Help!!! Taurus man won't tell me how he feels about me
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Robinray84sag on Thursday, March 17, 2016 and has 13 replies.
I know that message sucked I can't figure out how to edit it so here's a repost
I flew out to see a Taurus guy I've been talking to since October we met in my hometown and have kept in touch. We planned the trip together and spend 24 hours a day together 4 days at a hotel. We had a grand time!!! We eat at alot of amazing restaurants, we went to different museums , bars, hookah spots in just totally enjoy each other in the town . We had great long conversations long kisses, slow walk holding hands, passionate nights and a sad goodbye. We've been talking for awhile and I wanted some clarity on what we were doing. So I asked him while we were out to dinner what do you think of me. He seemed confused at what I mean by that and said that that's not a normal question or question he would ask someone. I said it means do you like me his response was why would I spend time with someone I didn't like. It being hard for me to ask the question in the first place just left it at that. When I got home I text him and I said you never did answer my question what do you think of me and do you feel anything for me. He took 4 hours to respond when he usually gets back to me right away. His response was a long text about all my great qualities. I'm sweet, kind loving, beautiful, with a great head on my shoulders, and how it's a great plus that I'm not shallow and we can have deep real conversations. He also said that the distance between us sucks and we'll just have to enjoy all the good times we can spend together. That wasn't clear to me and I didn't feel like he answered my question. My response was I feel like you just put me in the friend zone. He responded what do you mean we do live quite a distance apart. Me being shut down Queen said okay well goodnight you have sweet dreams. Later that evening I sent him a text saying I just flew all the way there to see you and I'm not looking for an overnight relationship or instant boyfriend I just want to know if you like me enough to build toward something. obviously the distance is no problem for me. He took 4 days to respond to that. He sent me a message at 6 o'clock in the morning on the day that he knew I was flying out of town to see some relatives. He wish me safe travels and said that he heard and got everything that I said. He also said that he's never done the long-distance thing before so he doesn't know but only time will tell what will work for the both of us. And I still don't feel like he answered my question. I just don't see how hard it is .do you like me or no!!!?,, how do you feel!!!??? I'm confused helpppp
I flew out to see a Taurus guy I've been talking to since October we met in my hometown and have kept in touch. We planned the trip together and spend 24 hours a day together 4 days at a hotel. We had a grand time!!! We eat at alot of amazing restaurants, we went to different museums , bars, hookah spots in just totally enjoy each other in the town . We had great long conversations long kisses, slow walk holding hands, passionate nights and a sad goodbye. We've been talking for awhile and I wanted some clarity on what we were doing. So I asked him while we were out to dinner what do you think of me. He seemed confused at what I mean by that and said that that's not a normal question or question he would ask someone. I said it means do you like me his response was why would I spend time with someone I didn't like. It being hard for me to ask the question in the first place just left it at that. When I got home I text him and I said you never did answer my question what do you think of me and do you feel anything for me. He took 4 hours to respond when he usually gets back to me right away. His response was a long text about all my great qualities. I'm sweet, kind loving, beautiful, with a great head on my shoulders, and how it's a great plus that I'm not shallow and we can have deep real conversations. He also said that the distance between us sucks and we'll just have to enjoy all the good times we can spend together. That wasn't clear to me and I didn't feel like he answered my question. My response was I feel like you just put me in the friend zone. He responded what do you mean we do live quite a distance apart. Me being shut down Queen said okay well goodnight you have sweet dreams. Later that evening I sent him a text saying I just flew all the way there to see you and I'm not looking for an overnight relationship or instant boyfriend I just want to know if you like me enough to build toward something. obviously the distance is no problem for me. He took 4 days to respond to that. He sent me a message at 6 o'clock in the morning on the day that he knew I was flying out of town to see some relatives. He wish me safe travels and said that he heard and got everything that I said. He also said that he's never done the long-distance thing before so he doesn't know but only time will tell what will work for the both of us. And I still don't feel like he answered my question. I just don't see how hard it is .do you like me or no!!!?,, how do you feel!!!??? I'm confused helpppp
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Man he is telling you straight up what's he is feeling actually. You got to just listen to him right now. Think about it, don't rush and everything is fine. He is single, talking to you and we don't waste time. And pressuring someone who is far away isn't helping you both are far and he did do what you asked. That was telling you what he wanted or thought about you. Now consider his pov.
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You keep being fri3nds, talk to him casually, don't bring up this topic, you already did and he said I heard you. Why did you automatically think he has a girl. People who do long distance is hard work on both of you. I mean how much longer are you guys going to meet up at the hotel though.
Dang girl you told it to me straight I like that!!!
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Good what are you going to do then?
I'm going to relax, play it cool ,and not bring it up again. Like you said in time we'll both see what can work... woosah
jesus, he already answered your question that he does like you.
to be fair i had a similar conversation early on in my relationship too but you need to learn to listen to how they communicate.
if you want declarations of love and flowery language, you are not going to get it with this sign. learn to appreciate the deeds and not so much the words. value is found in actions with taurus people.
to be fair i had a similar conversation early on in my relationship too but you need to learn to listen to how they communicate.
if you want declarations of love and flowery language, you are not going to get it with this sign. learn to appreciate the deeds and not so much the words. value is found in actions with taurus people.
I can totally agree with that. I know that I was looking for him too say something in particular and I wouldn't have been satisfied with anything he said unless it was that. So I guess I just tuned it out because it wasn't what I wanted to hear. I wanted him to say I really like you. It seemed so simple to me and worried me that he couldn't say it. My crazy Sagittarius mind is thinking if he can't even say he likes he really likes me then I must mean absolutely nothing to him...
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I can totally agree with that. I know that I was looking for him too say something in particular and I wouldn't have been satisfied with anything he said unless it was that. So I guess I just tuned it out because it wasn't what I wanted to hear. I wanted him to say I really like you. It seemed so simple to me and worried me that he couldn't say it. My crazy Sagittarius mind is thinking if he can't even say he likes he really likes me then I must mean absolutely nothing to him...
exactly. it really is about tuning your ears to hear their frequency. he spent four days with you. that alone speaks volumes. he responded when you asked him what he liked about you. that sounds like it was hard for him to verbalise but he did it - for you. appreciate the efforts. you'll miss out on so much if you only listen out for the message that is carefully packaged in a parcel that you recognise.
the other point to remember is that it isn't simple for them. i have asked this same question. from everyone's input here, they truly genuinely struggle with the words at times. for me and i'm guessing you, the words come very easily but for them....not so much.
Hit him with a hammer.
I'm a Sagittarius woman and I'm very faithful and loyal person I've never cheated on a guy that I was dating and I consider myself to be pretty genuine and straightforward. I don't have enough time in my life to even deal with people that I can't be myself an honest with. I'm too busy on the moves and sharing good times with good people.. I know that there are a lot of fun genuine people in the world and that's what makes me nervous with the Taurus guy I'm talking to. I guess I just want to make sure I'm not being played
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Some times Sagittarius aren't for Taurus though. But I like that you stated you are loyal and fidelity so props to you. And good luck only time will time.
I live with a Taurus man. I love him because he is always honest and straightforward. If you want a direct and specific answer you will need to ask a direct and specific question.
Mine appreciates directness and doesn't usually have an issue hashing out things that need to be spoken about. Whatever you ask or divulge won't change how he feels. So nothing to be scared of.
Just be prepared...they won't sugar coat anything.
Mine appreciates directness and doesn't usually have an issue hashing out things that need to be spoken about. Whatever you ask or divulge won't change how he feels. So nothing to be scared of.
Just be prepared...they won't sugar coat anything.
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