He said he loves me?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Diamondnurse on Monday, June 5, 2017 and has 15 replies.
I made a post awhile ago bout the Taurus man im seeing. We see each other almost everyday. We have sex and hangout but he told me he loved me? I don't know he was joking or serious. I sometimes can't read him. But lately he been more intimate. He said i love you baby he said you love me don't you ? It's okay if you do. I know zodiacs have not much to do with it. He was hinting that i need brakes done on my car like he was going to do it. He always calls me beautiful we argue over petty things but we obvi can't stop seeing each other. He kisses me then smiles. Then when he around his friends he acts different. He says he misses me all the time. He told that the other day. So is he true about his feelings i just don't want to get hurt.
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Posted by tooba
Getting hurt is kind of a part of the package where it involves love. You either trust him and love him back, or don't continue with him. What is a relationship without some risk? There will be pain, but don't let it be the kind your mind stirs up on its own. Seems to me that he does love you. Just because he acts differently around his friends, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. They typically don't say they love you unless they mean it. I was with mine for 5 years on and off. He never said he loves me, and his actions proved it in the end.

Tooba, what a kind and sensitive response. ?☺?

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Actions over words always. It costs him nothing to say "I love you" to you. In fact he stands to gain much from you by saying it. But to treat you as his gf around his friends would cost him something.

Ask him to help you with his car.

Ask him to define what your relationship is.

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Lmao watch out for him
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Actions over words always. It costs him nothing to say "I love you" to you. In fact he stands to gain much from you by saying it. But to treat you as his gf around his friends would cost him something.

Ask him to help you with his car.

Ask him to define what your relationship is.

+1

This.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977

As for the Bull's actions, he is simply trying to preserve his current setup.

The actions expressed here is"possessiveness" not jealousy.

We discussed the difference beween these two in a previous thread.

The mantra for the Bull is "I have"....followed by "I will."

His motives are driven by 'ego' followed by a fear of loss...his actions are not driven by 'emotion.'

How to tell if a Bull is emotionally invested?

We FEEL first, We EXERCISE caution, We ASSESS for potential stability, We CLAIM you, and if there is a possible threat of losing you, the possessiveness comes in.

We're practical enough to know that we can not claim what doesn't belong to us. He's not confused. He knows exactly what he's doing. He's not afraid of losing the OP, he is afraid of losing his current setup.
I posted this in your last thread.

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@Tooba,

I like your advice.

However, the OP has been an active, willing participant without clarifying her expectations for this situation.

There are no dichotomous boundaries associated with this set up.

She will never reciprocate the words "I love you" because deep down inside, she knows that he is 'full of bull' ( the term for her previous thread).

She will not terminate the FWB setup either because secretly she's hoping that it could develop into something more.

The OP's best bet, demand a relationship or cut ties with him.

It's really that simple.
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...you will know if he really loves you when you ask him to be there for you when times are tough. I have had a few men prove they love me by their actions

Anyone can say those words....some men seem to be fond of saying them when having sex, which should be read as "I lust you*

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Posted by Diamondnurse
I'm not trying to be no ones girlfriend i'm just to trying to figure out why he does the things he do lately. I go on bout my business. People always make assumptions i know what i want. There's nothing wrong with a woman enjoying herself.

@Tooba, the OP also posted this in her last thread.

Taurus and ultimatums don't mix well together during the initial stages of a 'budding relationship,' thus, the reasons for people's frustrations with the slow moving Taurus.

We move at our own pace....at our own time.

However,

This is not the case here.

There was NEVER a relationship or even a potential one.

Just a FWB setup, a disrespectful one.

Funny, the OP mentions his 'sweet' words, but disregards his disrespectful mouth (also mentioned in her last thread).

The dilemma,

The Bull does not want to be in a relationship.

....and the OP is pretending that she doesn't want to be in a relationship.
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Err Taurus? Were you not seeing a Libra or a Sag or was the Libra stalking you. I cant keep track anymore.
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Posted by blackphase
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Err Taurus? Were you not seeing a Libra or a Sag or was the Libra stalking you. I cant keep track anymore.
Libra was stalking her.. but there was another Libra since that one apparently. She made sure to clarify that much for me. Just 11 days ago there was a thread about a Libra guy who she was spending everyday with but she had no interest in him of course.. just trying to figure out his motives for lord knows what reason.. But he wasn't the one stalking her apparently.. LOL
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So she is the Sag then... You have jogged my memory some???

OP.... Sag and Taurus make the best couple. It's soul mate, twin flame stuff we talking about here. I mean rings... roses... chocolates...sweet nothings in your ear. He might even throw in a stalk or two. Go for it❤❤

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Posted by blackphase
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Err Taurus? Were you not seeing a Libra or a Sag or was the Libra stalking you. I cant keep track anymore.
Libra was stalking her.. but there was another Libra since that one apparently. She made sure to clarify that much for me. Just 11 days ago there was a thread about a Libra guy who she was spending everyday with but she had no interest in him of course.. just trying to figure out his motives for lord knows what reason.. But he wasn't the one stalking her apparently.. LOL
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So she is the Sag then... You have jogged my memory some???

OP.... Sag and Taurus make the best couple. It's soul mate, twin flame stuff we talking about here. I mean rings... roses... chocolates...sweet nothings in your ear. He might even throw in a stalk or two. Go for it❤❤

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Posted by blackphase
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by blackphase
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Err Taurus? Were you not seeing a Libra or a Sag or was the Libra stalking you. I cant keep track anymore.
Libra was stalking her.. but there was another Libra since that one apparently. She made sure to clarify that much for me. Just 11 days ago there was a thread about a Libra guy who she was spending everyday with but she had no interest in him of course.. just trying to figure out his motives for lord knows what reason.. But he wasn't the one stalking her apparently.. LOL


So she is the Sag then... You have jogged my memory some???

OP.... Sag and Taurus make the best couple. It's soul mate, twin flame stuff we talking about here. I mean rings... roses... chocolates...sweet nothings in your ear. He might even throw in a stalk or two. Go for it❤❤



Yeap, she's the Sag. I wouldn't bother to offer her too much advice though, as she has already been through 3 guys since coming here that she apparently had no interest in yet continues to make threads about.

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But it's sag..... with Taurus?

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Tooba,

I like your advice.

However, the OP has been an active, willing participant without clarifying her expectations for this situation.

There are no dichotomous boundaries associated with this set up.

She will never reciprocate the words "I love you" because deep down inside, she knows that he is 'full of bull' ( the term for her previous thread).

She will not terminate the FWB setup either because secretly she's hoping that it could develop into something more.

The OP's best bet, demand a relationship or cut ties with him.

It's really that simple.
I thought taurus and ultimatums didn't mix well together? Since they don't, and pushing a bull would only cause the typical taurus rage, the last advice is not wise to follow... Not just Taurus but everyone needs a lot of time before getting settled. These days, you just don't know who people are.

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Pushing bulls don't always get rage. You just have to do it in the right way and leave it alone after you done it.

These guys are fixed! Sometimes they need a gentle nudge to get them out of rut. Just dont expect to see an immediate change. They will move but yes, only after they have decided when they are going to do it.

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Not seeing a libra i got a guy friend is one. Me and the Taurus been on ups and downs cause we don't see eye to eye. His actions show a lil maybe i just don't want to show more than what it is. It's coo. But he told me he loved me last night and i just frozed. He said its okay if you do?
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