How can I get my Taurus girl to talk to me again please help me

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Pisceslol on Friday, July 28, 2017 and has 5 replies.
Posted by Pisceslol
I'm a Pisces man and my Taurus girl broke up with me about a year ago . We've been on and off in contact since then . In march we stopped talking but it was for the best , I needed to become something of myself and I have since then , we made contact about 3 weeks ago and she said that I hurt her / doesn't need distractions . How can I get her back on my side . I have everything I want / need but her , we met about 2 years ago when I was a junior in high school . Please help me guys
Posted by Pisceslol
So I broke up with my ex girlfriend a year ago and we've been in contact on and off through the year . The last time we were on good terms and working stuff out I had to end it because I needed to make something of myself and become better ( I was in a really bad spot ) this was in march , I'm better now and I really miss her . We were in contact 3 weeks ago and she said she doesn't trust me to enough , and that she has her guard up around me . She said I push her away and that I just say things , how can I show her she means everything to me and win her back ? I know I have to take it slow and I can do that but I just need help on making her understand that she is everything to me
Posted by Pisceslol
So my ex gf and I broke up last year , we were together for about 8 months and it got serious fast . I loved every second of it and we were like best friends , we broke up over a dumb argument and we've been in contact on and off . The last time we were in contact I stopped talking to her because I needed to make something of myself and be the best that I could be for her , we were in contact about 3 weeks ago and she said she's scared to trust me again and that I push her away . How can I make up with her , I'm aware that I have to start off slow and just as friends . She's super stubborn so it's difficult , I wanted to write her a letter saying everything and how I felt . I've known her for two years coming up in November and I love this girl . I say she means the world to me but she doesn't believe me so how can I show her .
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Keep at her but not consistently. Maybe speak every 2 weeks or so. Check on her, not for a reply but to let her know you care. If she asks don't get defensive be very honest about your feelings. If she still cares you must show determination and confident vulnerability when she finally gives you her attention. Be sure of yourself but not too assertive.
Let me share a story.

I have a friend that I have cut out of my life more than I can count (over 10 years time span)... and for valid reasons. She has been relentless in getting in touch with me. She would leave messages on my videos and in random places saying "I love you" "call me when you get a chance" "you doing so well"

At first I would ignore her cause I was set in my mind we were done and I had iced her out and she knew it but she knew I saw the messages and she would dissapear and come back again same thing (by the way she's a sagitarius married to a Taurus man)... it was so random and paced, every two weeks or so, a message here and there... finally something in me always say, she is still here so obviously she values my friendship, cause who the hell going out of their way to do that to people nowadays??? Keep popping up, but most of all, have patience.

Take this story with you.
Wait for a while and wait for a day when you think it's the '' time, '' after that let her know that you want to '' take it easy '' and keep in touch, do not rush and respect her when she does not answer.


Patience and good thoughts are the key. Seek spiritual help, mystical, religious, psychological, philosophical, intellectual help and face this journey.