Dumb Disappear/Reappear Games W/ Taurus Man
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by brownhunnie on Monday, May 1, 2017 and has 35 replies.
I've come to the conclusion that Taurus males play hot/cold/disappearing/I'm busy games. I am no longer asking why. Every Taurus male I've met does it. (I'm pretty sure there are some exceptions out there but I can not relate.)
What I ultimately want to know is how you should respond to the hot and cold games?
I know while a person ignores you that you should ignore them to and don't keep calling and texting when they're not responding.
But say if I saw him and had good conversations for a week then he ignores me for 3 days then randomly calls or texts me... Should I show him how ignoring me feels and then ignore him? Or should I cave in and respond to whenever he hits me up like I'm on his time?
What I ultimately want to know is how you should respond to the hot and cold games?
I know while a person ignores you that you should ignore them to and don't keep calling and texting when they're not responding.
But say if I saw him and had good conversations for a week then he ignores me for 3 days then randomly calls or texts me... Should I show him how ignoring me feels and then ignore him? Or should I cave in and respond to whenever he hits me up like I'm on his time?
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?
Ignore that dumbass
Posted by jeaneI called him and texted him twice so he was ignoring me. He's since then texted me good morning but I didnt respond.
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?
Posted by youngali
Life is too short for people to be playing hot & cold games...
But there comes a point where u have to ask yourself...
do you have the time to entertain it...?
I agree, I am entertaining it because I like him. Unfortunately.
Posted by TwistedHaha. Yes!
Ignore that dumbass
Posted by brownhunnieHow long inbetween calls and texts? How long have you known him for?Posted by jeaneI called him and texted him twice so he was ignoring me. He's since then texted me good morning but I didnt respond.
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?click to expand
Posted by jeaneI called once and texted once a day. I've known him for 10 years. Most of those years we were friends and we are only 25... so majority of it has been growing pains of us trying to grow up and find ourselves as individual adults so I don't think it counts lol.Posted by brownhunnieHow long inbetween calls and texts? How long have you known him for?Posted by jeaneI called him and texted him twice so he was ignoring me. He's since then texted me good morning but I didnt respond.
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?click to expand
When I saw him last week he was telling me how much he loves me, was crazy about me and even bought me some things for my new business. Then he just started ignoring me. He didnt answer the phone or text me back in like 4 days. Then texted me saying "good morning baby" with a kiss emoji....Yea right. I didnt reply.
Posted by brownhunniePosted by jeaneI called once and texted once a day. I've known him for 10 years. Most of those years we were friends and we are only 25... so majority of it has been growing pains of us trying to grow up and find ourselves as individual adults so I don't think it counts lol.Posted by brownhunnieHow long inbetween calls and texts? How long have you known him for?Posted by jeaneI called him and texted him twice so he was ignoring me. He's since then texted me good morning but I didnt respond.
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?
When I saw him last week he was telling me how much he loves me, was crazy about me and even bought me some things for my new business. Then he just started ignoring me. He didnt answer the phone or text me back in like 4 days. Then texted me saying "good morning baby" with a kiss emoji....Yea right. I didnt reply.click to expand
He sounds like a kid. Don't put too much stock in his words. Let his actions guide you.
As to what to do? Shit, if my fella did that to me, I would say something. Don't sit on it. He probably doesnt realise that his behaviour is dickish.
Posted by jeanePosted by brownhunniePosted by jeaneI called once and texted once a day. I've known him for 10 years. Most of those years we were friends and we are only 25... so majority of it has been growing pains of us trying to grow up and find ourselves as individual adults so I don't think it counts lol.Posted by brownhunnieHow long inbetween calls and texts? How long have you known him for?Posted by jeaneI called him and texted him twice so he was ignoring me. He's since then texted me good morning but I didnt respond.
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?
When I saw him last week he was telling me how much he loves me, was crazy about me and even bought me some things for my new business. Then he just started ignoring me. He didnt answer the phone or text me back in like 4 days. Then texted me saying "good morning baby" with a kiss emoji....Yea right. I didnt reply.
He sounds like a kid. Don't put too much stock in his words. Let his actions guide you.
As to what to do? Shit, if my fella did that to me, I would say something. Don't sit on it. He probably doesnt realise that his behaviour is dickish.click to expand
What's your sign? He's ignored me before and he knows I dont like. I've told him multiple times.
Posted by brownhunniePosted by jeanePosted by brownhunniePosted by jeaneI called once and texted once a day. I've known him for 10 years. Most of those years we were friends and we are only 25... so majority of it has been growing pains of us trying to grow up and find ourselves as individual adults so I don't think it counts lol.Posted by brownhunnieHow long inbetween calls and texts? How long have you known him for?Posted by jeaneI called him and texted him twice so he was ignoring me. He's since then texted me good morning but I didnt respond.
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?
When I saw him last week he was telling me how much he loves me, was crazy about me and even bought me some things for my new business. Then he just started ignoring me. He didnt answer the phone or text me back in like 4 days. Then texted me saying "good morning baby" with a kiss emoji....Yea right. I didnt reply.
He sounds like a kid. Don't put too much stock in his words. Let his actions guide you.
As to what to do? Shit, if my fella did that to me, I would say something. Don't sit on it. He probably doesnt realise that his behaviour is dickish.
What's your sign? He's ignored me before and he knows I dont like. I've told him multiple times.click to expand
Im a libra. If he know's that it's something that you dont like then he knows what he is doing.
I guess its up to you whether that is OK with you.
Odd. I was in a relationship with a Taurus man and he never ignored me. He was pretty much a stage 5 clinger actually.
Posted by jeane
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?
Damn!
Posted by brownhunnie
I've come to the conclusion that Taurus males play hot/cold/disappearing/I'm busy games. I am no longer asking why. Every Taurus male I've met does it. (I'm pretty sure there are some exceptions out there but I can not relate.)
What I ultimately want to know is how you should respond to the hot and cold games?
I know while a person ignores you that you should ignore them to and don't keep calling and texting when they're not responding.
But say if I saw him and had good conversations for a week then he ignores me for 3 days then randomly calls or texts me... Should I show him how ignoring me feels and then ignore him? Or should I cave in and respond to whenever he hits me up like I'm on his time?
He's regulating his incoming reality with boundaries. What's wrong with that?
Most adults regulate the dosages of contact in accordance to who they are and how much space they need in order to be responsible for their own emotional well-being.
He sounds very mature sweetie! I wish I had the guts to "TAKE" needed space from friends and loved ones when I need it.
People like that have long relationships because they know how to take care of their needs. Your question "...should you just be available when his need for space has subsided?" If you truly are available then yeah be available but if you are busy or you need your own space then take it.
Didn't you say that you two speak for a week everyday followed by 2-3 days of space to rejuvenate? That's not bad at all! Just get busy when he needs space it's all good boo.?
Posted by brownhunniePosted by jeaneI called him and texted him twice so he was ignoring me. He's since then texted me good morning but I didnt respond.
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?click to expand
My Capricorn ex of 10 years was like that too. He loved me, borderline worshipped. We lived together build a life with each other, together all the time..... but if I called him 9 times out of 10 he was not going to pick up the phone and when I text I didn't get a response for two to three hours later. Unless we had plans.
Initially I took it personally until I realized he did that with everybody including his kids and mother.
Everybody doesn't like the phone. It used to really bother me but I just adjusted myself to his personality and didn't take it personally. ?
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by brownhunniePosted by jeaneI called him and texted him twice so he was ignoring me. He's since then texted me good morning but I didnt respond.
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?
My Capricorn ex of 10 years was like that too. He loved me, borderline worshipped. We lived together build a life with each other, together all the time..... but if I called him 9 times out of 10 he was not going to pick up the phone and when I text I didn't get a response for two to three hours later. Unless we had plans.
Initially I took it personally until I realized he did that with everybody including his kids and mother.
Everybody doesn't like the phone. It used to really bother me but I just adjusted myself to his personality and didn't take it personally. ?
But he is now your "EX" ... Something obviously went wrong...click to expand
& he has a capricorn moon. & venus in gemini. I wonder what that makes of this Taurus? ?
Posted by brownhunnieIt makes him an emotionally cold, unreliable flake.
& he has a capricorn moon. & venus in gemini. I wonder what that makes of this Taurus? ?
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Yeah but it had nothing to do with his need for space and my adjustment to it.?Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by brownhunniePosted by jeaneI called him and texted him twice so he was ignoring me. He's since then texted me good morning but I didnt respond.
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?
My Capricorn ex of 10 years was like that too. He loved me, borderline worshipped. We lived together build a life with each other, together all the time..... but if I called him 9 times out of 10 he was not going to pick up the phone and when I text I didn't get a response for two to three hours later. Unless we had plans.
Initially I took it personally until I realized he did that with everybody including his kids and mother.
Everybody doesn't like the phone. It used to really bother me but I just adjusted myself to his personality and didn't take it personally. ?
But he is now your "EX" ... Something obviously went wrong...click to expand
I don't know how much rejuvenating someone should need after texting a girl he supposedly loves. It shouldn't be a soul-sucking endeavor.
True, some people are not prolific texters, but when the girl you're in love with says she wants you to touch base a little more, how the hell hard can it be to give her that?
If he knows how the OP feels and he still drops off from time to time, maybe he's trying to prove a point, like he does what he wants and he doesn't want to be tied down. Cool, but then he'd be a better match for a girl who has the same style .
True, some people are not prolific texters, but when the girl you're in love with says she wants you to touch base a little more, how the hell hard can it be to give her that?
If he knows how the OP feels and he still drops off from time to time, maybe he's trying to prove a point, like he does what he wants and he doesn't want to be tied down. Cool, but then he'd be a better match for a girl who has the same style .
Posted by brownhunniePosted by jeanePosted by brownhunniePosted by jeaneI called once and texted once a day. I've known him for 10 years. Most of those years we were friends and we are only 25... so majority of it has been growing pains of us trying to grow up and find ourselves as individual adults so I don't think it counts lol.Posted by brownhunnieHow long inbetween calls and texts? How long have you known him for?Posted by jeaneI called him and texted him twice so he was ignoring me. He's since then texted me good morning but I didnt respond.
Is he ignoring you or is he not confirming to your mental timetable?
When I saw him last week he was telling me how much he loves me, was crazy about me and even bought me some things for my new business. Then he just started ignoring me. He didnt answer the phone or text me back in like 4 days. Then texted me saying "good morning baby" with a kiss emoji....Yea right. I didnt reply.
He sounds like a kid. Don't put too much stock in his words. Let his actions guide you.
As to what to do? Shit, if my fella did that to me, I would say something. Don't sit on it. He probably doesnt realise that his behaviour is dickish.
What's your sign? He's ignored me before and he knows I dont like. I've told him multiple times.click to expand
I didn't see this post. You two are still very young-
so your tools for conflict resolution are still developing. But as an aquarius Moon I would deeply appreciate somebody that left me the f*** alone for 4 days trust and believe that! Girlllll! Lol!
It seems like what's missing is communication when he needs space. With all my air placement I need an enormous amount of space but it's hard to communicate that because my Scorpio placement doesn't want to hurt anybody's feelings. ?
When he needs space, he doesn't communicate it, so you're left wondering what's going on. At 25 I'm not sure again if he has the communication Savvy or awareness to know how to navigate through this sensitive area.
Posted by Bricks195Venus in Gemini likes Independent Women who can understand the air sign's prolific need for space. My Taurus BFF of 23 years has a Venus in Gemini and my Venus is in Libra. I love the holy s*** out of her!
I don't know how much rejuvenating someone should need after texting a girl he supposedly loves. It shouldn't be a soul-sucking endeavor.
True, some people are not prolific texters, but when the girl you're in love with says she wants you to touch base a little more, how the hell hard can it be to give her that?
If he knows how the OP feels and he still drops off from time to time, maybe he's trying to prove a point, like he does what he wants and he doesn't want to be tied down. Cool, but then he'd be a better match for a girl who has the same style .
But air need for space is so barbarically profound that irrespective of our partners need to communicate during that time it feels unnatural.
But yes I would have to admit that if you have communicated to him that it bothers you and he hasn't been responsive that is suspect!!
So sometimes my BFF Taurus of 23 years will tell me something that I do that she doesn't like and I won't change until she shows me what it feels like. ROFLMOA!!!!
So you ghost for 4 days so he can see what that feels like I bet you he'll be singing another tune.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Well that just sucks.Posted by brownhunnieIt makes him an emotionally cold, unreliable flake.
& he has a capricorn moon. & venus in gemini. I wonder what that makes of this Taurus? ?click to expand
Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Bricks195Venus in Gemini likes Independent Women who can understand the air sign's prolific need for space. My Taurus BFF of 22 years has a Venus in Gemini and my Venus is in Libra. I love the holy s*** out of her!
I don't know how much rejuvenating someone should need after texting a girl he supposedly loves. It shouldn't be a soul-sucking endeavor.
True, some people are not prolific texters, but when the girl you're in love with says she wants you to touch base a little more, how the hell hard can it be to give her that?
If he knows how the OP feels and he still drops off from time to time, maybe he's trying to prove a point, like he does what he wants and he doesn't want to be tied down. Cool, but then he'd be a better match for a girl who has the same style .
But air need for space is so barbarically profound that irrespective of our partners need to communicate during that time it feels unnatural.
But yes I would have to admit that if you have communicated to him that it bothers you and he hasn't been responsive that is suspect!!
But I still have a very hard time taking space when I need it too so I really understand the Venus in Gemini's plight.
So sometimes my BFF Taurus of 23 years will tell me something that I do that she doesn't like and I won't change until she shows me what it feels like. ROFLMOA!!!!
So you ghost for 4 days so he can see what that feels like I bet you he'll be singing another tune.click to expand
But doesnt that Venus in Gemini need for space also come with other love interests?
Damn.
I do this too. I don't know if it's a Taurus thing or not, but it's definitely true of me.
In my case, it's because I'm so detached and in my own head: Taurus can fixate on EVERY little thing. Thus if I'm very attached to someone and I think they're losing interest or ignoring me, I can go cold at the drop of a hat (not a healthy or mature tendency, I know). It's mostly subjective and irrational (but hey, Taurus is ruled by Venus and exalts the Moon, and it's part of my make-up).
The speed with which Taurus can go cold seems odd for a sign characterised by consistency and steadiness, but I think this is the "buffoonery" or "stupidity" of Taurus: Taurus is NOT dumb in the sense of intelligence, but can be so egocentric and selfish that they make subjective judgements that are not based in reality at all. In this way, they seem odd and "off" because they go only by what they feel and sense instead of what is actually true.
Whether you should keep going with this guy depends on your situation and how you feel about him. If he's like me, he's just being dumb and overthinking things -- but he might be messing with you too.I'd say give him the benefit of the doubt and be warm with him until he snaps out of his stupidity. If it takes him too long to snap out of it, drop him and forget about him.
I do this too. I don't know if it's a Taurus thing or not, but it's definitely true of me.
In my case, it's because I'm so detached and in my own head: Taurus can fixate on EVERY little thing. Thus if I'm very attached to someone and I think they're losing interest or ignoring me, I can go cold at the drop of a hat (not a healthy or mature tendency, I know). It's mostly subjective and irrational (but hey, Taurus is ruled by Venus and exalts the Moon, and it's part of my make-up).
The speed with which Taurus can go cold seems odd for a sign characterised by consistency and steadiness, but I think this is the "buffoonery" or "stupidity" of Taurus: Taurus is NOT dumb in the sense of intelligence, but can be so egocentric and selfish that they make subjective judgements that are not based in reality at all. In this way, they seem odd and "off" because they go only by what they feel and sense instead of what is actually true.
Whether you should keep going with this guy depends on your situation and how you feel about him. If he's like me, he's just being dumb and overthinking things -- but he might be messing with you too.I'd say give him the benefit of the doubt and be warm with him until he snaps out of his stupidity. If it takes him too long to snap out of it, drop him and forget about him.
Posted by In_the_FadeDefinitely agree with this. With a Taurus, 4 days is NOT a long time, esp if he's very busy with work and very fixated on perfecting things at work. If you're not close together, getting a msg every 2 to 3 weeks or within a month is lucky enough.
Damn.
I do this too. I don't know if it's a Taurus thing or not, but it's definitely true of me.
In my case, it's because I'm so detached and in my own head: Taurus can fixate on EVERY little thing. Thus if I'm very attached to someone and I think they're losing interest or ignoring me, I can go cold at the drop of a hat (not a healthy or mature tendency, I know). It's mostly subjective and irrational (but hey, Taurus is ruled by Venus and exalts the Moon, and it's part of my make-up).
The speed with which Taurus can go cold seems odd for a sign characterised by consistency and steadiness, but I think this is the "buffoonery" or "stupidity" of Taurus: Taurus is NOT dumb in the sense of intelligence, but can be so egocentric and selfish that they make subjective judgements that are not based in reality at all. In this way, they seem odd and "off" because they go only by what they feel and sense instead of what is actually true.
For myself, I also need a lot of space. With all the texting and social media going on, I find a lot of time is lost on answering nitty gritty things from friends and acquaintances. Like you can spend 30 sec to talk in person, but texting takes like 2 min to type the same info across.
I stopped answering uneventful msg from friends and I dislike it that anyone just forward non-sensical youtube videos to me and cost me time to dl crap. But if the video or questions they ask have value, then I feel it's worth it.
Posted by NefertariPosted by In_the_FadeDefinitely agree with this. With a Taurus, 4 days is NOT a long time, esp if he's very busy with work and very fixated on perfecting things at work. If you're not close together, getting a msg every 2 to 3 weeks or within a month is lucky enough.
Damn.
I do this too. I don't know if it's a Taurus thing or not, but it's definitely true of me.
In my case, it's because I'm so detached and in my own head: Taurus can fixate on EVERY little thing. Thus if I'm very attached to someone and I think they're losing interest or ignoring me, I can go cold at the drop of a hat (not a healthy or mature tendency, I know). It's mostly subjective and irrational (but hey, Taurus is ruled by Venus and exalts the Moon, and it's part of my make-up).
The speed with which Taurus can go cold seems odd for a sign characterised by consistency and steadiness, but I think this is the "buffoonery" or "stupidity" of Taurus: Taurus is NOT dumb in the sense of intelligence, but can be so egocentric and selfish that they make subjective judgements that are not based in reality at all. In this way, they seem odd and "off" because they go only by what they feel and sense instead of what is actually true.
For myself, I also need a lot of space. With all the texting and social media going on, I find a lot of time is lost on answering nitty gritty things from friends and acquaintances. Like you can spend 30 sec to talk in person, but texting takes like 2 min to type the same info across.
I stopped answering uneventful msg from friends and I dislike it that anyone just forward non-sensical youtube videos to me and cost me time to dl crap. But if the video or questions they ask have value, then I feel it's worth it.click to expand
How long is a long time in Taurus time? So I know not to over react.
Posted by brownhunnie4 months in your time is like 4 min in Taurus time.Posted by NefertariPosted by In_the_FadeDefinitely agree with this. With a Taurus, 4 days is NOT a long time, esp if he's very busy with work and very fixated on perfecting things at work. If you're not close together, getting a msg every 2 to 3 weeks or within a month is lucky enough.
Damn.
I do this too. I don't know if it's a Taurus thing or not, but it's definitely true of me.
In my case, it's because I'm so detached and in my own head: Taurus can fixate on EVERY little thing. Thus if I'm very attached to someone and I think they're losing interest or ignoring me, I can go cold at the drop of a hat (not a healthy or mature tendency, I know). It's mostly subjective and irrational (but hey, Taurus is ruled by Venus and exalts the Moon, and it's part of my make-up).
The speed with which Taurus can go cold seems odd for a sign characterised by consistency and steadiness, but I think this is the "buffoonery" or "stupidity" of Taurus: Taurus is NOT dumb in the sense of intelligence, but can be so egocentric and selfish that they make subjective judgements that are not based in reality at all. In this way, they seem odd and "off" because they go only by what they feel and sense instead of what is actually true.
For myself, I also need a lot of space. With all the texting and social media going on, I find a lot of time is lost on answering nitty gritty things from friends and acquaintances. Like you can spend 30 sec to talk in person, but texting takes like 2 min to type the same info across.
I stopped answering uneventful msg from friends and I dislike it that anyone just forward non-sensical youtube videos to me and cost me time to dl crap. But if the video or questions they ask have value, then I feel it's worth it.
How long is a long time in Taurus time? So I know not to over react.click to expand
Posted by Maidemarilyn19Lol. How does that even work in dealing with relationships?Posted by brownhunnie4 months in your time is like 4 min in Taurus time.Posted by NefertariPosted by In_the_FadeDefinitely agree with this. With a Taurus, 4 days is NOT a long time, esp if he's very busy with work and very fixated on perfecting things at work. If you're not close together, getting a msg every 2 to 3 weeks or within a month is lucky enough.
Damn.
I do this too. I don't know if it's a Taurus thing or not, but it's definitely true of me.
In my case, it's because I'm so detached and in my own head: Taurus can fixate on EVERY little thing. Thus if I'm very attached to someone and I think they're losing interest or ignoring me, I can go cold at the drop of a hat (not a healthy or mature tendency, I know). It's mostly subjective and irrational (but hey, Taurus is ruled by Venus and exalts the Moon, and it's part of my make-up).
The speed with which Taurus can go cold seems odd for a sign characterised by consistency and steadiness, but I think this is the "buffoonery" or "stupidity" of Taurus: Taurus is NOT dumb in the sense of intelligence, but can be so egocentric and selfish that they make subjective judgements that are not based in reality at all. In this way, they seem odd and "off" because they go only by what they feel and sense instead of what is actually true.
For myself, I also need a lot of space. With all the texting and social media going on, I find a lot of time is lost on answering nitty gritty things from friends and acquaintances. Like you can spend 30 sec to talk in person, but texting takes like 2 min to type the same info across.
I stopped answering uneventful msg from friends and I dislike it that anyone just forward non-sensical youtube videos to me and cost me time to dl crap. But if the video or questions they ask have value, then I feel it's worth it.
How long is a long time in Taurus time? So I know not to over react.click to expand
The infamous game of being unsure...everyone plays..no one wins really..what you can tolerate is the key
Posted by brownhunnieIt is what it is.Posted by Maidemarilyn19Lol. How does that even work in dealing with relationships?Posted by brownhunnie4 months in your time is like 4 min in Taurus time.Posted by NefertariPosted by In_the_FadeDefinitely agree with this. With a Taurus, 4 days is NOT a long time, esp if he's very busy with work and very fixated on perfecting things at work. If you're not close together, getting a msg every 2 to 3 weeks or within a month is lucky enough.
Damn.
I do this too. I don't know if it's a Taurus thing or not, but it's definitely true of me.
In my case, it's because I'm so detached and in my own head: Taurus can fixate on EVERY little thing. Thus if I'm very attached to someone and I think they're losing interest or ignoring me, I can go cold at the drop of a hat (not a healthy or mature tendency, I know). It's mostly subjective and irrational (but hey, Taurus is ruled by Venus and exalts the Moon, and it's part of my make-up).
The speed with which Taurus can go cold seems odd for a sign characterised by consistency and steadiness, but I think this is the "buffoonery" or "stupidity" of Taurus: Taurus is NOT dumb in the sense of intelligence, but can be so egocentric and selfish that they make subjective judgements that are not based in reality at all. In this way, they seem odd and "off" because they go only by what they feel and sense instead of what is actually true.
For myself, I also need a lot of space. With all the texting and social media going on, I find a lot of time is lost on answering nitty gritty things from friends and acquaintances. Like you can spend 30 sec to talk in person, but texting takes like 2 min to type the same info across.
I stopped answering uneventful msg from friends and I dislike it that anyone just forward non-sensical youtube videos to me and cost me time to dl crap. But if the video or questions they ask have value, then I feel it's worth it.
How long is a long time in Taurus time? So I know not to over react.click to expand
You have a choice.
You take it or leave it.
No one's putting a gun to your head. A Taurus takes a lot of patience and if you don't have that, a Taurus is not for you. We are not in a hurry whereas everyone else is.
You have your answer. The rest is up to you. We don't take prisoners.
Posted by brownhunnieMaybe a lifetime is long in Taurus time. Rs wise, three years is just warming up and five years is like knowing whether the rs can make it or not.
How long is a long time in Taurus time? So I know not to over react.
In rgds to texting, depends on the Taurus frequency. Before it becomes a daily routine, 2 weeks to 1 month for a text reply or initiation. They don't answer texts they have no replies to at all or if they cannot resonate, find common ground with your msg.
Usually takes at least half a year for them to know whether you're safe to be in their circle.
Posted by brownhunnie
I've come to the conclusion that Taurus males play hot/cold/disappearing/I'm busy games. I am no longer asking why. Every Taurus male I've met does it. (I'm pretty sure there are some exceptions out there but I can not relate.)
What I ultimately want to know is how you should respond to the hot and cold games?
I know while a person ignores you that you should ignore them to and don't keep calling and texting when they're not responding.
But say if I saw him and had good conversations for a week then he ignores me for 3 days then randomly calls or texts me... Should I show him how ignoring me feels and then ignore him? Or should I cave in and respond to whenever he hits me up like I'm on his time?
@Op I think your making something out of nothing, what is your acceptable level for you, in quenching that needy feeling, or is it suspicion ?.Do you think your just a bit on the side?
For me if my partner gave me space and we played catch up a few day later, that would be bliss, we are not in each other's face, we are not joined at the fucking hip.
A word to the wise, no one wins when you start playing emotional games, your the one who wants to reprogram your conditions of ownership, maybe it's your life that needs to be filled, in which this would never come to the surface.
You have a good relationship, have fun, don't suffocate it with clingy negativity.
For me if my partner gave me space and we played catch up a few day later, that would be bliss, we are not in each other's face, we are not joined at the fucking hip.
A word to the wise, no one wins when you start playing emotional games, your the one who wants to reprogram your conditions of ownership, maybe it's your life that needs to be filled, in which this would never come to the surface.
You have a good relationship, have fun, don't suffocate it with clingy negativity.
Maybe he's very anxious or afraid you did not respond ...
This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "f**k you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 
" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.
" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.Related Topics
But l'm done drawing the transits, too many people just put a "like", not even a "yeah that's quite accurate" or "not really, maybe this and this, but not this, it was more like this". Im putting an effort in, and from some people theres nothing in return
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