Helpless Taurus?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by ed_nor on Sunday, August 19, 2018 and has 4 replies.
I'm a Taurus and she's a Leo. It's my first time dating a Leo. I've seen a Leo in angry mode but I haven't seen a Leo this depressed. I need to hear from somebodyyyy pleaaseeeee! Because it's breaking my heart to see her like this. Sad
At first, I thought it was me, as I thought she probably has lost interest in me. But later on, I found out that she has been hurting for 3 weeks now, by 3 different close friends & her family members too. She told me that she doesn't understand why people keep hurting her and she felt exhausted. I can tell that they are very important people in her life, if not why it takes such a toll on her, right? To be honest, I can't help to say they are indeed very toxic to her. She did mentioned that it's very tough for her to leave them and she doesn't want to make that choice. To me, my opinion is that if they are loved ones, why would they keep disappointing her? In summary, all they are good at are; talking down to her, telling lies after lies, demands her to be there for them but only to get verbally abused at the end of the day. :/ Like seriously? I know she hates all these traits but yet, she still shows up herself to them.
Feeling the heartache on my side, of course, I want to be there for her but she doesn't want me to. Sad I asked her if I could do anything to help her feel better. She refused to say anything but only to claim to say that she's fine, she's ok etc. Obviously, I know it's not. Many times, I asked her if she wants to hang out? The result of it is; she kept pushing me away. Much later whenever she does feel a little better, she will tell me that misses me & love me a lot. Like really really. Then she will apologise to me- allowing me to know that it's nothing to do with me. She knows that she has been distant & cold. She also realised that she hasn't been making me happy recently. I told her it's fine, don't worry. I understand what she is going through. But the next day, when things reminded her of the wound, she goes back to feeling all down again.
Sigh. As much as I understood her feelings but I can't help to feel a little unloved too. And all she wants to do now is to lock herself up. I really do feel a little helpless. Has anyone been through this something like this?
At first, I thought it was me, as I thought she probably has lost interest in me. But later on, I found out that she has been hurting for 3 weeks now, by 3 different close friends & her family members too. She told me that she doesn't understand why people keep hurting her and she felt exhausted. I can tell that they are very important people in her life, if not why it takes such a toll on her, right? To be honest, I can't help to say they are indeed very toxic to her. She did mentioned that it's very tough for her to leave them and she doesn't want to make that choice. To me, my opinion is that if they are loved ones, why would they keep disappointing her? In summary, all they are good at are; talking down to her, telling lies after lies, demands her to be there for them but only to get verbally abused at the end of the day. :/ Like seriously? I know she hates all these traits but yet, she still shows up herself to them.
Feeling the heartache on my side, of course, I want to be there for her but she doesn't want me to. Sad I asked her if I could do anything to help her feel better. She refused to say anything but only to claim to say that she's fine, she's ok etc. Obviously, I know it's not. Many times, I asked her if she wants to hang out? The result of it is; she kept pushing me away. Much later whenever she does feel a little better, she will tell me that misses me & love me a lot. Like really really. Then she will apologise to me- allowing me to know that it's nothing to do with me. She knows that she has been distant & cold. She also realised that she hasn't been making me happy recently. I told her it's fine, don't worry. I understand what she is going through. But the next day, when things reminded her of the wound, she goes back to feeling all down again.
Sigh. As much as I understood her feelings but I can't help to feel a little unloved too. And all she wants to do now is to lock herself up. I really do feel a little helpless. Has anyone been through this something like this?
I’m a Leo we shut down. We don’t want to hear from anyone we tend to push others away and shut the world out. It has nothing to do with anyone we got too much pride to try to talk bout our issues we like to figure out on our own. We just need our space. Just try to give her her space even tho it’s hard to do. I did that with my Taurus baby daddy he didn’t know what to do. I told him to leave me alone I just needed space. If you care or love her you got to give the other person space. Most people will come to you on their terms when they want to talk. Us Leo’s hate feeling like we are pushed into doing something.
Thank you for the reply PurtyWingzFly2! I do give her a lot of space but because I just couldn't stand how emotionless the way she reply me and my text. But... I decided to write her a letter and gave it to her today. The content were pretty much about how much I love her, how I want to be a better person and how I want to treat her well etc, adding a little of how I felt lately with her behaving like this, it hurts me. After she was done reading the letter, she suddenly seems to do good once again! She kept kissing me and telling me that she loves me too! Although our date today is a little short but it was good enough for me because she makes me feel very loved. 
She will come back around in time. It takes us Leo’s forever to give up on someone anyways. We hinder ourselves a lot due to wanting things to go recording to plan. That’s good y’all can work it out. Just let it naturally flow we hate force vibes.
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