anything for me or he's just wants me to tell him that I love him to turn himself on I'm kind of confused if any Taurus man could help and answer the question.. why he wants to hear that I love him and I miss him while we're having sex if you guys could tell me anything that would help thank you.

I'm going to be frank and honest.

I think he is in love with you.

and he needs affirmation that you feel the same way.

It's a Taurus thing, this possessiveness we possess.

But...

He's still a Taurus, with a motto if it aint broke, then don't try to fix it."

So don't pretend to be OK with everything. Procastination and complacency can be the two 'ugliest' traits that we possess.

Figure out what is it exactly that YOU want, and then move accordingly.

6thanks Taurus bull1977 i appreciate it.☺☺

To be honest scorpio123.. I am dating and metting people I know he is not going to leave his family.. So I told him i am with him but i am not going to stop dating or going out and sit and wait.. He knows this and we keep it real.. I know he does not like the idea but he also knows his place and he wants me to be happy even though that would mean no more us... We have a lot of quemistry and have a great time together i just hope someday i find someone with that same connection we have...

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To be honest scorpio123.. I am dating and metting people I know he is not going to leave his family.. So I told him i am with him but i am not going to stop dating or going out and sit and wait.. He knows this and we keep it real.. I know he does not like the idea but he also knows his place and he wants me to be happy even though that would mean no more us... We have a lot of quemistry and have a great time together i just hope someday i find someone with that same connection we have...

This isn't what you really want.

You already told him that you loved him.

What is it with cappies and barriers?

What is it that you really want?

I love him but i need to except that he is not going to leave his family...

TaurusBull1977.. .its hard i do love him... My mind is always thinking about him.. But i know he is not going to leave his family.. I feel like I have to still carry on with my life.. This is confusing and hard.. I am in way to deep in love.. What do you advise?

Capricorn13,

Here is my advice.

I understand what it means to have barriers. The emotional walls are defense mechanisms for what lies beneath those exteriors, one big emotional mess and extreme vulnerability.

I'm not going to judge you because I know this was a challenging decision to make. Cappies are known to be headstrong, ethical and practical.

The emotional risk was already taken.

Why not take it further and be clear about what you want out of this relationship?

What do you have to lose?

Thanks you are right im going to take your advice and just tell him ☺

Thanks for all the wonderful advise.. It really means a lot and thanks for not judging me.. I feel for him before i moved back to ct and he was single at that moment plus he never thought i would be moving back.. Thanks once again i appreciate all off you ??

Well i have decided to end it.. He was changing and i felt like i was his distraction. If I was not texting him or seeing him I feel like he would be doing right by his fam.. So I sent him a text and tod him my feelings were in too deep and that I know we started out as friends with benefits however I don't know where and when I ended up having feelings for him and that I know that if I wasn't in the picture he would be doing right by his family and that it was a tough decision but I was letting him go. Hebrew back to me that that was not the case however he knew that I had fallen for him because he could see it in my eyes he told me I was a great woman and that what we had was nice and who never forget it but that he understands and that he cannot give me the attention that I needed at the moment He also mentioned that he is not the type of guy to take advantage... funny thing was the same night he comes and he text me if I was alone that he wanted to see me.. once again I don't know what to think but I do believe it's for the best the hardest thing is that I will be seeing him at work obviously he does come to our building every other day so it's going to take a little time to get used to....

I think you are definitely doing the right thing in leaving the situation and allowing him to deal with himself and his family.

Be a woman of your word and don't look back. IF he wanted to step up he would, but he is where he wants to be, so hold out until you find someone who can give you more.

Good you made that decision, and I'm surprised that people were so gentle with you considering the situation of him having someone. Just push forward. You can do it.

I had fault.. He told me he had gotten back with her from that moment I should have let him go... But its all good its a lesson learned. And I really do wish him and his fam the best...