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Jul 17, 2007Comments: 7 · Posts: 2275 · Topics: 58
Keep at her but not consistently. Maybe speak every 2 weeks or so. Check on her, not for a reply but to let her know you care. If she asks don't get defensive be very honest about your feelings. If she still cares you must show determination and confident vulnerability when she finally gives you her attention. Be sure of yourself but not too assertive.
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Jul 03, 2017Comments: 2 · Posts: 1121 · Topics: 42
Let me share a story.
I have a friend that I have cut out of my life more than I can count (over 10 years time span)... and for valid reasons. She has been relentless in getting in touch with me. She would leave messages on my videos and in random places saying "I love you" "call me when you get a chance" "you doing so well"
At first I would ignore her cause I was set in my mind we were done and I had iced her out and she knew it but she knew I saw the messages and she would dissapear and come back again same thing (by the way she's a sagitarius married to a Taurus man)... it was so random and paced, every two weeks or so, a message here and there... finally something in me always say, she is still here so obviously she values my friendship, cause who the hell going out of their way to do that to people nowadays??? Keep popping up, but most of all, have patience.
Take this story with you.
Wait for a while and wait for a day when you think it's the '' time, '' after that let her know that you want to '' take it easy '' and keep in touch, do not rush and respect her when she does not answer.
Patience and good thoughts are the key. Seek spiritual help, mystical, religious, psychological, philosophical, intellectual help and face this journey.