Enough of this BS! Taurus rejecting cancers topics

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shishno
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OMG! All these topics about Taurus rejecting cancers is killing me! For christ sake? GIVE US CANCERS CHANCE! What do you gotta lose? One f'ing lunch will not hurt! You have no idea how hard we cancers work just to get to know you. We study shit. And do almost any thing for that 1 lucky magic night we can date you complicated women!. So next time a cancer ask you to lunch. Just give him that one lucky magical chance bc you never know! If only we were given that ONE chance? We will make all your wildest fantasy come true. We are you're knight and you our Princess! So STOP unleashing the dragon on us! Please
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shishno
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Well thank you! Taurus girls are my favorite zodiac signs too! But I can never find a Taurus that I like with that one magical connection that isn't in a relationship. All you bulls are f'ing taken! If you have a boyfriend and he's not a cancer DITCH HIM! f'ing ditch HIM! Goddamnit! I'm going out of my mind all these girls f'ing taken! ok I don't really mean that.... Fuk it! Yea I do! And find some hot cancer guy! W.E. W.I.L.L. M.A.K.E. Y.O.U.R. W.I.L.D.E.S.T D.R.E.A.M.S. C.O.M.E. F'I.N.G T.R.U.E.! I shit you NOT! Yea that's right I said it! Ditch the dingleshit bag and come find a real man! The?. "Dream Man"? I am the dream man
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LOL, Shisno, you crack me up. Are you into PDA and a lot of touching of your love interest? The Cancer I've known a long time, who I am friends with(and was intimate with for awhile) was too much for me. I'm not a PDA person, and I don't mind touching in private settings, but he would just push the envelope. He is a sweetheart, but VERY sensitive. He gets offended by the slightest things. He is also very jealous and territorial, and we weren't even seriously dating one another (although he wanted too). I knew we couldn't because we were friends and I knew I couldn't live with his demanding type A personality. But again he's a lovely guy overall. He looks good, dresses awesome and always smelled good. He's metrosexual 🙂 he gets his nails done and maintains himself to the utmost!
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broken_shell
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YEAH!!! what SHISHNO said!!!!!!!! LOL, we are funny... what's bad is that we're funniest when we're angry. Just a heads up for anyone involved with a cancer, if they're pissed off about something (petty), just laugh at how pissed off they seem... they will start laughing with you. If its not so petty, I would avoid the laughing... this could cause us to snap.

And YES Taurus Women should be worshipped for the princesses they are! You're all just so damn hard to figure out!!! But we love you anyway. 🙂
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"If we like you, you'll know it. If we don't, you'll know that too."

I think this is where Cancer/Taurus run into most of their problems. Cancers are cardinal and like to be in control, especially of their own emotions. So when we meet a Taurus who doesn't like initiating, as many don't we tend to get scared for fear of rejection. We will tend to fall back on contact especially if there aren't clear signs of interest, however, Taurus on the other hand may think that they are sending all the right signals to show their interest.

When I met my first Taurus male, I felt so out of my comfort zone. Our first face to face contact lasted 3.5 hours with us just talking about everything under the sun. He gave me a friendly hug and said he had such a great time with me and then nothing. Days without so much as a call or text. I had to reach out to him. Really the only time he took initiative to reach out to me is when he knew I had finally had enough and had basically walked away ( and even that was not swift, it took a year for us (me) to part ways) ..... Then he charged straight at me and tried the intimidation factor, even going so far as to turn into a stalker.

I see similarities in the new Taurus as well, however, I must admit he is becoming more talkative and opening up. I do believe that the Cancer/Taurus combo can be a fabulous one, it just takes a lot of open & honest communication, effort and trust?

What do Taurus do when you don't like someone?
Do you just come out and tell them?
Ignore them?
Talk about the other potentials you may have interetsed in you?
Keep mum about your private life?
Treat the person solely like a friend?

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So what if you like someone , but the trust was broken by a little jealousy , but you were not sure, who to believe ? as the info came via a third party. if that person denies it , but you still are not sure and want no contact and say so ,yet do total u turn when ever you see them .by talking to them ,tease and still eat from that person, and watch them when there around you , what does that tell the other person? because l find Tarus Confusing when in love Right!!
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"but when we bulls show you crabs that we are genuinely interested that's when you run!!"

xangelfishx - when you say this what do you mean? What actions/words are you expressing that you thought got your point across?

I think it boils down to perception. Maybe what we Cancer perceives to be disinterest is not so coming from a Taurus.

I think both signs are super cautious when it comes to letting others in because we both know how deep our emotions can run when we give into them.
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ok Xangelfishx thats why l like you , you know me well, but you did a runner and never responded to my private email , thats what l mean . l think you think one thing and , l pick up on it then the barriers go up. WHY!? ok yes l was referring to my friend , but l am in the right place , she is Taurus Scorpio moon , but l think its the immature nature and in securities more than anything, then throw the Cancer Taurus protection into the mix and its like a massive combo of emotion, tell me then trying to stay on this subject this to xangelfishx but others welcome , why can Taurus not be friends if you say you loved someone so much before , its worth it if that person had a special place in my life ,otherwise l see it as shallow.
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okaayyy then!!!!!even though yuh lef de gully dont worryyy retialiation inna hurryyy dont worry dont worry,lol. shisno you sound very young. anyways as for the cancer/taurus relationship some cancers run because they are out the comfort zone,sometimes cannot belive this beautiful taurus talking and wanna be with me. But i guess people expect certain expectations,some say and not all taurus like to be spoilt and are materialistic.. they can be up to a point, they do not like when u spend and not save,that's a no no.
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hotgal: I think "I love you" is pretty obvious. I realize people can view actions differently than they were intended and/or not understand that the person is even trying to say something - but really, it doesn't get any more clear. So what's a bull to think other than "he's not interested"?

obviously I don't mean to say that I've loved every cancer I've dated - but I am a very assertive person and when I like someone I make it VERY clear - as in flat out tell them I'm interested.

rocket: I didn't respond because I was on my lunch and my computer at work is set up to only allow access to chat rooms during my lunch. But I responded when I got home.

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shishno
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Fuk Scorpios! No offence... I just wanna talk about Cancer and Taurus since there is obviously something going on here! C'mon why the fuk are we getting rejected? Also Angel you're probably right, some cancers do run away and that could be part of it. Tho that's not me. But there has to be something MORE to it then us running.
.....Do you think were ugly? What is it?? To crabby for you? DO we stink? Is that it?
I am frustrated! MY claws are ready to snap at shit at this point! And I will cut what ever the fuk my claws get into. Like a f'ing crab ninja!
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Right ! LISTEN to angel Shi, she does understand Cancers, l think she as been there done it worn the T'shirt, like you
l attract them , the problem l thinks ,they never tell u the rules to start , and by the time you find out what they dislike
we try to fix it and they then start to push us away because we seem needy.then there fixed and you know what Cancers like
we will not leave it alone , once we try to get what we want its suicidal!!
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Right ! LISTEN to angel Shi, she does understand Cancers, l think she as been there done it worn the T'shirt, like you
l attract them , the problem l thinks ,they never tell u the rules to start , and by the time you find out what they dislike
we try to fix it and they then start to push us away because we seem needy.then there fixed and you know what Cancers like
we will not leave it alone , once we try to get what we want its suicidal!!
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shishno
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I do listen to Angel. I agree she gave me some great advice! Thanks to her I think I still have a chance with the Taurus. For example I wanted to show up randomly at my old job with flowers and a poem (I like writing poems). But I didn't bc she has a Boyfriend. That would just drive her even further away. So right now (tho it hurts) I am doing nothing about it. But I'm not sure if it's the right move. Should I text her to just say hi? I think girls like that but they don't wanna text back bc they feel they may give a miss understanding that if they text back that's a sign for us to make a move? I still want to take her out to lunch tho. But I don't think that's going to happen anytime soon. I still like her a lot! And the connection we both have is overwhelming. When I visit my old job she'd get very happy and gives me a big smile with an enthusiastic wave. I honestly think she's not ready to date me. I will wait for her. And I will not run ANGEL! Its hard to explain. In a nut shell she makes me happy, nervous (to the point where I'm shaking), shy, smitten! I'm not sure if girls notice these signs? She is so cute I just wanna pick her up and kiss her! And give her a gigantic hug? I missss her?. I need to move on tho. I am very confident that she will be MINE in the future! And I will not be playing mind games when that time comes! Love is patient.
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shishno
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So if you see a cancer out there. Give him a chance. If he ask you to lunch and you have a boyfriend. Go with him anyways! Get to know him he could be your best friend or your best love! But that's highly up to you. Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you can't have any other NEW ?guy? friend's! If only I had that chance... I want to see more successful story's on DXP about a cancers and Taurus!
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hope shishno my story will be....I honestly believe that....things cannot all be definned by this forum.....I mean the cancer/taurus thing seems to be there and my tauras has many of the traits and things on here have helped no-end but sometimes you gotta let go.....my now ex bull refuses to let go of me.....and there is chemistry there....I just have to build up the trust again and hope she is not just being friendly to feel less bad about not having those other feelings for me.......and if someone scoopes her up before I can again....then I will be crushed...but life will go on...