Help please!

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by pixie242 on Sunday, July 14, 2013 and has 16 replies.

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Im a 20 year old libra female genuinely interested in a 36 year old taurus male. I find him very interesting. We have been talking for months but never met. He says he want to but there were a few reasons y we didnt meet. Sometimes we talk for hours and we have good conversations. but other days he would just disappear and not speak to me. Then im seeing him liking and commenting on other females photos. He has never done that with me. Im a little jealous. Im starting to thing he has something going on because its this one particular female. He tells me there is alot he loves about. I am so confused. i dont know what to do. what is best? to back off on stay by his side?

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go out there and meet him in public
peoples' life behind the screen and real world are different

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I no that i have post alot of times about my controlling taurus male, through it all i love him...so i want it to work..ok do here goes....day before yesterday i was riding around the city with my boyfriend (the said taurus male) I got an anonymous call from someone who refused to identify themselves...I didnt realize i had started to flirt a little (im a libra if that means anything) ... anyway long story short he took my phone and listened for a while.. he got upset and made me call back for the person to identify himself. The person didnt so he got very upset drop me off and sped off. He refused to answer calls. I got frustrated and sent him a text saying i didnt care if he was upset or not im tired of the relationship and im tired of having to walk on egg shells around him...i was very upset.the following morning i text him to call me. He responded immediately...his voice changed to this soft almost comforting sound... he actually listened....But later on that day i got over being upset and i called him and told him i missed him and i wanted to see him then he got all mean..he is being very distant. He refuse to talk to me. I cant take it...it is hurting so much... I just want to make it better.

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Sigh* I didnt realize i was doing it.... I want to no how to make him happy with me again

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Posted by pixie242
I no that i have post alot of times about my controlling taurus male, through it all i love him...so i want it to work..ok do here goes....day before yesterday i was riding around the city with my boyfriend (the said taurus male) I got an anonymous call from someone who refused to identify themselves...I didnt realize i had started to flirt a little (im a libra if that means anything) ... anyway long story short he took my phone and listened for a while.. he got upset and made me call back for the person to identify himself. The person didnt so he got very upset drop me off and sped off. He refused to answer calls. I got frustrated and sent him a text saying i didnt care if he was upset or not im tired of the relationship and im tired of having to walk on egg shells around him...i was very upset.the following morning i text him to call me. He responded immediately...his voice changed to this soft almost comforting sound... he actually listened....But later on that day i got over being upset and i called him and told him i missed him and i wanted to see him then he got all mean..he is being very distant. He refuse to talk to me. I cant take it...it is hurting so much... I just want to make it better.

smh... emotional manipulation. He's pulling strings to make you jump everytime he is or isn't in a mood. When you give him what he wants he goes back to his default personality... abusive and mean. PLEASE LEAVE HIM.

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same thing happened with my ex, he will not feel the same about you, he now is thinking you are not trust worthy, that was i felt when my girl did that, he wants to leave you but something is holding him back.

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okay so he was mean all day..Then he came by me to have his lunch

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Libra moon, I know these creatures.
Listen, woman LOL When some guy calls you in the phone, you DON'T FEED HIS EXPECTATIONS.
You gave freedom to that anonymous bastard think that you were wanting a date or something.
It's all your fault! And your Taurus man won't forget this ever. Can't you see the weight you put on his back now? Never forgetting a lame moment, forever remembering that shamefully attitude. Everytime he looks at you, he will remember what you did.
Now you can TRY to fix things. Stop talking, and touch him. The most innocent of touches can have a powerful calming effect on us. And don't try to please his ears, please his soul touching him, hug him strongly and say "I didn't realize I did something so cruel".
When another man comes your way DONT LOOK, DONT HEAR, POKER FACE!
That's an order!
(another case of a water person creating turbulence in stable relationships, do you see now people? )

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Oh yes, and if my tips work for you, remember that I helped you, and provide me 3 single woman facebook profiles. LOL

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Lol @ this. I can't even comment...

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Posted by FeelingShred
Oh yes, and if my tips work for you, remember that I helped you, and provide me 3 single woman facebook profiles. LOL

Lol! I am just seeing this....

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........I tried avoiding being attracted to a Libra, and it happened anyway. Even though it took me a while to create a thread dedicated to that, it's the reason I created an account. LOL!!

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^^ agreed with feeling shred 100 percent. It's funny how it is so obvious what "has gone wrong " here. You can't call your man controlling when you were the one "stirring him up" I'm sorry to say the trust is GONE ! My ex was similar to you. He claimed he loved me but he obviously had no clue each time he did that and tried to make me jealous I lost my trust every time and it will NeVER be the same no matter how much affection he tried to give me! It doesn't work that way. You really do have one chance with us.. We value trust and honesty more than anything and the fact that this random person called you and you flirted with him. Seriously? He's just stringing you along for sex.. Sorry to be brutually honest but we are possessive. We dont like to share.

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Posted by SunTauVenGem
^^ agreed with feeling shred 100 percent. It's funny how it is so obvious what "has gone wrong " here. You can't call your man controlling when you were the one "stirring him up" I'm sorry to say the trust is GONE ! My ex was similar to you. He claimed he loved me but he obviously had no clue each time he did that and tried to make me jealous I lost my trust every time and it will NeVER be the same no matter how much affection he tried to give me! It doesn't work that way. You really do have one chance with us.. We value trust and honesty more than anything and the fact that this random person called you and you flirted with him. Seriously? He's just stringing you along for sex.. Sorry to be brutually honest but we are possessive. We dont like to share.

I agree with the stringing along just for sex part.... atleast he is still showing concern...and he still trust me enough to pester me to make him breakfast and dinner....there is a little hope...

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Posted by pixie242
Posted by SunTauVenGem
^^ agreed with feeling shred 100 percent. It's funny how it is so obvious what "has gone wrong " here. You can't call your man controlling when you were the one "stirring him up" I'm sorry to say the trust is GONE ! My ex was similar to you. He claimed he loved me but he obviously had no clue each time he did that and tried to make me jealous I lost my trust every time and it will NeVER be the same no matter how much affection he tried to give me! It doesn't work that way. You really do have one chance with us.. We value trust and honesty more than anything and the fact that this random person called you and you flirted with him. Seriously? He's just stringing you along for sex.. Sorry to be brutually honest but we are possessive. We dont like to share.

I agree with the stringing along just for sex part.... atleast he is still showing concern...and he still trust me enough to pester me to make him breakfast and dinner....there is a little hope...
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great.. Just watch his actions,... You cant imvest on something that is already broken... Mine was broken 1 year inti our relationship amd i wish i walked out sooner.... I could never loved him that way again.

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Posted by SunTauVenGem
Posted by pixie242
Posted by SunTauVenGem
^^ agreed with feeling shred 100 percent. It's funny how it is so obvious what "has gone wrong " here. You can't call your man controlling when you were the one "stirring him up" I'm sorry to say the trust is GONE ! My ex was similar to you. He claimed he loved me but he obviously had no clue each time he did that and tried to make me jealous I lost my trust every time and it will NeVER be the same no matter how much affection he tried to give me! It doesn't work that way. You really do have one chance with us.. We value trust and honesty more than anything and the fact that this random person called you and you flirted with him. Seriously? He's just stringing you along for sex.. Sorry to be brutually honest but we are possessive. We dont like to share.

I agree with the stringing along just for sex part.... atleast he is still showing concern...and he still trust me enough to pester me to make him breakfast and dinner....there is a little hope...

great.. Just watch his actions,... You cant imvest on something that is already broken... Mine was broken 1 year inti our relationship amd i wish i walked out sooner.... I could never loved him that way again.
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Yeah..that feeling comes to me from time to time...recently i was a little bruised up and he wanted to know who hurt me and i told him i didn't want to talk about it.. but i did ask his advice on how to deal with a person who hurts others...i could tell it sort of hurt him that i didn't want to talk to him about it.... he has since gotten over it.. he spends more time with me.... pops up out the blue just to come by and give me a hug..stuff like that. *shrug* I dont know maybe he is trying to get closer or preparing me for the most painful breakup of my life... If it is a break up i am human so i will hurt but i will get over it...eventually...

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