My x-Taurus calls me every 2-3 weeks to check on me. We talk for a while or even go to dinner. Then I don't see him again for 2-3 weeks, unless I need something. I'm very appreciative to have someone care like that, but now I'm beginning to depend on his energy for moral support. We've both moved on except for that. Yes, I do have feelings for him, but not in an intimate way.
Is this type of relationship unhealthy for me?
If you have feelings I would tell him and say that you need time to get over these feeling and will contact him when you do because you value his friendship... It is not him but you who has to deal with this... If he is no longer around when you get back from this he really does not want to be your friend but wanted to get back with you...
The above info that you gave me is spot on. My feelings for him needs to be more neutral. It is true I do value his friendship, but currently I'm too dependent on him.
Thanks, Piscesmoon, for your insight!
Peace!