Dating a Sagittarius.....

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by LadyJuicy on Wednesday, September 14, 2016 and has 34 replies.
What has been your experience dating a Sagittarius??? How long?
I was pushed to the limits physically cause Sag has lots of energy that way. But he was nice nice about it cuz his sister couldn't keep up either. Number one Sag, had A Scorp Mercury and Venus. He spoke his mind even more cuttingly than most Saggies do. I don't put up with that so we didn't last long at all. It was all just physical attraction and nothing more and you can't base a relationship on that for long.

Sag. number 2 had a Virgo Moon and Asc and Venus in Scorp. He was a much quieter nicer person but we didn't work as a couple because he had mental health issues. He was talented musically but never fulfilled his aspirations due his health issues which is a shame because he was really interesting and very devoted. I consider him a friend still.

It's an up and down roller coaster, but that could be Venus in Scorpio I attract Sag with Venus in Scorp. My son even has it I am starting to wonder if it is karmatic.
Posted by Redoctober2000
If u are a Taurus.... Don't do it...
I've already done it. ???. Just trying to see how everyone else's experiences were or have been with them.
Posted by ladylibra21
It's an up and down roller coaster, but that could be Venus in Scorpio I attract Sag with Venus in Scorp. My son even has it I am starting to wonder if it is karmatic.
Funny things is mines has Venus Scorp. It's been too much of a challenge. Smh
My good friend is a Taurus female married to a Sag...

But honestly he seems quiet compared to others I've met. My guy is too and he has energy but it's not over the top.. He has his Venus in Cap though.. So now I'm wondering if her's does too because they have been together since high school and still are. I think her husband is a good guy though. Funny thing is, she's more wild than he is. She really gets along with Sagi's. Lol

I know another couple though and boy do they need counseling, just can't stand each other. (Taurus f/Sag m)

But they are hanging on for the kids.. Both have cheated on each other though.. 3 year marriage.
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Posted by ladylibra21
It's an up and down roller coaster, but that could be Venus in Scorpio I attract Sag with Venus in Scorp. My son even has it I am starting to wonder if it is karmatic.
Funny things is mines has Venus Scorp. It's been too much of a challenge. Smh
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They will test the hell out of you if you break up with them and yall get back together.
Posted by jane84
My good friend is a Taurus female married to a Sag...

But honestly he seems quiet compared to others I've met. My guy is too and he has energy but it's not over the top.. He has his Venus in Cap though.. So now I'm wondering if her's does too because they have been together since high school and still are. I think her husband is a good guy though. Funny thing is, she's more wild than he is. She really gets along with Sagi's. Lol

I know another couple though and boy do they need counseling, just can't stand each other. (Taurus f/Sag m)

But they are hanging on for the kids.. Both have cheated on each other though.. 3 year marriage.


Oh wow. I get along with them bc my 2 of my cousins are Sags and we can laugh and hang all day. Lol. The one I'm with I just don't know what to do. Smh... It's funny bc my cousin dated a Taurus friend of mines they broke up, parted ways and then rekindled and moved in together. That lasted only 2 months before he moved back home. Lol. He is now dating another Taurus and says she might be the one but he is constantly flirty with other women. They don't know what they want. I feel like you can give them the world and they still find ways to aggravate you and cheat. I'm trying to understand what I need to do with my Sag. We got into a argument recently and broke things off but I know he will be back bc of what and how I did things for him. I just don't know. I'm tired of all men ☹️??????

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Posted by ladylibra21
It's an up and down roller coaster, but that could be Venus in Scorpio I attract Sag with Venus in Scorp. My son even has it I am starting to wonder if it is karmatic.
Funny things is mines has Venus Scorp. It's been too much of a challenge. Smh
They will test the hell out of you if you break up with them and yall get back together.
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I believe it bc mines is doing now after our recent breakup. He will find out the hard way f*^% #% ^ with me!!! ?

Fun for short term, not so good for long term. They make amazing friends though.
Posted by AriesLove
I was married to one for 7 years. They are people pleasers. They need a social life, that's what makes them feel good. Getting validation from others that they are being of some use to them. They love the outdoors, traveling and movement.

In a relationship they are very giving, laid back, apologetic and open-minded. I know stronger mates work better for them also confident, non emotional ones who aren't afraid to call them out on shit. They like some drama every now and then and can provoke it when they aren't getting enough attention. Probably one of the most forgiving signs. They don't mind their women having a lot of control in the relationship. Some are very careless with life.
Attention seeking, yes!! I believe they hate rejection!! It's been difficult trying to get mines to understand that I'm with him bc I love him not for financial help or sex. Sex is very important to me as I have needs as a nympho but that's not why I want him in my life. I'm really learning that just like me and my cousin are closes like best friends that's how close I have been to all Sags and it's crazy. I've never dated one until now and I think after its all said and done he will be the last. Smh.... I have a Aries ex who was wonderful to me and loves me and can't get over me but he was something else too. It's just so hard to find your soulmate the way the world and people are set up. Smh

Posted by sagiluv
We met years ago, begun dating 2 yrs later, sex was great our friendship was great, he left due to work for a few years and when he came back we reconnected, we're friends but he's very persistent about seeing eachother and spending time, we hung out as friend a couple times & he's very sweet and respectful, funny & friendly & talkative, he knows I'm dating my libra & says that he's going to take me away, which I doubt it, these men are no good for relationships they need their freedom, when we were together he was honest with me & loyal to me. I never had a problem of him cheating but now I did notice he enjoys a lot of attention for women, that's why I wouldn't get back into a relationship with him. He's a good friend though.
They are good friends and that might just be it. I don't know if my brain is set up to deal with it.

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Posted by jane84
My good friend is a Taurus female married to a Sag...

But honestly he seems quiet compared to others I've met. My guy is too and he has energy but it's not over the top.. He has his Venus in Cap though.. So now I'm wondering if her's does too because they have been together since high school and still are. I think her husband is a good guy though. Funny thing is, she's more wild than he is. She really gets along with Sagi's. Lol

I know another couple though and boy do they need counseling, just can't stand each other. (Taurus f/Sag m)

But they are hanging on for the kids.. Both have cheated on each other though.. 3 year marriage.


Oh wow. I get along with them bc my 2 of my cousins are Sags and we can laugh and hang all day. Lol. The one I'm with I just don't know what to do. Smh... It's funny bc my cousin dated a Taurus friend of mines they broke up, parted ways and then rekindled and moved in together. That lasted only 2 months before he moved back home. Lol. He is now dating another Taurus and says she might be the one but he is constantly flirty with other women. They don't know what they want. I feel like you can give them the world and they still find ways to aggravate you and cheat. I'm trying to understand what I need to do with my Sag. We got into a argument recently and broke things off but I know he will be back bc of what and how I did things for him. I just don't know. I'm tired of all men ☹️??????

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I read the rest of the comments and I feel as though you are already thinking what I was going to say. I feel as though Taurus and Sag can be good friends. They can work together as well (I've seen it), but I don't know how. You just both like different things in a relationship. (I was with/married to a Taurus for 15 years.) If there are already back and forth games then is it really worth it?

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Posted by sagiluv
We met years ago, begun dating 2 yrs later, sex was great our friendship was great, he left due to work for a few years and when he came back we reconnected, we're friends but he's very persistent about seeing eachother and spending time, we hung out as friend a couple times & he's very sweet and respectful, funny & friendly & talkative, he knows I'm dating my libra & says that he's going to take me away, which I doubt it, these men are no good for relationships they need their freedom, when we were together he was honest with me & loyal to me. I never had a problem of him cheating but now I did notice he enjoys a lot of attention for women, that's why I wouldn't get back into a relationship with him. He's a good friend though.
They are good friends and that might just be it. I don't know if my brain is set up to deal with it.

Youll be fine... I promise.

There better men out there....
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Yes yes!!! I have no other choice but to be!!

I was with one for 18 years and it was both a great and bad relationship. He was overly honest about what he thought of others, had ridiculously high standards, was difficult but overall we were very close friends and the sex was always consistent and good. Always up for doing something fun, loved to be the life of the party. He was totally loyal to me (he accidentally sent me his diary). We broke up 3 times and got back together every time except this last one. I think it takes a certain kind of woman to tame and keep a Sag. Def not a Taurus. Way too earthy for a Sag.
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Posted by jane84
My good friend is a Taurus female married to a Sag...

But honestly he seems quiet compared to others I've met. My guy is too and he has energy but it's not over the top.. He has his Venus in Cap though.. So now I'm wondering if her's does too because they have been together since high school and still are. I think her husband is a good guy though. Funny thing is, she's more wild than he is. She really gets along with Sagi's. Lol

I know another couple though and boy do they need counseling, just can't stand each other. (Taurus f/Sag m)

But they are hanging on for the kids.. Both have cheated on each other though.. 3 year marriage.


Oh wow. I get along with them bc my 2 of my cousins are Sags and we can laugh and hang all day. Lol. The one I'm with I just don't know what to do. Smh... It's funny bc my cousin dated a Taurus friend of mines they broke up, parted ways and then rekindled and moved in together. That lasted only 2 months before he moved back home. Lol. He is now dating another Taurus and says she might be the one but he is constantly flirty with other women. They don't know what they want. I feel like you can give them the world and they still find ways to aggravate you and cheat. I'm trying to understand what I need to do with my Sag. We got into a argument recently and broke things off but I know he will be back bc of what and how I did things for him. I just don't know. I'm tired of all men ☹️??????

If he has broken things off with you and you keep arguing, you should break if off for good. Sag man does not have the necessary skills to keep a Taurus woman haply long term. Your relationship will always be on and off continually and who wants that?!!
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We don't wake up arguing. Lol. We argued about him lying to me and trying to then turn it on me and it got heated. We never argue it's just this one time is when I got irritated and confronted him bc it was taking him to long to tell the truth so I said something. We had a good relationship for the most part. It's just that I'm starting to realize that maybe I need explore options again bc I don't like to argue at all. I'm always honest to any man I meet and I want the same back and that's something I see most Sag men can't do especially if they love you. So I am doing a lot of thinking miss lady. Thanks ???
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Posted by confusedlibra78
I was with one for 18 years and it was both a great and bad relationship. He was overly honest about what he thought of others, had ridiculously high standards, was difficult but overall we were very close friends and the sex was always consistent and good. Always up for doing something fun, loved to be the life of the party. He was totally loyal to me (he accidentally sent me his diary). We broke up 3 times and got back together every time except this last one. I think it takes a certain kind of woman to tame and keep a Sag. Def not a Taurus. Way too earthy for a Sag.
May be true. I am emotional but I also have Gemini tendencies and well as my moon being an Aqaurius so I know how to certainly be unemotional at times. It's just that we as Taurus love hard. I was with a Libra and he was ten times worse. He lied, he was selfish, self centered.... I can go on and funny thing is he talked about how he hated the relationship yet friends and family tell me how he wanted me back. What I've learned is that Libra's will settle and stay in a relationship bc they don't like to be alone. I don't settle. My sister is one and she went off and on with a Gemini. She put up with all his bill and lies. She finally let go after 6 years and I was happy bc he was abusive to her. So trust I do know how to tame and keep men I just have low tolerance for bull crap.
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So sag come back to their ex?????
Posted by sagiluv
We met years ago, begun dating 2 yrs later, sex was great our friendship was great, he left due to work for a few years and when he came back we reconnected, we're friends but he's very persistent about seeing eachother and spending time, we hung out as friend a couple times & he's very sweet and respectful, funny & friendly & talkative, he knows I'm dating my libra & says that he's going to take me away, which I doubt it, these men are no good for relationships they need their freedom, when we were together he was honest with me & loyal to me. I never had a problem of him cheating but now I did notice he enjoys a lot of attention for women, that's why I wouldn't get back into a relationship with him. He's a good friend though.
You just described my ex-boyfriend. He's in the POF dating site (for years); and he collects names, pics, phone numbers of the women he was interested in just to show off to himself. He was loud. He chastised my son and I wouldn't have it. He tree trunked me by saying, "I don't CARE about knowing about you anymore!"....give a Saggy three months and they will PM you, find you, and when they do they will text you saying, "I miss you". Not! To this day he's STILL on POF (relationship lasted only two months) and he clicked on want to meet button and sent me a message, yeah, again, "I miss you". I blocked him on my phone, FB, and POF. He has my work number and he calls just to hear my voice. He's seen the error of his ways and I am "The one that got away". Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by Tauruskee
So sag come back to their ex?????
No if I can help it. A sag ex wanted to be "friends"... Nope I burnt all the bridges "connecting" us down.

A Taurus (at least this one) never goes back and will destroy anything that leads a way to the person trying to....
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Yeah that's definitely a (at least this one case) because my ex has tried to stay in my life in every which way he can. He was also a Taurus.
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So sag come back to their ex?????
No if I can help it. A sag ex wanted to be "friends"... Nope I burnt all the bridges "connecting" us down.

A Taurus (at least this one) never goes back and will destroy anything that leads a way to the person trying to....
Yeah that's definitely a (at least this one case) because my ex has tried to stay in my life in every which way he can. He was also a Taurus.
Taurus men are very different from the females. They like to have "peace" keep their friendships! My Taurus is the same too... He has a sag moon would you believe!!! Lol ironic! Sags like to be friends with everyone even in the form of the moon!!

The Taurus male friend of mine who I have known 27 years has a Pisces moon and also burnt all the bridges connecting them.. You can't even mention her name to him and that was two years ago!! So no two people are the same lol lol
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My ex has a Taurus moon.. Talk about stubborn, I don't think he'll ever want me out of his life. Crazy.

But you're right, that's why I hate generalizing on here. ?
Posted by EvatheDiva
Posted by sagiluv
We met years ago, begun dating 2 yrs later, sex was great our friendship was great, he left due to work for a few years and when he came back we reconnected, we're friends but he's very persistent about seeing eachother and spending time, we hung out as friend a couple times & he's very sweet and respectful, funny & friendly & talkative, he knows I'm dating my libra & says that he's going to take me away, which I doubt it, these men are no good for relationships they need their freedom, when we were together he was honest with me & loyal to me. I never had a problem of him cheating but now I did notice he enjoys a lot of attention for women, that's why I wouldn't get back into a relationship with him. He's a good friend though.
You just described my ex-boyfriend. He's in the POF dating site (for years); and he collects names, pics, phone numbers of the women he was interested in just to show off to himself. He was loud. He chastised my son and I wouldn't have it. He tree trunked me by saying, "I don't CARE about knowing about you anymore!"....give a Saggy three months and they will PM you, find you, and when they do they will text you saying, "I miss you". Not! To this day he's STILL on POF (relationship lasted only two months) and he clicked on want to meet button and sent me a message, yeah, again, "I miss you". I blocked him on my phone, FB, and POF. He has my work number and he calls just to hear my voice. He's seen the error of his ways and I am "The one that got away". Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Wow that is crazy. I believe all men miss what they can't have anymore. They just don't realize what good stuff they have until it's gone.

re no good for relationships they need their freedom, when we were together he was honest with me & loyal to me. I never had a problem of him cheating but now I did notice he enjoys a lot of attention for women, that's why I wouldn't get back into a relationship with him. He's a good friend though.


You just described my ex-boyfriend. He's in the POF dating site (for years); and he collects names, pics, phone numbers of the women he was interested in just to show off to himself. He was loud. He chastised my son and I wouldn't have it. He tree trunked me by saying, "I don't CARE about knowing about you anymore!"....give a Saggy three months and they will PM you, find you, and when they do they will text you saying, "I miss you". Not! To this day he's STILL on POF (relationship lasted only two months) and he clicked on want to meet button and sent me a message, yeah, again, "I miss you". I blocked him on my phone, FB, and POF. He has my work number and he calls just to hear my voice. He's seen the error of his ways and I am "The one that got away". Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva



Wow that is crazy. I believe all men miss what they can't have anymore. They just don't realize what good stuff they have until it's gone.



Yep! He also was talking about moving in with me!!! After less than a month of being boyfriend and girlfriend!!!! MAJOR red flag! He lives (believe it or not) with his "ex gf" in a trailer home, when you walked in you can smell the dog pee (they have about five dogs total) on the 1980s carpet and was disgusting!!! I am Piscean and I am Miss Nicey, Nice and didn't say anything; most of the time I wanted him to come over to my house. His mom helped him get a car (he had bad credit) thru her Teacher's Credit Union and his car note is $ 188.00 a month; with cheap insurance for both his motorcycle and car. His rent is only $ 300.00 and on his profile it says, "I own a ranch with horses". Not! The horses are from his ex-girlfriend w/HER boyfriend's horse and the mobile home is a rental (rent; not own). He uses his OLD pictures from 2000 when he was SKINNY as he is obese (overweight). Stay away from SAGGIES!!! They play the authoritative in the house (MY house) and I wouldn't have it! Angry there are PLENTY of fish in the sea!Laughing Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Attention seeking, yes!! I believe they hate rejection!! It's been difficult trying to get mines to understand that I'm with him bc I love him not for financial help or sex. Sex is very important to me as I have needs as a nympho but that's not why I want him in my life. I'm really learning that just like me and my cousin are closes like best friends that's how close I have been to all Sags and it's crazy. I've never dated one until now and I think after its all said and done he will be the last. Smh.... I have a Aries ex who was wonderful to me and loves me and can't get over me but he was something else too. It's just so hard to find your soulmate the way the world and people are set up. Smh



I had to get my two cents in on this one since I LOVE your topic and now understand that Saggies cannot stand rejection. Hmmmmm. Yeah the sex was GREAT!!! But to a certain limit as it's private for me and I can add that he said no other woman did "that" to him like I did (and he's 48 years old!!). If the SEX is good, but you treat my son bad, and you don't care about your health (he has high cholesterol, thyroid problems, over weight, etc) and he didn't care what he ate (believe you me I would print out foods to stay way from when it triggers his thyroid and from the horses mouth he said, "I'm gonna eat what I wanna eat"; okay, I knew this guy was not worth my time, I will LEAVE him (if the sex is good I will leave him!). I have Big Grin Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by EvatheDiva
re no good for relationships they need their freedom, when we were together he was honest with me & loyal to me. I never had a problem of him cheating but now I did notice he enjoys a lot of attention for women, that's why I wouldn't get back into a relationship with him. He's a good friend though.
You just described my ex-boyfriend. He's in the POF dating site (for years); and he collects names, pics, phone numbers of the women he was interested in just to show off to himself. He was loud. He chastised my son and I wouldn't have it. He tree trunked me by saying, "I don't CARE about knowing about you anymore!"....give a Saggy three months and they will PM you, find you, and when they do they will text you saying, "I miss you". Not! To this day he's STILL on POF (relationship lasted only two months) and he clicked on want to meet button and sent me a message, yeah, again, "I miss you". I blocked him on my phone, FB, and POF. He has my work number and he calls just to hear my voice. He's seen the error of his ways and I am "The one that got away". Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva



Wow that is crazy. I believe all men miss what they can't have anymore. They just don't realize what good stuff they have until it's gone.



Yep! He also was talking about moving in with me!!! After less than a month of being boyfriend and girlfriend!!!! MAJOR red flag! He lives (believe it or not) with his "ex gf" in a trailer home, when you walked in you can smell the dog pee (they have about five dogs total) on the 1980s carpet and was disgusting!!! I am Piscean and I am Miss Nicey, Nice and didn't say anything; most of the time I wanted him to come over to my house. His mom helped him get a car (he had bad credit) thru her Teacher's Credit Union and his car note is $ 188.00 a month; with cheap insurance for both his motorcycle and car. His rent is only $ 300.00 and on his profile it says, "I own a ranch with horses". Not! The horses are from his ex-girlfriend w/HER boyfriend's horse and the mobile home is a rental (rent; not own). He uses his OLD pictures from 2000 when he was SKINNY as he is obese (overweight). Stay away from SAGGIES!!! They play the authoritative in the house (MY house) and I wouldn't have it! Angry there are PLENTY of fish in the sea!Laughing Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva



OMG girl he sounds terrible!!! Wow. Yeah it's good you got out that ????!!!
Posted by EvatheDiva
Attention seeking, yes!! I believe they hate rejection!! It's been difficult trying to get mines to understand that I'm with him bc I love him not for financial help or sex. Sex is very important to me as I have needs as a nympho but that's not why I want him in my life. I'm really learning that just like me and my cousin are closes like best friends that's how close I have been to all Sags and it's crazy. I've never dated one until now and I think after its all said and done he will be the last. Smh.... I have a Aries ex who was wonderful to me and loves me and can't get over me but he was something else too. It's just so hard to find your soulmate the way the world and people are set up. Smh

I had to get my two cents in on this one since I LOVE your topic and now understand that Saggies cannot stand rejection. Hmmmmm. Yeah the sex was GREAT!!! But to a certain limit as it's private for me and I can add that he said no other woman did "that" to him like I did (and he's 48 years old!!). If the SEX is good, but you treat my son bad, and you don't care about your health (he has high cholesterol, thyroid problems, over weight, etc) and he didn't care what he ate (believe you me I would print out foods to stay way from when it triggers his thyroid and from the horses mouth he said, "I'm gonna eat what I wanna eat"; okay, I knew this guy was not worth my time, I will LEAVE him (if the sex is good I will leave him!). I have Big Grin Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva



Lol. I love it!! Mines wasn't bad but it pissed me off when I asked for help cleaning up the house and he would do what he wanted and say that's a woman's job!!! I'm like now if you lived alone who would clean the house then?? Lol. Too funny....
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Posted by EvatheDiva
re no good for relationships they need their freedom, when we were together he was honest with me & loyal to me. I never had a problem of him cheating but now I did notice he enjoys a lot of attention for women, that's why I wouldn't get back into a relationship with him. He's a good friend though.
You just described my ex-boyfriend. He's in the POF dating site (for years); and he collects names, pics, phone numbers of the women he was interested in just to show off to himself. He was loud. He chastised my son and I wouldn't have it. He tree trunked me by saying, "I don't CARE about knowing about you anymore!"....give a Saggy three months and they will PM you, find you, and when they do they will text you saying, "I miss you". Not! To this day he's STILL on POF (relationship lasted only two months) and he clicked on want to meet button and sent me a message, yeah, again, "I miss you". I blocked him on my phone, FB, and POF. He has my work number and he calls just to hear my voice. He's seen the error of his ways and I am "The one that got away". Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Wow that is crazy. I believe all men miss what they can't have anymore. They just don't realize what good stuff they have until it's gone.



Yep! He also was talking about moving in with me!!! After less than a month of being boyfriend and girlfriend!!!! MAJOR red flag! He lives (believe it or not) with his "ex gf" in a trailer home, when you walked in you can smell the dog pee (they have about five dogs total) on the 1980s carpet and was disgusting!!! I am Piscean and I am Miss Nicey, Nice and didn't say anything; most of the time I wanted him to come over to my house. His mom helped him get a car (he had bad credit) thru her Teacher's Credit Union and his car note is $ 188.00 a month; with cheap insurance for both his motorcycle and car. His rent is only $ 300.00 and on his profile it says, "I own a ranch with horses". Not! The horses are from his ex-girlfriend w/HER boyfriend's horse and the mobile home is a rental (rent; not own). He uses his OLD pictures from 2000 when he was SKINNY as he is obese (overweight). Stay away from SAGGIES!!! They play the authoritative in the house (MY house) and I wouldn't have it! Angry there are PLENTY of fish in the sea!Laughing Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva



OMG girl he sounds terrible!!! Wow. Yeah it's good you got out that ????!!!


Yep! and Thanks! That's why when I go to POF I go "fishing!".Laughing Cyber hugs! Hug

Love,

Eva

Posted by LonerLoop
Idk how many times have I repeat the same line..lol but still gonna say it out loud anyways.

Sags are great buddies, wonderful partner in crime, adventurous and travelling with them can be super fun because they are willing to try everything! But until they are ready to settle down, which you wouldn't know when, it's best to not jump in a relationship with them.

They are not the romantic dudes all the times, to them it's too cheesy. The only thing I like about my relationship with my ex Sag is that, he's all rolled into one. We are like best friends, lover bla bla bla even enemies. LOL

I don't hate him though, because of course he do have his good qualities too. If you ask me would I take him back if one day he were to come running back and promise that he will change, my answer will be NO. I'd rather us stick as friends so that it will last forever than getting back together, got hurt again and again which would then makes us become sworn enemies. Nay...

I hear ya!!! I don't know if they can ever change and that's why I've gotten over the whole situation me and my dude had. I can't afford to deal with lies when I'm being the best woman I can to him. They don't know what they want. But they seek attention too much for me and I'm not like that at all.

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Posted by EvatheDiva
Attention seeking, yes!! I believe they hate rejection!! It's been difficult trying to get mines to understand that I'm with him bc I love him not for financial help or sex. Sex is very important to me as I have needs as a nympho but that's not why I want him in my life. I'm really learning that just like me and my cousin are closes like best friends that's how close I have been to all Sags and it's crazy. I've never dated one until now and I think after its all said and done he will be the last. Smh.... I have a Aries ex who was wonderful to me and loves me and can't get over me but he was something else too. It's just so hard to find your soulmate the way the world and people are set up. Smh

I had to get my two cents in on this one since I LOVE your topic and now understand that Saggies cannot stand rejection. Hmmmmm. Yeah the sex was GREAT!!! But to a certain limit as it's private for me and I can add that he said no other woman did "that" to him like I did (and he's 48 years old!!). If the SEX is good, but you treat my son bad, and you don't care about your health (he has high cholesterol, thyroid problems, over weight, etc) and he didn't care what he ate (believe you me I would print out foods to stay way from when it triggers his thyroid and from the horses mouth he said, "I'm gonna eat what I wanna eat"; okay, I knew this guy was not worth my time, I will LEAVE him (if the sex is good I will leave him!). I have Big Grin Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Lol. I love it!! Mines wasn't bad but it pissed me off when I asked for help cleaning up the house and he would do what he wanted and say that's a woman's job!!! I'm like now if you lived alone who would clean the house then?? Lol. Too funny....


Nope. We never got to that part where I asked him to clean my house as he was just my boyfriend and a "guest", but he said he LOVED honey do lists. Well, my toilet paper roll needed to be installed as it was "wobbly" and I "hinted" to him about it and he NEVER got to change it! Hells, bells, when I severed the relationship I FINALLY changed it myself (in July; as I bought it from Wally-Mart)! I was on the floor on my hands and knees with all the tools needed and I got it right!!! LOL! I am soooooo proud of myself!Laughing Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva



Sags are great buddies, wonderful partner in crime, adventurous and travelling with them can be super fun because they are willing to try everything! But until they are ready to settle down, which you wouldn't know when, it's best to not jump in a relationship with them.

They are not the romantic dudes all the times, to them it's too cheesy. The only thing I like about my relationship with my ex Sag is that, he's all rolled into one. We are like best friends, lover bla bla bla even enemies. LOL

I don't hate him though, because of course he do have his good qualities too. If you ask me would I take him back if one day he were to come running back and promise that he will change, my answer will be NO. I'd rather us stick as friends so that it will last forever than getting back together, got hurt again and again which would then makes us become sworn enemies. Nay...



I hear ya!!! I don't know if they can ever change and that's why I've gotten over the whole situation me and my dude had. I can't afford to deal with lies when I'm being the best woman I can to him. They don't know what they want. But they seek attention too much for me and I'm not like that at all.



I've dated 2 Sags. One for a very long time, the other just for a lil while and both had the same thing going on with them. It's funny when I think about how similar they are with their characters and mindset.

Whatever you had been through with your Sag, the arguments where he will make it sounds like you were the one at fault when it was clearly his, lol, been there, done that until I question my own sanity. I'm a Gemini. I do have to admit I can be batshit crazy too but compared to them both, I am more "human". Big Grin

I don't hate the Sag, not at all. I do miss him sometimes but it's a toxic relationship and I know, no matter what, I am not gonna be feeling peaceful if we were still together. Those lies are way too much for me to deal with and the fact that he won't admit his mistakes is a major turn off. Friendship is the best with the men from this sign and should just remain at that until they are ready to finally settle down. smile



So true!!! It's bad bc they see no wrong. The men are something else. The women I know are totally cool but lowkey crazy as hell. Lol. They are loyal and them men are whores. You described it best when you said "Toxic" bc that's what it is. I can't live and be happy knowing that you will hurt me once and then do it again. They lie so much and it's like why especially when they're the ones asking for honesty and loyalty from you but they don't do it in return.
Posted by LadyJuicy

Sags are great buddies, wonderful partner in crime, adventurous and travelling with them can be super fun because they are willing to try everything! But until they are ready to settle down, which you wouldn't know when, it's best to not jump in a relationship with them.

They are not the romantic dudes all the times, to them it's too cheesy. The only thing I like about my relationship wi

I've dated 2 Sags. One for a very long time, the other just for a lil while and both had the same thing going on with them. It's funny when I think about how similar they are with their characters and mindset.

Whatever you had been through with your Sag, the arguments where he will make it sounds like you were the one at fault when it was clearly his, lol, been there, done that until I question my own sanity. I'm a Gemini. I do have to admit I can be batshit crazy too but compared to them both, I am more "human". Big Grin

I don't hate the Sag, not at all. I do miss him sometimes but it's a toxic relationship and I know, no matter what, I am not gonna be feeling peaceful if we were still together. Those lies are way too much for me to deal with and the fact that he won't admit his mistakes is a major turn off. Friendship is the best with the men from this sign and should just remain at that until they are ready to finally settle down. smile




So true!!! It's bad bc they see no wrong. The men are something else. The women I know are totally cool but lowkey crazy as hell. Lol. They are loyal and them men are whores. You described it best when you said "Toxic" bc that's what it is. I can't live and be happy knowing that you will hurt me once and then do it again. They lie so much and it's like why especially when they're the ones asking for honesty and loyalty from you but they don't do it in return.

Posted by AneemA
Yep. Only once tho. It lasted to 4 dates and that's about it. Sagi sun, virgo moon and rising, scorp merc and venus (rx), aqua mars. The last one was sexual. The sex ended up not satisfying for him. Then, a good bye.

A month was the time I could maintain his interest.

Lol

"People aren't loyal to you. They're loyal to their needs."
D*% # that's messed up!!! What's your sign?
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Posted by AneemA
Yep. Only once tho. It lasted to 4 dates and that's about it. Sagi sun, virgo moon and rising, scorp merc and venus (rx), aqua mars. The last one was sexual. The sex ended up not satisfying for him. Then, a good bye.

A month was the time I could maintain his interest.

Lol

"People aren't loyal to you. They're loyal to their needs."
Sex not up to par?!! That's a poor excuse... Sags are worthless. You can buy them for a dime at the local supermarket.
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???? your are too funny!!!

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Posted by AneemA
Yep. Only once tho. It lasted to 4 dates and that's about it. Sagi sun, virgo moon and rising, scorp merc and venus (rx), aqua mars. The last one was sexual. The sex ended up not satisfying for him. Then, a good bye.

A month was the time I could maintain his interest.

Lol

"People aren't loyal to you. They're loyal to their needs."
Sex not up to par?!! That's a poor excuse... Sags are worthless. You can buy them for a dime at the local supermarket.
???? your are too funny!!!

But I tell the truth. They are way too cheap for a Taurus woman!!! They want you to spend good money on them. Too attention seeking from any kind of woman.

The acquaintance I know has five placenta in sag. He has two children under six with his SO of 12 years who is a Virgo. He is cheating on her with an Aqua for at least 12 months and even had a "fuck buddy" on top of that!! I am his confidant, friends, counsellor etc. I managed to persuade him to give up the fuck buddy now I'm trying to make him give up his mistress and become a single father and end both relationship as the relationship with his SO doesn't work either. But sag love attention and drama.

He said he couldn't date me as I too "aloof" goooooooood I said... I have a Taurus and we see eye to eye and sing from the same hymn sheet!!! ? ? ?
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I hear ya. Trying to make my cousin love one woman and one woman only!!!

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