How do I approach mr bull this time!!

Ok! As you all know my stories with my bull! I'm finally seeing him tomorrow night at a festival! Just to Quicky recap . Last time we met we parted on a great note. Things went down hill coz his ex was in a picture ( this happened while we r LD) we decided to be friends untill he sorted things out with her for good! Now... according to him two weeks ago things are over between them . Me and him still kept the distance n not much communication between us. I'm seeing him tomorrow night at the dancin event. He knows I'm up for some crazy party weekend as I never really party that way before. I asked him to call me last night n he said he will maybe call today. I wanted to be straight with him to find out what the deal is. If we are completely over.. I feel like things are still very grey between us if that make any sense. I was planning to party hard n give him the cold shoulder ich... Regardless of how much I miss him and wanna give him a bigggggg huggggggg...😢 he knows I'm sharing a house with 10 other ppl and mostly guys! Do you guys think that I should have the " talk" to get things straight before we meet?? Insights much much appreciated! Ofcoz I want him! I'm INLOve with him.. I don't know what to do!

Im just gonna go out and say what i think! I think if he wanted to be with you he would! I know my previous relationships i knew right away that i wanted to be with them. Then i have met other girls (in my past) that i was interested but there was just always something holding me back from completely giving them my all. Thats just me i think when i know i know!

I think the fact his EX was in the picture and he decided to figure things out with her isnt a good sign for you. Cause when i was in my early 20s i dated a girl for 2 months and then met my last Ex and knew right away that i wanted to be with her. So in my opinion he would have dropped the EX completely and just been with you. Kinda sounds like hes playing games and isnt sure of you and to me thats a red flag.

Where does he stand with the ex?

Posted by taurusman
Im just gonna go out and say what i think! I think if he wanted to be with you he would! I know my previous relationships i knew right away that i wanted to be with them. Then i have met other girls (in my past) that i was interested but there was just always something holding me back from completely giving them my all. Thats just me i think when i know i know!

I think the fact his EX was in the picture and he decided to figure things out with her isnt a good sign for you. Cause when i was in my early 20s i dated a girl for 2 months and then met my last Ex and knew right away that i wanted to be with her. So in my opinion he would have dropped the EX completely and just been with you. Kinda sounds like hes playing games and isnt sure of you and to me thats a red flag.

fair point. Then should I pretend things never happened between us when I see him? Just a friendly casual "hi"—

Don't approach him is how you deal with it!!! He said "maybe" he'll call you— He isn't into it and is keeping you on the sidelines.

Posted by taurusman
Im just gonna go out and say what i think! I think if he wanted to be with you he would! I know my previous relationships i knew right away that i wanted to be with them. Then i have met other girls (in my past) that i was interested but there was just always something holding me back from completely giving them my all.

This is what I try to explain to people when talking about Taurus people and they are explaining their behaviours towards them with the standard "oh Taurus are slow", "he's taking his time to work out if he wants me" They are not - when they know what they want - and in fact aren't even that slow on deciding what they want.

STVG,

I can't blame you. I don't know if you are in love or obsessed?

I guess you are obsessed darling. When you love someone LET IT GO...

If I were you ''friendship'' might works but being his lover and he have another girl in his mind?

You might miss one chance of finding the right guy for you.

I thought Taureans are jealous type? I guess They're not.

What is it that holding you about him? Did he give you everything?

I asked that questions for some women who can't leave their man regardless of the bad situation

they are facing. If the man give me everything like my Taurus man at this time.. maybe, perhaps, when

the relationship is over I might have a difficult time of letting him go...

Some infatuated women are just saying I know it was a true relationship we had... then where is he?

lmao. just curious about the situation.

Thanks guys! He did call. We sorted it out. I am mOving on big time !