Confusion and mixed signal from my Taurus

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by MarthaD on Friday, February 9, 2018 and has 17 replies.
We've been dating from almost 2 yrs, he wanted to brake up with me a few times, basically his reason was either "I don't know, things just don't feel right" or I texted him too often, called him to much, reconfirm his feelings and him feeling pressured to see me. But he does say he loves me it's just that he sometimes expresses his feelings and it's coming from him without me saying anything and sometimes he is just cold and puts space between us.


I admit I do feel insecure in this relationship because I feel it is like a roller coaster. He is being super affectionate and loving for like 3-4 days max 1 week (calling, texting, chatting, emoji, telling he loves me, he wants me, he misses me etc) and then all of the sudden for 1-2 weeks approximately he gives me space, no texting back, chatting just like a couple of cold words, no emoji, no texting back, no expressed feelings.

Then again a couple of days - 1 week sweet and communicative and shows affection and love and the again the cold part.

I just don't get it!!!


He does say he has a lot to work and all that but how come some days he can find 5 seconds to text me back or less than 1 min to call and other days doesn't have those 5 seconds or that 1 minute?


If I tell him this, that his behavior has changed, he says it's not true, that he doesn't feel this way, that all is good and etc. but I can actually prove with behaviors and texts and all that that this are just different.


This is so confusing and I am just so so tired and I just want to understand this. I really really want to understand because he is such a great person and I feel happiness whenever I am with him and I love him deeply and truly.


Any ideas how I can overcome this? any ideas what is happening here? how can I handle this period of time when he is distant and just not communicating?
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I read the first few sentences and he is stringing you along. He loves bombs you for a few days to use you for sex or hopes of getting sex And then you don’t hear from him for weeks until he’s ready to pursue you for sex again. Is this what you really want? A man that ignores you and deals with you his terms. It is really quite simple. I don’t understand why you are confused
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@Squishy_Marshmallow

We're seeing every morning for coffee and again in the evening for a bit and then friday evening and saturday morning we're trying to find time for us. He has a son and he spends most of the time with him.





@CreativeCap

I didn't say I don't hear from him for weeks, I said his behavior is hot and cold, few days up to a week very affectionate and communicative and then 1-2 weeks (approximately) we still see each other about the same amount of time with or without sex but he's just distant and cold and not present.

We had times that we saw each other and he didn't feel like having sex he just wanted to cuddle and talk or other times that I couldn't have sex (stuff) and still saw each other for cuddles and talk. So I'm not sure if he's using me for sex ... you really think so?




@Koniuchaa

I told him how I feel and he denies that there is a problem, it's like his is not aware about his hot and cold behavior.
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i don't understand. you see him every day but you're insecure because he doesn't always send you affectionate texts? or text you during the day when he is busy?


you're happy when you're with him (everyday) but are still insecure? he tries to reassure you that things are good between you but you are focusing on texts to show that he is wrong rather than trusting him when he tells you there isn't a problem.


i think you should look at what your expectations are and if they are realistic. if he has said you are too clingy, are you? are you trying to sabotage yourself and this relationship? what caused the end of your previous relationships? is there a pattern?
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Then all of the sudden for 1-2 weeks approximately he gives me space, no texting back, chatting just like a couple of cold words, no emoji, no texting back, no expressed feelings.



No texting back is ignoring. And yes a man will use you for sex for two years if you let him. Just bc he does not initiate sex on every occasion you two spend time together, does not mean he is not using you for sex. I think you need to have a conversation with him and make your feelings and expectations clear. If he appears uninterested, you need to consider moving on.
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PULL the plug on this one, trust me. You will just waste more time, effort, energy, and you’ll destroy yourself trying to turn a cheetah into a zebra. He’s not changing.


Let this one go. Two years is too generous. Time to go get you a much better man and he’s out there.
Whyyyyyu?


I'm curious to know why she should pull the plug on this relationship? Instead of doing something to make it better?
I think that her feelings should be validated, I mean if she didn’t feel loved and cared for why would she be posting about it? Something deep within her (her gut?) is telling her the pieces don’t fit anymore.


If someone loves you, you just feel it and you know it.



I'm not totally disagreeing with you on this babe but... Sometimes women can be too attention seeking and demanding too! We can be insecure af! We may expect the guy to validate all of our feelings... Not all women and not in all relationships... But this happens. Taurus are all about actions rather than words...

Maybe I got this wrong... Idk



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from my reading he acknowledges her feelings and tells her that everything is good between them. what he is not acknowledging is the behaviour that she has accused him of.


he spends time with her in the morning and the evening. he is looking to spend more time with her on fridays and saturdays. he has his kid and work and he tells her he is busy. she's here complaining about texts without emojis. he's at work and she texts him, she calls him and complains when he doesn't have the time to text back.


it's been two years and she still wants more to make her feel secure. if at times he does pulling away, i wouldn't blame him, she sounds clingy and overly focused on needing him to soothe her when she starts creating problems in her head.

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I agree with the responses here. If you are the type of woman that needs a man stuck to your butt for continuous validation, then find a man that is into that.


If I text too much he knows it's just me saying whatever is on my mind at the moment and if he can't respond because he's busy, he doesn't but texts or calls me later and then we talk for an hour.


Some people are just like that. It doesn't mean anything other than they are busy doing other things.
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PULL the plug on this one, trust me. You will just waste more time, effort, energy, and you’ll destroy yourself trying to turn a cheetah into a zebra. He’s not changing.


Let this one go. Two years is too generous. Time to go get you a much better man and he’s out there.
Whyyyyyu?


I'm curious to know why she should pull the plug on this relationship? Instead of doing something to make it better?
I think that her feelings should be validated, I mean if she didn’t feel loved and cared for why would she be posting about it? Something deep within her (her gut?) is telling her the pieces don’t fit anymore.


If someone loves you, you just feel it and you know it.



I'm not totally disagreeing with you on this babe but... Sometimes women can be too attention seeking and demanding too! We can be insecure af! We may expect the guy to validate all of our feelings... Not all women and not in all relationships... But this happens. Taurus are all about actions rather than words...

Maybe I got this wrong... Idk





from my reading he acknowledges her feelings and tells her that everything is good between them. what he is not acknowledging is the behaviour that she has accused him of.


he spends time with her in the morning and the evening. he is looking to spend more time with her on fridays and saturdays. he has his kid and work and he tells her he is busy. she's here complaining about texts without emojis. he's at work and she texts him, she calls him and complains when he doesn't have the time to text back.


it's been two years and she still wants more to make her feel secure. if at times he does pulling away, i wouldn't blame him, she sounds clingy and overly focused on needing him to soothe her when she starts creating problems in her head.

I don’t know why but her messages come off contradicting too? When I read the first post it came off like he drops her completely for 2 weeks.


And then she defended him in her replies, so I’m honestly not sure what’s truly going on with this one. She could be just delusional.

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for me she says that he is a great guy and she is happy when she is with him which is everyday. but then when they are not together for those 12 hours in between she become insecure.


why did want to break up with her? it's a good question but he says something is missing. could it be her need for constant reassurance? could it be that she doesn't believe him when he says there isn't a problem and that he loves her and all the affection he can give her?


i'm just not convinced she isn't desperately trying to find a problem where there isn't one.


i don't see my fella everyday. i'll text him sometimes and he won't text back. i'll call him and he won't call back. he's not ignoring me, the kid's busy!


can you imagine if you are up to your eyeballs with work and then your partner starts, you're not texting me, you're not calling me, even though you saw them 4 hours ago! it seems mad to me.

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Posted by Caramel_Princess
PULL the plug on this one, trust me. You will just waste more time, effort, energy, and you’ll destroy yourself trying to turn a cheetah into a zebra. He’s not changing.


Let this one go. Two years is too generous. Time to go get you a much better man and he’s out there.
Whyyyyyu?


I'm curious to know why she should pull the plug on this relationship? Instead of doing something to make it better?
I think that her feelings should be validated, I mean if she didn’t feel loved and cared for why would she be posting about it? Something deep within her (her gut?) is telling her the pieces don’t fit anymore.


If someone loves you, you just feel it and you know it.



I'm not totally disagreeing with you on this babe but... Sometimes women can be too attention seeking and demanding too! We can be insecure af! We may expect the guy to validate all of our feelings... Not all women and not in all relationships... But this happens. Taurus are all about actions rather than words...

Maybe I got this wrong... Idk





from my reading he acknowledges her feelings and tells her that everything is good between them. what he is not acknowledging is the behaviour that she has accused him of.


he spends time with her in the morning and the evening. he is looking to spend more time with her on fridays and saturdays. he has his kid and work and he tells her he is busy. she's here complaining about texts without emojis. he's at work and she texts him, she calls him and complains when he doesn't have the time to text back.


it's been two years and she still wants more to make her feel secure. if at times he does pulling away, i wouldn't blame him, she sounds clingy and overly focused on needing him to soothe her when she starts creating problems in her head.

I don’t know why but her messages come off contradicting too? When I read the first post it came off like he drops her completely for 2 weeks.


And then she defended him in her replies, so I’m honestly not sure what’s truly going on with this one. She could be just delusional.



for me she says that he is a great guy and she is happy when she is with him which is everyday. but then when they are not together for those 12 hours in between she become insecure.


why did want to break up with her? it's a good question but he says something is missing. could it be her need for constant reassurance? could it be that she doesn't believe him when he says there isn't a problem and that he loves her and all the affection he can give her?


i'm just not convinced she isn't desperately trying to find a problem where there isn't one.


i don't see my fella everyday. i'll text him sometimes and he won't text back. i'll call him and he won't call back. he's not ignoring me, the kid's busy!


can you imagine if you are up to your eyeballs with work and then your partner starts, you're not texting me, you're not calling me, even though you saw them 4 hours ago! it seems mad to me.



This board needs you!!! Don't you dare go away....

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i'm here until my bull dumps me.Laughing

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I am reading all of your posts and trying to see your perspective. That is why I wrote here because I needed some objective opinion on things, at least for the things that I wrote you.


I think some of you have a very good intuition and wrote posts with assertiveness and empathy and I thank you for that.



@Caramel_Princess to answer your question I am 36 and he is 34



In the past he did got very upset with me for example because I didn't have the time to let him know that I am visiting some friends (I wrote him when I got there and NOT when I left home).

Other time he got really upset and got distance because I didn't write him as much on messenger as I used to. I told him that because he didn't answered me back I just thought he's not interested of reading stuff that I used to write him. Other time he got upset because I asked him if I should call him after lunch, he said "yes, sure, call me" and when I did he told me he felt obliged to answer my call and that he feels pressured about this. Then why did he said "yes, sure call me". I told him so many times that I prefer the actual truth than must some motives. And he agreed at that time.

Most of the times he got upset with me in the past he wouldn't tell me straight forward about it, he just got very distant and did not communicate and I had to push and push for answers and found out after 2-3 days the reason he got distant and that he actually got bothered about me doing something he didn't like.

Since then, I do overthink things and I feel that every time he is not answering or ignoring me I think that I probably did something wrong and I am just confused that I don't know what I did.



The last time he actually broke up with me he told me that the reason for the brake up is because he told me to meet after work and I didn't wait for him at home. He called me and I was at work and he got upset on the phone and hang up and I actually didn't know why. I called him back desperately and search for answers and I found out about the reason of the brake up after a couple of hours, after calling him and begging him to tell me what I did wrong. But he actually didn't tell me to meet home after work, he wanted to tell me but he forgot and he had the feeling that he did. He told me this after a while. On this brake-up he blocked me on whatsapp, he called me and just told me it's all over, just like that. After calling him and texting and all that, all of the sudden he unblocked me from whatsapp and sent me pictures with him and just acted almost like nothing happened.


We also had fights that ended up with "I don't want to talk to you anymore" from his side and then the next morning acted almost as if all was good and there was no fight the night before.

I told him that these fights do affect me tremendously, I am a very sensitive and emotional person, this is who I am in concerns of the people that I love. And I told him that I am afraid that, because in the past he used to not tell me he was upset for 1-2 days and I didn't know at that time why he was acting different all of the sudden, now I am thinking that every time he's silent for an entire day for example I might have done something he didn't like and he is not telling me, like it happened in the past. And most of the times he was silent all day because he was busy at work and I can understand that. Occasionally he tells me that he is going to have a very busy day and in those days I am just calm and relaxed and not overthink that "omg, why isn't he calling or texting? maybe I did or said something wrong for him?"

But in other days I am just thinking that I might have said something that he didn't like and he's not telling me (again) and I just start overthinking.


I believe I might be clingy but I fear not to loose him. He is a very good man, hard working, responsible, I feel blessed to have met him. I know that nobody is perfect and we all have flaws and I want to learn about him because I do work on accepting him the way he is because I do love him tremendously and I do feel afraid of loosing him.

He just came into my life when least expected and when I was in a difficult period of my life and I felt like those "faith in humanity restored" moments when I met him and when he started to pursue me.

And he still gives me those moments occasionally and when that happens I feel that I fall in love with him more and more. He tells me he likes being with me because I am calm and warm and understanding, that I am patience and also a strong woman and that he likes being with me because of the way I talk and the way I act and do things. I am helping him to open his own business and I am getting involved only with what he asks me and he told me that he wouldn't be this far if it wasn't for me and that my support and help means so much for him. I felt happy and useful and so proud when he told me this but I reassured him that he is more than capable to do this without my help, I probably just hurried things up.


A few times he confined in me and he told me he is overthinking too, that he has so many thoughts and he is getting so tired and he feels frustrated that he can't stop his thoughts. I am trying to be supportive and help him out with this. Other time he told me that he feels he has flaws, he feels faulty because he feels he is not doing anything right. I am trying to realistically demonstrate him with real examples of the good things he does and that he does do good things and that he is fine as he is and he is doing his best and he is fine.

And some other times he did tell me some usual things and he told me that "I have no body to talk to about this so I am glad I am telling you". So I guess he does trust me sometimes and I don't think that a men would let himself feel a bit vulnerable if he didn't have feelings for that women he confines to.

And pretty often he does realize he is and acts restless and many times he shouts at me and then he apologizes. And sometimes I feel that he is afraid of being rejected or something, I feel that I need to demonstrate my love for him with constant behavior just for him to feel comfortable and secure in the relationship. And I don't mind doing this.


So I will read your posts again and I will try to see your perspective of this relationship and I will continue to try to understand this hot and cold behavior. I for sure have a blame in it, I am clingy I guess now that you say it, I do feel insecure also because of my paste relationships and I do have trusting issues in general about people. I did stress him out with phone calls and texts a few times but it's like I don't realize I am doing him harm with this. Now that you're saying this I think I should show more empathy from this point of view and try to feel what he feels when I am doing this. I do want to understand what I am not doing right because I do truly love him and I want to be with him and I want to do all that I can do to make this happened because we are grate when we are together and he also admits this.

When we are apart or when we don't have the time to meet or talk is where the problems appear.


Thank you all and I will keep reading your answers, because for sure I have a certain behavior that is just not right and I don't realize it. It's not like I am doing this on purpose just for some weird pleasure or fun.


So thank you.

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"In the past he did got very upset with me for example because I didn't have the time to let him know that I am visiting some friends (I wrote him when I got there and NOT when I left home)."


sorry I just noticed I didn't write "not"
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Posted by jeane
i don't understand. you see him every day but you're insecure because he doesn't always send you affectionate texts? or text you during the day when he is busy?


you're happy when you're with him (everyday) but are still insecure? he tries to reassure you that things are good between you but you are focusing on texts to show that he is wrong rather than trusting him when he tells you there isn't a problem.


i think you should look at what your expectations are and if they are realistic. if he has said you are too clingy, are you? are you trying to sabotage yourself and this relationship? what caused the end of your previous relationships? is there a pattern?
I agree; the Taurus I "thought I had something going on with" was VERY hot at the beginning (two months) of heavy texting w/Bitmojies, he contacted me ONCE via cell phone call, told me "I like you", came over twice to my house (first time he met my son for pizza, second time came over "just to say hi"), then BOOM! Nada, nothing! I EVEN told him I had a FEDEX do a hit a run on me (playing the fair maiden in despair) and he said, "Call the company; they will track him down". I thanked him; then again, BOOM! Nada, nothing! I since then (I waited and waited for a grand total of three months) to be asked out for a date (official, pick you up, open truck door for you, etc), BUT, he did ask once, "Come over to spend the night w/me, my room mate won't mind". I IMMEDIATELY texted back, "Sorry, but I don't do booty calls. I don't know your room mate, it's his house, I cannot do that". Guess my 6th sense told me: HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU AND JUST WANTS A FRIEND WITH BENEFITS! A DXP member asked me, "What happened to John?" (Taurus); same thing I mentioned to you is what I wrote back to DXP member.


To OP: Be LUCKY he EVEN sees you!


Hug cyber hugs!


Love,


Eva


PS: This was last year from August to October 2017; I have thus blocked him from my cell and FBLaughing
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This board needs you!!! Don't you dare go away....



i'm here until my bull dumps me.Laughing






he would never !


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i don't understand. you see him every day but you're insecure because he doesn't always send you affectionate texts? or text you during the day when he is busy?


you're happy when you're with him (everyday) but are still insecure? he tries to reassure you that things are good between you but you are focusing on texts to show that he is wrong rather than trusting him when he tells you there isn't a problem.


i think you should look at what your expectations are and if they are realistic. if he has said you are too clingy, are you? are you trying to sabotage yourself and this relationship? what caused the end of your previous relationships? is there a pattern?
I agree; the Taurus I "thought I had something going on with" was VERY hot at the beginning (two months) of heavy texting w/Bitmojies, he contacted me ONCE via cell phone call, told me "I like you", came over twice to my house (first time he met my son for pizza, second time came over "just to say hi"), then BOOM! Nada, nothing! I EVEN told him I had a FEDEX do a hit a run on me (playing the fair maiden in despair) and he said, "Call the company; they will track him down". I thanked him; then again, BOOM! Nada, nothing! I since then (I waited and waited for a grand total of three months) to be asked out for a date (official, pick you up, open truck door for you, etc), BUT, he did ask once, "Come over to spend the night w/me, my room mate won't mind". I IMMEDIATELY texted back, "Sorry, but I don't do booty calls. I don't know your room mate, it's his house, I cannot do that". Guess my 6th sense told me: HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU AND JUST WANTS A FRIEND WITH BENEFITS! A DXP member asked me, "What happened to John?" (Taurus); same thing I mentioned to you is what I wrote back to DXP member.


To OP: Be LUCKY he EVEN sees you!


Hug cyber hugs!


Love,


Eva


PS: This was last year from August to October 2017; I have thus blocked him from my cell and FBLaughing


Awww I’m so sorry Eva!!! I’ve been following your story and I’m sad it’s come to this. Hugs!
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Thanks Doll....have a nice weekend!


Hug Hug double cyber hugs!


Love,


Eva
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Posted by MarthaD
I am reading all of your posts and trying to see your perspective. That is why I wrote here because I needed some objective opinion on things, at least for the things that I wrote you.


I think some of you have a very good intuition and wrote posts with assertiveness and empathy and I thank you for that.



@Caramel_Princess to answer your question I am 36 and he is 34



In the past he did got very upset with me for example because I didn't have the time to let him know that I am visiting some friends (I wrote him when I got there and NOT when I left home).

Other time he got really upset and got distance because I didn't write him as much on messenger as I used to. I told him that because he didn't answered me back I just thought he's not interested of reading stuff that I used to write him. Other time he got upset because I asked him if I should call him after lunch, he said "yes, sure, call me" and when I did he told me he felt obliged to answer my call and that he feels pressured about this. Then why did he said "yes, sure call me". I told him so many times that I prefer the actual truth than must some motives. And he agreed at that time.

Most of the times he got upset with me in the past he wouldn't tell me straight forward about it, he just got very distant and did not communicate and I had to push and push for answers and found out after 2-3 days the reason he got distant and that he actually got bothered about me doing something he didn't like.

Since then, I do overthink things and I feel that every time he is not answering or ignoring me I think that I probably did something wrong and I am just confused that I don't know what I did.



The last time he actually broke up with me he told me that the reason for the brake up is because he told me to meet after work and I didn't wait for him at home. He called me and I was at work and he got upset on the phone and hang up and I actually didn't know why. I called him back desperately and search for answers and I found out about the reason of the brake up after a couple of hours, after calling him and begging him to tell me what I did wrong. But he actually didn't tell me to meet home after work, he wanted to tell me but he forgot and he had the feeling that he did. He told me this after a while. On this brake-up he blocked me on whatsapp, he called me and just told me it's all over, just like that. After calling him and texting and all that, all of the sudden he unblocked me from whatsapp and sent me pictures with him and just acted almost like nothing happened.


We also had fights that ended up with "I don't want to talk to you anymore" from his side and then the next morning acted almost as if all was good and there was no fight the night before.

I told him that these fights do affect me tremendously, I am a very sensitive and emotional person, this is who I am in concerns of the people that I love. And I told him that I am afraid that, because in the past he used to not tell me he was upset for 1-2 days and I didn't know at that time why he was acting different all of the sudden, now I am thinking that every time he's silent for an entire day for example I might have done something he didn't like and he is not telling me, like it happened in the past. And most of the times he was silent all day because he was busy at work and I can understand that. Occasionally he tells me that he is going to have a very busy day and in those days I am just calm and relaxed and not overthink that "omg, why isn't he calling or texting? maybe I did or said something wrong for him?"

But in other days I am just thinking that I might have said something that he didn't like and he's not telling me (again) and I just start overthinking.


I believe I might be clingy but I fear not to loose him. He is a very good man, hard working, responsible, I feel blessed to have met him. I know that nobody is perfect and we all have flaws and I want to learn about him because I do work on accepting him the way he is because I do love him tremendously and I do feel afraid of loosing him.

He just came into my life when least expected and when I was in a difficult period of my life and I felt like those "faith in humanity restored" moments when I met him and when he started to pursue me.

And he still gives me those moments occasionally and when that happens I feel that I fall in love with him more and more. He tells me he likes being with me because I am calm and warm and understanding, that I am patience and also a strong woman and that he likes being with me because of the way I talk and the way I act and do things. I am helping him to open his own business and I am getting involved only with what he asks me and he told me that he wouldn't be this far if it wasn't for me and that my support and help means so much for him. I felt happy and useful and so proud when he told me this but I reassured him that he is more than capable to do this without my help, I probably just hurried things up.


A few times he confined in me and he told me he is overthinking too, that he has so many thoughts and he is getting so tired and he feels frustrated that he can't stop his thoughts. I am trying to be supportive and help him out with this. Other time he told me that he feels he has flaws, he feels faulty because he feels he is not doing anything right. I am trying to realistically demonstrate him with real examples of the good things he does and that he does do good things and that he is fine as he is and he is doing his best and he is fine.

And some other times he did tell me some usual things and he told me that "I have no body to talk to about this so I am glad I am telling you". So I guess he does trust me sometimes and I don't think that a men would let himself feel a bit vulnerable if he didn't have feelings for that women he confines to.

And pretty often he does realize he is and acts restless and many times he shouts at me and then he apologizes. And sometimes I feel that he is afraid of being rejected or something, I feel that I need to demonstrate my love for him with constant behavior just for him to feel comfortable and secure in the relationship. And I don't mind doing this.


So I will read your posts again and I will try to see your perspective of this relationship and I will continue to try to understand this hot and cold behavior. I for sure have a blame in it, I am clingy I guess now that you say it, I do feel insecure also because of my paste relationships and I do have trusting issues in general about people. I did stress him out with phone calls and texts a few times but it's like I don't realize I am doing him harm with this. Now that you're saying this I think I should show more empathy from this point of view and try to feel what he feels when I am doing this. I do want to understand what I am not doing right because I do truly love him and I want to be with him and I want to do all that I can do to make this happened because we are grate when we are together and he also admits this.

When we are apart or when we don't have the time to meet or talk is where the problems appear.


Thank you all and I will keep reading your answers, because for sure I have a certain behavior that is just not right and I don't realize it. It's not like I am doing this on purpose just for some weird pleasure or fun.


So thank you.

the additional information helps.


i think you should both go to counselling or speak to an older person in your life that can advise you both on how to behave.


he sounds like he needs help dealing with his emotions and learning how to face them in a constructive way. you both sound like you're dealing with past hurts and insecurities that you are bringing to this current relationship.
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Two years and he’s off n on? Cut him loose. He’s stringing you along for his own reasons. It sounds to me he isn’t being straight with you whenever you try to talk to him. If it’s the case nothing you say will matter including how you feel. Imo I feel like at two years you either know it’s going to work or it isn’t by now. Sorry to hear you’re having to deal with this. It sucks. Been there a couple times myself
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Ok so when I posted above I didn’t realize there were two more pages and that you’d written a book detailing more info. I agree with jeane. Sounds like you guys could use some guidance and help if you were both willing
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