do they say what they mean??
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by AquariusBrit on Monday, September 21, 2009 and has 8 replies.
if a taurus guy u have never met but ur meetin him on mutual grounds with mutual people around (in 2 months time) that u have contact with everyday of the week, states he does like me, n does wanna meet me, but will have to see how it goes after meetin actually mean that?
what are taurus like for first 'date like' scenrios?
are they the sort to just leave it. n look at negatives i.e the fact we live an hour n half away from eachother, and we have started speakin due to weird circumstances?
or do they get that possesive feeling or a feeling of yes i wanna see that person again when they like em?
what are taurus like for first 'date like' scenrios?
are they the sort to just leave it. n look at negatives i.e the fact we live an hour n half away from eachother, and we have started speakin due to weird circumstances?
or do they get that possesive feeling or a feeling of yes i wanna see that person again when they like em?
Yes...Taurus usually always mean what they say. They don't usually straddle the fence. In fact, they usually think in black and white. They either like you or they don't. Seeing you, smelling you, and hearing your voice will all play a TREMENDOUS role in whether or not Mr. Bull is attracted to you. Living 1 1/2 hours away will most likely put a strain on things, as they are earth signs. They need you to be present (so that they can engage all of their senses - very sensual beings).
Yes, we mean what we say.
states he does like me, n does wanna meet me, but will have to see how it goes after meetin actually mean that?
I said the same exact thing to the guy I like. That last statement right there, "seeing how it goes" just validates that he takes you seriously and a possible relationship with you in the flesh, seriously. Like what has been said, he does not want to lead you on. He's being thoughtful of you and protectful of himself at the same time. As for wanting to take it further? You will know. In general, Taurus does not play games but of course every sign has their bad apples. So far, he doesn't seem the type. Goodluck!
states he does like me, n does wanna meet me, but will have to see how it goes after meetin actually mean that?
I said the same exact thing to the guy I like. That last statement right there, "seeing how it goes" just validates that he takes you seriously and a possible relationship with you in the flesh, seriously. Like what has been said, he does not want to lead you on. He's being thoughtful of you and protectful of himself at the same time. As for wanting to take it further? You will know. In general, Taurus does not play games but of course every sign has their bad apples. So far, he doesn't seem the type. Goodluck!
Thankyou for all your advice...
i was going on a night out last night and the taurus guy i have never met, sent me a txt sayin so are you gunna meet another guy?
n i messaged back sayin i dunno y?
he messaged back sayin jus wondering
i messaged back sayin ur not bothered anyway
he messaged back nope
so i left it all day then i got another txt later on sayin
are u gunna cheat on me tonight then?
i txt back sayin what cheat on an imaginary boyfriend?
he txt back sayin so is that what i am?
i then tryed ringin him later on he ignored n txt me sayin wot do u wanna talk about i said answer so i can tell u
he messaged back sayin i cant be arsed.
i messaged back sayin ok then uv made it easy for me.. thanks
cba with the head mess, this taurus guy is playing with my head!!!!!!
i was going on a night out last night and the taurus guy i have never met, sent me a txt sayin so are you gunna meet another guy?
n i messaged back sayin i dunno y?
he messaged back sayin jus wondering
i messaged back sayin ur not bothered anyway
he messaged back nope
so i left it all day then i got another txt later on sayin
are u gunna cheat on me tonight then?
i txt back sayin what cheat on an imaginary boyfriend?
he txt back sayin so is that what i am?
i then tryed ringin him later on he ignored n txt me sayin wot do u wanna talk about i said answer so i can tell u
he messaged back sayin i cant be arsed.
i messaged back sayin ok then uv made it easy for me.. thanks
cba with the head mess, this taurus guy is playing with my head!!!!!!
Hmmmm....sounds like the possessive nature is coming out. Understand that the possessiveness exists because they want security. It also sounds like he DOES like you, WAS bothered by the possibility of you meeting another guy, and DOES NOT want you to do so. The "are u gunna cheat on me tonight then?" comment was out of context, but seems like the only way that he could convey to you that he was "bothered" by all of this...
Taureans have never been good with words or explaining their feelings. I think it comes across as "head games," but it's all very easy to read. He already told you that he wants to meet you. And it was fair for him to say that he didn't know whether or not he could proceed unless he met you in person. He didn't want you to throw it all away when you went out last night. Bulls are terrified of rejection.
When he asked you if you were gonna meet another guy, you said that you didn't know. That's the worst thing you could've said (other than that it was your plan to meet another guy). And frankly, that was a "head game" maneuver on your part. Cum on...you know it. You wanted to see how he would respond. And he kinda fell right into your trap, about which he will probably feel resentful.
Did he contact you the next day?
Taureans have never been good with words or explaining their feelings. I think it comes across as "head games," but it's all very easy to read. He already told you that he wants to meet you. And it was fair for him to say that he didn't know whether or not he could proceed unless he met you in person. He didn't want you to throw it all away when you went out last night. Bulls are terrified of rejection.
When he asked you if you were gonna meet another guy, you said that you didn't know. That's the worst thing you could've said (other than that it was your plan to meet another guy). And frankly, that was a "head game" maneuver on your part. Cum on...you know it. You wanted to see how he would respond. And he kinda fell right into your trap, about which he will probably feel resentful.
Did he contact you the next day?
yeh i guess sayin i dunno was me wantin to make him get a kick up the arse (i know taurus are slow movers) but i want him to have a slight push haha.
prob the aquarian in me....(impatient soul)
yes the nx day he sent a message about some football player n i was at work i didnt reply....partly because i was pissed off he didnt want to answer the phone to me,
then later on las nyt he txt me sayin 'so is it over?'
i txt him back sayin 'what is it thats meant to be over?'
he messaged back 'god chill out!'
i messaged back sayin 'im chilled its u messin my head up'
he messaged back '?'
i said 'ur pissin me about'
he said give over...
i didnt reply at this point coz i thought here we go more head messingness to come then he txt me back sayin he was drunk
i didnt reply
n then he txt me again sayin oi!
so i replyed sayin 'u didnt wanna speak to me yesterday, ur makin me feel like a twat'
he said 'im not, i like u, u know i do!'
i said u dont be a twat with someone u like
he said he wernt bein a twat
i said u r
he said are we finished?
i said u keep sayin r we over? are we finished? r u gunna cheat on me...when did u become my boyfriend??
he said dont know u had a boyfriend soz,
i said i dont!!!!!
he txt back sayin ur confusin me!
i said its all a big game to u,n i dont wanna be apart of ur game.
he said i do like you
i said ring me if ur bothered
he messaged back i cant, im goin to sleep.
not heard from him today.....once again my head is messed!!!!?????
prob the aquarian in me....(impatient soul)
yes the nx day he sent a message about some football player n i was at work i didnt reply....partly because i was pissed off he didnt want to answer the phone to me,
then later on las nyt he txt me sayin 'so is it over?'
i txt him back sayin 'what is it thats meant to be over?'
he messaged back 'god chill out!'
i messaged back sayin 'im chilled its u messin my head up'
he messaged back '?'
i said 'ur pissin me about'
he said give over...
i didnt reply at this point coz i thought here we go more head messingness to come then he txt me back sayin he was drunk
i didnt reply
n then he txt me again sayin oi!
so i replyed sayin 'u didnt wanna speak to me yesterday, ur makin me feel like a twat'
he said 'im not, i like u, u know i do!'
i said u dont be a twat with someone u like
he said he wernt bein a twat
i said u r
he said are we finished?
i said u keep sayin r we over? are we finished? r u gunna cheat on me...when did u become my boyfriend??
he said dont know u had a boyfriend soz,
i said i dont!!!!!
he txt back sayin ur confusin me!
i said its all a big game to u,n i dont wanna be apart of ur game.
he said i do like you
i said ring me if ur bothered
he messaged back i cant, im goin to sleep.
not heard from him today.....once again my head is messed!!!!?????
Oh man...this is getting messy. Do you know his Ascendant or Venus? When do you actually meet him in person? Say...when you meet him...you two really hit it off. Then what? Is one of you going to move closer to the other? If not, it seems like it's a moot point to continue what's occuring between the two of you. In the meantime, I suggest that you tell him straight out that it bothers you that he will not call you. You could appeal to his sensual nature by saying that you want to hear his voice. Have you spoken on the phone before? I'm thinking that he doesn't want to be put on the spot if he calls and you drill him with questions that he cannot answer. With texting, he has time to ponder and respond in his own time...it's safer. How old is this Bull?
he is 22, his birthday is 23rd april.
thats exactly why he wont answer coz he thinks i will nag him, or make him answer questions...i kno that for a fact.....
well last nyt he txt me sayin r u ignorin me if so why?
i messaged back sayin i am not ignorin u
he replyed wots ur prob then
i said i havent got a prob
he said u have with me
i said look uv made it blatant u dont like me in that way so wot do u want me to do
he said ur an idiot if i didnt like u why would i message u?
i said i never kno wer i stand one min u wanna jus be my mate, the next u fancy me, the next ur askin me not to cheat...ur messin my head
he replies...we r never gunna be a couple, we live to far away it just wouldnt work, doesnt mean i dont fancy u
i reply well if thats wot u want?
he replies wot do u want?? go on all cards on table!
i said seein as one of my friends has a replationship with someone 5 hours away n she manages a one hour journey is nothign n i dont see the prob
he says so ud be happy with a bf u see once a week?
i said well yeh at first then obv as time went on ud find time i u liked someone enough once a week would do
he replys ur mental it cant work?
i reply ok then
he says that doesnt stop me from likin u
i said ok
he says ur not bothered are u?
i said bothered about which bit?
he says nowt forget it
i said bothered about u likin me or bothered that u dnt want anything, at end of day iv told u what i want n u say im mental n it wont work? so what do u want me to do?
he says dnt know, im stumped.
i say i dnt jus like anyone? i dont like people who things are never gunna happen with. ur not even willing to see if it would work, ur giving up not me!
then i get no reply
so today i made the first move by txtin him
he says wot!?
i saud wots the crack, so u jus wanna be my pal. jus see u in nov as planned but as mates?coz if thats wot u want i will do wot u want hun?
n iv had no reply allllllll day!
god dammit!
thats exactly why he wont answer coz he thinks i will nag him, or make him answer questions...i kno that for a fact.....
well last nyt he txt me sayin r u ignorin me if so why?
i messaged back sayin i am not ignorin u
he replyed wots ur prob then
i said i havent got a prob
he said u have with me
i said look uv made it blatant u dont like me in that way so wot do u want me to do
he said ur an idiot if i didnt like u why would i message u?
i said i never kno wer i stand one min u wanna jus be my mate, the next u fancy me, the next ur askin me not to cheat...ur messin my head
he replies...we r never gunna be a couple, we live to far away it just wouldnt work, doesnt mean i dont fancy u
i reply well if thats wot u want?
he replies wot do u want?? go on all cards on table!
i said seein as one of my friends has a replationship with someone 5 hours away n she manages a one hour journey is nothign n i dont see the prob
he says so ud be happy with a bf u see once a week?
i said well yeh at first then obv as time went on ud find time i u liked someone enough once a week would do
he replys ur mental it cant work?
i reply ok then
he says that doesnt stop me from likin u
i said ok
he says ur not bothered are u?
i said bothered about which bit?
he says nowt forget it
i said bothered about u likin me or bothered that u dnt want anything, at end of day iv told u what i want n u say im mental n it wont work? so what do u want me to do?
he says dnt know, im stumped.
i say i dnt jus like anyone? i dont like people who things are never gunna happen with. ur not even willing to see if it would work, ur giving up not me!
then i get no reply
so today i made the first move by txtin him
he says wot!?
i saud wots the crack, so u jus wanna be my pal. jus see u in nov as planned but as mates?coz if thats wot u want i will do wot u want hun?
n iv had no reply allllllll day!
god dammit!
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