AiryBri
@AiryBri
15 YearsAries
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How can I deal with a Taurus bully?
You just need to check that b $ tch. I've dealt with a lot of bullying type of people (moreso in my adult life than when younger), and one thing I learned quickly, is that they try to mess with those they think they can mess with, and who show no spine/backbone. I'm not insinuating that you are that way, but if she PERCEIVES you are, then she will bully you (again, in my opinion, this isn't specifically a sign thing).
The next time she tries to do some bullying tactics, you need to let her know in no uncertain terms, that you are NOT her punching bag (figuratively, not literally), and that if she doesn't have anything nice to say to you, then she needs to stay the hell outta' your way, and poof - be gone!
You don't have to yell, curse or stoop to her level, but you DO, have to let her know that you are NOT going to allow her to treat you anyway that she feels like.
The next time she tries to do some bullying tactics, you need to let her know in no uncertain terms, that you are NOT her punching bag (figuratively, not literally), and that if she doesn't have anything nice to say to you, then she needs to stay the hell outta' your way, and poof - be gone!
You don't have to yell, curse or stoop to her level, but you DO, have to let her know that you are NOT going to allow her to treat you anyway that she feels like.
LOL You're evil, and I wish I'd known you in high school.
Hehehehehehee, oh yeh.
Posted by Prince_Pisces
you could put weed in her backpack, and then tell a teacher you saw her with it. they'll definitely search her 🙂 LOL!
Hahaaaaaa, you are so wrong 🙂 I love it!
the weed in the backpack thing sounds smart 😉 I'll try it if I can find some weed...
haha jk. I'm going to face this bitch the next time she tries anything. She's been dealing with my virgo and pisces side--now she can meet the Ram. I don't have any classes with her tomorrow tho.. the next day, she is mine ! I'll keep you guys posted.
haha jk. I'm going to face this bitch the next time she tries anything. She's been dealing with my virgo and pisces side--now she can meet the Ram. I don't have any classes with her tomorrow tho.. the next day, she is mine ! I'll keep you guys posted.
Posted by AiryBri
the weed in the backpack thing sounds smart 😉 I'll try it if I can find some weed...
haha jk. I'm going to face this bitch the next time she tries anything. She's been dealing with my virgo and pisces side--now she can meet the Ram. I don't have any classes with her tomorrow tho.. the next day, she is mine ! I'll keep you guys posted.
uhm...don't get owned!
clearly you did SOMETHING. did you date her bf, her ex? date some guy she sorta kinda like? did he take you to the ring dance...behind the bleachers?
Posted by caligulaPosted by AiryBri
the weed in the backpack thing sounds smart 😉 I'll try it if I can find some weed...
haha jk. I'm going to face this bitch the next time she tries anything. She's been dealing with my virgo and pisces side--now she can meet the Ram. I don't have any classes with her tomorrow tho.. the next day, she is mine ! I'll keep you guys posted.
uhm...don't get owned!
clearly you did SOMETHING. did you date her bf, her ex? date some guy she sorta kinda like? did he take you to the ring dance...behind the bleachers?click to expand
Er well yes, it's sort of a long story. One of her best friends (I don't think he considers her that close, but she considers him) asked me out when I first moved here. He has a gf at another school (we're in this tiny school and she lives like almost an hour away). She thinks I persude him, but the truth is it was the other way around. He asked for my number and everything; pretending he didn't have a girlfriend. I broke it off with him when I found out he was cheating on her with me (Awesome!) but she just thought I was trying to steal him from her. BUT she has never talked to me nor does anyone at that school have a clue about what really happened. They just talk about it and make fun of me all the time because they are bullies--but she is like the main bully.
So I think that's what she blames hating me on--but she is really just jealous of my mad Aries skill.
wtf! come on girl,your an aries! bitch slap that bull back to the fields 😛 I'm juat sayin...
no offence to all my lovly bulls I know, cuz their badass and I love them 🙂
no offence to all my lovly bulls I know, cuz their badass and I love them 🙂
i think you should try to appeal to her reason first. i dunno about sending her an email because yall are clearly juvenile and that can be used against you but it might be your best bet.
explain to her what happened and see if that does the trick. beyond that, i dont think you should go starting additional drama because as you said, it's the "whole school" against you and do you really need any additional heat?
have you ever thought of talking to one of the peer/guidance counselors about your concerns? ask them if they could arrange a sit down meeting between the two of you. the school has a vested interest to squash this and who knows, after sitting down and talking about it, yall might end up being bffs and sharing hair bows and shit.
explain to her what happened and see if that does the trick. beyond that, i dont think you should go starting additional drama because as you said, it's the "whole school" against you and do you really need any additional heat?
have you ever thought of talking to one of the peer/guidance counselors about your concerns? ask them if they could arrange a sit down meeting between the two of you. the school has a vested interest to squash this and who knows, after sitting down and talking about it, yall might end up being bffs and sharing hair bows and shit.
@ OP
Why? Either:
1 - she's in love with you and can't handle the humiliation of
letting her feelings control her ( after all, you did help her
and were nice to her - you're smarter - by ignoring her bullying,
you are proving you are STRONGER - and she canot resist you
...but knows she's not WORTHY of you )
( And yes, I am aware that you are probably a female
- but she's looking for an alpha horse )
2 - she's jealous of you and feels threatened by you.
Are you prettier? Regardless, there is likely a guy who likes YOU
and does not like her AS MUCH ( regardless of if she has no feelings
for him, she actually believes it is her RIGHT to have his attention.)
Also, she MUST do ANYTHING that keeps POSITIVE attention on HER
and NEGATIVE attention on YOU.
You can read about her here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Histrionic_personality_disorder<BR>
Here's what to do:
You write a nice little note to her that says:
----------
I have never been anything but nice to you. Everybody knows this.
The more you lie to people about anyone, trying to make yourself look
better by comparison, the more people realize how much you hate yourself.
The people that are laughing at your lies are that way, too.
But what you don't realize is that they hang out with you because your
malicious ways show them how insecure you are and therefore by comparison,
they are better and stronger than you. When they laugh at what you say
about "me" ... they are not laughing at "me". They are laughing at "you"
because these people are NOT STUPID. They all know you're lying, and "why".
That's the only reason they hang around with you. Did you know that?
So while you think you are destroying me by making me a spectacle for everyone,
please understand that it is you who is the real entertainment event for them,
but just not the way you planned it. See, it's backfiring on you. "They know."
Many people that you think are "your" friends have come to me telling me
that you are spreading false rumors about me and how pathetic you are, so
not to let it bother me because they feel bad for me that you're doing this
out of jealousy. But "I" just feel sorry for "you" because these people
you are trying to impress are just laughing at you behind your back.
If that's how you like things to be ... carry on.
But I will say that these days girls who do what you are doing can be
Court Ordered into psychiatric care with simple presentation of evide
Why? Either:
1 - she's in love with you and can't handle the humiliation of
letting her feelings control her ( after all, you did help her
and were nice to her - you're smarter - by ignoring her bullying,
you are proving you are STRONGER - and she canot resist you
...but knows she's not WORTHY of you )
( And yes, I am aware that you are probably a female
- but she's looking for an alpha horse )
2 - she's jealous of you and feels threatened by you.
Are you prettier? Regardless, there is likely a guy who likes YOU
and does not like her AS MUCH ( regardless of if she has no feelings
for him, she actually believes it is her RIGHT to have his attention.)
Also, she MUST do ANYTHING that keeps POSITIVE attention on HER
and NEGATIVE attention on YOU.
You can read about her here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Histrionic_personality_disorder<BR>
Here's what to do:
You write a nice little note to her that says:
----------
I have never been anything but nice to you. Everybody knows this.
The more you lie to people about anyone, trying to make yourself look
better by comparison, the more people realize how much you hate yourself.
The people that are laughing at your lies are that way, too.
But what you don't realize is that they hang out with you because your
malicious ways show them how insecure you are and therefore by comparison,
they are better and stronger than you. When they laugh at what you say
about "me" ... they are not laughing at "me". They are laughing at "you"
because these people are NOT STUPID. They all know you're lying, and "why".
That's the only reason they hang around with you. Did you know that?
So while you think you are destroying me by making me a spectacle for everyone,
please understand that it is you who is the real entertainment event for them,
but just not the way you planned it. See, it's backfiring on you. "They know."
Many people that you think are "your" friends have come to me telling me
that you are spreading false rumors about me and how pathetic you are, so
not to let it bother me because they feel bad for me that you're doing this
out of jealousy. But "I" just feel sorry for "you" because these people
you are trying to impress are just laughing at you behind your back.
If that's how you like things to be ... carry on.
But I will say that these days girls who do what you are doing can be
Court Ordered into psychiatric care with simple presentation of evide
Posted by soap
wtf! come on girl,your an aries! bitch slap that bull back to the fields 😛 I'm juat sayin...
no offence to all my lovly bulls I know, cuz their badass and I love them 🙂
You better watch it boooooy! 😛
Posted by Prince_Pisces
you could put weed in her backpack, and then tell a teacher you saw her with it. they'll definitely search her 🙂 LOL!
Haha, that's not very nice is it ?🙂
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