Confused
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by latwh on Thursday, August 8, 2013 and has 6 replies.
I'm a Pisces female who has been dating a Taurus male for some months now. From the start he jumped in with both feet. He made it clear that he wanted to be with me. It made me a bit nervous at first because I felt three weeks in was a bit early to declare ones self. Yet, I told him I'd think about it. He pursued me respectfully which made me put my nervousness to the side. We then decided to become a couple. Everything has been fine except that I've noticed he can be a bit mean spirited at times. At first I told myself that it was just my Pisces sensitivity but then recently he went out of his way to ruin my day. I called him to chat, told him what a good day I was having and asked him about his. He then told me that I was boring him with my good mood day and rushed me off the phone. When I texted him to tell him I didn't appreciate his behavior he then told me to lighten up. We went back and forward for a bit and the more upset I got the funnier he thought it was. So I turned off my phone for the rest of the day. The next day he calls me flipping saying I owe him an apology. I refused to say sorry and demanded an apology of my own. He says he doesn't feel he did anything wrong and I can't take a joke. He refuses to speak to me until I apologize. I'm just curious to know is this regular Taurus behavior? Also should I attempt to salvage our relationship? We were fine before this. I'm really confused. How can someone go from carrying about you a lot to treating you like crap?
he is being an asshole. DONT give IN! let him come to you. What he attempted to do to you is ridiculous, sounds like very controlling behavior.
*^^^ he doesn't sound like a typical bull. Entering into a relationship after 3 weeks is way too fast for a bull. He sounds like a needy /controlling man which has got nothing to do with him being a Taurus. Mind your step and take it slow from your part. Don't give in or apologize for the trouble he caused . It sounds unhealthy and it's still early . A typical Taurus wouldn't cause such trouble . Good luck
Sounds like a taurus guy I'm dating. All over you until they got you and then they're mean as hell and never apologize until you ignore the shit outta them and they stalk you but they're so stubborn as well. This behavior will continue with him. They need/like to be checked but if they know they got you then they're assholes to the fullest extent
I know exactly how you feel. Pisceans are very sensitive creatures. We just care a little too much. The taurus guy I know does the same crap & I'd cut all ties if he continues to act rude. You are probably so nice & deserve better.
No doubt that you deserve better than this. Don't appologize, and he will appologize once you make him feel guilty. He loves to possess by nature as a taurus, so don't let him totally own you.
If you want to stay with him, you got to be sure that he will hurt you again, so either to play the game (which I doubt you can) or simply be yourself and don't let him possess you.
Any ways, this has nothing to do with him loving you or not. And the 3 weeks period is not a rush for a taurus, since he fall in love with you the moment he saw you.
Its up to you now to take him and just go with it, or turn your back slowly at him while you are making him feel guilty to avoid his rage.
If you devided to choose him, you will enjoy his caring and loving nature, but also take care of him being moody.
Good luck
If you want to stay with him, you got to be sure that he will hurt you again, so either to play the game (which I doubt you can) or simply be yourself and don't let him possess you.
Any ways, this has nothing to do with him loving you or not. And the 3 weeks period is not a rush for a taurus, since he fall in love with you the moment he saw you.
Its up to you now to take him and just go with it, or turn your back slowly at him while you are making him feel guilty to avoid his rage.
If you devided to choose him, you will enjoy his caring and loving nature, but also take care of him being moody.
Good luck
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