Exhausted with Pursuing Taurus

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Met a Taurus female a little over a month ago. She is in an abusive relationship with a man who pays all her bills but says she wants to get out.

We are just friends of course, I would want more, but she spends money recklessly. We have been bickering a little bit, and I am exhausted with the pursuit

She shows me she likes me, she gives me a lot of time, but despite being abused I doubt if she will leave her security but it was fun while it lasted
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
Some women will say they aren't being treated right to garner sympathy with men when they want to cheat. You don't really know what's going on in her relationship. Furthermore, if she is being abused she's going to need time to take care of herself...you can't save her like a knight. To put it bluntly I think your intentions with her are selfish and not what she needs in her life if she's actually being abused.
You can't decide what another needs in their life, as adults we get to chose what works for us. Which part of .."it was fun while it lasted" didn' t you get?
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Whatever his sign is who needs a wreck less spender who takes abuse for money and now looking for money without abuse?

Run!

You actually have a strong point..


I always do! It's just gets overlooked often so...good luck!

What ever happened between you and the hot Aries?

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Aries is like a brother to me. He is obsessed over me and I am trying to stay friends but he dissapearing and it's annoying.

How do you even remember about him! Lol

Or did you mean my Scorpio?
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Whatever his sign is who needs a wreck less spender who takes abuse for money and now looking for money without abuse?

Run!

You actually have a strong point..


I always do! It's just gets overlooked often so...good luck!

What ever happened between you and the hot Aries?


Aries is like a brother to me. He is obsessed over me and I am trying to stay friends but he dissapearing and it's annoying.

How do you even remember about him! Lol

Or did you mean my Scorpio?
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I have a photogenic memory.

Really it's a curse actually.

Gemini and Scorpio? Did he have air or fire placements in mars and venus? Or do you have water and/or earth Venus and Mars.

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Whatever his sign is who needs a wreck less spender who takes abuse for money and now looking for money without abuse?

Run!

You actually have a strong point..


I always do! It's just gets overlooked often so...good luck!

What ever happened between you and the hot Aries?


Aries is like a brother to me. He is obsessed over me and I am trying to stay friends but he dissapearing and it's annoying.

How do you even remember about him! Lol

Or did you mean my Scorpio?
I have a photogenic memory.

Really it's a curse actually.

Gemini and Scorpio? Did he have air or fire placements in mars and venus? Or do you have water and/or earth Venus and Mars.

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Idk. I am 5/26/66

He is 11/18/61
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Whatever his sign is who needs a wreck less spender who takes abuse for money and now looking for money without abuse?

Run!

You actually have a strong point..


I always do! It's just gets overlooked often so...good luck!

What ever happened between you and the hot Aries?


Aries is like a brother to me. He is obsessed over me and I am trying to stay friends but he dissapearing and it's annoying.

How do you even remember about him! Lol

Or did you mean my Scorpio?
I have a photogenic memory.

Really it's a curse actually.

Gemini and Scorpio? Did he have air or fire placements in mars and venus? Or do you have water and/or earth Venus and Mars.

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Ok. I am actually curious about why would these puzzles matter IF in reality we are in relationships for years...no matter if his Venus in my Mars or whatever.

What is this info tells us if it's post-factum?

It's not going to answer my question if we

are going to end up together, right?

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Met a Taurus female a little over a month ago. She is in an abusive relationship with a man who pays all her bills but says she wants to get out.

We are just friends of course, I would want more, but she spends money recklessly. We have been bickering a little bit, and I am exhausted with the pursuit

She shows me she likes me, she gives me a lot of time, but despite being abused I doubt if she will leave her security but it was fun while it lasted
Don't bother with her.

And I'm actually quite amazed how this taurus is a reckless spender. I'm an excellent money manager. My family makes jokes about me being the "banker" of the family 🙂) Because although I don't gain too much money, I spend them excellently and in a very practical and mature way.

I think your taurus is immature in more than one case. ESPECIALLY concerning her being in an abusive relationship. You will never find me in one! I know better what means healthy for me 🙂

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Whatever his sign is who needs a wreck less spender who takes abuse for money and now looking for money without abuse?

Run!

You actually have a strong point..


I always do! It's just gets overlooked often so...good luck!

What ever happened between you and the hot Aries?


Aries is like a brother to me. He is obsessed over me and I am trying to stay friends but he dissapearing and it's annoying.

How do you even remember about him! Lol

Or did you mean my Scorpio?
I have a photogenic memory.

Really it's a curse actually.

Gemini and Scorpio? Did he have air or fire placements in mars and venus? Or do you have water and/or earth Venus and Mars.


Ok. I am actually curious about why would these puzzles matter IF in reality we are in relationships for years...no matter if his Venus in my Mars or whatever.

What is this info tells us if it's post-factum?

It's not going to answer my question if we

are going to end up together, right?

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Also, dear Gemini, I had at one point another Gemini male pursuing me so I know a little about compatibility between these 2 signs. I don't think it ever ends good longterm. Think about your situation and if it's worth pursuing and if indeed you are compatible. Try to judge it cold and logical and make parallels to your past experiences / relationships and think if it suits you. Maybe you need something else. Maybe you need an Aries female 🙂