Dangerous situation...help!

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Tauro on Tuesday, December 27, 2005 and has 10 replies.

Well it's been a strange past 2 weeks for me. A girl i met on the net about 5 years ago moved closer to where i live and she wanted to hang out and do some christmas shopping in the city, i agreed to meet her and hang out, after all i really wanted to meet her because we got along so well on the phone and the net.
Anyway i was in the city waiting for her to get off the train and BAM off she walks and i swear my jaw just dropped, i instantly felt the "click" straight away and even though i'm usually really quite well composed with my words, found myself fumbling over saying basic sentences, its a really strong attraction.
After walking around the city and getting to know eachother a bit more, we found eachother agreeing on nearly everything, it was really strange, she talks like i do, pays out the same people i do hahaha and just generally has the same outlooks on life, home and secure living.
So out came the question from her when we were just having a coffee, "so, got a girlfriend?" i answered no then asked her if she had a boyfriend, she said yeah and has been living with him for the past 7 months, at this point i felt a bit crushed and thought to myself "damn, that's just too bad." so we continued to chat and hang out. Then i just randomly said out of the blue, "Hey what starsign are you?" she answered Cancer and it was at that point that i knew why i was so attracted to her, because of me being a Taurus. So i say "oh yea cool, what sign is your boyfriend?" she answered Libra and i thought to myself that's a bit of a strange combo.
So eventually i saw her off to the train and gave her a hug and a big smile.
The next day she messages me and asks what i was doing, i said nothing, so we met up and went shopping again, but i felt at the time that something else was going on, this is the 2nd time i met her. After shopping for about 3 hours or so she gets a message on her phone from her boyfriend asking if she can go and pick him up from work, she said yeah and i said oh look i'll just go but she wanted me to go too and it was at this point i felt quite uncomfortable because i was rapidly getting a strong liking to her and seeing her with her boyfriend would kinda defeat me more.
So we went and picked him up, he's a labourer, packs boxes of food into trucks and he seems like a nice guy but it sure was uncomfortable to be around in that situation, atleast they didn't hug or put their toungues down eachothers throats while i was around Tongue But it was weird because she didn't seem to show him much emotional liking towards her boyfriend and we were both pretty flirtacious before we picked him up.
I was just wondering, would a cancer leave a libra for a taurus? Am i wasting my time pursuing her or should i just totally back off because to be honest i really don't play games when it comes to relationships, i don't mean to steal her or come between them in anyway but i can't help denying myself that my feelings towards her are very strong and i haven't yet felt this attracted to a girl since my last relationship which was to a taurus girl.
What should i do?!
I'm a taurus with libra rising, sun, moon and mercury all in taurus.
Many thanks.
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But it feels so right Sad
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how did she lie? She asked me if i had a girlfriend and i said no, then i asked her if she had a boyfriend and she said yes.
I didn't intend to pursue this romantically before we met, it's just now that we have, i want to. Get me?
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Ya, why not just run around madly and blindly like Sag?!! wh0re.
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You appear to be in a situation that haven't gave fruits yet. I say, stay for a while and see what happens. I'm sure every day you learn something new about her, and this way you will have a better judgement when you learn enough.
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I didn't try to say to involve with her in some romatic way. No not that. What I mean was just to observe, like a friend not a lover.
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I agree with haffo. I actually find it weird that she would meet a guy she met on the internet while having a boyfriend....? Whatever floats your boat I guess.
Keep in simple... just be friends and don't expect more.
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I suppose i'll just try and stop myself from getting to involved, just stay friends and if anything else happens we'll see.
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I dunno...maybe I am really old fashioned but.........and but I say! Here she is in a relationship with her "boyfriend" and she is meeting guys from the internet - so, IF you were to proceed and develop a relationship with her (which you already have) it is not based on truth - so far. She is letting you know one of her character traits. If this is okay with you then whooooohooob- go for it. If not, move on and find someone who is available. Personally, I wouldn't waste my valuable energy in this direction. Hey though....it's your call and you must feel good about your choice - my best wishes to you Tauro Winking
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Yeah, a lie of omission, so to speak.
I think it odd that she asked you if you had a girlfriend if she wasn't interested in you "that way". Equally odd that she never mentioned her boyfriend until you asked her, after all this time of chatting and calling. However, asking you to come with her to pick him up from work indicates that she is probably just wanting to be on friendly terms with you. At least you know her situation now.
Personally, I think only weak people leave someone for someone else. If she is not happy with her boyfriend, she shouldn't be living with him for other reasons. Make sure you don't up in the middle.
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