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Jun 10, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 966 · Topics: 54
Im upset (actually im over it now) but im just keeping my distant, ignoring and have been hibernating and not making any communication/contact with my taurus friend.
She did something which annoyed me on the weekend and since then I've gone cold and distant and have ignored her calls and texts. She knows something is up because the first day of my ignoring she rocked up to my house that night unannounced but I kept it short, went in my room and kept to myself.
Anyway point of my question is, if I ignore her for a few days longer will the joke be on me at the end and will she be mad at me? How would she react "from a taurean point of view" if I re appear next week and act like nothing happened but apologise and tell her i've been hibernating from everyone not just her and its because im dealing with some issues will she be understanding or take it to heart and not want to speak to me again?
Or is it best to quit the games now and just contact her rather than drag it on further? Its been 5 days that i've been doing this I was planning to do it for 2 more days until monday..
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Jun 10, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 966 · Topics: 54
Oh yea and the first day I started this "hibernation" lol she sent me an abusive text saying that if I didnt want to speak to her just to tell her so she didnt waste her "fucking time" trying to speak to me and why am I ignoring her when I had been on facebook all day talking to another mutual friend of ours.. (I ignored this text and switched my fone off THEN that night she rocked up to my house..)
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Jun 12, 2008Comments: 2 · Posts: 4648 · Topics: 31
In response to the OP - I don't care if someone ignores me because guess what - they will be written off, so then they won't have to worry about ignoring me because they will get a wall between us higher than the Great Wall of China. If someone wants to play games, they are more than welcome to it, because they will be playing ... alone.
If someone has a beef w/me and tells me like a man or a woman, I won't say that initially I may not be upset/annoyed/butthurt, BUT, if there is any validity to what they've said, and it's constructive criticism, I'll need a day to marinate on it, and then I can get back to them and tell them what I think. If I agree with them - I'll say that. If I agree with part of their beef - I'll say that. If I think they are full of ish - I'll say that too. I'm usually a reasonable person, so I'll apologize if I f@ck up (it happens), and then move on, but with that being said, I don't kiss ANYBODY's a $ $ .
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Dec 22, 2009Comments: 438 · Posts: 33721 · Topics: 241
Indeed.. *lightly blowing on deep blue fingernails, lips curling up in a naughty grin*..
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Dec 22, 2009Comments: 438 · Posts: 33721 · Topics: 241
Yes, live and learn. Goodness knows I've made some pretty monumental mistakes. Sometimes it takes a slap to the back of the noggin and "YO!" but I'll admit when I've made them and try to correct it.
Why would u ignore someone u love? Aren't we all make mistakes sometimes? Try to clear the air and continue your relationship. Kindergarten games r for 4 yrs old lil boys. Grow old man!
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Dec 22, 2009Comments: 438 · Posts: 33721 · Topics: 241
LOL I love that avatar. ^
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Jul 21, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 665 · Topics: 52
There is no need to ignore. Simply tell her you are upset and wish to have a few days with no contact. (for when it happens again).
Simple.
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Jun 10, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 966 · Topics: 54
Okay okay okay thanks for the advice! But for 1. WERE NOT lovers or in any sort of 'romantic' relationship.
LOL. Were both females for one and she's one of my best friends..
Its just her and my other leo "best" friend (if u can call her that) kind of not so much ganged up on me but just.. ugh the taurus was sucking up big time to the leo and the leo was BASKING in the admiration. I was being nothing but nice (AS I USUALY AM - in comparison how I MIGHT seem over these posts) and she just pretty much treated me like shit, barely spoke to me all night (we all went out to a concert) and just ignored me and sucked up the leo's ass all night and yes i hate to admit it but it hurt me I just felt like i was getting ganged up on and like I wasnt being made 'part' of the group I just felt left out and im not good at voicing out my feelings and hurts etc so instead I just shut down, retreat, deal with it and then come back once I feel better... Maybe taurus didnt realise what she did to upset me or that she was upsetting me at all (since I never said anything just went all serious all of a sudden).
Maybe I am taking this overboard since its going to be nearly 1 week of not speaking to my taurus mate and we usually speak everyday.
Im over it but im just being a baby about it. Im not going to deny that. I'll come out of hibernating on Monday and i'll speak to her and TRY and explain why i was being the way I was.. its just I know she has a tendancy to have a big mouth and I DONT want her to mention this to the leo because thats another story!
I think it's safe to say that, yes they very much do lol. But ig its understandable BC in reality no Matter how hard they try to say things like idc about being ignored, they do. They are social as well as emotional signs. Ik about 8 Tauruses and have grown up with a few of them for a while and
I have a very good understanding on them. Tauruses much like most fixed sf signs have a plethora of intense emotions with the task of keeping them in check as well as guarding them,as a friend you display more of ur emotions to that person whether unwillingly or not. She feels betrayed by u BC of ur sudden disruptive behavior and her subtle lashings are just a defense mechanism.
Maybe it's a 6 year old thread, but it's still an interesting subject...especially knowing that bulls like to ignore people themselves