Gemini confused by taurus guy. should i wait—

Im a gemini who has known a taurus guy all my life, our moms went to prenatal check ups together jus to say. but i always liked him. so now we're in college, n last year he made a play for me and boy was i happy. it was a month of pure bliss on my side i guess, bcuz he left for the summer n wen he got back he jus didnt talk to me. boy was i confused.
And knowing his sign i decided to wait him out, c if he'll come back. dis summer came around n dis time i left, n he barely texted me n wen i text him his answers were always static. until i jus blew up one night, i told him that i cant take wat he is doing to me n wen he decided wat he wanted to call me. wen i got to school he made a play like he didnt understand wat i was talkin abt b4 so i happily repeated. he opened up abt somethings that we're going on in his life, n i understood but y not tell me then so that i cud b there for him, n for a sec i felt so happy again. but now its back to the foolishness, i just dont understand

should i wait for him or jus move on? i've turned dwn guys who actually cared abt me bcuz i thought we were going somewhere. but it seems like we arent. im one confused gemini bcuz usually i'd b on to the next one if it had been anyone else.

Taurus? You need to be very patient. I'm a gemini, n i like a taurus guy, he's slow and difficult for me to understand. I try to be very patient n give him a lot of spaces, at the same sime as i show him that i'm interesed in him. He's slowly moving to me. My advise id 1.be patient 2.be caring 3.be serious (taurus people dont like flighty ppl,who r not serious) jus my opinion. Wish you the best.

Sounds like your taurus is unsure of what they want and is keeping their options open for another person. You can tell that hes ignoring you because he doesnt care that must but you know what, us Tauruses HATE to be ignored! So instead, act as if what hes doing to you doesnt even phase you, and he'll react if he likes you, but if not then you know where you stand.

@Maybelle
thanks for the advice, im still ere patiently waiting on him. but literally talking to him and being there for him sometimes is like pulling teeth.

@TheSweetTaurus
thats jus the thing, he's the only guy that i've evr rly focused on (only time i dont focus on him is wen im so drained from trying to figure him out and when im busy with school.) i always initiate the texting, the IM, sometimes i feel foolish for giving him so much while all im asking is for some honesty and for him to stop being the flighty one.

I don't know....I mean, yes we taurus' do infact do the avoiding/ignoring thing, but I mean I usually do it only because I know the girl I like either isn't in to me and I need to do it as a way to detach from her, cause I get really attached .

But on otherhand maybe he just thinks as what maybelle said, he's unsure if you are serious. taurus' want to make sure what they are getting into is legit. I know gemini's are very alive, spontaneous and in-zone(dunno what else to call it lol)

I like this gemini girl right now, but she isn't that serious about me. So indeed, I am hiding from her till my emotions recalibrate (lol).

don't wait. if he wanted you he would be giving more.

i wish it was that easy to just leave his ass behind, but every time i try he just keep popping up in my life, n making my life hell wit these feelings. gemini's tend to avoid serious unless its really important, and i'm a playful person who likes spontaneity and feeling alive. n i do feel spontaneous with him sometimes, but in between those moments i'm over-thinking what exactly we are.

you know what @KittyKnitter and @anonymousheart, you guys r right. if he can't see me here waiting
around for him to make a choice then i am not going to wait anymore. he's been dragging his feet for a while now, and every time after one of his disappearing acts and he calls on me i always appear. i tried to be patient since i knew he was a Taurus, but i am officially tired.

we have great chemistry, but chemistry be damned. I'm a gemini, i really don't need him playing me like a fiddle.

If you're impatient, need excitement 24/7, are PUSHY (nothing will push away a Taurus more than this), please look for a fire sign. We will not go out of our way to impress someone unless they've shown their self worth and we're willing to match it.

@ Kupochan,

Really? Nothing will push a way to a taurus if the lady is pushy?.. well, My taurus soooo tired

of me 'cause everytime he said... move in with me.. and I refused 'cause I need time. lol.

there you are ...the bull needs to be patient with a scorpio.

I am scorpio and he is taurus. Anyway, You look a true bull.

excuse me, i am not impatient, i don't need excitement to function either. i would just like him to let me know if i'm wasting my time and grasping at strays, or if there is something there for me to invest in. i give him space, i don't push because i understand the need for time too. but whenever he feels like talking to me, i always talk with him. I've been more than patient with him. but honestly i am tired, tired of the around the way treatment, tired of putting myself out there and not getting even a little back.

so its like official now, im out.

@Kupochan, i know what i'm worth so i won't be looking at him again. i'm worth way more than what he's not offering. This gemini is gonna find a hobby, and in a few weeks he's gonna be officially out of my system for good. you see we always bounce back, we're like cats we always land on our feet.

and if you want to help tell your fellow taurus brothers to stop acting like asses, and man up.

Hmm he must be an air heavy chart. Me being mostly Fire and Earth, will be extremely blunt and open on what I feel. You'll never have to guess where you stand with me. Just move on. There's a reason many Taurus are happy being alone lol

And what makes you think I could get through to other Taurus if I myself know how stubborn we are capable of being? haha You just can't win with us. If you're independent, we're not the ones for you.

air heavy, fire heavy, earth heavy. i'm over it right about now. we're attending the same school and i know i will see him again, but that is all that will be happening between us from now on.