Diary of a Single Black Woman...

I've had a few man problems since I been gone,thought i'd share wit u... I'll break it down by way of star signs:

Aqua: Finally found out why my aqua was disappearing and acting distant months ago...he had a girlfriend! How do I know? Because she got into his phone and proceeded to call me for a nice little woman to woman conversation. Yeah the shit hit the fan and then blew right into his face. It ends up he's been with this chick a year, telling her all that bull butter he was telling me. Felt sorry for her really b/c you could tell she is really in love with me, fortunately for me, I had picked up on the warning signals a long time ago so he was just a friend that I let hit it from time to time. The funniest thing is he called me that same day to ask if we can still be friends? All I could do was laugh to save myself from reaching through the phone and choking the hell out of him. Damn u aquas! Can you come down from the twilight zone once in a while to face reality?

Scorpio: I'm being stalked by a scorpion guy I met at a club. By the time I get home I have 2 missed calls and a text asking if we can meet up the next day. I didn't respond. I get woken up the following morning to my phone?its him again, I don't answer. He then calls me 3 more times within the next hour, I still don't answer and now I'm beginning to get pissed off. Lets just say this was Sunday, since then I have not answered any of his calls and I swear he has left a total of 6 voicemails, 10 missed calls and 7 texts! Why are Scorpio's such stalkers? Help me!

Cancer: My cancer baby is still ALL GOOD! Still loving him even though he's going through one of his ?leave me the hell alone moments?. That's why I love him so b/c I know him and he knows me. He's been moody for the past couple days and when I spoke to him last night I could still hear the coldness so acted cold back. Since I was giving him no attention, he asks me to come over telling me he needed me, so I said NO! He asks why I and I told him that he wasn't ready for me. He says he is and I just say i can't feel the love...call me when you are really ready! He starts laughing and tells me that's why he loves me! I say whatever and put the phone down. Crazy but somehow it works for both of us. I'll go give him sum later today! If all other signs were like the Cancer/Taurus combo the world would be a better place (sometimes)! lol

Atlantic Myst: I love him but we're not in a one-on-one relationship. When i first met him that's what i wanted but he wasn't ready, i know he cares for me but he's just not ready to commit to anyone right now. If you read my previous posts from 2006 you will see all the drama. We just have a casual relationship which works for both of us! So in the meantime i'm young free and single and looking to mingle...the same as him. I dont think there's anything wrong with that as long as both parties know where they stand and we do! The sad thing is though no matter who i meet i always end up right back to my cancer and likewise with my cancer to me. Would i like to be with him exclusively? yes! Is he ready for that? no! Am i ready for that? i thought i was but over time i'm not so sure! So until then i'm like chucky...his friend to the end! lol

Oh and the funny thing is my cancer was the one who wanted the casual relationship but yet he's the one who gets so mad when he finds out i'm out there doing my thing! Go figure!

Merc: Dont think i'd read it either...dont really do tired men let alone tired black ones! LOL!

MEN write diaries i thought ...anyways I CALL IT MEMOIRS OF A SLEEPY AND FRUSTRATED BLack hardworking INDUSTRIOUS ...... guy. YEs the title is long but hey it will make MILLIOOOONNSSS,lol. NO plagurism please. And also give da cacner guy a chance he will sparkle in ur eye. BUT AS BEeNIE MAN AH SAY"IF YUH FED UP OF YUH BOYFRIEND >>LET HIM GOOO" ooh yeah mmmm taurus loving IS DA BEST loving

Be upfront with the Scorpio and let him know you aren't interested and won't be his friend neither.
I been thru this before with stalkers so I suggest getting a voicemail only number (I have one, its free on this website you sign up at www.privatephone.com,let them know what area code you want and setup the voice greeting, then when you get a voicemail it will send you a text to your cell) so that they don't have your number & you can decide whether or not you want to call them back.

25th Decan: Did you not read the title...Diary of a SINGLE black woman, "single" being the operative word. If they weren't losers then obviously i'd be in a serious relationship with them and since i'm not i really dont give a butter! You meet people in life for different purposes, yes when i met these men i hoped for something longterm but then when the cracks began to show i realised they weren't "the one". So once i knew that within myself dealing with them became easier. They are who they are and I am who i am. I am enjoying being "single" but at the same time i have sexual needs too. I have no intention of sleeping with the aqua again but if he wants to call me and chat sometimes, he can feel free...the Scorpio doesn't stand a chance and my Cancer will always be my Cancer, we both know where we stand so what's fake about that? am i mad for allowing a guy i chill and have good chemistry with to hit it now and again when i get pleasure out of it also— If I am, well welcome to a mad world! I'm just a squirrel trying to get a nut, dont hate! 😉

CapAngel: Wha gwan my gurl? Thanks for the heads up. I dont usually give my number out like that but he was hanging out in our section of the club that night and seemed cool. The calling thing just put me off, i wish he hadn't called so much b/c then i would have answered. He just seems needy and i don't do needy men. I'm not losing sleep over it though! 🙂

mmmmmmm VENus nuttin mmmmmmm *grabs venus by the waist. AN dyes i'm cancer and proud of it.lol.