Posted by LadyNeptune100% agreed.
Another Taurus man bailing on his relationship cause life ain’t perfect. It’s just an excuse. If he was your ride or die he wouldn’t cut you loose so readily. Js.
Posted by LadyNeptuneyaaaa I know, but I was selfish here too. Best sex, hands down ever in my life has been with him
Never fall into a fuck buddy situationship with an ex if you still have the feels.
Posted by wildflowerLook through the Taurus board. Apparently they are like that.Posted by LadyNeptune
Another Taurus man bailing on his relationship cause life ain’t perfect. It’s just an excuse. If he was your ride or die he wouldn’t cut you loose so readily. Js.
100% agreed.
which is why, when he said those words to me I did not fight it. You don't leave who you love, is how I feel
But Taurus aren't like that, wtf, they leave when things aren't perfect? When money's not right? when they aren't where in their heads they think they need to be? Its bullshit honestly
but I hate this feeling in the pit of my heart, like I can't stop missing him. I am delusional, I know. I've tried everything to let this go, this is haunting me click to expandclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptune
Another Taurus man bailing on his relationship cause life ain’t perfect. It’s just an excuse. If he was your ride or die he wouldn’t cut you loose so readily. Js.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI know which is why I know that the problem here is me, I could've done things differently when the time was the time but now it is notPosted by wildflowerPosted by LadyNeptune
Another Taurus man bailing on his relationship cause life ain’t perfect. It’s just an excuse. If he was your ride or die he wouldn’t cut you loose so readily. Js.
100% agreed.
which is why, when he said those words to me I did not fight it. You don't leave who you love, is how I feel
But Taurus aren't like that, wtf, they leave when things aren't perfect? When money's not right? when they aren't where in their heads they think they need to be? Its bullshit honestly
but I hate this feeling in the pit of my heart, like I can't stop missing him. I am delusional, I know. I've tried everything to let this go, this is haunting me click to expand
Look through the Taurus board. Apparently they are like that. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Boots1313I know this, if he wanted to be with me he would. If he wanted to talk to me, he would. I know him very wellPosted by LadyNeptune
Another Taurus man bailing on his relationship cause life ain’t perfect. It’s just an excuse. If he was your ride or die he wouldn’t cut you loose so readily. Js.
I have to agree with this, Taurus are stubborn AF, but if they want to be with you, they are with you through thick and thin.
Yes Taurus men like to be the provider and dominate, they want to make sure they can provide. A lot of them (most I know) are workaholics (my boyfriend being extreme) but he makes the time to see me . He is reclusive, especially when he is in a bad mood or injured...but I give him a few days and he's right back at my door.
Recently ive been a little brat to him and getting uppity..but I have given him an our (if he wanted it) and he's adamant on staying with me even while I'm dealing with my depression rn.
They are people pleasers and they will stick through almost everything. (except cheating...that's where you lose them)
So yeah, if he's been gone a year, he prob gone as a love interest, but still willing to be friends...or a FWB until he meets someone else. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Boots1313agh.
Also,
I had an intense 10 year relationship with a Scorpio....
Fire sex match, but after a few years communication and emotional connection is different.
I was ready to marry scorpio, then he cheated...
he still wont let me go....calls me early in the morning (I never answer), stalks me, sends me emails on holidays....we have been broken up 8 months and I shut the door completely on him. I don't even give him the time of day.
Its a crazy dynamic Scorpio and Taurus
Posted by DeleterNerdlol thanks
Self help thread of the day. All I've been able to come up with is that we should nuke neptune so we dont have these problems anymore.
Posted by DeadInsidePosted by wildflowerPosted by LadyNeptune
Never fall into a fuck buddy situationship with an ex if you still have the feels.
yaaaa I know, but I was selfish here too. Best sex, hands down ever in my life has been with him
and I love sex all day
so it was hard to refuse lol its been like 3 mo since we had sex tho, we aren't fb anymore, he may be fucking someone else now idk click to expand
no diss but, arent you like 25 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by sierra_why is that? I don't get itPosted by wildflowerPosted by LadyNeptune
Another Taurus man bailing on his relationship cause life ain’t perfect. It’s just an excuse. If he was your ride or die he wouldn’t cut you loose so readily. Js.
100% agreed.
which is why, when he said those words to me I did not fight it. You don't leave who you love, is how I feel
But Taurus aren't like that, wtf, they leave when things aren't perfect? When money's not right? when they aren't where in their heads they think they need to be? Its bullbutter honestly
but I hate this feeling in the pit of my heart, like I can't stop missing him. I am delusional, I know. I've tried everything to let this go, this is haunting me click to expand
yes they leave coz of money
they're weird about money click to expandclick to expand
Posted by DeleterNerdlol I can't even listen to this right now, Im already in my feelsPosted by wildflowerPosted by DeleterNerd
Self help thread of the day. All I've been able to come up with is that we should nuke neptune so we dont have these problems anymore.
lol thanks
is neptune the cause of this? nuke me instead
I have not time or will for this click to expand
I'm just wondering, why are you talking yourself out of this if he's easy to get back with? Why not just try it? Also I'm pretty sure adele made this song as an in your face taunt for all the people who cant get over a taurus because "they say times supposed to heal you, but I havent done much healing" evil ass
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Posted by Boots1313Im delusional, I know
wait so you left?
you could easily get him back....why so heartbroken over him if you aren't 100% sure you want him?
and what's this bullbutter you want him to give 100% ...HAHA that's never going to happen in any relationship...NOW THATS DELUSIONAL
Posted by DeadInsidetruePosted by wildflowerPosted by DeadInsidePosted by wildflowerPosted by LadyNeptune
Never fall into a fuck buddy situationship with an ex if you still have the feels.
yaaaa I know, but I was selfish here too. Best sex, hands down ever in my life has been with him
and I love sex all day
so it was hard to refuse lol its been like 3 mo since we had sex tho, we aren't fb anymore, he may be fucking someone else now idk click to expand
no diss but, arent you like 25 click to expand
No why? does my age determine whether or not I can have amazing sex? click to expand
so your life is not finish click to expandclick to expand
Posted by jeaneyes
the thing is you broke up for a reason. you were paranoid. he is depressed, works too much, drinks too much.
the reality is if you get back together, the old problems will still be there. yeah you will have the rose coloured glasses on for a while and the sex will be amazing but when that dies down, you'll think "fuck. what have i done"?
you're not missing him, you're missing is being in a relationship that at times made you feel great. what you're forgetting is that this relationship made you feel like shit too. you're just choosing not to concentrate on those times of madness.
and yes you might have changed with new realisations but he hasn't. let it go.
Posted by DeadInsidetrue, that is what Im doing.Posted by wildflowerPosted by DeadInsidePosted by wildflowerPosted by DeadInsidePosted by wildflowerPosted by LadyNeptune
Never fall into a fuck buddy situationship with an ex if you still have the feels.
yaaaa I know, but I was selfish here too. Best sex, hands down ever in my life has been with him
and I love sex all day
so it was hard to refuse lol its been like 3 mo since we had sex tho, we aren't fb anymore, he may be fucking someone else now idk click to expand
no diss but, arent you like 25 click to expand
No why? does my age determine whether or not I can have amazing sex? click to expand
so your life is not finish click to expand
true
this is not my first rodeo though lol click to expand
STOP LIVING IN THE PAST click to expandclick to expand
Posted by wildflowerlol, i know. i feel you.Posted by jeane
the thing is you broke up for a reason. you were paranoid. he is depressed, works too much, drinks too much.
the reality is if you get back together, the old problems will still be there. yeah you will have the rose coloured glasses on for a while and the sex will be amazing but when that dies down, you'll think "fuck. what have i done"?
you're not missing him, you're missing is being in a relationship that at times made you feel great. what you're forgetting is that this relationship made you feel like shit too. you're just choosing not to concentrate on those times of madness.
and yes you might have changed with new realisations but he hasn't. let it go.
yes
yes
yes
all truth I needed to hear
deep down I know you're right
and I know Taurus doesn't change easily so although perhaps I may have learned new things, chances are he may have not.
On top of that, I do not want the same problems of yesterday
I want to let go and be free
or I want him back lol
no in between, not this delusional, haunted space Im in.
Its fucking terrible jeane!!! click to expandclick to expand
Posted by jeaneyes, the truth... I appreciate itPosted by wildflowerPosted by jeane
the thing is you broke up for a reason. you were paranoid. he is depressed, works too much, drinks too much.
the reality is if you get back together, the old problems will still be there. yeah you will have the rose coloured glasses on for a while and the sex will be amazing but when that dies down, you'll think "fuck. what have i done"?
you're not missing him, you're missing is being in a relationship that at times made you feel great. what you're forgetting is that this relationship made you feel like shit too. you're just choosing not to concentrate on those times of madness.
and yes you might have changed with new realisations but he hasn't. let it go.
yes
yes
yes
all truth I needed to hear
deep down I know you're right
and I know Taurus doesn't change easily so although perhaps I may have learned new things, chances are he may have not.
On top of that, I do not want the same problems of yesterday
I want to let go and be free
or I want him back lol
no in between, not this delusional, haunted space Im in.
Its fucking terrible jeane!!! click to expand
lol, i know. i feel you.
you don't really want him back. if he was as great as you think he is, you wouldn't have let him go either.
like you said taurus doesn't give up, neither does scorpio. you did. you had your reasons at the time. don't forget them. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by DeleterNerdexperience? how?Posted by wildflowerPosted by DeleterNerdPosted by wildflowerPosted by DeleterNerd
Self help thread of the day. All I've been able to come up with is that we should nuke neptune so we dont have these problems anymore.
lol thanks
is neptune the cause of this? nuke me instead
I have not time or will for this click to expand
I'm just wondering, why are you talking yourself out of this if he's easy to get back with? Why not just try it? Also I'm pretty sure adele made this song as an in your face taunt for all the people who cant get over a taurus because "they say times supposed to heal you, but I havent done much healing" evil ass
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lol I can't even listen to this right now, Im already in my feels
I don't know why im talking myself out of it
I guess I could go for it
but rejection
Partly I suppose because most women have the preconceived notion that a man will fight for you, move mountains for you. I am old fashioned when it comes to dating
But I don't think thats the way it is in this generation anymore, especially in a progressive city like SF
I am also insecure and impatient (just being honest)
I am not sure what he is thinking of me or wants from me. Sometimes I think he does miss me, I see hints of it
I see hints of myself in things he does, I wonder if he is doing it for me but Im never sure
but he is not like other guys I've dated (fire signs) who just tell you a million times until you believe it
I have a hard time believing things and what people say
I want him back but I wish it was more clear that he wanted me back too
thats what it comes down to click to expand
I can tell you from experience that they take ten years to come for you minimum if you really meant something to them. So if fear of rejection is keeping you from finding out, you better get ready to wait. Tauruses may vary. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by wildflowerWell you want too much and asking for a lot...Posted by Boots1313
wait so you left?
you could easily get him back....why so heartbroken over him if you aren't 100% sure you want him?
and what's this bullbutter you want him to give 100% ...HAHA that's never going to happen in any relationship...NOW THATS DELUSIONAL
Im delusional, I know
I want him back 100%
But he left first, he broke up with me first
Even though we got right back into contact, and right back into each other. In my head, he had still broken up with me, making me feel he didn't want me. I do not understand this money thing Taurus/Cap people are about, I literally do not get it. Im mexican and old-fashioned, romantics who marry for love
love is hard for me though
but with him, i love him. Haven't stopped, and this is my turmoil. How I never like anyone but him I do. Never commit to anyone but him I did, didn't event think twice about it
we talked about marriage and kids and everything
literally, my feelings are enormous for him
and yes, recently I left I suppose (not really I think) by no longer talking to him and blocking him, but what was I supposed to do? I felt he didn't want me, thats a terrible feeling when you love someone. Maybe him being in my life and being there for me was his way of sticking around (idk) but I needed the verbal reassurance of what he wanted from ME
so to give him space and avoid confusion and let go, I just stopped.
I need reassurance from him, I just want reciprocated energy - 100% click to expandclick to expand
Posted by wildflowerit may be a case of where you just have to do it to get it out of your system. i'm changing my mind (i'm a libra, i'm allowed), go for it.Posted by jeanePosted by wildflowerPosted by jeane
the thing is you broke up for a reason. you were paranoid. he is depressed, works too much, drinks too much.
the reality is if you get back together, the old problems will still be there. yeah you will have the rose coloured glasses on for a while and the sex will be amazing but when that dies down, you'll think "fuck. what have i done"?
you're not missing him, you're missing is being in a relationship that at times made you feel great. what you're forgetting is that this relationship made you feel like shit too. you're just choosing not to concentrate on those times of madness.
and yes you might have changed with new realisations but he hasn't. let it go.
yes
yes
yes
all truth I needed to hear
deep down I know you're right
and I know Taurus doesn't change easily so although perhaps I may have learned new things, chances are he may have not.
On top of that, I do not want the same problems of yesterday
I want to let go and be free
or I want him back lol
no in between, not this delusional, haunted space Im in.
Its fucking terrible jeane!!! click to expand
lol, i know. i feel you.
you don't really want him back. if he was as great as you think he is, you wouldn't have let him go either.
like you said taurus doesn't give up, neither does scorpio. you did. you had your reasons at the time. don't forget them. click to expand
yes, the truth... I appreciate it
Im not 100% sure my reasons for letting go were good though. They were selfish
I was definitely making things extremely difficult and wanting it my way
wanting to have him prove himself to me all of the time
its not fun to have to prove yourself to someone (I've learned as a direct result from dating another scorpio)
I was a bit crazy, and jealous, very scorpio. and I didn't need to be
I do think he was being honest with me when dating and after
but also I see this male Taurean effect on women and im pissed Im one of them now lol
the delusion persists
Can I just have him back??!?!?!? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by wildflowerI'd look to the above first, as I don't think its common for Taurus men to put career over love. They tend to be all about a love that they feel can last. I do think a bull without financial security, a stable career, etc., is going to be extremely unhappy in general. Most have traditional views of what it means to be a man - intrinsically they want to be able to provide, produce, are goal-oriented. However, they tend to be one-track with their focus and are challenged in that area of balance. There's a tension betw. the desire to indulge in leisure with their partner, relax, and enjoy life, and a desire to build. They tend to give 100% when w/their partner but then be entirely focused on work when in that mode - finding the transition betw. the two hard. If the relationship is too unstable emotionally, too much of a power struggle, they're dealing with repetitive issues that show no hope of resolution in sight, issues that take so much from them that they cannot focus on finding that financial stability in life - then I can see them ending it. Practical considerations do come into play at some point, in the same way a Scorp might feel in love, but ultimately ditch a relationship where their emotional needs aren't being fully met.
he just calmed my chaotic soul...I made things more difficult than they needed to be...solving problems by ignoring people....petty fights...I fucked up...I was battling myself honestly, my paranoia got the best of me.....I was not sure I was strong enough to conquer myself, let alone be there for him who was needing me
Posted by Boots1313Posted by wildflowerPosted by Boots1313
wait so you left?
you could easily get him back....why so heartbroken over him if you aren't 100% sure you want him?
and what's this bullbutter you want him to give 100% ...HAHA that's never going to happen in any relationship...NOW THATS DELUSIONAL
Im delusional, I know
I want him back 100%
But he left first, he broke up with me first
Even though we got right back into contact, and right back into each other. In my head, he had still broken up with me, making me feel he didn't want me. I do not understand this money thing Taurus/Cap people are about, I literally do not get it. Im mexican and old-fashioned, romantics who marry for love
love is hard for me though
but with him, i love him. Haven't stopped, and this is my turmoil. How I never like anyone but him I do. Never commit to anyone but him I did, didn't event think twice about it
we talked about marriage and kids and everything
literally, my feelings are enormous for him
and yes, recently I left I suppose (not really I think) by no longer talking to him and blocking him, but what was I supposed to do? I felt he didn't want me, thats a terrible feeling when you love someone. Maybe him being in my life and being there for me was his way of sticking around (idk) but I needed the verbal reassurance of what he wanted from ME
so to give him space and avoid confusion and let go, I just stopped.
I need reassurance from him, I just want reciprocated energy - 100% click to expand
Well you want too much and asking for a lot...
HIGH EXPECTATIONS...not the way life is...this isn't Disney
"Maybe him being in my life and being there for me was his way of sticking around " ---THIS...that's all. This is how men function...ACTIONS. esp. Taurus men click to expandclick to expand
Posted by thistletongueAMEN! ^ this
Scorpio/Taurus couples are always a damn mess, I’ve witnessed it MANY times. Stop holding on to what ifs, you can’t change the past even after you realized “well I was dumb back then”
Learn from your mistakes and move on.
Posted by wildflowermy taurus ex did this to me as well, left me because things weren't working out for him.
Alright, Im ready for the virtual slaps in the face to wake me up from my delusion. My Pisces friend has already told me I am delusional lol but here I go...
I just cannot forget how I feel about my ex.
I cannot
I miss him, I miss how he took care of me, how he just calmed my chaotic soul
It so difficult, after recently dating a scorpio (like me) I have seen myself in a new light, how I made things more difficult than they needed to be, how solving problems by ignoring people is not the solution, how petty fights are really incredibly annoying, how I can give mixed signals. I've learned alot lately on how to communicate and treat relationships as a result.
and I feel like I fucked up
Since the first day I met Taurus, I literally felt the magnetic pull
I have not stopped thinking of him since
To have dated, and fallen in love, and have been compatible in so many ways and get along so well
and to have broken up, it kills me
He breaks up with me - depression, money, needed to work, felt he wasn't making me happy, music
I accepted it, didn't fight it because I was battling myself honestly, my paranoia got the best of me and I was not sure I was strong enough to conquer myself, let alone be there for him who was needing me but also pushing me away when he struggled (I've learned thats a Taurus thing)
I wish I would've fought it
We remained on good terms and eventually linked up again, began hooking up
He still loved me, and I him
but he says he's still not in a good place and couldn't be what I needed him to be
how does he even know what I need him to be though? If I only wanted him, thats it
I guess his energy, attention, was directed at working and he felt I deserved more
he felt he couldn't take care of me, in every sense of the word, and he was broke
But doesn't he know that to me he is great?
I dont care of money
anyway I decide to give him space and myself too
try to move on, I keep trying y'all, I really do
But my love is so strong and it comes in waves, at times I can think of him and only miss him. At others, I am missing him like crazy and urging to reach out, but how much more do I need to reach out
I had unfollowed him from social media and even blocked him at some point, I have been trying desperately to let go
but I can't
So a month ago or so, I reach out and we start talking, he's responsive but also I begin to take longer to reply, I get scared of getting attached only to be told the same thing, that he cannot
what do I do?
I've tried everything, I am tired
Our relationship has been over for a year now, although we have been in contact throughout the year consistently
just until now, I feel that he probably doesn't miss me anymore or care of me,
I wish it could just be again
things could be so different
Posted by wildflowerDo you work?
I give 100% to the person Im with, do you not? honest question
I am intense lol maybe this is what people mean by intensity? I've wondered
Posted by DeleterNerd
Self help thread of the day. All I've been able to come up with is that we should nuke neptune so we dont have these problems anymore.
Posted by MetatronAre you a Taurus because this sounds exactly like him.Posted by wildflower
he just calmed my chaotic soul...I made things more difficult than they needed to be...solving problems by ignoring people....petty fights...I fucked up...I was battling myself honestly, my paranoia got the best of me.....I was not sure I was strong enough to conquer myself, let alone be there for him who was needing me
I'd look to the above first, as I don't think its common for Taurus men to put career over love. They tend to be all about a love that they feel can last. I do think a bull without financial security, a stable career, etc., is going to be extremely unhappy in general. Most have traditional views of what it means to be a man - intrinsically they want to be able to provide, produce, are goal-oriented. However, they tend to be one-track with their focus and are challenged in that area of balance. There's a tension betw. the desire to indulge in leisure with their partner, relax, and enjoy life, and a desire to build. They tend to give 100% when w/their partner but then be entirely focused on work when in that mode - finding the transition betw. the two hard. If the relationship is too unstable emotionally, too much of a power struggle, they're dealing with repetitive issues that show no hope of resolution in sight, issues that take so much from them that they cannot focus on finding that financial stability in life - then I can see them ending it. Practical considerations do come into play at some point, in the same way a Scorp might feel in love, but ultimately ditch a relationship where their emotional needs aren't being fully met.
Still, the heart wants what it wants, the chemistry sounds strong, and you've learned a lot about yourself. Bulls here may tell you otherwise, but I know several that have taken partners back, even after cheating. I have 2 close bull friends that are married to Leos. Both of these relationships went through hell and survived even cheating. Same for another Pisces/Bull marriage. I know another that took a cheating Cancer back, and is considering the same with a Sag now bc he sees his part in how things went down.
All that said, if he's coping with depression through alcohol, definitely not a promising sign regardless of how much you've grown yourself.... click to expandclick to expand
Posted by DeleterNerdlol I wont lie, my life is fantastic
Let me live vicariously through you
Posted by C69true and I feel this would be a logical explanation but we are a complex species
that money thing could be a made up excuse
the ‘it’s not you, it’s me’ move is a common way to reject someone if you want to feel less guilty
I’m not a Taurus, but I’d never ever just let go of someone I really wanted if their feelings for me were this obvious. I don’t think the sign matters here anymore.......
the only thing I can say is that he doesn’t want his freedom, options and careless living to be taken away. love is like the best thing ever but it comes with a lot of responsibility. stairway to heaven or highway to hell, you can either make someone the happiest they’ve ever been or fuck it up and destroy them, consciously or by an accident. he doesn’t want to feel guilty if you get hurt.
that’s just my take on the situation.
Posted by AstroPlusthank you hahaPosted by wildflower
Alright, Im ready for the virtual slaps in the face to wake me up from my delusion. My Pisces friend has already told me I am delusional lol but here I go...
I just cannot forget how I feel about my ex.
I cannot
I miss him, I miss how he took care of me, how he just calmed my chaotic soul
It so difficult, after recently dating a scorpio (like me) I have seen myself in a new light, how I made things more difficult than they needed to be, how solving problems by ignoring people is not the solution, how petty fights are really incredibly annoying, how I can give mixed signals. I've learned alot lately on how to communicate and treat relationships as a result.
and I feel like I fucked up
Since the first day I met Taurus, I literally felt the magnetic pull
I have not stopped thinking of him since
To have dated, and fallen in love, and have been compatible in so many ways and get along so well
and to have broken up, it kills me
He breaks up with me - depression, money, needed to work, felt he wasn't making me happy, music
I accepted it, didn't fight it because I was battling myself honestly, my paranoia got the best of me and I was not sure I was strong enough to conquer myself, let alone be there for him who was needing me but also pushing me away when he struggled (I've learned thats a Taurus thing)
I wish I would've fought it
We remained on good terms and eventually linked up again, began hooking up
He still loved me, and I him
but he says he's still not in a good place and couldn't be what I needed him to be
how does he even know what I need him to be though? If I only wanted him, thats it
I guess his energy, attention, was directed at working and he felt I deserved more
he felt he couldn't take care of me, in every sense of the word, and he was broke
But doesn't he know that to me he is great?
I dont care of money
anyway I decide to give him space and myself too
try to move on, I keep trying y'all, I really do
But my love is so strong and it comes in waves, at times I can think of him and only miss him. At others, I am missing him like crazy and urging to reach out, but how much more do I need to reach out
I had unfollowed him from social media and even blocked him at some point, I have been trying desperately to let go
but I can't
So a month ago or so, I reach out and we start talking, he's responsive but also I begin to take longer to reply, I get scared of getting attached only to be told the same thing, that he cannot
what do I do?
I've tried everything, I am tired
Our relationship has been over for a year now, although we have been in contact throughout the year consistently
just until now, I feel that he probably doesn't miss me anymore or care of me,
I wish it could just be again
things could be so different
.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneYou're right, I do work... its not realistic to expect so much intensity at all times, setting up for failure for surePosted by wildflower
I give 100% to the person Im with, do you not? honest question
I am intense lol maybe this is what people mean by intensity? I've wondered
Do you work?
No shade but how are you gonna give your partner 100% when you have kids and are wearing both lover hat and mom hat? And isn’t that setting your relationship up for failure? Making him dependent on you and then ripping that all away when jr. arrives. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by wildflowerNo worries. Failure paves the road to success.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by wildflower
I give 100% to the person Im with, do you not? honest question
I am intense lol maybe this is what people mean by intensity? I've wondered
Do you work?
No shade but how are you gonna give your partner 100% when you have kids and are wearing both lover hat and mom hat? And isn’t that setting your relationship up for failure? Making him dependent on you and then ripping that all away when jr. arrives. click to expand
You're right, I do work... its not realistic to expect so much intensity at all times, setting up for failure for sure
I am telling you, I made many mistakes
Im terrible at relationships but Im looking to improve click to expandclick to expand
Posted by ImpulsvSeeeee
Let it go
Don’t waste time n energy figuring it out
Is he worth fighting for?
Are you worth fighting for?
so there is the standstill.don't think about it much don’t punish itself for errors made
This coming from a Scorpio who has wasted years on this!!!
Posted by ImpulsvYes I suppose
When it’s meant to be it’s meant to be
It happened for the sag what we tried on n off for five years.
U see no sense racking ur brain
Posted by HankJWimbletonLOL... different perspectives do help. Although, I don't know what to do anymore haPosted by sierra_Posted by wildflowerPosted by LadyNeptune
Another Taurus man bailing on his relationship cause life ain’t perfect. It’s just an excuse. If he was your ride or die he wouldn’t cut you loose so readily. Js.
100% agreed.
which is why, when he said those words to me I did not fight it. You don't leave who you love, is how I feel
But Taurus aren't like that, wtf, they leave when things aren't perfect? When money's not right? when they aren't where in their heads they think they need to be? Its bullbutter honestly
but I hate this feeling in the pit of my heart, like I can't stop missing him. I am delusional, I know. I've tried everything to let this go, this is haunting me click to expand
yes they leave coz of money
they're weird about money click to expand
Generalization isn't wise.
Some Virgos in this Taurus thread can be analytical, but nowhere as sharp or practical, or helpful. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by exsqueezemeya basically but he also never let ME go either. Several times I convinced myself that he made his choice and he would be msging me, calling me, and checking up on me. Inviting me to places and we continued having sex, AFTER I was clear about wanting exclusivity and having sex means exclusivity to me. He also traveled and continued to contact me from there and brought me gifts, came to see me the day after he came back. Hitting me up all of the time. Its not just me, I've tried to let go and accept his words at face value but his actions always proved otherwise. Its been a year now, I think too much time has passed at this point and Im so confused I'd rather be free but I feel this way and it hurts even more. If he broke up with me he should've never talked to me again. But he did. Time and time and time again. Telling me he loves me and etc. These are mixed signals to me, I don't know what to do but I think it shouldn't be this hard that is all.Posted by wildflower
Alright, Im ready for the virtual slaps in the face to wake me up from my delusion. My Pisces friend has already told me I am delusional lol but here I go...
I just cannot forget how I feel about my ex.
I cannot
I miss him, I miss how he took care of me, how he just calmed my chaotic soul
It so difficult, after recently dating a scorpio (like me) I have seen myself in a new light, how I made things more difficult than they needed to be, how solving problems by ignoring people is not the solution, how petty fights are really incredibly annoying, how I can give mixed signals. I've learned alot lately on how to communicate and treat relationships as a result.
and I feel like I treetrunked up
Since the first day I met Taurus, I literally felt the magnetic pull
I have not stopped thinking of him since
To have dated, and fallen in love, and have been compatible in so many ways and get along so well
and to have broken up, it kills me
He breaks up with me - depression, money, needed to work, felt he wasn't making me happy, music
I accepted it, didn't fight it because I was battling myself honestly, my paranoia got the best of me and I was not sure I was strong enough to conquer myself, let alone be there for him who was needing me but also pushing me away when he struggled (I've learned thats a Taurus thing)
I wish I would've fought it
We remained on good terms and eventually linked up again, began hooking up
He still loved me, and I him
but he says he's still not in a good place and couldn't be what I needed him to be
how does he even know what I need him to be though? If I only wanted him, thats it
I guess his energy, attention, was directed at working and he felt I deserved more
he felt he couldn't take care of me, in every sense of the word, and he was broke
But doesn't he know that to me he is great?
I dont care of money
anyway I decide to give him space and myself too
try to move on, I keep trying y'all, I really do
But my love is so strong and it comes in waves, at times I can think of him and only miss him. At others, I am missing him like crazy and urging to reach out, but how much more do I need to reach out
I had unfollowed him from social media and even blocked him at some point, I have been trying desperately to let go
but I can't
So a month ago or so, I reach out and we start talking, he's responsive but also I begin to take longer to reply, I get scared of getting attached only to be told the same thing, that he cannot
what do I do?
I've tried everything, I am tired
Our relationship has been over for a year now, although we have been in contact throughout the year consistently
just until now, I feel that he probably doesn't miss me anymore or care of me,
I wish it could just be again
things could be so different
He doesn’t want to be with you but you keep clinging on with those damn claws click to expandclick to expand
Posted by VictoriousWell yesterday, I wanted to try to get back to a solid place with him but Im really so confused because he did break up with me, I don't want to be hanging on to something that is not for me
What are you trying to achieve?
Posted by exsqueezemeYa, I feel that. I should've made him prove himself before ever taking him back. We just broke up so abruptly that I felt we could work it out, I didn't think the break up was for real until its been a year now and here i fucking am ughPosted by wildflowerPosted by exsqueezemePosted by wildflower
Alright, Im ready for the virtual slaps in the face to wake me up from my delusion. My Pisces friend has already told me I am delusional lol but here I go...
I just cannot forget how I feel about my ex.
I cannot
I miss him, I miss how he took care of me, how he just calmed my chaotic soul
It so difficult, after recently dating a scorpio (like me) I have seen myself in a new light, how I made things more difficult than they needed to be, how solving problems by ignoring people is not the solution, how petty fights are really incredibly annoying, how I can give mixed signals. I've learned alot lately on how to communicate and treat relationships as a result.
and I feel like I treetrunked up
Since the first day I met Taurus, I literally felt the magnetic pull
I have not stopped thinking of him since
To have dated, and fallen in love, and have been compatible in so many ways and get along so well
and to have broken up, it kills me
He breaks up with me - depression, money, needed to work, felt he wasn't making me happy, music
I accepted it, didn't fight it because I was battling myself honestly, my paranoia got the best of me and I was not sure I was strong enough to conquer myself, let alone be there for him who was needing me but also pushing me away when he struggled (I've learned thats a Taurus thing)
I wish I would've fought it
We remained on good terms and eventually linked up again, began hooking up
He still loved me, and I him
but he says he's still not in a good place and couldn't be what I needed him to be
how does he even know what I need him to be though? If I only wanted him, thats it
I guess his energy, attention, was directed at working and he felt I deserved more
he felt he couldn't take care of me, in every sense of the word, and he was broke
But doesn't he know that to me he is great?
I dont care of money
anyway I decide to give him space and myself too
try to move on, I keep trying y'all, I really do
But my love is so strong and it comes in waves, at times I can think of him and only miss him. At others, I am missing him like crazy and urging to reach out, but how much more do I need to reach out
I had unfollowed him from social media and even blocked him at some point, I have been trying desperately to let go
but I can't
So a month ago or so, I reach out and we start talking, he's responsive but also I begin to take longer to reply, I get scared of getting attached only to be told the same thing, that he cannot
what do I do?
I've tried everything, I am tired
Our relationship has been over for a year now, although we have been in contact throughout the year consistently
just until now, I feel that he probably doesn't miss me anymore or care of me,
I wish it could just be again
things could be so different
He doesn’t want to be with you but you keep clinging on with those damn claws click to expand
ya basically but he also never let ME go either. Several times I convinced myself that he made his choice and he would be msging me, calling me, and checking up on me. Inviting me to places and we continued having sex, AFTER I was clear about wanting exclusivity and having sex means exclusivity to me. He also traveled and continued to contact me from there and brought me gifts, came to see me the day after he came back. Hitting me up all of the time. Its not just me, I've tried to let go and accept his words at face value but his actions always proved otherwise. Its been a year now, I think too much time has passed at this point and Im so confused I'd rather be free but I feel this way and it hurts even more. If he broke up with me he should've never talked to me again. But he did. Time and time and time again. Telling me he loves me and etc. These are mixed signals to me, I don't know what to do but I think it shouldn't be this hard that is all. click to expand
He can’t prove that he’s serious about you whilst you’re already having sex. He’s getting everything he wants without lifting a damn finger. He should’ve proved himself to you first for a long while before you jumped in to bed together. Of course he’ll nod along and say yes mam yes mam in order for you to believe him and sleep with him.
Throw him in the bin and run away screaming click to expandclick to expand
Posted by exsqueezemePosted by wildflowerPosted by exsqueezemePosted by wildflowerPosted by exsqueezemePosted by wildflower
Alright, Im ready for the virtual slaps in the face to wake me up from my delusion. My Pisces friend has already told me I am delusional lol but here I go...
I just cannot forget how I feel about my ex.
I cannot
I miss him, I miss how he took care of me, how he just calmed my chaotic soul
It so difficult, after recently dating a scorpio (like me) I have seen myself in a new light, how I made things more difficult than they needed to be, how solving problems by ignoring people is not the solution, how petty fights are really incredibly annoying, how I can give mixed signals. I've learned alot lately on how to communicate and treat relationships as a result.
and I feel like I treetrunked up
Since the first day I met Taurus, I literally felt the magnetic pull
I have not stopped thinking of him since
To have dated, and fallen in love, and have been compatible in so many ways and get along so well
and to have broken up, it kills me
He breaks up with me - depression, money, needed to work, felt he wasn't making me happy, music
I accepted it, didn't fight it because I was battling myself honestly, my paranoia got the best of me and I was not sure I was strong enough to conquer myself, let alone be there for him who was needing me but also pushing me away when he struggled (I've learned thats a Taurus thing)
I wish I would've fought it
We remained on good terms and eventually linked up again, began hooking up
He still loved me, and I him
but he says he's still not in a good place and couldn't be what I needed him to be
how does he even know what I need him to be though? If I only wanted him, thats it
I guess his energy, attention, was directed at working and he felt I deserved more
he felt he couldn't take care of me, in every sense of the word, and he was broke
But doesn't he know that to me he is great?
I dont care of money
anyway I decide to give him space and myself too
try to move on, I keep trying y'all, I really do
But my love is so strong and it comes in waves, at times I can think of him and only miss him. At others, I am missing him like crazy and urging to reach out, but how much more do I need to reach out
I had unfollowed him from social media and even blocked him at some point, I have been trying desperately to let go
but I can't
So a month ago or so, I reach out and we start talking, he's responsive but also I begin to take longer to reply, I get scared of getting attached only to be told the same thing, that he cannot
what do I do?
I've tried everything, I am tired
Our relationship has been over for a year now, although we have been in contact throughout the year consistently
just until now, I feel that he probably doesn't miss me anymore or care of me,
I wish it could just be again
things could be so different
He doesn’t want to be with you but you keep clinging on with those damn claws click to expand
ya basically but he also never let ME go either. Several times I convinced myself that he made his choice and he would be msging me, calling me, and checking up on me. Inviting me to places and we continued having sex, AFTER I was clear about wanting exclusivity and having sex means exclusivity to me. He also traveled and continued to contact me from there and brought me gifts, came to see me the day after he came back. Hitting me up all of the time. Its not just me, I've tried to let go and accept his words at face value but his actions always proved otherwise. Its been a year now, I think too much time has passed at this point and Im so confused I'd rather be free but I feel this way and it hurts even more. If he broke up with me he should've never talked to me again. But he did. Time and time and time again. Telling me he loves me and etc. These are mixed signals to me, I don't know what to do but I think it shouldn't be this hard that is all. click to expand
He can’t prove that he’s serious about you whilst you’re already having sex. He’s getting everything he wants without lifting a damn finger. He should’ve proved himself to you first for a long while before you jumped in to bed together. Of course he’ll nod along and say yes mam yes mam in order for you to believe him and sleep with him.
Throw him in the bin and run away screaming click to expand
Ya, I feel that. I should've made him prove himself before ever taking him back. We just broke up so abruptly that I felt we could work it out, I didn't think the break up was for real until its been a year now and here i treetrunking am ugh click to expand
I can assure you that after an entire 12months it’s real click to expandclick to expand