confused and surprised

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by sanja on Thursday, August 8, 2013 and has 3 replies.
so... dear members I will try to be cut the story short and tell you my brief love story fith a 27 year old taurus guy. Buy the way I am 22. So we are friends from University, know each other a bit for 2 yeras but in last 3 month we have became more than friends. First I need to say that I was the one to initiate aour relationship after I have found out that I am in love with him. It took him around 2 months or so to figure it out if he wants to be with me. During that 2 monts we went out together. Long walks, wine, food... A lot of talking about different things. We found out how different we are and our interests are but also that we can still communicate and understand each other very well. One night he suddenly kissed me and that was not just a kiss. It was great. Passionate and it whatever it was it lastes for another 2 hours untill we split. After that he started talking about aour relationship, about me as his girlfriend. Passion was everywhere!!! The problem is that I am still a virgin but he just understood and I felt so appreciated. We knew that we will wait. But after some time (3 weeks) during aour last two dates he became a bit distant. I thouhgt that the passion part should slow down. We did not talk about it was just little less passionate two dates. But then he opened up about his family problems. We talked even more. I wanted to be his friend and I knew he would find that important. Last date which we had we wached the football game in a bar. It was nice, my idea baecause I know how much he likes football. We also taleked a lot. Both of us like talking about different things. Usually we have different topics to talk about but it seemed we liked that fact. Anyway, all of a sudden he stopet texting and calling me (he never used to text me a lot but not a day wnent by without a couple of sms or a short call). He was the one to call. In the beggining it was me. When we stared dating it became much better because he was the one to give ideas to go out and so on... I am also the person that has many ideas so I would from time to time make a plan for our date, just to make things more interesting. But after tree days of trying to contact him he answered and told me that we should meet. I said ok but I wanted to know the reason for his behaviour. He said we should not talk about in on the phone. I was not angry with him, not at all. I was worried!!! I knew he has saome problems in his family. I know that his brother has problems with low and I kno
so to continuoe... he was surpried that I was not angry just worried about him. He hoped that I will get a bit angry and that that will make a sitaution esaier. Durng the phone call I wanted to know the truth so I got it. He said that we became very good friends but that he has no special feelings for me. That is honest but I dont understand how is that possible when we taleksd to much and had so much passion. He could not hide that he was atTracted to me. i was surprised by his words but finished the phone call nicely. We willl see each other at University and he said that w can never be not friends he even said that it is possible that we can be together again in two yeras maybe. The question is what could it be that he didn`t have in this relationship? He said that he realised that he was not that kind to me as he was with his other girls and that that special feeling was gone during doese last two dates when we talked so much-he taleked. I sent him one last sms where I told him that I know that he would never me in a relationship unless he had feelings and that it is to early to quit. I also said that I don`t want to give up on us and that it could have benn better with time. He din`t answer. That was two days ago. What should I do now? I am duble cancer and he is duble taurus. I miss him and I wonder if he misses me. Any tips on winnig him back???
thanks Biker ^_^ i gues that is it. Well I knew about those problems long ago. He wanted me to know all of that. Like he was tessting me if I am ready to be with someone from different group or something like that. I had no such problems and maybe he felt that it is not going to work out because of all of our differences. He is nice and honest and knows that I am aware of what a relationship with him might bring. That is why I was worried when he didn`t call instead of being angry. I wish I could know if he misses me. Onece he told me that I can be cold sometimes. That he likes it in a way. True. But strange when he said that. I can`t pretend. I gave him all the attention and once asked if it is to much. He said it is not that he likes the fact that someone cares for him. But... in the end... His last girlfriend tortured him and cheated on him many times. It seams that he likes that because I know he liked her a lot.

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